Dating coaches for attachment styles
Compare 79 dating coaches who focus on attachment styles. Besides attachment styles, the most common focus areas are couples and marriage, dating for women, online dating and apps and breakups and heartbreak. They most often work with women, men and couples. Most charge $80 to $200 per hour or session.
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Alison Verge
Alison Verge is a relationship and dating coach who helps busy professionals over 40 find lasting love. She runs Path2Love Coaching. She is a certified sexologist and co-author of "Radical Self Love." She also coaches couples who face a sudden shock, such as illness or disability, a challenge she knows from her own life. Her clients can meet a partner with or without dating apps.
Andrew Gung
Andrew Gung is the founder and CEO of Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching business in Australia. The team helps men with approach anxiety, dating apps, texting and building confidence. Since 2018, they have coached over 700 men. Coaching runs in person in Melbourne, Sydney, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, and online across the country. The team includes coaches, psychologists and mindset experts, and the programs reject pickup tactics in favor of psychology.
Carla Romo
Carla Romo is a dating and relationship coach in Philadelphia who helps women and men with dating, breakups and life goals. She is an ICF Professional Certified Coach and has worked with over 1,000 clients. She is an international speaker and wrote the book Caontagious Love. Before coaching, she worked in TV and went through burnout, which shaped her work on codependency and burnout. She coaches by phone or video, one-on-one or in groups.
Donna Piper
Donna Piper is a love coach and Akashic Records healer who helps women heal old trauma and build healthy relationships. She has 20 years of experience. Before coaching, she earned an MA in Dance Movement Psychotherapy with a focus on PTSD. She is certified in NLP, EFT, Reiki, and Yoga Nidra. Her goal is to support 1000 women using a system that shifts relationship patterns. She also runs meditation retreats.
Francesca Hogi
Francesca Hogi is a love and life coach in New York who helps people find lasting romantic connection. She started as a matchmaker, then became a coach, advisor and author. She wrote How to Find True Love and gave two TED talks that drew 2.2M views. She built the Franny app, which maps how each person is wired for love using her Core Love Codes framework. She also does connection strategy for brands.
Holly McCusker
Holly McCusker is a relationship and emotional intelligence coach who helps ambitious professionals understand the patterns behind how they date and connect. She focuses on attachment, nervous system responses, and partner selection. Before starting her private practice, she worked at Tawkify, the largest matchmaking agency in the US, as a matchmaker and coach. She also led the build of Tawkify's internal coaching program. She created the 5R Breakup Recovery Method and the 5P Conscious Masculinity Framework.
Jiveny Blair-West
Jiveny Blair-West is a life, dating and relationship coach for women in Sydney, Australia. She has worked with women aged 20 to 70 since 2016. She is an author and a co-founder of Dating For Love. She created a framework called The Attraction Archetypes. It helps women bring together the parts of themselves that build secure love. Her work mixes psychology, relationship insight, somatic embodiment and spiritual practice.
Kelsey Wonderlin
Kelsey Wonderlin is a dating coach for women. She is also a licensed therapist. She helps women build confidence, attract quality men, and feel secure in a new relationship. She has coached 4,000+ women and built a system from her own struggles with dating. Her advice has been featured in the NY Times, TIME, NBC and Cosmopolitan. She also shares daily tips with a following of 179K+ on social media.
Lauren Lowe
Lauren Lowe is a dating coach in San Francisco who helps single men find love and build lasting relationships. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 15 years in mental health. She still runs a psychotherapy practice and uses EMDR in her work. Her coaching covers dating apps, texting, first dates, attachment styles and heartbreak. She coaches men in person and online across the country.
Morgan Anderson
Morgan Anderson is a licensed clinical psychologist who coaches women on dating, relationships and self-worth. She helps clients understand their attachment style and build secure, healthy relationships. She started practicing as a psychologist in 2017 and spent two years in private practice before moving her work online. Relationship Method through courses and an 8-week program.
Nathan Serrato
Nathan Serrato is a trauma-informed queer mindset coach who helps LGBTQ+ people with dating, relationships and leadership. He founded Queer Conscious in 2017. His expertise is in working with gay men, and he also coaches singles and couples across the LGBTQ+ community. He has guided hundreds of clients, organized over 100 community events, and sits on the board of Pride Point Network. He also hosts a podcast on queer love.
