Dating coaches for dating for men
Compare 203 dating coaches who focus on dating for men. Besides dating for men, the most common focus areas are approach anxiety and confidence, texting and first dates, online dating and apps and couples and marriage. They most often work with men, women and professionals. Most charge $78 to $200 per hour or session.
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Good Guys 2 Great Men
Good Guys 2 Great Men is a coaching practice that helps men with marriage and relationship problems. It has coached men since 2012. Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore lead a team of 6 certified coaches. They have helped more than 5,000 men in over 40 countries. Their work covers distance, low intimacy and the threat of divorce. They teach men to build confidence and trust without blame or pressure.
Alex Goldstein
Alex Goldstein is a dating anxiety coach for nerds. He helps shy and introverted singles find a serious relationship without dating apps or cold approaches. Alex is a digital nomad who had to learn how to meet and date people in cities where he knew no one. He has interviewed hundreds of nerds on his podcast about how they met their partners. He teaches the friends-first approach that most of those couples used.
Alex León
Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. Alex helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. Alex built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. Alex's clients come from 22 countries. Alex also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of Alex's clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.
Andrew Gung
Andrew Gung is the founder and CEO of Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching business in Australia. The team helps men with approach anxiety, dating apps, texting and building confidence. Since 2018, they have coached over 700 men. Coaching runs in person in Melbourne, Sydney, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, and online across the country. The team includes coaches, psychologists and mindset experts, and the programs reject pickup tactics in favor of psychology.
Anna Jorgensen
Anna Jorgensen is a dating coach for men. She runs Wingmam and teaches men how to understand women, build confidence, and find lasting relationships. Anna spent 20 years in real estate sales before she became a dating coach and matchmaker in 2012. She has interviewed hundreds of singles and couples about dating. Her YouTube channel has 400,000+ subscribers, and she also runs a community of 2,700 active members.
Beau Brummell Introductions
Beau Brummell Introductions is a matchmaking agency for gay men who want a long-term relationship. It was founded by Vinko Anthony and Andrea Zaza, who are partners in life and business. The head office is in Sydney. The agency also works in other Australian capitals, Hong Kong, New Zealand, Singapore, London and several US cities. It has matched men for over fourteen years. Every client is met in person, and matches come from a private database.
Blaine Anderson
Blaine Anderson is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps men find girlfriends. Blaine started Dating By Blaine in 2020 and has worked with more than 7,000 clients. Blaine offers one-on-one matchmaking and coaching, both online and in person. Blaine appeared on Shark Tank in Season 15, where Mark Cuban offered this coach a deal. Blaine also has a YouTube channel with 137K subscribers and more than 1 million followers across social media.
Brian Rzepczynski
Brian Rzepczynski is a dating and relationship coach who helps gay men and couples build healthy, lasting intimate relationships. He started his coaching business, The Gay Love Coach, in 2003. He has over 19 years of experience as a psychotherapist and life coach. He holds a doctorate in human sexuality and a master's in clinical social work. He also writes advice columns for gay magazines and speaks at events. He works from Chicago.
Caryn Davis
Caryn Davis is a certified matchmaker and dating coach who helps busy professionals find a quality match for a long-term relationship. She runs Exquisite Elite Matchmaking, where she finds matches for clients and also coaches men and women one on one. She coaches singles by video anywhere in the U.S. and Canada. She also hosts the EEM Club Podcast. Clients get homework between sessions, and a free 15 minute consultation comes first.
Chase Amante
Chase Amante is a dating coach for men. She founded the Girls Chase website in 2008 after men on large seduction forums asked her for advice. The site teaches approaching women, attraction, conversation, dating, texting and online dating. She created the One Date system and The Dating Artisan course. Men can also book phone or live coaching with a Girls Chase coach. The site reports over 64 million readers.
Christopher Louis
Christopher Louis is a certified dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles. He works with men and women on dating, relationships, and confidence. He is a former international model and professional tennis player. He founded Men.tality and hosts the Dating Intelligence podcast, which launched in April 2020. He has coached for over five years. His style is direct and built on real behavior, not dating clichés.
