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Good Guys 2 Great Men

Marriage and relationship coaching for men, led by Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore · United States · Online

Good Guys 2 Great Men is a coaching practice that helps men with marriage and relationship problems. It has coached men since 2012. Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore lead a team of 6 certified coaches. They have helped more than 5,000 men in over 40 countries. Their work covers distance, low intimacy and the threat of divorce. They teach men to build confidence and trust without blame or pressure.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriageDating for menDating after divorce
Jen Solin, dating coach

Jen Solin

Dating and life coach for lesbian, queer and nonbinary people

Jen Solin is a dating and life coach for lesbian, queer and nonbinary people, and their allies. She is also Outreach Director and facilitator at Conscious Girlfriend Academy, where she talks with hundreds of lesbians each month and hosts support groups on dating and heartbreak. She coaches one-on-one in English and Spanish. Her work covers heartbreak, divorce, dating again and new life chapters. She also helps clients write dating profiles and created a deck of lesbian love and connection cards.

$90 to $230 an hour
LGBTQ datingBreakups and heartbreakDating after divorce
Adele Currin, dating coach in Washington

Adele Currin

Relationship coach for professionals facing breakups and big decisions in Washington · Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Adele Currin is a relationship coach in Washington, DC. She helps professionals who feel stuck in their relationships. Some want to reconnect, some need to make a hard choice, and some want to separate with kindness. Adele is a former Registered Nurse and holds a Duke integrative health coaching certification. She is also certified in Conscious Uncoupling and Rapid Transformational Therapy. Her work centers on action, not only talk.

$200 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Alex Gay

Sex and relationship coach for LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent clients · San Diego, California, United States · Online and in person

Alex Gay is a sex and relationship coach who helps LGBTQIA+ people, neurodivergent people, singles and couples build confidence in dating and intimacy. Alex is ICF certified and has extra training in anxiety, depression, CBT, DBT and ACT. Alex hosts The Queer Confidence Podcast and the Kink Curious Podcast, and also works as an on-set coach. Sessions run online worldwide or in person in San Diego. Alex was formerly known as Coach Ray.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageLGBTQ datingApproach anxiety and confidence

Alex Goldstein

Dating anxiety coach for nerds and introverts seeking serious relationships

Alex Goldstein is a dating anxiety coach for nerds. He helps shy and introverted singles find a serious relationship without dating apps or cold approaches. Alex is a digital nomad who had to learn how to meet and date people in cities where he knew no one. He has interviewed hundreds of nerds on his podcast about how they met their partners. He teaches the friends-first approach that most of those couples used.

$75 to $145 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts
Alex León, dating coach in Austria

Alex León

Dating coach for introverted, analytical men who want to meet women in person · Austria · Online and in person

Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. Alex helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. Alex built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. Alex's clients come from 22 countries. Alex also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of Alex's clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup
Alison Verge, dating coach

Alison Verge

Dating and relationship coach for professionals over 40

Alison Verge is a relationship and dating coach who helps busy professionals over 40 find lasting love. She runs Path2Love Coaching. She is a certified sexologist and co-author of "Radical Self Love." She also coaches couples who face a sudden shock, such as illness or disability, a challenge she knows from her own life. Her clients can meet a partner with or without dating apps.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsAttachment styles
Amy North, dating coach in Vancouver

Amy North

Dating and relationship coach for women in Vancouver, Canada · Vancouver, Canada · Online

Amy North is a dating and relationship coach and best-selling author based in Vancouver, Canada. He helps women find and keep a lasting relationship. His online programs, Text Chemistry and The Devotion System, have sold 100,000 copies. He has more than five years of coaching experience and has worked with clients locally and around the world. He holds a degree in Social Psychology. His focus areas are dating, marriage, breakups and divorce.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsBreakups and heartbreak
Andrew Gung, dating coach in Australia

Andrew Gung

Men's dating coach in Australia, in person and online · Australia · Online and in person

Andrew Gung is the founder and CEO of Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching business in Australia. The team helps men with approach anxiety, dating apps, texting and building confidence. Since 2018, they have coached over 700 men. Coaching runs in person in Melbourne, Sydney, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, and online across the country. The team includes coaches, psychologists and mindset experts, and the programs reject pickup tactics in favor of psychology.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence
Anna Jorgensen, dating coach

Anna Jorgensen

Dating coach for men, from a woman's point of view

Anna Jorgensen is a dating coach for men. She runs Wingmam and teaches men how to understand women, build confidence, and find lasting relationships. Anna spent 20 years in real estate sales before she became a dating coach and matchmaker in 2012. She has interviewed hundreds of singles and couples about dating. Her YouTube channel has 400,000+ subscribers, and she also runs a community of 2,700 active members.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Anwar White

Dating and relationship coach for Black and Brown women

Anwar White is a dating and relationship coach for Black and Brown women. He runs Get Your Guy Coaching and is known to clients as the Dating Fairy Godbrother. He teaches a dating strategy he built himself, plus inner work on boundaries and feminine energy. He hosts the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast, has been featured in Essence USA, and wrote the book Girl, Get Your Guy!