Nicole
Nicole is a dating, love, and relationship coach based in Vancouver. He helps women who keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. He has coached for 15 years and has worked with hundreds of women around the world. His coaching uses the R.E.A.L. Love Method. It helps clients spot unhealthy dating patterns, state their needs with confidence, and build committed relationships. He also runs a separate coaching track for men.
Nikki Ruby
Nikki Ruby is a sex, intimacy and confidence coach for men and couples. She is based in the Twin Cities and also coaches online. She started as a licensed massage therapist in chiropractic clinics, wellness centers and luxury spas. She founded The Pleasure Practice and wrote The Pleasure Practice Workbook. She also created The Connection Coach, an AI-powered intimacy coaching app built on her curriculum.
Pat Stedman
Pat Stedman is a dating and relationship coach for men. He has coached 375+ men and has 11+ years of coaching experience. He built his own approach after 8 years of studying dating and relationships. He created The 3 Pillars of Attraction Self-Audit, a diagnostic that breaks attraction into Preselection, Persona and Personality. He also writes a newsletter read by over 6,500 men. It covers dating, marriage and relationships.
Riana Milne
Riana Milne is a life, dating and relationship coach who helps singles and couples heal childhood trauma and love trauma. She is also a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with more than 27 years in practice. She has coached clients around the world for more than 40 years. She teaches her trademarked Watch Me! Mindset for Success. She also created RianaAI, a video coaching avatar trained in her methods that works in more than 175 languages.
Sarah Louise Ryan
Sarah Louise Ryan is a London based dating and relationship expert, psychotherapist and professional international matchmaker. She helps singles find love and helps couples rebuild their bond. She has worked in the dating space since 2011. She founded The Love Collective Global and is founding director of Tailor Matched matchmaking. She also consults for Match Group and appears on the BBC each week to talk about love and dating.
Stephanie Rigg
Stephanie Rigg is a relationship coach who helps people heal anxious attachment and build secure relationships. She began her career in corporate law before moving into coaching, podcasting, and online education. She hosts the On Attachment podcast, which has over 10 million downloads. She also teaches online courses and writes a weekly newsletter. She is based on the South Coast of New South Wales, Australia, and works with clients worldwide.
Amari Ice
Amari Ice is a gay dating coach who helps gay professionals build the skills to find lasting love. Amari is also a matchmaker, a hypnotherapist and a best-selling author. Coaching covers dating skills, self-sabotage patterns and romantic magnetism. Work starts with a one-on-one Dating Analysis and is built around the Romantic Mastery Method.
Amie Leadingham
Amie Leadingham is a dating and relationship coach who helps singles find lasting love. She works in Los Angeles and Las Vegas and is also an online dating expert and author. Her Conscious Dating programs help clients heal old beliefs about relationships that hold them back. She met the love of her life through this method. She also hosts two podcasts.
Jane Copier
Jane Copier is a Christian marriage coach who helps women and couples reconnect, communicate better, and rebuild closeness. She has 8+ years of coaching experience and has helped hundreds of Christian couples. She focuses on couples who have drifted apart. She mixes practical relationship tools with faith-centered principles. She also hosts a podcast called Happy in the Middle and offers a free seven day marriage reset guide by email.
Jill Rodowicz
Jill Rodowicz is a relationship coach who helps people build secure, close partnerships. She works with emotionally intelligent overachievers who deal with anxiety and emotional dependency. Her practice, Become What You Are Coaching LLC, began in 2022. She is certified through The Life Coach School and teaches clients to calm their nervous systems and change limiting beliefs. She started coaching after a breakup that led her back to the same partner in a new kind of relationship.
Lisa Concepcion
Lisa Concepcion is a dating and relationship coach and the founder of LoveQuest Coaching in Florida. She works one on one with self-aware, success-minded, Type-A adults who keep repeating the same patterns in love. She helps them heal from breakups and divorce, work through codependency, repair relationships, and date with confidence. Her sessions run 60 minutes by phone or video. She blends Law of Attraction, Core Energy Coaching and Inner Child Healing into her work.
Lori Frison
Lori Frison is a relationship coach and licensed psychotherapist in Wisconsin. She helps people find, keep and sometimes end relationships in a healthy way. She has worked in relationship health for over two decades. Before that, she was a fashion model in New York and appeared on a Paris Vogue cover. She built the Redefining Love program, a 12 week coaching program on the relationship you have with yourself.
