Dating coaches for breakups and heartbreak

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Compare 139 dating coaches who focus on breakups and heartbreak. Besides breakups and heartbreak, the most common focus areas are couples and marriage, dating for women, online dating and apps and dating after divorce. They most often work with women, men and couples. Most charge $90 to $175 per hour or session.

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Jen Solin, dating coach

Jen Solin

Dating and life coach for lesbian, queer and nonbinary people

Jen Solin is a dating and life coach for lesbian, queer and nonbinary people, and their allies. She is also Outreach Director and facilitator at Conscious Girlfriend Academy, where she talks with hundreds of lesbians each month and hosts support groups on dating and heartbreak. She coaches one-on-one in English and Spanish. Her work covers heartbreak, divorce, dating again and new life chapters. She also helps clients write dating profiles and created a deck of lesbian love and connection cards.

$90 to $230 an hour
LGBTQ datingBreakups and heartbreakDating after divorce
Adele Currin, dating coach in Washington

Adele Currin

Relationship coach for professionals facing breakups and big decisions in Washington · Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Adele Currin is a relationship coach in Washington, DC. She helps professionals who feel stuck in their relationships. Some want to reconnect, some need to make a hard choice, and some want to separate with kindness. Adele is a former Registered Nurse and holds a Duke integrative health coaching certification. She is also certified in Conscious Uncoupling and Rapid Transformational Therapy. Her work centers on action, not only talk.

$200 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Amy North, dating coach in Vancouver

Amy North

Dating and relationship coach for women in Vancouver, Canada · Vancouver, Canada · Online

Amy North is a dating and relationship coach and best-selling author based in Vancouver, Canada. He helps women find and keep a lasting relationship. His online programs, Text Chemistry and The Devotion System, have sold 100,000 copies. He has more than five years of coaching experience and has worked with clients locally and around the world. He holds a degree in Social Psychology. His focus areas are dating, marriage, breakups and divorce.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsBreakups and heartbreak
Andrew Gung, dating coach in Australia

Andrew Gung

Men's dating coach in Australia, in person and online · Australia · Online and in person

Andrew Gung is the founder and CEO of Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching business in Australia. The team helps men with approach anxiety, dating apps, texting and building confidence. Since 2018, they have coached over 700 men. Coaching runs in person in Melbourne, Sydney, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, and online across the country. The team includes coaches, psychologists and mindset experts, and the programs reject pickup tactics in favor of psychology.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Carla Romo

Dating and relationship coach in Philadelphia for women and men · Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States · Online

Carla Romo is a dating and relationship coach in Philadelphia who helps women and men with dating, breakups and life goals. She is an ICF Professional Certified Coach and has worked with over 1,000 clients. She is an international speaker and wrote the book Caontagious Love. Before coaching, she worked in TV and went through burnout, which shaped her work on codependency and burnout. She coaches by phone or video, one-on-one or in groups.

$125 to $200 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsAttachment styles

Caryn Davis

Matchmaker and dating coach for busy professionals across the U.S. and Canada · United States · Online

Caryn Davis is a certified matchmaker and dating coach who helps busy professionals find a quality match for a long-term relationship. She runs Exquisite Elite Matchmaking, where she finds matches for clients and also coaches men and women one on one. She coaches singles by video anywhere in the U.S. and Canada. She also hosts the EEM Club Podcast. Clients get homework between sessions, and a free 15 minute consultation comes first.

$100 to $160 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesBreakups and heartbreak
Charlene Byars, dating coach

Charlene Byars

Dating and relationship coach for single women

Charlene Byars is a dating and relationship coach for single women. She helps women build self-love and confidence so they can date with clarity and find the right partner. She has coached hundreds of women over more than 20 years. Her work covers healing from past breakups and improving how women relate to themselves and their partners. She teaches an approach called Conscious Dating and draws on polarity and masculine and feminine energy.

$90 to $230 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreakDating after divorce

Chase Amante

Dating coach for men who want to attract women · United States · Online

Chase Amante is a dating coach for men. She founded the Girls Chase website in 2008 after men on large seduction forums asked her for advice. The site teaches approaching women, attraction, conversation, dating, texting and online dating. She created the One Date system and The Dating Artisan course. Men can also book phone or live coaching with a Girls Chase coach. The site reports over 64 million readers.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupApproach anxiety and confidence
Christopher Louis, dating coach in Los Angeles

Christopher Louis

Dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles · Los Angeles

Christopher Louis is a certified dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles. He works with men and women on dating, relationships, and confidence. He is a former international model and professional tennis player. He founded Men.tality and hosts the Dating Intelligence podcast, which launched in April 2020. He has coached for over five years. His style is direct and built on real behavior, not dating clichés.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage

