Dating coaches for engineers
Compare 7 dating coaches. Besides their main focus, the most common focus areas are dating for men, texting and first dates, approach anxiety and confidence and introverts. They most often work with men, engineers and introverts. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
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Alex León
Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. He helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. He built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. His clients come from 22 countries. He also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of his clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.
Julia Malakiman
Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley and the San Francisco Bay Area. She helps shy, analytical men and engineers get better at meeting and connecting with women. All practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers. She has coached more than 500 men. She hosts The Date Worthy Man podcast and runs Bay Area Dating Cure events. She acts as a wing woman and gives feedback in the moment.
Elia Canu
Elia Canu is a dating coach who helps busy men in tech find a partner and start a family. He runs Ideal Partner with coach Nela. The program uses a weekly plug and play system built for tech professionals. Elia has coached tech men for 5+ years. His clients include software engineers and product managers. Support covers dating profiles, Instagram profiles, messaging, and date practice.
Julia Malakiman
Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley. She works with shy, analytical men and engineers who want to get better at meeting and connecting with women. She has coached more than 500 men. All of her practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers, where she acts as a wing woman and gives live feedback.
Mike Ke
Mike Ke is a dating and confidence coach for men in STEM and Asian and minority men. He is a former engineer and has coached full time in Las Vegas since 2012. He has taught more than 1,200 students. He runs weekly bootcamps and a 12 week mentoring program that meets in person and online. His clients work in science, tech, engineering, medicine and business.
Eddie Hernandez
Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach in San Francisco who works with men and women looking for relationships. He also serves the Bay Area and Silicon Valley, including introverts and engineers. He combines coaching with photography. He has over a decade of experience as an online dating photographer and takes natural, candid photos with a phone at custom locations like cafes, bars and art openings. He also reviews profiles on apps like Hinge and Bumble.
Malcolm
Malcolm runs Social Skydiving Academy, a dating coaching practice for men in Singapore. He helps men meet and date women with honesty and better social skills. Hundreds of clients have worked with the academy, including doctors, engineers, professionals and entrepreneurs. He was featured on Channel News Asia. The academy teaches through online courses, live bootcamps, private coaching and VIP coaching. It does not offer matchmaking.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Alex León | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Julia Malakiman | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Elia Canu | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Julia Malakiman | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Mike Ke | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Eddie Hernandez | Dating for men and Dating for women | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Malcolm | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach cost?
Most dating coaches charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
Can I work with a dating coach online?
Yes. Of the dating coaches on this page who say how they work, 67% offer online sessions.
What else do these dating coaches help with?
Common focus areas include dating for men, texting and first dates, approach anxiety and confidence and introverts.
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Last updated September 2026.