$70 to $125 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsCouples and marriage
Bea Trost, dating coach in Germany

Bea Trost

Couples and grief coach in Germany, bilingual in German and English · Germany

Bea Trost is a couples and grief coach in Germany. She works with couples and individuals in her own private practice and coaches in German and English. She also coaches leaders and other coaches. Before coaching, she was a Master Furniture Maker and designer who worked in Sydney, Paris and Shanghai. She holds an ICF PCC credential and uses the Developmental Model of couples work by Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson.

$140 to $215 an hour
Couples and marriage

Beau Brummell Introductions

Gay matchmaking agency serving Australia, the UK, the US and Asia · Sydney, New South Wales, Australia

Beau Brummell Introductions is a matchmaking agency for gay men who want a long-term relationship. It was founded by Vinko Anthony and Andrea Zaza, who are partners in life and business. The head office is in Sydney. The agency also works in other Australian capitals, Hong Kong, New Zealand, Singapore, London and several US cities. It has matched men for over fourteen years. Every client is met in person, and matches come from a private database.

$80 to $130 an hour
MatchmakingLGBTQ datingDating for men
Blaine Anderson, dating coach in New York

Blaine Anderson

Matchmaker and dating coach for men in New York · New York, New York, United States · Online and in person

Blaine Anderson is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps men find girlfriends. Blaine started Dating By Blaine in 2020 and has worked with more than 7,000 clients. Blaine offers one-on-one matchmaking and coaching, both online and in person. Blaine appeared on Shark Tank in Season 15, where Mark Cuban offered this coach a deal. Blaine also has a YouTube channel with 137K subscribers and more than 1 million followers across social media.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsMatchmaking
Brian Rzepczynski, dating coach in Chicago

Brian Rzepczynski

Dating and relationship coach for gay men and couples in Chicago · Chicago

Brian Rzepczynski is a dating and relationship coach who helps gay men and couples build healthy, lasting intimate relationships. He started his coaching business, The Gay Love Coach, in 2003. He has over 19 years of experience as a psychotherapist and life coach. He holds a doctorate in human sexuality and a master's in clinical social work. He also writes advice columns for gay magazines and speaks at events. He works from Chicago.

$100 to $170 an hour
LGBTQ datingCouples and marriageDating for men
Bridgett Blood, dating coach in United States

Bridgett Blood

Sexual story coach for Christian singles, online and by podcast · United States · Online

Bridgett Blood is a coach for Christian singles who want help with sexual desire, dating, and boundaries. She worked five years as a spiritual formation pastor before she became a coach. She co-hosts the Dating & Desire Podcast and speaks at churches and retreats. She uses the Connection Codes framework and runs the RECLAIM cohort, an online program for Christian adults. She also works with men, women, and engaged couples.

$110 to $200 an hour
Faith-based datingCouples and marriage

Carla Romo

Dating and relationship coach in Philadelphia for women and men · Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States · Online

Carla Romo is a dating and relationship coach in Philadelphia who helps women and men with dating, breakups and life goals. She is an ICF Professional Certified Coach and has worked with over 1,000 clients. She is an international speaker and wrote the book Caontagious Love. Before coaching, she worked in TV and went through burnout, which shaped her work on codependency and burnout. She coaches by phone or video, one-on-one or in groups.

$125 to $200 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsAttachment styles

Carol Fulwiler Jones

Dating and relationship coach for singles over 40 in San Francisco · San Francisco, California, United States

Carol Fulwiler Jones is a dating and relationship coach for men and women over 40 in the San Francisco Bay Area. She has worked as a licensed couples therapist for over 35 years. She holds a Master's degree in Counseling and is also a sex therapist. She now offers the methods she used in her private practice as coaching. She helps clients meet, attract and date people who are right for them.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating over 40Couples and marriageTexting and first dates

Caryn Davis

Matchmaker and dating coach for busy professionals across the U.S. and Canada · United States · Online

Caryn Davis is a certified matchmaker and dating coach who helps busy professionals find a quality match for a long-term relationship. She runs Exquisite Elite Matchmaking, where she finds matches for clients and also coaches men and women one on one. She coaches singles by video anywhere in the U.S. and Canada. She also hosts the EEM Club Podcast. Clients get homework between sessions, and a free 15 minute consultation comes first.

$100 to $160 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesBreakups and heartbreak
Charlene Byars, dating coach

Charlene Byars

Dating and relationship coach for single women

Charlene Byars is a dating and relationship coach for single women. She helps women build self-love and confidence so they can date with clarity and find the right partner. She has coached hundreds of women over more than 20 years. Her work covers healing from past breakups and improving how women relate to themselves and their partners. She teaches an approach called Conscious Dating and draws on polarity and masculine and feminine energy.