Dan Bacon

Dating coach for men, based on Australian time · Australia · Online

Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men. He founded Master Attraction and has given dating advice for over twenty years. He teaches men how to show non-physical traits that make women feel attracted. Members get monthly video lessons that cover 124 traits, plus a private community and an AI coach built on his advice. He also runs two-hour phone coaching calls by audio or video.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceBreakups and heartbreak
Dan Bacon, dating coach in Australia

Dan Bacon

Dating and relationship coach for men, based in Australia · Australia

Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men and the founder of The Modern Man. He helps men meet women, get a girlfriend, improve a relationship, or win back an ex. The Modern Man began in 2005. Dan has coached more than 100 men by phone to get an ex girlfriend or wife back. He teaches a natural, genuine style of attraction instead of pickup tricks.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates
Dawn A. Ross, dating coach in Port St. Lucie

Dawn A. Ross

Relationship and life coach in Port St. Lucie, Florida · Port St. Lucie, Florida, United States · Online and in person

Dawn A. Ross is a relationship, life and family coach in Port St. Lucie, Florida. She works with couples and individuals on communication, intimacy and finances in their relationships. She also focuses on narcissistic abuse, helping people spot it and leave. Before coaching, she worked in corporate IT abroad and practiced natural healing in Germany and Austria. She founded Thoughtward Academy and coaches clients around the world by video.

$80 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Dominic Decker, dating coach in Berlin

Dominic Decker

Relationship and anxiety coach and counsellor in Berlin, Germany · Berlin, Germany · Online and in person

Dominic Decker is a coach and counsellor who helps individuals and couples think clearly when a relationship is under strain or has just ended. He is based in Berlin and works online too. He has worked since 2001 in social services, education and therapy. He has coached and counselled hundreds of one-on-one clients and couples. He runs Anxiety Master, which focuses on how stress affects judgment during relationship decisions.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Donna Barnes, dating coach in New York

Donna Barnes

Dating, relationship and breakup coach in New York · New York, New York, United States · Online

Donna Barnes is The Love Coach. She coaches people on dating, relationships and breakups. She has worked with hundreds of clients since 2007 and holds a New York University life and love coach certification. Before coaching, she co-hosted 205 episodes of a talk show about sex and relationships and wrote a magazine column. She also wrote the book Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships and hosts the Broken to Brave video podcast. Clients can reach her by phone or video, including nights and weekends.

$110 to $200 an hour
Breakups and heartbreakLGBTQ datingCouples and marriage
Donna Piper, dating coach

Donna Piper

Love coach and Akashic Records healer for women healing relationship trauma

Donna Piper is a love coach and Akashic Records healer who helps women heal old trauma and build healthy relationships. She has 20 years of experience. Before coaching, she earned an MA in Dance Movement Psychotherapy with a focus on PTSD. She is certified in NLP, EFT, Reiki, and Yoga Nidra. Her goal is to support 1000 women using a system that shifts relationship patterns. She also runs meditation retreats.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesBreakups and heartbreak
Elle Wilson, dating coach

Elle Wilson

Dating coach for ambitious singles, online and offline

Elle Wilson is a certified dating coach who helps ambitious singles date with more skill and more fun. She founded Met Through Friends, a company that helps singles meet offline, and has hosted thousands of single people at in-person events. She has worked with 60+ dating clients. She pairs a Stanford management science background with 10 years in hospitality to build a strategic approach to dating.

$75 to $145 an hour
Online dating and appsBreakups and heartbreakApproach anxiety and confidence

Frank Kermit

Dating and relationship coach for singles and couples in Montreal · Montreal, Quebec, Canada · Online

Frank Kermit is a dating and relationship coach in Montreal who helps singles and couples with love, sex and dating. He has coached for 25 years and wrote over 20 books and 25+ audio programs. He is the official coach of the Absolute Bachelor Club matchmaking service. He teaches his own Emotional Needs Analysis system. His clients come from Canada, the USA, Australia, Asia, Europe and the Middle East. He also coaches weight loss accountability.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menCouples and marriageMatchmaking
Harry Wilmington, dating coach

Harry Wilmington

Men's dating coach offering one-on-one phone and video sessions · Online

Harry Wilmington is a men's dating coach. She helps men with approaching women, texting, online dating, and confidence. She has coached hundreds of men and builds action plans for their dating lives. She runs the Get Girls Academy membership community and hosts a podcast and a show. She also draws on her own experience as a dater and an introvert when she coaches.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence
Holly McCusker, dating coach

Holly McCusker

Relationship and emotional intelligence coach for ambitious professionals

Holly McCusker is a relationship and emotional intelligence coach who helps ambitious professionals understand the patterns behind how they date and connect. She focuses on attachment, nervous system responses, and partner selection. Before starting her private practice, she worked at Tawkify, the largest matchmaking agency in the US, as a matchmaker and coach. She also led the build of Tawkify's internal coaching program. She created the 5R Breakup Recovery Method and the 5P Conscious Masculinity Framework.