Mico Nunes
Mico Nunes is a relationship coach who helps adults with insecure attachment styles build secure, lasting relationships. Mico is a Certified Integrated Attachment Theory Coach from Ontario, Canada. Mico works with clients around the world. Sessions focus on rewiring subconscious beliefs that come from childhood. Mico also coaches on confidence and conflict. Each client gets a personal program that runs 6 to 18 weeks.
Minnie Lane
Minnie Lane is a London-based dating and relationship coach who works with men on dating, attraction and connection. Minnie has coached for over 18 years and has helped thousands of people. The work centers on the psychological patterns behind a person's love life. Minnie holds an MSc in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology, focused on relationship wellbeing, and was featured in The Pickup Game in 2019.
Olga Okunyeva
Olga Okunyeva is a dating coach and certified matchmaker in Ukraine. He helps singles and people struggling in relationships understand why past dating has not worked. He founded the Gaisteris matchmaking agency. Before coaching he worked in marketing and met people in science, academia, corporate, IT and creative fields. He uses tools like the five love languages, attachment types and emotional intelligence, and picks them for each client's request.
Tori
Tori is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach in San Diego. She helps women and couples build self-awareness, communication skills and confidence for lasting relationships. She hosts a weekly podcast called The Art of Intimacy, which covers attachment theory and real dating stories. She also runs wellness retreats for women. Most of her coaching happens over video, and she also sees clients in person in San Diego.
Vicki Pavitt
Vicki Pavitt is a love, dating and relationship coach in London who helps women change how they date. She has coached for 12 years and has worked with more than 1,000 women. She is an NLP and EFT practitioner and an attachment styles expert. Her Wholehearted Dating work helps women spot old patterns and build safe, committed relationships.
Anita Hişir
Anita Hişir is a relationship coach in Montreal, Quebec. She also works as a life coach and spirituality coach. She helps women and men who doubt themselves, ignore their feelings, or lose their identity when they get emotionally invested in a relationship. She has more than 10 years in coaching and personal development. She works with The Inhervision Method™ and holds the ECPC credential.
Date Him Honey
Date Him Honey is a dating coaching practice for women who want lasting love and struggle with anxious attachment. The coach is a licensed trauma therapist and somatic dating coach with 12+ years in the work. More than 900 women have received support. The focus is on resetting old dating patterns in the nervous system so clients stop chasing unavailable men and start choosing men who show up. Offers include a 6-Step Secure Method, 1:1 coaching, and a 12-week group program.
Elizabeth K
Elizabeth K is a dating, relationship and life coach based in Italy who runs That's Amore Coaching. She helps singles, dating app users and people in relationships. She has taught English for over 10 years and holds a double degree in Law and Commerce. She used dating apps daily for 7 years, so she knows the process first hand. She also offers dating profile makeovers with photo feedback.
Jasmine D
Jasmine D is a dating and relationship coach in Toronto, Ontario. She helps people find love, stop wasting time on dating apps, and build stronger relationships. She holds a psychology degree and an MBA. Her work centers on relational self-awareness, which means understanding yourself in order to understand how you relate to others. She also coaches clients on attachment styles, boundaries, and co-dependent dynamics.
Naomie Thompson
Naomie Thompson is a dating and relationship coach for women. She works with accomplished, independent women who want healthy, loving partnerships. She helps clients who are single, dating, divorced or unsure about their current relationship. She is lead trainer in the Rori Raye Feminine Energy Coach Training. She offers 1-2-1 coaching, courses and a podcast, and her first conversation with a new client is free.
Kerrie Iannuzzi
Kerrie Iannuzzi is a dating coach who helps women meet and marry a committed partner. She runs a 16 week one-on-one program called Fast Track to Love. She has helped over 50 women meet and marry their soulmates. She built her method after 15 years of dating in New York City, and she met her own husband in just under 3 months by using it. Her program covers online dating profiles, dating apps and mindset.
Glennda Donate
Glennda Donate is a life and relationship coach for women. She founded Badassery School. Her work centers on attachment healing, relationship patterns and life transitions like divorce and empty nesting. She adds nervous system and somatic work, and therapeutic art, to her sessions. She meets clients by video or in person, and offers half day and full day intensives. She has also worked with couples.