Cora Boyd
Cora Boyd is a Seattle dating and relationship coach who founded Cora Boyd Enterprises. She teaches flirting, communication, charisma and confidence, with a strong focus on coaching men. She is a former top-performing matchmaker for a Stanford StartX company. She started her consultancy in 2019 and has guided hundreds of clients. She hosts the podcast Pillow Talk Radio and is the recurring dating expert for the CUT Channel.
Craft of Charisma
Craft of Charisma is a dating coaching company for men. It teaches men to meet and connect with women, in person and online. Chris Luna leads the company. It has been in business for 18 years and has taught 574 workshops. Programs run in many US and Canadian cities, and include an 8 week dating bootcamp. Its coaching uses the D.A.T.E. model, which covers moving relationships forward and consent.
Dan Bacon
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men. He founded Master Attraction and has given dating advice for over twenty years. He teaches men how to show non-physical traits that make women feel attracted. Members get monthly video lessons that cover 124 traits, plus a private community and an AI coach built on his advice. He also runs two-hour phone coaching calls by audio or video.
Dan Bacon
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men and the founder of The Modern Man. He helps men meet women, get a girlfriend, improve a relationship, or win back an ex. The Modern Man began in 2005. Dan has coached more than 100 men by phone to get an ex girlfriend or wife back. He teaches a natural, genuine style of attraction instead of pickup tricks.
Eddie Hernandez
Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach and dating photographer in the San Francisco Bay Area. He coaches men and women on dating apps and offline dating, in person or by video call. He also shoots natural dating photos for apps like Hinge and Bumble. His photos have run in the New York Times, Time and Vogue UK. He has lived in Los Angeles and New York, which shapes how he sees culture and dating.
Erik Carlberg
Erik Carlberg is a dating coach for men. He helps men of all ages and experience levels find love, build lasting relationships, and feel more at ease socially. He has coached for over fifteen years and works with a team. He wrote The Vortex of Love, a book on attracting women that took him three years to finish. He also trains people who want to become dating coaches. Clients work with him from all over the world.
Frank Kermit
Frank Kermit is a dating and relationship coach in Montreal who helps singles and couples with love, sex and dating. He has coached for 25 years and wrote over 20 books and 25+ audio programs. He is the official coach of the Absolute Bachelor Club matchmaking service. He teaches his own Emotional Needs Analysis system. His clients come from Canada, the USA, Australia, Asia, Europe and the Middle East. He also coaches weight loss accountability.
Harris O'Malley
Harris O'Malley is a dating coach and advice columnist who helps nerdy and geeky men with dating and social skills. He works under the name Paging Dr. NerdLove and has been doing this work since 2011. His advice has been featured in Nightline, Vice, The Wall Street Journal and The Guardian. He also runs a blog, podcasts, courses and books, and answers reader questions in columns three times a week.
Harry Wilmington
Harry Wilmington is a men's dating coach. She helps men with approaching women, texting, online dating, and confidence. She has coached hundreds of men and builds action plans for their dating lives. She runs the Get Girls Academy membership community and hosts a podcast and a show. She also draws on her own experience as a dater and an introvert when she coaches.
Introverted Alpha
Introverted Alpha is a dating coaching company for shy, thoughtful and analytical men. It helps them feel attractive, meet women and go on good dates. The company started in June 2014 and has coached over 600 clients one-on-one. Its main paid program, Launch Your Dating Life, runs in three phases and covers online dating profiles, approaching women in person and planning dates. Coaching starts with a call called a Clarity Consult.
JT Tran
JT Tran is a dating coach who helps men build confidence and succeed with women. He focuses on Asian men. He founded ABCs of Attraction in 2005 after working as an aerospace engineer. He did not have his first kiss until age 20, so he built a step-by-step system for confidence. Bootcamps run in Los Angeles, Miami, Chicago and Seattle, and also online. Thousands of men have used his system.
JT Tran
JT Tran is a dating coach who helps men, mostly Asian men, build confidence and attract quality women. He has coached since 2008 and has worked with thousands of clients. He has taught at Harvard, Yale and Wharton School of Business and has appeared on NBC, ABC, CBS and Fox. He studied aerospace engineering before he became a coach. He once officiated a client's wedding.