$90 to $230 an hour
Attachment stylesBreakups and heartbreakMatchmaking
Jane Neves, dating coach

Jane Neves

Divorce and relationship coach with a banking and wellbeing background

Jane Neves is a relationship and divorce coach who runs The Shine Coach. She helps people get through divorce, heal after a breakup, and build stronger relationships. She also coaches weight loss and healthy habits. Jane began her career in banking in 1980 and has coached since 2008. She worked as a Health and Wellbeing Coach for HSBC. She has been through a divorce herself, so she knows the emotional, money, and practical side of it.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Jill Rhodes Harvey, dating coach

Jill Rhodes Harvey

Relationship and dating coach for women over 50 · Online

Jill Rhodes Harvey is a relationship and dating coach who works with women over 50. She helps women who are divorced, widowed or single and facing big life changes. Her sessions cover emotional intimacy, communication skills, family dynamics and friendships. She trained in counselling and emotional intelligence in 2013. In 2015 she was named one of the top ten UK relationship coaches for the over 40s. She coaches by phone, email, Skype or Zoom, so she works with women worldwide.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for womenDating after divorceDating over 40
Jillian Turecki, dating coach in New York

Jillian Turecki

Relationship coach and author for women, based in New York · New York, United States

Jillian Turecki is a relationship coach who helps women improve their love lives. She also works with couples. She has coached for more than 20 years. She wrote the books It Begins with You and Rewrite Your Story. She hosts the Jillian on Love podcast, which has more than 400 episodes. Her coaching starts with the relationship a client has with herself. Her private 1:1 and couples coaching is currently full, with a waitlist open.

$100 to $180 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Kait Warman

Christian dating coach, author and podcast host in Nashville · Nashville, Tennessee, United States

Kait Warman is a dating coach for Christian singles. He runs Heart of Dating in Nashville with his co-host JJ Tomlin. He is also an author and podcast host, and he started his podcast in early 2018. Kait dated for 18 years in the age of dating apps and ghosting, and he draws on that time in his coaching. His teaching is grounded in Scripture and covers both men and women.

$80 to $140 an hour
Faith-based datingBreakups and heartbreakOnline dating and apps
Kate Mansfield, dating coach in United Kingdom

Kate Mansfield

Dating and relationship coach for high achievers in the UK · United Kingdom

Kate Mansfield is a dating and relationship coach in the UK. She helps high achievers, including leaders, artists, celebrities and athletes, with love, confidence and performance. She has coached for 15 years and advised corporations and high profile clients. Before coaching she worked in artist and celebrity management with A-list talent. She is also a couples and family therapist.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage

Lauren Lowe

Dating coach for single men, based in San Francisco · San Francisco, California, United States · Online and in person

Lauren Lowe is a dating coach in San Francisco who helps single men find love and build lasting relationships. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 15 years in mental health. She still runs a psychotherapy practice and uses EMDR in her work. Her coaching covers dating apps, texting, first dates, attachment styles and heartbreak. She coaches men in person and online across the country.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Marni Battista

Dating and relationship coach for women in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

Marni Battista is a dating and relationship coach who helps successful women find lasting, loving partnerships. She founded Dating with Dignity and The Institute for Living Courageously in Los Angeles. She holds a Master's Degree in Education and a coaching certification from the International Coaching Federation. She was married for 17 years, divorced, and dated again before she remarried. That path led her to build a process for women who keep ending up with unavailable men.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Dating after divorce
Micah Lambert, dating coach in Austin

Micah Lambert

Men's relationship coach in Austin, Texas · Austin, Texas, United States

Micah Lambert is a men's relationship coach in Austin, Texas. He helps men recover from divorce and breakups, strengthen their bond with a partner, or find and commit to a life partner. He spent over 25 years leading teams, including as CEO and owner of a large construction company. He also sold five companies of his own. He studied psychology and hypnosis and is certified in NLP and addiction therapy.

$110 to $200 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceCouples and marriage

Monica Marie Braun

Christian dating coach for Catholic singles, with matchmaking and events · Wisconsin, United States

Monica Marie Braun is a Christian relationship coach for single men and women. She founded Soul to Soul Coaching and created the Intentional Dating & Discernment Method, which is built on Catholic teaching and Ignatian spirituality. She also offers matchmaking and hosts speed dating events. She lives in Southeastern Wisconsin and taught English for 10 years.

