Minnie Lane
Dating and relationship coach for men in London
| Hourly rate range | $80 to $250 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Dating for menAttachment stylesCouples and marriageConfidence and self-esteemMindset and habitsMindfulness and meditation |
| Works with | Men |
| Also coaches | Life coach and Spiritual coach |
| Based in | London, United Kingdom |
| Credentials | MSc in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology; Degree in communication and psychology |
| Experience | 18 years coaching |
Minnie Lane is a London-based dating and relationship coach who works with men on dating, attraction and connection. Minnie has coached for over 18 years and has helped thousands of people. The work centers on the psychological patterns behind a person's love life. Minnie holds an MSc in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology, focused on relationship wellbeing, and was featured in The Pickup Game in 2019.
What Minnie helps with
Minnie works on the deeper patterns that block connection, intimacy and trust in dating and relationships.
- Breaking relationship patterns that keep repeating
- Building real confidence
- Communicating clearly and authentically
- Building secure and fulfilling relationships
- Understanding fears and defense mechanisms in dating
- Building authentic attraction
How Minnie works
Minnie combines three things: A scientific understanding of psychology, inner transformational work, and 18 years of coaching practice. Sessions work across the psychological, emotional and behavioral levels. The aim is to address the root causes of unconscious patterns, fears and defense mechanisms that shape how clients date and relate. The focus is on lasting change in confidence, not acting confident.
Background and qualifications
Minnie holds a degree in communication and psychology and an MSc in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology, with a focus on relationship wellbeing. Minnie has coached for over 18 years. Personal practice includes daily Vipassana meditation, 17 days of solitude in darkness on a dark retreat, and professional training in yoga, embodiment and breathwork.
Minnie Lane pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Online course
- Summer special coaching
- Meditation and yoga
Minnie Lane reviews
The CoachVouch take
Combines an MSc in coaching psychology with meditation, breathwork and a 17-day dark retreat in a dating coaching practice.
Best for men who want to change repeating relationship patterns and build lasting, secure connections.
Common questions
How much does Minnie Lane charge?
Coaching with Minnie runs $80 to $250 an hour. Message Minnie from this page for an exact quote.
What does Minnie Lane help with?
Minnie Lane helps with breaking relationship patterns that keep repeating, building real confidence, communicating clearly and authentically and building secure and fulfilling relationships.
Is Minnie Lane certified?
Minnie Lane lists: MSc in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology; Degree in communication and psychology.
How do I contact Minnie Lane?
Send Minnie a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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