James Marshall
James Marshall is a dating coach for men and the founder and CEO of The Natural Lifestyles. His company has taught men about dating, inner change and lifestyle design since 2008. He trained in Kung Fu at a Shaolin temple and toured Australia in a funk band. He created the Five Principles of Natural Seduction. He runs live workshops, online coaching and a 12-month mentorship program.
James Preece
James Preece is a dating coach in the UK who helps single men and women find lasting relationships. He has worked as a dating expert for 21 years. He has written 15 books on dating, confidence and attraction. He also coaches for dating agencies and online dating companies. He hosts a weekly dating podcast and runs singles events, speed dating nights and seminars across the UK. Men and women get different, tailored coaching approaches.
James Tusk
James Tusk is a London-based dating coach who teaches men to meet women in person. He runs Project Tusk, also called Tusk & Team, and co-hosts Project Social with Sambo of Fluid Social London. His team has helped 500+ clients and coached in 15+ countries. Clients learn to approach women in daily life, start conversations, get numbers and set dates, without apps or bars.
Jasbina Ahluwalia
Jasbina Ahluwalia is a matchmaker and relationship coach who helps accomplished singles find a life partner. She runs Intersections Match and has a special focus on South Asian matchmaking. She spent nearly two decades in this work. Before that, she was a lawyer in San Francisco and Chicago. She works with men and women across the U.S. and in other countries.
Jessica J
Jessica J is a dating coach who helps men with dating, sex and self-confidence. She uses Solution-Focused Therapy principles in her work. She started out training as a marriage and family therapist in Hollywood, then became the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio show The Couch. She was featured on Nightline as one of America's Most Desirable Daters. She also runs an award-winning YouTube channel and offers a free strategy session.
John Keegan
John Keegan is a New York City dating coach who helps men meet women in real life, not just on apps. He also coaches women on their dating lives and relationships. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle and has coached for 15 years. He teaches workshops in cities such as Los Angeles, London, Rio de Janeiro and Prague. He also created The Art of the Flow, an audio course with seven live conversations recorded around New York City.
Johnny Cassell
Johnny Cassell is a London dating coach who works with men on dating, attraction and long-term partnership. He has coached since 2005 and has worked with over 2,000 men. He has been featured on BBC, Sky News and The Times. He wrote the bestselling book Elite Seduction. He teaches in real settings with one-to-one training, and also coaches men online around the world.
Julia Malakiman
Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley and the San Francisco Bay Area. She helps shy, analytical men and engineers get better at meeting and connecting with women. All practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers. She has coached more than 500 men. She hosts The Date Worthy Man podcast and runs Bay Area Dating Cure events. She acts as a wing woman and gives feedback in the moment.
Kait Warman
Kait Warman is a dating coach for Christian singles. He runs Heart of Dating in Nashville with his co-host JJ Tomlin. He is also an author and podcast host, and he started his podcast in early 2018. Kait dated for 18 years in the age of dating apps and ghosting, and he draws on that time in his coaching. His teaching is grounded in Scripture and covers both men and women.
Kate Mansfield
Kate Mansfield is a dating and relationship coach in the UK. She helps high achievers, including leaders, artists, celebrities and athletes, with love, confidence and performance. She has coached for 15 years and advised corporations and high profile clients. Before coaching she worked in artist and celebrity management with A-list talent. She is also a couples and family therapist.
Katy Clark
Katy Clark is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps successful singles find a partner and date with more confidence. She spent 10 years matching exclusive clients at Cinqe Matchmaking before starting Dating with Katy. She keeps a personal network of tens of thousands of singles. Her work blends dating strategy with fashion and wellness. She has also been a featured trainer in SHAPE Magazine and ran a restaurant in China.
Kimberly Hill
Kimberly Hill is a dating and relationship coach for men in Vancouver, Canada. Kimberly helps divorced and single men build confidence and find real connection. Before coaching, Kimberly worked in financial derivatives. Since then, Kimberly has coached more than 500 men one on one and built a community of over 160k people, including 70k+ YouTube subscribers. The main program is Dating Mastery for Men, a self-paced course with 49 lessons.