$80 to $140 an hour
Faith-based datingMatchmakingBreakups and heartbreak
Morgan Anderson, dating coach in United States

Morgan Anderson

Relationship coach for women building secure attachment and self-worth · United States · Online

Morgan Anderson is a licensed clinical psychologist who coaches women on dating, relationships and self-worth. She helps clients understand their attachment style and build secure, healthy relationships. She started practicing as a psychologist in 2017 and spent two years in private practice before moving her work online. Relationship Method through courses and an 8-week program.

$125 to $245 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesBreakups and heartbreak
Nike Folagbade, dating coach in Nigeria

Nike Folagbade

Relationship and marriage coach for singles and couples in Nigeria · Nigeria

Nike Folagbade is a relationship and marriage coach in Nigeria. She helps singles, engaged people and married couples heal from past hurt and build lasting relationships. She started an online platform in 2013 that teaches singles about healthy relationships and overcoming sexual addictions. She has worked with clients for over ten years and has written over seven books. She is a SYMBIS facilitator who prepares engaged and married couples for marriage. Her work is faith-based.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreakFaith-based dating
Paige Dempsey, dating coach

Paige Dempsey

Dating and relationship coach for women 35 and over

Paige Dempsey is a dating and relationship coach for women 35 and over. She helps clients who feel anxious, stuck or worn out by modern dating. Paige is a former lawyer, small business owner and non-profit professional. She came to coaching as a client after a divorce. She holds three coaching certifications, in feminist, deep dive, and dating and relationship coaching. Her signature method is S.L.O.W. Dating, and she offers an eight-week 1:1 program.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsDating after divorce
Pat Stedman, dating coach

Pat Stedman

Dating and relationship coach for men

Pat Stedman is a dating and relationship coach for men. He has coached 375+ men and has 11+ years of coaching experience. He built his own approach after 8 years of studying dating and relationships. He created The 3 Pillars of Attraction Self-Audit, a diagnostic that breaks attraction into Preselection, Persona and Personality. He also writes a newsletter read by over 6,500 men. It covers dating, marriage and relationships.

$70 to $125 an hour
Dating for menCouples and marriageAttachment styles
Riana Milne, dating coach

Riana Milne

Dating, relationship and trauma recovery coach for singles and couples · Online

Riana Milne is a life, dating and relationship coach who helps singles and couples heal childhood trauma and love trauma. She is also a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with more than 27 years in practice. She has coached clients around the world for more than 40 years. She teaches her trademarked Watch Me! Mindset for Success. She also created RianaAI, a video coaching avatar trained in her methods that works in more than 175 languages.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenBreakups and heartbreak
Sandeeip Boggra, dating coach

Sandeeip Boggra

Relationship and life coach for singles, married couples and divorce

Sandeeip Boggra is a relationship and life coach who helps singles, married people and those facing divorce. He founded Someone Listening in 2012 and trained at Robbins-Madanes Training under Tony Robbins. He started his career at McKinsey & Co. and holds an MBA and a Chartered Accountant qualification. He has served clients in 35+ countries and appeared on TV in India on Zee Business and ET Now Swadesh.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Shana James

Love and dating coach for people over 40

Shana James is a love and dating coach who works with men and women over 40. She helps people who are dating, healing from divorce or heartbreak, or trying to bring more intimacy into a long-term relationship. She wrote Honest Sex, hosts two podcasts, and gave a TEDx talk on the divide between men and women. She holds a Master's in Psychology.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating after divorceDating over 40Breakups and heartbreak
Stephanie Rigg, dating coach in New South Wales

Stephanie Rigg

Relationship coach for anxious attachment and breakups, host of On Attachment podcast · New South Wales, Australia · Online

Stephanie Rigg is a relationship coach who helps people heal anxious attachment and build secure relationships. She began her career in corporate law before moving into coaching, podcasting, and online education. She hosts the On Attachment podcast, which has over 10 million downloads. She also teaches online courses and writes a weekly newsletter. She is based on the South Coast of New South Wales, Australia, and works with clients worldwide.