$90 to $230 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreakDating after divorce

Chase Amante

Dating coach for men who want to attract women · United States · Online

Chase Amante is a dating coach for men. She founded the Girls Chase website in 2008 after men on large seduction forums asked her for advice. The site teaches approaching women, attraction, conversation, dating, texting and online dating. She created the One Date system and The Dating Artisan course. Men can also book phone or live coaching with a Girls Chase coach. The site reports over 64 million readers.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupApproach anxiety and confidence
Christopher Louis, dating coach in Los Angeles

Christopher Louis

Dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles · Los Angeles

Christopher Louis is a certified dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles. He works with men and women on dating, relationships, and confidence. He is a former international model and professional tennis player. He founded Men.tality and hosts the Dating Intelligence podcast, which launched in April 2020. He has coached for over five years. His style is direct and built on real behavior, not dating clichés.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage

Cora Boyd

Dating and relationship coach in Seattle, Washington · Seattle, Washington, United States

Cora Boyd is a Seattle dating and relationship coach who founded Cora Boyd Enterprises. She teaches flirting, communication, charisma and confidence, with a strong focus on coaching men. She is a former top-performing matchmaker for a Stanford StartX company. She started her consultancy in 2019 and has guided hundreds of clients. She hosts the podcast Pillow Talk Radio and is the recurring dating expert for the CUT Channel.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenTexting and first dates

Craft of Charisma

Dating coaching for men, online and in live city programs · Online and in person

Craft of Charisma is a dating coaching company for men. It teaches men to meet and connect with women, in person and online. Chris Luna leads the company. It has been in business for 18 years and has taught 574 workshops. Programs run in many US and Canadian cities, and include an 8 week dating bootcamp. Its coaching uses the D.A.T.E. model, which covers moving relationships forward and consent.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Dan Bacon

Dating coach for men, based on Australian time · Australia · Online

Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men. He founded Master Attraction and has given dating advice for over twenty years. He teaches men how to show non-physical traits that make women feel attracted. Members get monthly video lessons that cover 124 traits, plus a private community and an AI coach built on his advice. He also runs two-hour phone coaching calls by audio or video.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceBreakups and heartbreak
Dan Bacon, dating coach in Australia

Dan Bacon

Dating and relationship coach for men, based in Australia · Australia

Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men and the founder of The Modern Man. He helps men meet women, get a girlfriend, improve a relationship, or win back an ex. The Modern Man began in 2005. Dan has coached more than 100 men by phone to get an ex girlfriend or wife back. He teaches a natural, genuine style of attraction instead of pickup tricks.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates
Dawn A. Ross, dating coach in Port St. Lucie

Dawn A. Ross

Relationship and life coach in Port St. Lucie, Florida · Port St. Lucie, Florida, United States · Online and in person

Dawn A. Ross is a relationship, life and family coach in Port St. Lucie, Florida. She works with couples and individuals on communication, intimacy and finances in their relationships. She also focuses on narcissistic abuse, helping people spot it and leave. Before coaching, she worked in corporate IT abroad and practiced natural healing in Germany and Austria. She founded Thoughtward Academy and coaches clients around the world by video.

$80 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Devorah Kigel

Jewish dating and marriage coach for women in New Jersey · New Jersey, United States

Devorah Kigel is a Jewish dating and marriage coach who helps women date with more clarity and get married. She has coached over 400 women to marriage. She is also a speaker and the author of Marry a Mensch. She has taught classes for women on Jewish topics for close to 25 years. She lives in New Jersey. Her coaching also covers communication and conflict in marriage.

$100 to $180 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriageFaith-based dating
Dominic Decker, dating coach in Berlin

Dominic Decker

Relationship and anxiety coach and counsellor in Berlin, Germany · Berlin, Germany · Online and in person

Dominic Decker is a coach and counsellor who helps individuals and couples think clearly when a relationship is under strain or has just ended. He is based in Berlin and works online too. He has worked since 2001 in social services, education and therapy. He has coached and counselled hundreds of one-on-one clients and couples. He runs Anxiety Master, which focuses on how stress affects judgment during relationship decisions.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Donna Barnes, dating coach in New York

Donna Barnes

Dating, relationship and breakup coach in New York · New York, New York, United States · Online

Donna Barnes is The Love Coach. She coaches people on dating, relationships and breakups. She has worked with hundreds of clients since 2007 and holds a New York University life and love coach certification. Before coaching, she co-hosted 205 episodes of a talk show about sex and relationships and wrote a magazine column. She also wrote the book Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships and hosts the Broken to Brave video podcast. Clients can reach her by phone or video, including nights and weekends.