Lauren Lowe
Lauren Lowe is a dating coach in San Francisco who helps single men find love and build lasting relationships. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 15 years in mental health. She still runs a psychotherapy practice and uses EMDR in her work. Her coaching covers dating apps, texting, first dates, attachment styles and heartbreak. She coaches men in person and online across the country.
Magda Kay
Magda Kay is an intimacy and relationship coach based in Warsaw, Poland. She works mostly with men on dating, sex and relationships, and also coaches couples. She teaches Tantra and conscious relating. She spent a decade in Bali, Malaysia, Thailand and India studying energy work and sacred sexuality. She has more than ten years of experience as a coach and mentor. She has also written a book for women about love and pleasure.
Marni Kinrys
Marni Kinrys is a dating coach for men and the founder of the Wing Girl Method. She teaches men how to attract women, approach them, flirt, and get dates. She has coached for 22 years and says her advice comes from a woman's point of view. She has surveyed more than 10,000 women about what attracts them. Her YouTube channel has 1.46M subscribers, and she leads a team of wing girls in the USA.
May Hui
She introduces single men to vetted Asian women who want a serious relationship. She has matched people since 2009 and has over 17 years of experience. Her team has set up 5,061 first dates. She picks matches by hand instead of using algorithms, and she works with a partner network of 300+ singles.
Melanie Curtin
Melanie Curtin is a men's coach and sex researcher who helps men connect and succeed with women. She has coached men for over six years and brings a woman's view to the work. She has surveyed over 3,000 men and women about sex, and she asked 1,067 women what the best men do in bed. She hosts the Dear Men podcast, which has close to 400 episodes.
Micah Lambert
Micah Lambert is a men's relationship coach in Austin, Texas. He helps men recover from divorce and breakups, strengthen their bond with a partner, or find and commit to a life partner. He spent over 25 years leading teams, including as CEO and owner of a large construction company. He also sold five companies of his own. He studied psychology and hypnosis and is certified in NLP and addiction therapy.
Moon
Moon is a dating coach for men who want personal growth. He helps clients with dating, social skills, self esteem, and healthy habits. Moon spent 14 years in education, working as an academic coordinator, ESL teacher, auto tech instructor, and learning and development consultant. He holds a master's degree in leadership studies, which led him to coaching. He coaches in person in San Diego and by video worldwide. He also hosts a free men's meetup in San Diego.
Nathan Serrato
Nathan Serrato is a trauma-informed queer mindset coach who helps LGBTQ+ people with dating, relationships and leadership. He founded Queer Conscious in 2017. His expertise is in working with gay men, and he also coaches singles and couples across the LGBTQ+ community. He has guided hundreds of clients, organized over 100 community events, and sits on the board of Pride Point Network. He also hosts a podcast on queer love.
Nelly Sudri
Nelly Sudri is a matchmaker and dating coach who works with high-value men and women. She left a sales manager job at a Fortune 500 CPG company in 2020 to coach full time. She is Head Matchmaker for the dating app Blush and hosts the High Value Dating podcast. She appeared on Roku's Match Me In Miami in 2023. Her clients include celebrities, c-suite executives and high-net worth people.
Nick Notas
Nick Notas is a Boston dating coach who helps men build real confidence and attract great women. He has coached for many years and has worked with thousands of men in 37 countries. His work covers social anxiety, flirting, and the psychology of attraction. He was featured on DatingNews. He also writes articles and offers a 5-step email course on building attraction on dates.
Nikki Ruby
Nikki Ruby is a sex, intimacy and confidence coach for men and couples. She is based in the Twin Cities and also coaches online. She started as a licensed massage therapist in chiropractic clinics, wellness centers and luxury spas. She founded The Pleasure Practice and wrote The Pleasure Practice Workbook. She also created The Connection Coach, an AI-powered intimacy coaching app built on her curriculum.
Pat Stedman
Pat Stedman is a dating and relationship coach for men. He has coached 375+ men and has 11+ years of coaching experience. He built his own approach after 8 years of studying dating and relationships. He created The 3 Pillars of Attraction Self-Audit, a diagnostic that breaks attraction into Preselection, Persona and Personality. He also writes a newsletter read by over 6,500 men. It covers dating, marriage and relationships.