$100 to $160 an hour
Attachment stylesBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Stephen Grosch, dating coach in Arizona

Stephen Grosch

Men's dating coach in Arizona for anxiety, confidence and online dating · Arizona, United States

Stephen Grosch is a men's dating coach in Arizona. Stephen helps men who feel anxious around women, struggle to keep conversations going, get friend-zoned, or get no results from dating apps. Neil Strauss, author of The Game, hired Stephen as an Executive Dating Coach. Stephen trained men full-time in Los Angeles for years. Stephen now coaches one-on-one and practices in Arizona day game and night game spots.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Adrienne Everheart

Feminine energy dating and relationship coach for women · United States

Adrienne Everheart is a dating and relationship coach who helps women build lasting love. He teaches a method he created called the Feminine Energy Mindset Method, or FEMM. His work covers dating again, breakups, separation, pending divorce and winning back a partner. He sells scripts, courses and a card deck, and he offers private coaching. He also runs an AI tool called Adrienne-ish that answers questions using his own course material.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreakDating after divorce
Dario van der Kraken, dating coach in London

Dario van der Kraken

Gay dating and relationship coach for gay men, online from London · London, United Kingdom · Online

Dario van der Kraken is a gay dating and relationship coach based in London. He helps gay men build healthy, stable relationships. His clients deal with love addiction, toxic relationships, anxiety in love and breakups. He is Italian and calls himself a Londoner at heart. He spent his 20s in painful relationships, and therapy helped him change his patterns. All sessions run online, mostly on Zoom.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menLGBTQ datingBreakups and heartbreak

Frances Kelleher

Dating and life coach in Ireland · Ireland

Frances Kelleher is a dating and life coach in Ireland. She helps people find the right partner and build confidence. She created a three step method called Find the 1 with 3. She is the only Mars Venus Gender Intelligence Coach in Ireland and studied under John Gray. She is the resident dating expert on Spin South West radio and writes a column for RSVP magazine.

$90 to $230 an hour
Breakups and heartbreakApproach anxiety and confidence
Grace Anderson, dating coach in Blackpool

Grace Anderson

Relationship and breakup recovery coach in Blackpool, England · Blackpool, England, United Kingdom

Grace Anderson is a relationship coach in Blackpool, England. She helps women recover from breakups and divorce, and she coaches singles and couples on their relationships. She also works with professionals and executives on goals, confidence and stress. Before coaching, she was a Headteacher at Emotan College in Benin City, Nigeria, and later led English departments in London schools. She retrained as an NLP Practitioner after she retired.

$166 to $332 per hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage

Jonathon Aslay

Mid-life dating and relationship coach for women · United States · Online

Jonathon Aslay is a dating and relationship coach for mid-life women. He runs Understand Men Now, which offers one-on-one coaching, audio programs and workbooks. His topics include spotting commitment-ready men, finding the right men online and why men pull away. He wrote the book What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway? His work now also covers self-love, since he sees low self-worth as a common issue for singles.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Online dating and apps
Lisa Concepcion, dating coach in Florida

Lisa Concepcion

Dating and relationship coach for Type-A adults in Florida · Florida, United States · Online

Lisa Concepcion is a dating and relationship coach and the founder of LoveQuest Coaching in Florida. She works one on one with self-aware, success-minded, Type-A adults who keep repeating the same patterns in love. She helps them heal from breakups and divorce, work through codependency, repair relationships, and date with confidence. Her sessions run 60 minutes by phone or video. She blends Law of Attraction, Core Energy Coaching and Inner Child Healing into her work.

$110 to $200 an hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Lori Frison, dating coach in Wisconsin

Lori Frison

Relationship coach and licensed psychotherapist in Wisconsin · Wisconsin, United States

Lori Frison is a relationship coach and licensed psychotherapist in Wisconsin. She helps people find, keep and sometimes end relationships in a healthy way. She has worked in relationship health for over two decades. Before that, she was a fashion model in New York and appeared on a Paris Vogue cover. She built the Redefining Love program, a 12 week coaching program on the relationship you have with yourself.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreakAttachment styles
Melanie McCain, dating coach in Everett

Melanie McCain

Relationship, family and life coach in Everett, Washington · Everett, Washington, United States

Melanie McCain is a relationship, family and life coach in Everett, Washington. She works with individuals, couples and parents. She is a Master's level therapist who offers coaching to reach more clients. She has experience with narcissistic abuse, intimate partner violence and power and control tactics. She teaches clients how to protect themselves and how to make a safety plan. She also coaches on breakups, transitions and healthier relationships.