Alan Cox
Alan Cox is a life coach and CBT practitioner who helps gay men move from casual dating to a committed, monogamous relationship. He also facilitates workshops and is an author. He hosts The Gay Monogamy Coach podcast, which has 140 episodes since 2024. Episodes cover attachment styles, the cost of dating apps, and how to build a life that fits a lasting relationship. His work centers on clarity, confidence, and clear relationship goals.
Emlovz (Women)
Emlovz is the women's arm of a dating coaching company founded by Emyli Lovz and Thomas Anthony. It helps women find and keep a long term relationship. The team teaches a method called MegaDating. Today a team of over 10 coaches works with clients. Coaches include a confidence coach, a stylist, and a social media pro.
Jiveny Blair-West
Jiveny Blair-West is a dating and relationship coach who helps women, men and couples build lasting love. She co-founded Dating For Love in 2016 with Joe Oppenheimer. She leads the women's and couples coaching and created The Attraction Archetypes, a framework for understanding the patterns that shape your love life. The practice works with singles aged 20 to 70, and each client is matched with the coach who suits their goals best.
Justin Marc
Justin Marc is a social confidence mentor who coaches men on dating, relationships and social skills. He overcame social anxiety that lasted the first 17 years of his life. He teaches a system he calls Elite Level. He offers a free one-on-one strategy call by phone, and runs bootcamp-style programs that also cover leadership and career skills.
Melissa Josue
Melissa Josue is a relationship coach for women with an anxious attachment style. He helps single women who feel frustrated with dating and keep meeting men who are not ready to commit. His work centers on a method he calls Conscious Dater. It teaches clients to know what they want, build a plan, and act on it. He also shares his own story of leaving an emotionally abusive four year relationship.
Sabrina Zohar
Sabrina Zohar is a dating and relationship coach and the host of The Sabrina Zohar Show, a podcast. She helps people break repeated dating patterns and date with more clarity and confidence. She moved from running a sustainable clothing line called SoftWear to sharing dating advice online. She offers one-on-one coaching and a three-month coaching package with unlimited messaging support. She also wrote the book Why Am I Like This and sells online courses.
Tinzley Bradford
Tinzley Bradford is an Atlanta coach who helps women stop settling in dating, money, career and homeownership. She calls herself a Settlefree Lifestyle Strategist. She is also an author, speaker and TV personality who has appeared on HLN and TV One. Her advice for single women is direct and no nonsense. She built the Settle Free Method, and she wrote a digital guide on buying a home.
Ali Jackson
Ali Jackson is a dating and relationship coach who helps women with their love lives. She runs the Finding Mr. Height brand and hosts a podcast of the same name. Her coaching covers dating app profiles, dating anxiety, and clear communication of needs. She offers one-on-one coaching, monthly programs, and small group programs on topics like dating app revamps and anxious attachment. She builds her advice on her own time spent dating.
Corey Chaloff
Corey Chaloff is a dating coach for men who teaches them to use Instagram to attract women. Corey has over 15 years of experience and has worked one-on-one with more than 840 men. Corey's community reaches more than 3,500 people. Corey's system covers Instagram profiles, dating app profiles, texting and personal branding. Corey offers a free Instagram audit and a breakthrough call to start.
Courtney Klick
Courtney Klick is a relationship coach who works with moms and parent couples. She has over 20 years in the wellness and growth industry. Her coaching covers relational blueprints, intimacy blockers, relationship saboteurs, and attachment. She is certified by The Relationship School and trained in Non-Violent Communication and Positive Intelligence. She also runs a second line of work as a community strategist for online business owners, using Kajabi, Heartbeat and Facebook. She is based in Michigan.
Emily Sirona
Emily Sirona is a dating and relationship coach in Michigan who helps people heal anxious relationship patterns and recover after breakups. She also works as a somatic trauma healing coach. She has more than 15 years of training and experience in nervous system healing. Her work targets patterns at the nervous system level, not only in the thinking mind. She serves ADHD, neurodivergent, highly sensitive and empathic people.
Hannah Brooks
Hannah Brooks is a love and marriage coach for highly sensitive people. She works mostly with highly sensitive women who want a closer, calmer marriage. She hosts the Highly Sensitive, Happily Married Podcast. Her work follows a path she calls the Safe Heart Partnership. It starts with emotional steadiness inside the client, then moves into the relationship. She offers private one-on-one coaching called Sanctuary and a starter program called Foundations of Emotional Well-Being.