Riana Milne
Riana Milne is a life, dating and relationship coach who helps singles and couples heal childhood trauma and love trauma. She is also a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with more than 27 years in practice. She has coached clients around the world for more than 40 years. She teaches her trademarked Watch Me! Mindset for Success. She also created RianaAI, a video coaching avatar trained in her methods that works in more than 175 languages.
Rich Cooper
Rich Cooper is a coach for men on dating, business and money. He is also an entrepreneur, private equity investor and author of The Unplugged Alpha. From 2003 to 2019 he founded and ran Canada's largest private debt relief company. He has done thousands of one on one sessions with high net worth men and women worldwide. He also runs a men's community and online courses on entrepreneurship.
Scott Tsui
Scott Tsui is a relationship coach for gay men. He helps them find a lasting partner and get past the patterns that hold them back. He wrote the Amazon bestseller Lonely No More, and he writes a dating and relationship column for the San Francisco Bay Times. He teaches a method called the 3C Formula and runs the Gay Men Relationship Blueprint, an online course and community. He also coaches one on one.
Shana James
Shana James is a love and dating coach who works with men and women over 40. She helps people who are dating, healing from divorce or heartbreak, or trying to bring more intimacy into a long-term relationship. She wrote Honest Sex, hosts two podcasts, and gave a TEDx talk on the divide between men and women. She holds a Master's in Psychology.
Stephen Grosch
Stephen Grosch is a men's dating coach in Arizona. Stephen helps men who feel anxious around women, struggle to keep conversations going, get friend-zoned, or get no results from dating apps. Neil Strauss, author of The Game, hired Stephen as an Executive Dating Coach. Stephen trained men full-time in Los Angeles for years. Stephen now coaches one-on-one and practices in Arizona day game and night game spots.
Thomas Crown
Thomas Crown is a daygame and dating coach who helps men get better at approaching women during the day. He started daygame in October 2016 and now runs regular weekend bootcamps in London. He coaches in the field in the UK and Europe, and online worldwide. He also writes a daygame blog, hosts a podcast and has published beginner guides on daygame and texting. Clients have trained with him in London, Poland and Riga.
Tony Depp
Tony Depp is a dating coach for men based in Toronto. He helps men build confidence, get past approach anxiety, and meet women. He has coached for over fifteen years and has taught hundreds of live attraction bootcamps in over thirty countries. He wrote two dating books that sold thousands of copies. Other well known dating coaches have hired him as their ghostwriter. He also runs a course on conversation skills.
Alex Forrest
Alex Forrest is a dating coach for men who want to meet women during the day. He teaches daygame, which means approaching women in daily life instead of using bars, clubs or apps. He wrote the 2019 book Too Late, Mate?, a memoir about his own dating turnaround. He runs approach courses in Warsaw, Poland, three times a year. Each coach works with no more than two students.
Alpha Attraction
Alpha Attraction is a team of dating coaches that helps men meet and attract women. The team is based in Auckland, New Zealand. Its main offer is a 3 month, 12 week coaching programme with 12 personal sessions. Coaches also work in the field with clients at daytime spots and evening venues like bars. The programme covers mindset, approach skills, online dating profiles and building a long term relationship. The team has supported hundreds of students.
Amanda Harrigan
Amanda Harrigan is a matchmaker and relationship coach who runs HYTCH in Australia. She helps single men and women find partners through private introductions and dating and relationship coaching. Her team has introduced hundreds of couples across Australia. HYTCH serves Perth, Melbourne, Sydney and Brisbane. Clients are often busy professionals, executives and business owners who do not want to use dating apps. Every match is screened by hand and kept private.
Amari Ice
Amari Ice is a gay dating coach who helps gay professionals build the skills to find lasting love. Amari is also a matchmaker, a hypnotherapist and a best-selling author. Coaching covers dating skills, self-sabotage patterns and romantic magnetism. Work starts with a one-on-one Dating Analysis and is built around the Romantic Mastery Method.
Anna
Anna is a dating coach for men who runs The Daily Flirt in Miami, Florida. She helps men improve their style, grooming, dating profiles, social media and dating strategy. The goal is to meet the women they want and turn those matches into real dates. She coaches one on one in a VIP program and leads a community with weekly calls. She also offers five free guides on approaching, texting and ghosting.