$110 to $200 an hour
Breakups and heartbreakLGBTQ datingCouples and marriage
Donna Piper, dating coach

Donna Piper

Love coach and Akashic Records healer for women healing relationship trauma

Donna Piper is a love coach and Akashic Records healer who helps women heal old trauma and build healthy relationships. She has 20 years of experience. Before coaching, she earned an MA in Dance Movement Psychotherapy with a focus on PTSD. She is certified in NLP, EFT, Reiki, and Yoga Nidra. Her goal is to support 1000 women using a system that shifts relationship patterns. She also runs meditation retreats.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesBreakups and heartbreak

Eddie Hernandez

Dating coach and dating photographer for men and women in the Bay Area · San Francisco, California, United States · Online and in person

Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach and dating photographer in the San Francisco Bay Area. He coaches men and women on dating apps and offline dating, in person or by video call. He also shoots natural dating photos for apps like Hinge and Bumble. His photos have run in the New York Times, Time and Vogue UK. He has lived in Los Angeles and New York, which shapes how he sees culture and dating.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Elizabeth Sullivan

Dating and relationship coach for women in London · London, United Kingdom

Elizabeth Sullivan is a dating and relationship coach in London who helps women, mostly career-focused ones, find love and build lasting relationships. She runs Love Mentor and also offers career coaching. Before coaching she was a Chartered Accountant. She reports 22 weddings, 8 engagements, 14 couples living together and 12 babies among her clients. She uses one-to-one sessions and trains in NLP and clinical hypnotherapy.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriage
Elle Wilson, dating coach

Elle Wilson

Dating coach for ambitious singles, online and offline

Elle Wilson is a certified dating coach who helps ambitious singles date with more skill and more fun. She founded Met Through Friends, a company that helps singles meet offline, and has hosted thousands of single people at in-person events. She has worked with 60+ dating clients. She pairs a Stanford management science background with 10 years in hospitality to build a strategic approach to dating.

$75 to $145 an hour
Online dating and appsBreakups and heartbreakApproach anxiety and confidence
Erik Carlberg, dating coach in Los Angeles

Erik Carlberg

Dating coach for men in Los Angeles, working worldwide · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

Erik Carlberg is a dating coach for men. He helps men of all ages and experience levels find love, build lasting relationships, and feel more at ease socially. He has coached for over fifteen years and works with a team. He wrote The Vortex of Love, a book on attracting women that took him three years to finish. He also trains people who want to become dating coaches. Clients work with him from all over the world.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence
Erika Ettin, dating coach in Washington

Erika Ettin

Online dating coach and digital matchmaker in Washington, DC · Washington, DC, United States · Online

Erika Ettin is an online dating coach in Washington, DC. She runs A Little Nudge, which helps people with photos, profiles, messages and dates. Before coaching, she worked in finance for over seven years and left in early 2011 to start the business. She tracked her own online dating results in a spreadsheet and reached a response rate well over 60%. She wrote a book on online dating and writes a weekly advice column.

$90 to $160 an hour
Online dating and appsMatchmakingTexting and first dates
Francesca Hogi, dating coach in New York

Francesca Hogi

Love and life coach and former matchmaker in New York · New York, United States

Francesca Hogi is a love and life coach in New York who helps people find lasting romantic connection. She started as a matchmaker, then became a coach, advisor and author. She wrote How to Find True Love and gave two TED talks that drew 2.2M views. She built the Franny app, which maps how each person is wired for love using her Core Love Codes framework. She also does connection strategy for brands.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for womenMatchmakingAttachment styles

Frank Kermit

Dating and relationship coach for singles and couples in Montreal · Montreal, Quebec, Canada · Online

Frank Kermit is a dating and relationship coach in Montreal who helps singles and couples with love, sex and dating. He has coached for 25 years and wrote over 20 books and 25+ audio programs. He is the official coach of the Absolute Bachelor Club matchmaking service. He teaches his own Emotional Needs Analysis system. His clients come from Canada, the USA, Australia, Asia, Europe and the Middle East. He also coaches weight loss accountability.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menCouples and marriageMatchmaking

Gillian McCallum

London matchmaker and co-parenting matchmaker · London, United Kingdom

Gillian McCallum is a London matchmaker who connects singles with partners who fit them. She started as a headhunter for the C suites of global corporations. She then moved into matchmaking at Drawing Down the Moon, the UK's original matchmaking agency. She now runs the coParenting Agency, a global firm that matches people who want to have a child together. She has twice been named Best Matchmaker at the iDate Awards and hosts the podcast Love is Not a List.

$85 to $150 an hour
Matchmaking

Harris O'Malley

Dating coach and advice columnist for nerdy and geeky men · United States

Harris O'Malley is a dating coach and advice columnist who helps nerdy and geeky men with dating and social skills. He works under the name Paging Dr. NerdLove and has been doing this work since 2011. His advice has been featured in Nightline, Vice, The Wall Street Journal and The Guardian. He also runs a blog, podcasts, courses and books, and answers reader questions in columns three times a week.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts
Harry Wilmington, dating coach

Harry Wilmington

Men's dating coach offering one-on-one phone and video sessions · Online

Harry Wilmington is a men's dating coach. She helps men with approaching women, texting, online dating, and confidence. She has coached hundreds of men and builds action plans for their dating lives. She runs the Get Girls Academy membership community and hosts a podcast and a show. She also draws on her own experience as a dater and an introvert when she coaches.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence
Holly McCusker, dating coach

Holly McCusker

Relationship and emotional intelligence coach for ambitious professionals

Holly McCusker is a relationship and emotional intelligence coach who helps ambitious professionals understand the patterns behind how they date and connect. She focuses on attachment, nervous system responses, and partner selection. Before starting her private practice, she worked at Tawkify, the largest matchmaking agency in the US, as a matchmaker and coach. She also led the build of Tawkify's internal coaching program. She created the 5R Breakup Recovery Method and the 5P Conscious Masculinity Framework.