$125 to $295 per hour
Breakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Richard Strother, dating coach

Richard Strother

Dating coach for widowed and divorced men returning to dating · Online

Richard Strother is a dating coach for men who lost a wife or partner to death or divorce. He runs The Widower's Wingman. He is a widower himself and used his own return to dating to build his method. Before coaching, he spent over a decade as a teacher and trainer. He wrote the book Dating Doesn't Have to Suck and hosts free weekly Zoom sessions.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsDating after divorce

Rose Cecchetto

Relationship and mindset coach for people on the verge of a breakup

Rose Cecchetto is a relationship and mindset coach who helps people on the verge of a breakup or divorce. He has coached men and women for over a decade. His work centers on releasing fear, building self-worth, and deciding with confidence whether to stay or go. He uses Positive Intelligence tools and runs four courses, including one that teaches kids ages 7 to 10 to handle emotions.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreakDating after divorce
Samantha Burns, dating coach in Boston

Samantha Burns

Marriage counselor and dating coach in the Boston area · Boston, Massachusetts, United States

Samantha Burns is a dating coach and licensed couples counselor in the Boston area. She helps singles and couples with dating, breakups and relationships. She is known as The Millennial Love Expert. She wrote two books, Breaking Up and Bouncing Back and Done with Dating: 7 Steps to Finding Your Person. She also runs the Breakup Bounce Back Program. Her work draws on cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and brain science.

$100 to $165 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreakApproach anxiety and confidence

Tori

Dating and intimacy coach for women in San Diego · San Diego, California, United States · Online and in person

Tori is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach in San Diego. She helps women and couples build self-awareness, communication skills and confidence for lasting relationships. She hosts a weekly podcast called The Art of Intimacy, which covers attachment theory and real dating stories. She also runs wellness retreats for women. Most of her coaching happens over video, and she also sees clients in person in San Diego.

$100 to $180 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Carol, dating coach in United States

Carol

Dating coach for Black women over 60 · United States

Carol runs Flipping Fabulously, a dating coaching practice for Black women over 60. She helps clients date with clarity, confidence and emotional safety, including after loss or a long marriage. Carol spent 40 years in healthcare fraud prevention, auditing and behavior analysis. She uses that skill to teach clients how to spot deception in profiles, messages and in person. She is also a widow after 48 years of marriage.

$100 to $225 an hour
Online dating and appsDating over 40Breakups and heartbreak

Elizabeth Golembiewski

Dating, relationship and spiritual coach in Austin, Texas · Austin, Texas, United States

Elizabeth Golembiewski is a dating, relationship and spiritual coach in Austin, Texas. She helps singles and couples build loving relationships. She has worked with clients on love and relationships for more than 15 years. Her coaching mixes transformational coaching, dating guidance and spiritual insight. She also created Love With Clarity, an online workshop series for singles and couples who are tired of ghosting, endless swiping and relationships that feel empty.

$100 to $165 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Lauren Mathues, dating coach

Lauren Mathues

Christian dating coach for faith-minded singles

Lauren Mathues is a dating coach for Christian singles. She runs Dating with Discernment and helps clients move from passive waiting to intentional dating. Her process centers on three shifts: Intentional dating, confident discernment, and wise decision-making. She teaches clients to define compatibility, judge character, and take initiative. She also co-hosts the Dating & Desire Podcast and offers speaking. Her own years as a single Christian shaped her approach.

$70 to $115 an hour
Faith-based datingBreakups and heartbreak

Mila Smith

Relationship and dating coach for men and women in the UK · United Kingdom · Online

Mila Smith is a UK relationship and dating coach who helps men and women build confidence and make wiser choices in love. She has more than 25 years of experience in relationship management. She is certified through the School of Matchmaking & Relationship Sciences. Her training draws on a 30+ year study from a leading relationship expert. She coaches online and tailors sessions to each client's challenges and goals.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps
Naomie Thompson, dating coach in United Kingdom

Naomie Thompson

Dating and relationship coach for accomplished women in the UK · United Kingdom

Naomie Thompson is a dating and relationship coach for women. She works with accomplished, independent women who want healthy, loving partnerships. She helps clients who are single, dating, divorced or unsure about their current relationship. She is lead trainer in the Rori Raye Feminine Energy Coach Training. She offers 1-2-1 coaching, courses and a podcast, and her first conversation with a new client is free.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsCouples and marriage
Neha Garg, dating coach in New Delhi

Neha Garg

Relationship and life coach in New Delhi · New Delhi, Delhi, India

Neha Garg is a relationship and life coach in New Delhi. She helps people build happy, healthy relationships and marriages. She also coaches people healing from heartbreak and people who struggle with being alone. Neha worked as a lawyer before she became a coach. She made the change after coaches helped her heal emotionally and find inner peace. She is a certified relationship coach and an NLP practitioner. Her first technique helps clients connect with their inner self.