Anthony Hustle
Anthony Hustle is a dating coach who teaches men a step-by-step process for meeting women by day and taking a date to sex. She calls it the Straight Line Seduction System. She has written eight books, films her approaches, and runs a podcast. In one London summer she taught four men, and they logged 37 same-day lays and 74 dates that ended in sex. She takes two private students a year.
Bryce Bauer
Bryce Bauer is a relationship coach in Utah who works with men and with couples. Bryce has spent 16 years in mental health programs, coaching men on how to show up in their relationships. Bryce coaches men one on one. Bryce's style is direct and practical, and the coach builds in a habit of slowing down. Bryce holds ICF and TRS certifications.
Christian
Christian is a dating coach and pickup artist who helps men attract women without games or manipulation. He is based in Budapest and coaches in German and English. He is a certified NLP trainer with 15+ years of experience. He mixes pickup principles with psychology and NLP. He also films live infield videos that show his methods with real women.
Cold Approach
Cold Approach is a dating coaching practice for men. It teaches men to meet women in person and through dating apps. The team has five coaches and has coached hundreds of students. It runs in-person bootcamps in US cities and offers 1-on-1 online coaching. It also does done-for-you work like photos, profile rewrites, and texting help. The co-founder has coached men for more than half a decade.
Connell Barrett
Connell Barrett is a New York City dating coach who works with men. He helps them build confidence, flirt with ease, and meet women they want to date. His goal for clients is a girlfriend in 90 days or less. He hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He teaches an approach he calls Radically Authentic, and he avoids pickup tricks.
Damien Diecke
Damien Diecke runs School of Attraction, a dating coaching business for men in Sydney, Australia. He helps men learn to approach women, talk with them, and feel confident. The business has coached men since 2009 and says it has helped thousands. Its main offer is a 3-month program built around real-world practice every weekend. Clients get personalized feedback along the way. The methods avoid pickup lines, tricks and games.
Dario van der Kraken
Dario van der Kraken is a gay dating and relationship coach based in London. He helps gay men build healthy, stable relationships. His clients deal with love addiction, toxic relationships, anxiety in love and breakups. He is Italian and calls himself a Londoner at heart. He spent his 20s in painful relationships, and therapy helped him change his patterns. All sessions run online, mostly on Zoom.
Dave
Dave runs One Man's Life Mission, an Australian dating coaching business for men. He teaches cold approach, also called daygame, as the main way to meet and attract women. He has done daygame since 1998. He coaches live in the field through 7 day immersions and 3 day weekend bootcamps. He also wrote The Disabled Casanova and teaches men to treat women with respect.
David Chambers
David Chambers is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach for men. He runs The Authentic Man from London and coaches men one on one online. He has coached for 14 years and hosts The Authentic Man Podcast. His work covers dating confidence, emotional connection, healthy masculinity and sexual intimacy. He has been featured in GQ, Mr Porter, Cosmopolitan and BBC Radio London, and has worked with brands like Killing Kittens, Manual and Vibio.
Elia Canu
Elia Canu is a dating coach who helps busy men in tech find a partner and start a family. She runs Ideal Partner with coach Nela. The program uses a weekly plug and play system built for tech professionals. Elia has coached tech men for 5+ years. Her clients include software engineers and product managers. Support covers dating profiles, Instagram profiles, messaging, and date practice.
Emyli Lovz
Emyli Lovz is a dating and relationship coach for men. His start came from a 100-date experiment he completed while studying at UC Berkeley. He has guided thousands of men to find a long term partner. Today he leads a team of over 10 coaches. The team also helps men rebuild a relationship when a partner has asked for space or a separation.
Erika Davian
Erika Davian is a dating and intimacy coach who helps men find love. She runs Bachelor to Boyfriend. She is a Certified Life Coach and has training in Surrogate Partner Therapy. Her clients are men with some, little, or no romantic experience. Most are 25 to 55 years old and want a long term partner. She helps them build social, emotional and physical skills for dating and relationships.