$90 to $230 an hour
Attachment stylesBreakups and heartbreakMatchmaking
Introverted Alpha, dating coach

Introverted Alpha

Dating coaching for shy and introverted men · Online

Introverted Alpha is a dating coaching company for shy, thoughtful and analytical men. It helps them feel attractive, meet women and go on good dates. The company started in June 2014 and has coached over 600 clients one-on-one. Its main paid program, Launch Your Dating Life, runs in three phases and covers online dating profiles, approaching women in person and planning dates. Coaching starts with a call called a Clarity Consult.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

JT Tran

Dating coach for Asian men, with bootcamps in the US and online · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

JT Tran is a dating coach who helps men build confidence and succeed with women. He focuses on Asian men. He founded ABCs of Attraction in 2005 after working as an aerospace engineer. He did not have his first kiss until age 20, so he built a step-by-step system for confidence. Bootcamps run in Los Angeles, Miami, Chicago and Seattle, and also online. Thousands of men have used his system.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidence

JT Tran

Dating coach for Asian men, coaching since 2008 · United States

JT Tran is a dating coach who helps men, mostly Asian men, build confidence and attract quality women. He has coached since 2008 and has worked with thousands of clients. He has taught at Harvard, Yale and Wharton School of Business and has appeared on NBC, ABC, CBS and Fox. He studied aerospace engineering before he became a coach. He once officiated a client's wedding.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup
James Marshall, dating coach

James Marshall

Dating coach for men, founder of The Natural Lifestyles · Online and in person

James Marshall is a dating coach for men and the founder and CEO of The Natural Lifestyles. His company has taught men about dating, inner change and lifestyle design since 2008. He trained in Kung Fu at a Shaolin temple and toured Australia in a funk band. He created the Five Principles of Natural Seduction. He runs live workshops, online coaching and a 12-month mentorship program.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

James Preece

Dating coach for men and women in the UK · Manchester, United Kingdom

James Preece is a dating coach in the UK who helps single men and women find lasting relationships. He has worked as a dating expert for 21 years. He has written 15 books on dating, confidence and attraction. He also coaches for dating agencies and online dating companies. He hosts a weekly dating podcast and runs singles events, speed dating nights and seminars across the UK. Men and women get different, tailored coaching approaches.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

James Tusk

In-person dating coach for men in London · London, United Kingdom · In person

James Tusk is a London-based dating coach who teaches men to meet women in person. He runs Project Tusk, also called Tusk & Team, and co-hosts Project Social with Sambo of Fluid Social London. His team has helped 500+ clients and coached in 15+ countries. Clients learn to approach women in daily life, start conversations, get numbers and set dates, without apps or bars.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup
Jane Neves, dating coach

Jane Neves

Divorce and relationship coach with a banking and wellbeing background

Jane Neves is a relationship and divorce coach who runs The Shine Coach. She helps people get through divorce, heal after a breakup, and build stronger relationships. She also coaches weight loss and healthy habits. Jane began her career in banking in 1980 and has coached since 2008. She worked as a Health and Wellbeing Coach for HSBC. She has been through a divorce herself, so she knows the emotional, money, and practical side of it.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage

Jasbina Ahluwalia

Matchmaker and relationship coach for accomplished singles, South Asian focus

Jasbina Ahluwalia is a matchmaker and relationship coach who helps accomplished singles find a life partner. She runs Intersections Match and has a special focus on South Asian matchmaking. She spent nearly two decades in this work. Before that, she was a lawyer in San Francisco and Chicago. She works with men and women across the U.S. and in other countries.