$100 to $160 an hour
Breakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage

Glennda Donate

Relationship and life transition coach for women, online and in person · Online and in person

Glennda Donate is a life and relationship coach for women. She founded Badassery School. Her work centers on attachment healing, relationship patterns and life transitions like divorce and empty nesting. She adds nervous system and somatic work, and therapeutic art, to her sessions. She meets clients by video or in person, and offers half day and full day intensives. She has also worked with couples.

$90 to $230 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesBreakups and heartbreak
Bryan Goodwin, dating coach

Bryan Goodwin

Relationship and life coach for married and divorcing men

Bryan Goodwin is a relationship and life coach for men. She helps husbands who feel stuck in their marriage, and men going through a divorce. She has been married for 28 years and nearly lost her own marriage before she fixed it. She teaches a framework called the 4 Pillars of a Relaxed Male: Body, community, mind and soul. She also hosts a weekly podcast and runs group coaching and live events.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageDating for menBreakups and heartbreak

Corey Wayne

Dating and life coach for men, by phone or Zoom · United States · Online

Corey Wayne is a dating and life coach who mainly helps men with pickup, dating and relationships. She also coaches on life and peak performance topics like career, wealth creation, sales training and leadership. She wrote the books How To Be A 3% Man and Mastering Yourself. Sessions run one hour by phone or Zoom, audio only.

$100 to $165 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsBreakups and heartbreak
Jeff Campbell, dating coach in Las Vegas

Jeff Campbell

Relationship coach for divorced dads and men after breakups · Las Vegas, Nevada, United States · Online

Jeff Campbell is a relationship coach who helps men through breakups, separation and divorce, including divorced dads. He offers live one-on-one sessions by Zoom or phone and custom video answers. He spent more than 20 years as a leader at Whole Foods Market. In 2016 he founded the Middle Class Dad blog, which now reaches over 60,000 readers a month. He also consults on blogging and site traffic.

$100 to $200 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceBreakups and heartbreak
Julie Vogler, dating coach

Julie Vogler

Relationship and communication coach for women in one-sided relationships

Julie Vogler is a certified relationship coach who helps women in one-sided relationships. She works with women who feel alone in a partnership with an emotionally distant man. She also coaches single women, newly broken up women and heartbroken women. Her sessions use a present centered model to build new awareness and practices. Her own site also offers couple's dance, communication work and writing and editing services. She calls herself a Connection Specialist.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Loraine Wiese, dating coach in Littleton

Loraine Wiese

Relationship coach for infidelity and marriage crisis recovery in Colorado · Littleton, Colorado, United States

Loraine Wiese is a relationship coach who helps couples and individuals recover from infidelity and marriage crisis. She works with people who want to end their relationship and people who want to mend it. She is a retired health care manager based in Littleton, Colorado. She created the Life After the Affair website and runs 4 virtual support groups alongside her coaching. She is also trained in Reiki.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Patty Martin-Guerra

Christian dating and life coach for single women over 40

Patty Martin-Guerra is a Christian life coach for single women over 40. He helps women heal after divorce, let go of old patterns, and meet the right man. His method has worked with hundreds of women. He runs the Mujer Renuévate podcast in Spanish and the Rising After Divorce podcast. He also offers a healing membership and women's retreats. His own story began with years of dating apps that brought clarity but no real connection.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating over 40Dating after divorceOnline dating and apps
Susan McCord, dating coach in Vancouver

Susan McCord

Dating and relationship coach for men and women in Vancouver · Vancouver, Canada

Susan McCord runs Dear Sybersue and coaches men and women on dating and relationships. She also writes an advice column and hosts a YouTube advice show with 16.5K subscribers. Her coaching covers online dating, breakups, divorce, and building self-esteem. She has been featured on CBC News, The Vancouver Sun, and Metro Newspaper. She has also appeared on radio and TV shows in Vancouver and Toronto.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps
Susan Winter, dating coach in New York City

Susan Winter

Dating and relationship coach in New York City · New York City, New York, United States

Susan Winter is a relationship coach in New York City who helps people find and keep love. She works on dating problems, relationship challenges and inner confidence. She has coached since 2000. Before that she worked as an opera singer, a TV anchor and a corporate spokeswoman. She wrote the bestselling book Older Women/Younger Men and also wrote Breakup Triage. She speaks at events and appears often in national media.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating over 40Breakups and heartbreakOnline dating and apps
Adrienne Wavre, dating coach in Lausanne

Adrienne Wavre

Relationship coach for single moms in Lausanne, Switzerland · Lausanne, Canton of Vaud, Switzerland

Adrienne Wavre is a relationship and life coach in Lausanne, Switzerland. She helps single moms leave behind the patterns of past love relationships and build a healthy partnership with confidence. She spent 25 years working in communication before coaching. She holds a Master in Communications, Marketing and Public Relations. She also founded Independent Women Love Life, a coaching practice for women who keep landing in difficult relationships.