Jade Bianca
Jade Bianca is a dating coach who helps divorced professionals date again with confidence. She runs Dating Coach In My Pocket, a service that sends daily guidance by text. She also works with clients in private coaching sessions. Her framework draws on research about attachment theory and trauma recovery. She focuses on the fears that come after a marriage ends, like trusting your judgment, handling dating apps, and finding time to date while working and raising kids.
Renee Wade
Renee Wade is a dating and relationship coach for women. She founded The Feminine Woman in 2009 to help women understand men, dating and relationships. Her work centers on femininity, sexual polarity and intimate relationships. She left a short career in law to teach these skills. Her blog has drawn over a million visitors, and her team has built over 20 classes and programs for women on mindset and dating skills.
Sheilanova R Cornelio
Sheilanova R Cornelio is a coach who helps women with anxious attachment build self-confidence in dating. She runs a six-month private coaching program. She lived the anxious pattern herself. In 2012 she hit a breaking point while dating a man who would not commit. About a year and a half later she reached secure attachment. Now she teaches other women to handle rejection and stop obsessing over men.
Toi & Moi Matchmaking and Dating Coach
Toi & Moi is a boutique matchmaking and dating coaching service in New York City. It helps successful, busy professionals who want a deep and compatible partnership. The team blends matchmaking with coaching and draws on psychology, attachment theory and communication science. Clients can also join group coaching and community events. New clients can book a free 20-minute discovery call and join the matchmaking database of singles.
Jason Stedman
Jason Stedman is a dating and relationship advisor for women. He runs the Catch Him and Keep Him brand and wrote a book of the same name. He has worked in dating and relationship advice for over 15 years. His focus is helping women understand how men think, why men pull away, and what makes a man commit. He shares his advice through a free newsletter, articles and programs.
Syeda Z
Syeda Z is a somatic relationship coach who helps people build closer, happier and stronger bonds. She works with individuals and couples on communication and relationships. Her sessions draw on the mind-body connection, gratitude, meditation and manifestation practices. She also helps clients look at their attachment style and break patterns that hold them back from their goals. New clients can start with a discovery call.
Danielle Hall
Danielle Hall is a dating, self love and relationship coach. She helps people who feel stuck in frustrating patterns, keep attracting the wrong partners, or find it hard to open their hearts. She holds an ICF certification and a qualification in embodied intimacy, dating and relationship coaching. Her style is intuitive. She uses tools like picture cards and somatic practice, matched to how each client sees the world.
Kevin Lourd
Kevin Lourd is a couples and dating coach in Singapore. He works with individuals who are in a couple or dating, and he focuses on communication, conflict solving and polarity reconnection. He co-founded and led France's largest sex-positive community. He has facilitated over 100 workshops and worked with 1,000+ clients. He is trained in trauma-informed care, somatic practices and Nonviolent Communication.
Lærke Nielsen
Lærke Nielsen is a dating coach for women who feel confident at work but struggle in love. Lærke helps high-achieving women with anxious attachment stop overthinking and feel secure while dating. Lærke has coached since March 2020 and is certified by The Lifecoach School. Before coaching, Lærke worked as a toxicologist, government official, teacher, medical affairs manager and journalist. Lærke lives in Paris and is originally from Copenhagen.
Persia Lawson
Persia Lawson is a dating and relationship coach in London who helps successful, high-achieving women find secure, lasting partnerships. Persia has coached for 14 years and has worked with thousands of women. Persia is a TV personality and has written three books. Persia hosts The Love Is Coming podcast, which ranked #1 in the UK for dating and relationship shows. Persia teaches the Anti-Dating Matrix Method to break old dating patterns.
Ruth Schwartz
Ruth Schwartz is the director of Conscious Girlfriend Academy, an online school and community for lesbian, queer and non-binary people. She wrote the book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love, which has reached readers in 25 countries. Her academy teaches dating, love, attachment and healing from past heartbreak. She also runs a coach training and certification program and leads a team of certified coaches. Ruth hosts optional Deep Dive group coaching sessions for members.
Michelle Klein
Michelle Klein is a relationship coach in Oakville, Ontario. She works with couples and individuals who want better communication and stronger connection. She has 18 years of clinical practice and is a Certified Relational Life Therapist. Her coaching is trauma-informed and covers relationships and self-worth. She has seen couples on the edge of divorce reconnect. She has also seen individuals break patterns passed down in their families.