$80 to $140 an hour
MatchmakingDating for menDating for women
Jessica J, dating coach in United States

Jessica J

Dating coach for men, based in the United States · United States

Jessica J is a dating coach who helps men with dating, sex and self-confidence. She uses Solution-Focused Therapy principles in her work. She started out training as a marriage and family therapist in Hollywood, then became the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio show The Couch. She was featured on Nightline as one of America's Most Desirable Daters. She also runs an award-winning YouTube channel and offers a free strategy session.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates
Jill Rhodes Harvey, dating coach

Jill Rhodes Harvey

Relationship and dating coach for women over 50 · Online

Jill Rhodes Harvey is a relationship and dating coach who works with women over 50. She helps women who are divorced, widowed or single and facing big life changes. Her sessions cover emotional intimacy, communication skills, family dynamics and friendships. She trained in counselling and emotional intelligence in 2013. In 2015 she was named one of the top ten UK relationship coaches for the over 40s. She coaches by phone, email, Skype or Zoom, so she works with women worldwide.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for womenDating after divorceDating over 40
Jillian Turecki, dating coach in New York

Jillian Turecki

Relationship coach and author for women, based in New York · New York, United States

Jillian Turecki is a relationship coach who helps women improve their love lives. She also works with couples. She has coached for more than 20 years. She wrote the books It Begins with You and Rewrite Your Story. She hosts the Jillian on Love podcast, which has more than 400 episodes. Her coaching starts with the relationship a client has with herself. Her private 1:1 and couples coaching is currently full, with a waitlist open.

$100 to $180 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Jiveny Blair-West, dating coach in Sydney

Jiveny Blair-West

Life, dating and relationship coach for women in Sydney · Sydney, Australia

Jiveny Blair-West is a life, dating and relationship coach for women in Sydney, Australia. She has worked with women aged 20 to 70 since 2016. She is an author and a co-founder of Dating For Love. She created a framework called The Attraction Archetypes. It helps women bring together the parts of themselves that build secure love. Her work mixes psychology, relationship insight, somatic embodiment and spiritual practice.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesDating over 40
John Keegan, dating coach in New York

John Keegan

Dating coach for men in New York City · New York, New York, United States

John Keegan is a New York City dating coach who helps men meet women in real life, not just on apps. He also coaches women on their dating lives and relationships. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle and has coached for 15 years. He teaches workshops in cities such as Los Angeles, London, Rio de Janeiro and Prague. He also created The Art of the Flow, an audio course with seven live conversations recorded around New York City.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenApproach anxiety and confidence

Johnny Cassell

Dating coach for men in London and worldwide · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Johnny Cassell is a London dating coach who works with men on dating, attraction and long-term partnership. He has coached since 2005 and has worked with over 2,000 men. He has been featured on BBC, Sky News and The Times. He wrote the bestselling book Elite Seduction. He teaches in real settings with one-to-one training, and also coaches men online around the world.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates
Julia Malakiman, dating coach in California

Julia Malakiman

In-person dating coach for shy, analytical men and engineers · California, United States · In person

Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley and the San Francisco Bay Area. She helps shy, analytical men and engineers get better at meeting and connecting with women. All practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers. She has coached more than 500 men. She hosts The Date Worthy Man podcast and runs Bay Area Dating Cure events. She acts as a wing woman and gives feedback in the moment.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Julie Ferman

Matchmaker and dating coach in Los Angeles, Denver and Santa Fe · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

Julie Ferman is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps relationship-minded single men and women find partners. She launched her agency in Westlake Village, California in 2001. She has privately registered more than 40,000 singles and is credited with over 1,500 couples. She serves clients in Los Angeles, Denver and Santa Fe. She also runs a 30-day virtual boot camp for people who want to build their dating skills first.

$80 to $130 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesLGBTQ dating

Kait Warman

Christian dating coach, author and podcast host in Nashville · Nashville, Tennessee, United States

Kait Warman is a dating coach for Christian singles. He runs Heart of Dating in Nashville with his co-host JJ Tomlin. He is also an author and podcast host, and he started his podcast in early 2018. Kait dated for 18 years in the age of dating apps and ghosting, and he draws on that time in his coaching. His teaching is grounded in Scripture and covers both men and women.

$80 to $140 an hour
Faith-based datingBreakups and heartbreakOnline dating and apps
Kate Mansfield, dating coach in United Kingdom

Kate Mansfield

Dating and relationship coach for high achievers in the UK · United Kingdom

Kate Mansfield is a dating and relationship coach in the UK. She helps high achievers, including leaders, artists, celebrities and athletes, with love, confidence and performance. She has coached for 15 years and advised corporations and high profile clients. Before coaching she worked in artist and celebrity management with A-list talent. She is also a couples and family therapist.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage
Katherine Yeagel, dating coach in Massachusetts

Katherine Yeagel

Somatic sex educator and queer relationship coach in Western Massachusetts · Massachusetts, United States · Online and in person

Katherine Yeagel is a surrogate partner, somatic sex educator, and queer sex and relationship coach in Western Massachusetts. She works with individuals and couples on intimacy, boundaries, and sexual healing. She has nearly a decade of experience and left a nonprofit job to do this work. Her sessions blend nervous system education, consent practice, and communication skills. She offers online sessions as well as hands-on work, and she has sliding scale rates for priority groups.

$225 to $250 per session
Couples and marriageLGBTQ dating

Katy Clark

Matchmaker and dating coach for successful conservative singles · United States

Katy Clark is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps successful singles find a partner and date with more confidence. She spent 10 years matching exclusive clients at Cinqe Matchmaking before starting Dating with Katy. She keeps a personal network of tens of thousands of singles. Her work blends dating strategy with fashion and wellness. She has also been a featured trainer in SHAPE Magazine and ran a restaurant in China.

