Harry Wilmington
Men's dating coach offering one-on-one phone and video sessions
| Hourly rate range | $75 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men and Introverts |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Sessions | Online |
| Practice | Get Girls Academy |
Harry Wilmington is a men's dating coach. She helps men with approaching women, texting, online dating, and confidence. She has coached hundreds of men and builds action plans for their dating lives. She runs the Get Girls Academy membership community and hosts a podcast and a show. She also draws on her own experience as a dater and an introvert when she coaches.
What Harry helps with
Harry works with men on the day-to-day parts of dating. She also helps with the confidence and anxiety that hold men back when they meet women.
- Approaching women and starting conversations
- Reading signals to tell if a woman is interested
- Texting women and getting more replies
- Getting better results from online dating
- Raising self-esteem and lowering anxiety when approaching women
- Handling a specific situation with a woman
- Dating after a breakup
- Planning free or low-cost first dates
Who Harry works with
Harry coaches men who want help with dating. Some have a specific situation with a woman and need advice on what to do. Others want to build self-esteem, feel less anxious when approaching women, or get their dating lives on track.
How Harry works
Harry offers a one-hour coaching session by phone or audio-only video. She uses it to answer dating questions and help the client make a plan of action. She also runs Get Girls Academy, a membership community. It teaches approaching women, texting, online dating, confidence, and how to avoid common dating mistakes.
Background and qualifications
Harry Wilmington has worked as a men's dating coach for 20 years. She has coached hundreds of men and helped them build plans to improve their dating lives and confidence. She calls herself a relationship observationalist. She hosts the Dating Convos podcast and writes a blog with posts on first dates, building a woman's interest, and dating after a breakup. She also offers e-books, including one on texting. She shares insights from her own years as a dater and an introvert.
Harry Wilmington pricing
Programs and services
- One-hour one-on-one coaching session by phone or video
- Get Girls Academy membership community
- Free e-book on texting
- Dating Convos podcast
- e-Books
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The CoachVouch take
Harry combines 20 years of coaching men with her own experience as an introvert who dated.
Best for men who want direct advice on approaching women, texting, and building dating confidence.
Common questions
How much does Harry Wilmington charge?
Coaching with Harry runs $75 to $150 an hour. Message Harry from this page for an exact quote.
What does Harry Wilmington help with?
Harry Wilmington helps with approaching women and starting conversations, reading signals to tell if a woman is interested, texting women and getting more replies and getting better results from online dating.
Does Harry Wilmington coach online?
Sessions are online.
How does a coaching session with Harry Wilmington work?
Each session lasts one hour by phone or audio-only video. Harry answers dating questions and helps the client build a plan of action.
What is Get Girls Academy?
It is a membership community for men that Harry runs. It covers approaching women, texting, online dating, confidence, and avoiding common dating mistakes.
How do I contact Harry Wilmington?
Send Harry a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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