Penny Love
Penny Love is a dating and relationship coach who helps women attract a healthy romantic partner. She focuses on feminine energy and works mostly with high-achieving business owners and career-driven women. Her coaching covers healing old patterns, building confidence and setting firm boundaries. She is originally from Spain and now lives in London. She hosts the Date Like a Goddess podcast and runs a group program called The Love School.
Rachel Jackson
Rachel Jackson is a relationship, spirituality and career coach in Austin, Texas. She helps people build secure attachment, improve how they connect with partners, and find work that fits them. She holds a master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and worked as a traditional therapist before coaching. She uses her own "Get Unstuck" approach and brings more than 9 years of fitness coaching and yoga teaching to her work with mind, body and spirit.
Sophia Bloom
Sophia Bloom is a dating coach in Massachusetts who helps analytical men build confidence and find healthy partners. She holds a psychology degree and was trained by industry professionals. Her clients are often engineers, mathematicians, programmers and lawyers. She uses a method called brain mapping to find the patterns behind a client's behavior and attraction. She says real change comes from a process, not quick tips.
Chris Rackliffe
Chris Rackliffe is an anxious attachment coach who helps people become more secure in love. Chris runs the Needy No More program, a 12-week one-on-one coaching experience. Chris is also the author of the book Needy No More and hosts a podcast with the same name. Chris writes from personal experience of living with anxious attachment. Chris has worked with thousands of people around the world.
Jessica Da Silva
Jessica Da Silva is an attachment and relationship coach. She helps clients break unhealthy relationship patterns and build the habits and emotional security of secure attachment. She is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, but her coaching is action-oriented and focused on change now. She created the My Secure Self Method and the question "What Would Secure Me Do?" Clients practice new behaviors between sessions.
Kim Callaway
Kim Callaway is a relationship and life coach in Missouri who also coaches parents of young children. Kim is a licensed professional counselor with 15 years of experience working with individuals and families. Kim's relationship work centers on attachment patterns, unresolved shame, and conflict and repair. Kim also helps adults with low self-worth and anxiety. Kim runs Rooted Earth Counseling.
Raquelle W
Raquelle W is a life and relationship coach who works with women through LLF Coaching. Raquelle focuses on relational wellness, which means building emotional regulation, self-trust, and discernment in dating. Raquelle has written four books for women, including The Emotionally Safe Woman. Raquelle's work also covers mindset, past wounds, and personal purpose. Raquelle avoids trauma-focused stories and pressure-driven dating advice, and teaches practical skills instead.
Bay Area Dating Coach
Bay Area Dating Coach is a small team of dating coaches and therapists in the San Francisco Bay Area. They help single men and women find lasting love, not just casual dating. The team works with shy singles, introverts, and people with dating anxiety. Services include online dating help, mock dates, style coaching, and a dating anxiety group. The practice also offers dating therapy alongside coaching, and serves clients worldwide.
Sabrina Visconti
Sabrina Visconti is a certified life and relationship coach who works with singles and couples on dating, relationships and personal growth. She focuses on self-worth, confidence, boundaries and healthy communication. Her work goes past dating tips and goal setting. She helps clients heal old patterns and build a stronger relationship with themselves first. She also supports people who are going through a big life change or feel stuck in love.
Katarina Polonska
Katarina Polonska is a relationship strategist and behavioral scientist who coaches founders and executives. She helps them with uncertain marriages and tense teams when stress starts to hurt their focus, revenue, or sense of self. She created the Successfully in Love Method. It draws on neuroscience, attachment theory, and subconscious mind rewiring. She has coached executives, founders, and high-net-worth individuals through both relationship decisions and leadership growth.
Amber Grauer
Amber Grauer is an anxious attachment and life coach who helps women stop overthinking and feel good enough in their relationships. She has coached women on anxious attachment for four years. Before coaching, she taught special education and general education for twelve years and earned a master's degree in education. She became a Certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School in 2021. Her work centers on calming the nervous system and building secure self worth.