$110 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesOnline dating and apps
Kelleher International, dating coach in San Francisco

Kelleher International

Matchmaking firm with dating coaching for affluent singles, based in San Francisco · San Francisco, California, United States

Kelleher International is a matchmaking firm that also offers dating coaching. It serves successful singles who want a lasting partnership, including divorced and widowed people. The firm was founded in 1986 and has teams in 20 cities worldwide. Each client gets a team of three matchmakers: A market director, a relationship manager and a network developer. Members are screened through interviews, identity checks and background checks.

$100 to $180 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriageDating after divorce
Kelsey Wonderlin, dating coach in United States

Kelsey Wonderlin

Dating coach and licensed therapist for women · United States

Kelsey Wonderlin is a dating coach for women. She is also a licensed therapist. She helps women build confidence, attract quality men, and feel secure in a new relationship. She has coached 4,000+ women and built a system from her own struggles with dating. Her advice has been featured in the NY Times, TIME, NBC and Cosmopolitan. She also shares daily tips with a following of 179K+ on social media.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates
Kimberly Hill, dating coach in Vancouver

Kimberly Hill

Dating and relationship coach for men in Vancouver · Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

Kimberly Hill is a dating and relationship coach for men in Vancouver, Canada. Kimberly helps divorced and single men build confidence and find real connection. Before coaching, Kimberly worked in financial derivatives. Since then, Kimberly has coached more than 500 men one on one and built a community of over 160k people, including 70k+ YouTube subscribers. The main program is Dating Mastery for Men, a self-paced course with 49 lessons.

$90 to $160 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceOnline dating and apps

Kimmy Seltzer

Dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

Kimmy Seltzer is a dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles. She is a former therapist who also works as a style coach and matchmaker. She helps high-achieving singles and later-life daters stop overthinking and feel sure of themselves in real-world settings. She has been on Inside Edition, ABC7 in Los Angeles and The Tamron Hall Show, and she runs a retreat for women and men who are dating again in their second act.

$100 to $225 an hour
Online dating and appsDating over 40Matchmaking
Kristyn Arnold, dating coach in Santa Fe

Kristyn Arnold

Relationship and connection coach and yoga teacher in Santa Fe · Santa Fe, New Mexico, United States

Kristyn Arnold is a Santa Fe relationship and connection coach who is also a yoga teacher and retreat leader. She offers 1:1 coaching, women's retreats, couples workshops and Tantra Speed Date® events. She has taught yoga for over 10 years and logged more than 1200 coaching hours. She has led international retreats and taught at festivals. She serves clients in Santa Fe and Albuquerque.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriage

Lauren Lowe

Dating coach for single men, based in San Francisco · San Francisco, California, United States · Online and in person

Lauren Lowe is a dating coach in San Francisco who helps single men find love and build lasting relationships. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 15 years in mental health. She still runs a psychotherapy practice and uses EMDR in her work. Her coaching covers dating apps, texting, first dates, attachment styles and heartbreak. She coaches men in person and online across the country.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence
Lily Womble, dating coach

Lily Womble

Feminist dating coach for late bloomers, former matchmaker · Online

Lily Womble is a feminist dating coach who helps late bloomers build a confident dating life. She is a former top matchmaker and runs Date Brazen. She has helped over 400 late bloomers move past shame and self-doubt. She hosts a podcast, wrote the book Thank You, More Please, and leads group programs that last 6 and 12 months.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenMatchmakingTexting and first dates

Magda Kay

Intimacy and relationship coach for men and couples in Poland · Warsaw, Poland · Online

Magda Kay is an intimacy and relationship coach based in Warsaw, Poland. She works mostly with men on dating, sex and relationships, and also coaches couples. She teaches Tantra and conscious relating. She spent a decade in Bali, Malaysia, Thailand and India studying energy work and sacred sexuality. She has more than ten years of experience as a coach and mentor. She has also written a book for women about love and pleasure.

$70 to $125 an hour
Dating for menCouples and marriageDating after divorce

Marni Battista

Dating and relationship coach for women in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

Marni Battista is a dating and relationship coach who helps successful women find lasting, loving partnerships. She founded Dating with Dignity and The Institute for Living Courageously in Los Angeles. She holds a Master's Degree in Education and a coaching certification from the International Coaching Federation. She was married for 17 years, divorced, and dated again before she remarried. That path led her to build a process for women who keep ending up with unavailable men.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Dating after divorce
Marni Kinrys, dating coach

Marni Kinrys

Dating coach for men, known as the Wing Girl · Online

Marni Kinrys is a dating coach for men and the founder of the Wing Girl Method. She teaches men how to attract women, approach them, flirt, and get dates. She has coached for 22 years and says her advice comes from a woman's point of view. She has surveyed more than 10,000 women about what attracts them. Her YouTube channel has 1.46M subscribers, and she leads a team of wing girls in the USA.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Matthew Hussey

