Melanie Curtin
Men's dating and relationship coach and sex researcher
| Hourly rate range | $70 to $125 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men |
| Credentials | Master's in Communication, Stanford University |
| Practice | Dear Men |
Melanie Curtin is a men's coach and sex researcher who helps men connect and succeed with women. She has coached men for over six years and brings a woman's view to the work. She has surveyed over 3,000 men and women about sex, and she asked 1,067 women what the best men do in bed. She hosts the Dear Men podcast, which has close to 400 episodes.
What Melanie helps with
Melanie helps men succeed with women and build fulfilling sex and relationships. Her work centers on how men connect with women in a fun and meaningful way.
- Connecting with women in fun and meaningful ways
- Getting a girlfriend
- Pleasing women in bed
- Talking about sex more easily
- Sex life problems in a long-term relationship
- Quitting porn
- Building attraction and polarity
Who Melanie works with
Melanie works with men who are ready to do the work. For one-on-one coaching, she takes only men who want intensive, life-changing change. She takes a very limited number of one-on-one clients each year.
How Melanie works
Melanie co-runs a 10-week program for men with men's coach Jason Lange. She says men get the fastest results this way. She also takes a very limited number of one-on-one clients each year for intensive work. She offers a free training called How to Take Control of Your Love Life as a Man.
Background and qualifications
Melanie Curtin is a sex researcher and men's coach with a Master's in Communication from Stanford University. She has coached men for over six years. She has surveyed over 3,000 men and women about sex, including 1,067 women about the men who were best in bed. She has been published or seen on TODAY, Forbes and Business Insider. She has also been a female facilitator for a men's group and hosts the Dear Men podcast.
Melanie Curtin pricing
Programs and services
- 10-week group program for men, co-run with Jason Lange
- Limited one-on-one coaching
- Free training: How to Take Control of Your Love Life as a Man
- Live Constellations workshop
- Dear Men podcast
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The CoachVouch take
Melanie is a Stanford-trained sex researcher who gives men a woman's view, backed by her surveys of over 3,000 people.
Best for men who want to succeed with women and are ready to do intensive work.
Common questions
How much does Melanie Curtin charge?
Coaching with Melanie runs $70 to $125 an hour. Message Melanie from this page for an exact quote.
What does Melanie Curtin help with?
Melanie Curtin helps with connecting with women in fun and meaningful ways, getting a girlfriend, pleasing women in bed and talking about sex more easily.
Is Melanie Curtin certified?
Melanie Curtin lists: Master's in Communication, Stanford University.
Does Melanie Curtin coach women?
No. Her coaching is for men.
What is the best way to work with Melanie Curtin?
She says men get the best results fastest through the 10-week program she co-runs with Jason Lange. She also takes a very limited number of one-on-one clients each year.
How do I contact Melanie Curtin?
Send Melanie a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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