Melanie Rogers
Melanie Rogers is a life coach who helps people who feel stuck, restless or disconnected from themselves. She works on dating patterns, career frustration and self-confidence. Her method combines attachment work with subconscious reprogramming. She holds certifications in integrated attachment theory coaching and relationship coaching. Clients usually work with her for 6 to 8 months. Sessions run 55 minutes on Zoom, and she offers a free 30 minute discovery call.
Rebecca Wells
Rebecca Wells is a life coach and burnout coach who helps women through divorce, breakups, loss and other major life changes. She is a Certified Health Counselor and holds an attachment theory certification. She built her own method, the Wounds to Wisdom Pathway. She has worked more than twenty years in health and wellness and has logged over a thousand hours of private coaching. She works from Tennessee.
Athena Mitsi
She trained in Jungian and Archetypal Psychology and has a background in Classical Studies. Her sessions look at the roots of patterns like people pleasing, perfectionism and trouble setting boundaries. She uses personal archetypes to build self-awareness, confidence and healthier relationships. She also offers a free 45 minute discovery call.
Rebecca Ore
Rebecca Ore is a certified life and relationship coach based in Manchester. She helps people who feel anxious and insecure in their relationships. She teaches clients to spot unhelpful thought patterns and replace them with ones that build security and confidence. All sessions run over Zoom, so clients can join from anywhere in the world. She became a coach after working through her own fear of abandonment and need to control the people around her.
Silja Silbuch
Silja Silbuch is a certified embodiment coach in Germany. She helps people who repeat the same relationship patterns, struggle with boundaries, or feel cut off from their own needs. She is also an Authentic Relating facilitator and an authentic leadership coach. Her work blends embodiment, trauma-informed practices, nervous system regulation and authentic communication. She works with people healing from painful relationships and people going through major life changes.
Elizabeth Panchenko
Elizabeth Panchenko is a life, relationship and career coach in Los Angeles. She helps young adults and adults who are starting over and still feel stuck. Many of her clients are dealing with a new country, a new career, or a life rebuilt from zero. She holds a BA in Communication and Psychology. She built her own business from zero in a different industry and has coached women to do the same for the last 4 years.
Sherena Jarvi
Sherena Jarvi is a life coach in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. Sherena helps women recover from emotionally destructive relationships. Sherena's work centers on restoring clarity, rebuilding self-trust and breaking trauma bonds. Sherena also lived through a relationship like this one. Sherena has written articles on how narcissistic abuse and unsafe homes affect children.
Sonia Elhaj
Sonia Elhaj is a life, relationship and career coach in Dubai who works with women. She helps clients who feel worn down by busyness, loneliness and burnout. Her coaching focuses on feminine leadership and on reframing hard experiences so clients work less and receive more. She is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach trained at the Co-Active Training Institute. She coaches in English, Arabic and French and writes about co-dependency, early attachment and career confidence.
Chelsea Lynn
Chelsea Lynn is a life, relationship and family coach in Midvale, Utah. She helps early and early middle-aged women who want a joyful life but feel held back by limiting beliefs. She works on mindset, confidence, relationships and self-love. She is a Certified Integrated Attachment Theory Coach. She also writes about attachment styles, the nervous system and how emotions affect the body.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Alison Verge | Dating over 40 and Online dating and apps | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Andrew Gung | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Carla Romo | Dating for women and Online dating and apps | $125 to $200 an hour |
| Donna Piper | Dating for women and Attachment styles | $100 to $160 an hour |
| Francesca Hogi | Dating for women and Matchmaking | $115 to $210 an hour |
| Holly McCusker | Attachment styles and Breakups and heartbreak | $90 to $230 an hour |
| Jiveny Blair-West | Dating for women and Attachment styles | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Kelsey Wonderlin | Dating for women and Online dating and apps | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Lauren Lowe | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Morgan Anderson | Dating for women and Attachment styles | $125 to $245 an hour |
| Nathan Serrato | LGBTQ dating and Dating for men | $140 to $215 an hour |
| Nicole | Dating for women and Attachment styles | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Nikki Ruby | Dating for men and Couples and marriage | $110 to $200 an hour |
| Pat Stedman | Dating for men and Couples and marriage | $70 to $125 an hour |
| Riana Milne | Dating for men and Dating for women | $100 to $160 an hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach for attachment styles cost?
Most dating coaches charge $80 to $200 per hour or session.
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Common focus areas include couples and marriage, dating for women, online dating and apps and breakups and heartbreak.
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Last updated September 2026.