British dating and confidence coach for women, based in Los Angeles and London

Matthew Hussey is a British dating and relationship coach who helps women find, attract and keep lasting love. He also coaches women on confidence. He wrote the New York Times bestsellers Get the Guy and Love Life. He teaches through books, live seminars, training videos, programs and retreats. He also offers Matthew AI, a tool that gives dating advice at any hour. He works from Los Angeles and London.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for women
Matthew Rowe, dating coach in Coeur d'Alene

Matthew Rowe

Christian relationship and marriage coach in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho · Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, United States

Matthew Rowe is a Christian relationship and family coach in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. He works with married and pre-marital couples through his practice, The Love Factor. His main focus is to reconnect and repair marriages. He has helped restore hundreds of marriages. He is also an ordained pastor with a doctorate in clinical pastoral counseling. Before coaching, he consulted for Fortune 500 companies and helped churches reorganize. He also volunteers weekly in patient spiritual care at Kootenai Medical Center.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriage

May Hui

Matchmaker for men seeking Asian women in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

She introduces single men to vetted Asian women who want a serious relationship. She has matched people since 2009 and has over 17 years of experience. Her team has set up 5,061 first dates. She picks matches by hand instead of using algorithms, and she works with a partner network of 300+ singles.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for menMatchmaking

Melanie Curtin

Men's dating and relationship coach and sex researcher

Melanie Curtin is a men's coach and sex researcher who helps men connect and succeed with women. She has coached men for over six years and brings a woman's view to the work. She has surveyed over 3,000 men and women about sex, and she asked 1,067 women what the best men do in bed. She hosts the Dear Men podcast, which has close to 400 episodes.

$70 to $125 an hour
Dating for menCouples and marriage
Micah Lambert, dating coach in Austin

Micah Lambert

Men's relationship coach in Austin, Texas · Austin, Texas, United States

Micah Lambert is a men's relationship coach in Austin, Texas. He helps men recover from divorce and breakups, strengthen their bond with a partner, or find and commit to a life partner. He spent over 25 years leading teams, including as CEO and owner of a large construction company. He also sold five companies of his own. He studied psychology and hypnosis and is certified in NLP and addiction therapy.

$110 to $200 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceCouples and marriage
Michelle Herzog, dating coach in Chicago

Michelle Herzog

Dating coach for millennial women in Chicago · Chicago, United States

Michelle Herzog is a dating coach in Chicago who helps millennial women get out of dating burnout and find healthy relationships. She is also a licensed relationship and sex therapist. She teaches The Modern Dating Method, a system she built from her work with clients and her own 4 years of struggling with online dating. She offers a single strategy call and a 3-month program that is limited to 3 spots at a time.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

Monica Marie Braun

Christian dating coach for Catholic singles, with matchmaking and events · Wisconsin, United States

Monica Marie Braun is a Christian relationship coach for single men and women. She founded Soul to Soul Coaching and created the Intentional Dating & Discernment Method, which is built on Catholic teaching and Ignatian spirituality. She also offers matchmaking and hosts speed dating events. She lives in Southeastern Wisconsin and taught English for 10 years.

$80 to $140 an hour
Faith-based datingMatchmakingBreakups and heartbreak

Moon

Dating coach for men in San Diego and online · San Diego, California, United States · Online and in person

Moon is a dating coach for men who want personal growth. He helps clients with dating, social skills, self esteem, and healthy habits. Moon spent 14 years in education, working as an academic coordinator, ESL teacher, auto tech instructor, and learning and development consultant. He holds a master's degree in leadership studies, which led him to coaching. He coaches in person in San Diego and by video worldwide. He also hosts a free men's meetup in San Diego.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menTexting and first dates

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CoachFocusHourly rate range
Good Guys 2 Great MenCouples and marriage and Dating for men$100 to $180 an hour
Jen SolinLGBTQ dating and Breakups and heartbreak$90 to $230 an hour
Adele CurrinCouples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak$200 to $250 per hour
Alex GayCouples and marriage and LGBTQ dating$110 to $200 an hour
Alex GoldsteinDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $145 an hour
Alex LeónDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $150 an hour
Alison VergeDating over 40 and Online dating and apps$80 to $140 an hour
Amy NorthDating for women and Online dating and apps$100 to $225 an hour
Andrew GungDating for men and Online dating and apps$80 to $250 an hour
Anna JorgensenDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $150 an hour
Anwar WhiteDating for women and Online dating and apps$70 to $125 an hour
Bea TrostCouples and marriage$140 to $215 an hour
Beau Brummell IntroductionsMatchmaking and LGBTQ dating$80 to $130 an hour
Blaine AndersonDating for men and Online dating and apps$80 to $250 an hour
Brian RzepczynskiLGBTQ dating and Couples and marriage$100 to $170 an hour

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