Hayley Quinn
Hayley Quinn is a UK-based dating coach who helps men and women meet partners in real life. She has coached for over 15 years and has worked with thousands of clients around the world. She runs in-person dating bootcamps in London and online programmes for men and women. Her bootcamps have been covered by Cosmopolitan and The Independent. She also offers private one-to-one coaching.
James Tusk
James Tusk is a dating coach for men who teaches them to meet women in person without apps or bars. He works with a team under the Project Tusk name. The team has 25+ years of combined experience and has helped 500+ clients in 15+ countries. Their system comes from thousands of real conversations with women. Clients train in live street settings and get coaching while each interaction is still fresh.
Jessica Feldman
Jessica Feldman is a dating and relationship coach who helps singles, engaged couples and married couples. She also coaches people on confidence, self-esteem and life direction. She is based in Israel and meets clients by video. Before coaching, she worked in hospitality and tourism. She also speaks and runs workshops. Her sessions use role-play, reflection exercises, games and conversation cards. She also coaches parents who want to support an adult child without adding pressure.
Jo Barnett
Jo Barnett is a dating and relationship coach in London who focuses on men. She helps male clients with dating challenges, past setbacks and personal growth. She has over twelve years of coaching experience and is also an author, public speaker and mentor. Her work has appeared on TV, radio, online and in the press. She offers coaching sessions in London and consultations by phone or Zoom, plus coaching for men after divorce.
Jon Davis
Jon Davis is a dating mentor who helps men become more confident, grounded and attractive. He came from investment banking and private equity, including time at Goldman Sachs. He teaches a five-pillar system called Attraction OS. He offers a mentorship program, a community with a course, and one-on-one consultation calls. His social channels reach over 1M followers and 30M monthly views.
Julia Malakiman
Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley. She works with shy, analytical men and engineers who want to get better at meeting and connecting with women. She has coached more than 500 men. All of her practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers, where she acts as a wing woman and gives live feedback.
Landen
Landen is a Christian dating coach for men. He helps single Christian men build confidence, social skills, and better dating lives while keeping their faith first. He grew up very introverted and dealt with social anxiety for years. He learned communication and confidence as skills, then built a course from more than 15 years of study and field testing. He also offers a members community and live one-on-one coaching on Zoom.
Laurel House
Laurel House is a dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles who works with men and women. She is known as a celebrity dating coach and has hosted Date My Wife on E! and Esquire. She also hosts the Man Whisperer podcast. Her work turns confusing mixed signals into clear steps. She teaches a framework called PrioriDating and starts every client with a private assessment called the Relationship Blueprint.
Mark Sing
Mark Sing is a dating coach for men. He helps entrepreneurs and growth-minded men meet and date more women. He is based in Denver and hosts The Unapologetic Man Podcast. His core method is NLP, which he uses to change the beliefs that hold clients back. His main program runs 12 weeks. It pairs video lessons with two live group calls each week and a custom NLP plan built for each client.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Good Guys 2 Great Men | Couples and marriage and Dating for men | $100 to $180 an hour |
| Alex Goldstein | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $145 an hour |
| Alex León | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Andrew Gung | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Anna Jorgensen | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Beau Brummell Introductions | Matchmaking and LGBTQ dating | $80 to $130 an hour |
| Blaine Anderson | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Brian Rzepczynski | LGBTQ dating and Couples and marriage | $100 to $170 an hour |
| Caryn Davis | Matchmaking and Texting and first dates | $100 to $160 an hour |
| Chase Amante | Dating for men and Daygame and pickup | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Christopher Louis | Dating for men and Dating for women | $100 to $170 an hour |
| Cora Boyd | Dating for men and Dating for women | $100 to $175 an hour |
| Craft of Charisma | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Dan Bacon | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Dan Bacon | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $80 to $250 an hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach for dating for men cost?
Most dating coaches charge $78 to $200 per hour or session.
Can I work with a dating coach online?
Yes. Of the dating coaches on this page who say how they work, 86% offer online sessions.
What else do these dating coaches help with?
Common focus areas include approach anxiety and confidence, texting and first dates, online dating and apps and couples and marriage.
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- How Many Coaching Sessions Do I Need?
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Last updated September 2026.