Connell Barrett
Dating coach for men in New York City
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men, Professionals and Introverts |
| Also coaches | Spiritual coach |
| Based in | New York, NY, United States |
| Practice | Dating Transformation |
Connell Barrett is a New York City dating coach who works with men. He helps them build confidence, flirt with ease, and meet women they want to date. His goal for clients is a girlfriend in 90 days or less. He hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He teaches an approach he calls Radically Authentic, and he avoids pickup tricks.
What Connell helps with
Connell works with men who feel stuck in their dating lives. He helps them talk to women with ease and get better results from dates and apps.
- Knowing what to say and how to flirt
- Approaching women and getting numbers
- Getting more quality matches on dating apps
- Cutting down on ghosting and flaking
- Getting out of the friend zone
- Making first dates feel fun and full of chemistry
- Building confidence with women
- Feeling lonely while friends are in relationships
Who Connell works with
Connell coaches professional men who have good careers and friends but struggle with dating. Many are introverted. They often do not know how to meet and flirt with quality women. Some fear they are not enough for attractive women, or they worry they will end up alone or settle.
How Connell works
Connell coaches one on one in three steps. First, he and the client book a free call to find what is holding the client back. Next, they build a personalized plan to meet and connect with women. Then Connell helps the client find a partner. The method is built on being Radically Authentic, with no pickup tricks.
Background and qualifications
He had a good job, great friends, and fun hobbies, but his love life was not working. He was lonely, shy, and afraid to approach women. He also had a hard time on dating apps. That experience shapes his coaching for men today. He now hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He has coached thousands of men one on one.
Connell Barrett pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one dating coaching
- Free intro call
- Podcast: How to Get a Girlfriend
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The CoachVouch take
Connell teaches a Radically Authentic approach to dating and rejects pickup tricks.
Best for successful, introverted men who want to flirt with confidence and find a girlfriend.
Common questions
How much does Connell Barrett charge?
Coaching with Connell runs $100 to $150 an hour. Message Connell from this page for an exact quote.
What does Connell Barrett help with?
Connell Barrett helps with knowing what to say and how to flirt, approaching women and getting numbers, getting more quality matches on dating apps and cutting down on ghosting and flaking.
Does Connell Barrett use pickup tricks?
No. He teaches a Radically Authentic approach and avoids creepy pickup tricks.
How does Connell's coaching start?
It starts with a free call to find what is holding the client back. Then they build a personalized plan.
How do I contact Connell Barrett?
Send Connell a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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