$171 to $228 per hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreak

Ali Jackson

Dating and relationship coach for women, host of a dating podcast · United States · Online

Ali Jackson is a dating and relationship coach who helps women with their love lives. She runs the Finding Mr. Height brand and hosts a podcast of the same name. Her coaching covers dating app profiles, dating anxiety, and clear communication of needs. She offers one-on-one coaching, monthly programs, and small group programs on topics like dating app revamps and anxious attachment. She builds her advice on her own time spent dating.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsAttachment styles
Anna Elizabeth, dating coach in New York

Anna Elizabeth

Relationship, dating and manifestation coach with 10 years of experience · New York, United States · Online

Anna Elizabeth is a relationship and dating coach who also teaches manifestation and spiritual growth. She has coached for 10 years. She helps clients present themselves better on dates, build self esteem, find the right people and keep those relationships going. She has studied psychology but is not a therapist. She runs Magic and Miracles and goes live on YouTube twice a week. Her coaching is direct and blunt, and she uses one hour sessions.

$100 to $165 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenBreakups and heartbreak
Chris Gillis, dating coach in Los Angeles

Chris Gillis

Emotional intelligence dating coach for men in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

Chris Gillis is a dating coach for men in Los Angeles. He runs Consultant Chris and teaches emotional intelligence, confidence and real connection with women. His clients are men who feel stuck, lonely or invisible in dating. He built his own system after a painful breakup and years of app burnout. Coaching includes one-on-one sessions, live role-playing, bootcamps and an emotional intelligence masterclass. He also writes weekly blog articles on texting, confidence and breakups.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceOnline dating and apps
Christina Lin, dating coach

Christina Lin

Betrayal trauma and relationship recovery coach

Christina Lin is a recovery and relationship coach who helps people heal after the discovery of a partner's unwanted sexual behaviors. She runs Join The Middle Space Coaching. She holds a Master's degree in counseling and is a certified betrayal trauma specialist coach. She works with clients one on one and in groups. Her focus is helping clients rebuild safety, identity and peace after betrayal trauma.

$100 to $160 an hour
Breakups and heartbreak
Emily Sirona, dating coach in Michigan

Emily Sirona

Dating and relationship coach for anxious attachment and breakups in Michigan · Michigan, United States

Emily Sirona is a dating and relationship coach in Michigan who helps people heal anxious relationship patterns and recover after breakups. She also works as a somatic trauma healing coach. She has more than 15 years of training and experience in nervous system healing. Her work targets patterns at the nervous system level, not only in the thinking mind. She serves ADHD, neurodivergent, highly sensitive and empathic people.

$100 to $160 an hour
Attachment stylesBreakups and heartbreakOnline dating and apps

Growing Self

Counseling and coaching practice for dating, life and career in Denver · Denver, Colorado, United States

Growing Self is a counseling and coaching practice in Denver, Colorado. It helps singles and couples with dating, relationships and heartbreak. It also offers life coaching and career coaching. Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby leads the practice, and a team of coaches and therapists works with clients. The team also runs the Love, Happiness & Success blog and podcast. It offers a coaching certification program for therapists.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Hazel Beckett, dating coach

Hazel Beckett

Dating and life coach for professional women

Hazel Beckett is a dating and life coach who works one on one with women who want a lasting love relationship. She holds an International Coaching Federation accreditation and is also a Theta healer and Colour Mirrors Practitioner. Her sessions start with self-love and how a client wants to feel in a relationship. She also shares the road map that led her to her own deepest loving relationship. She offers a free 30 minute intro session.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreak
Mark Langford, dating coach

Mark Langford

Midlife relationship coach for men and women over 40

Mark Langford is a relationship coach who helps men and women in midlife find and keep love and intimacy. He has more than a decade of experience and has coached over a thousand clients. His work covers self-esteem, anxiety around the opposite sex, online dating, boundaries, heartbreak and infidelity. He also works on communication and conflict resolution in lasting relationships. Clients start with a consultation.

$90 to $230 an hour
Online dating and appsDating over 40Breakups and heartbreak
Mitzi Bockmann, dating coach in New York

Mitzi Bockmann

Relationship and life coach in New York City · New York, New York, United States

Mitzi Bockmann is a certified life coach in New York City who coaches people on their relationships and their lives. She has worked with hundreds of men and women over 10 years. Her sessions focus on getting clear about what is happening in a relationship, deciding what the client wants from it, and building a plan to get there. She compares therapy to archeology and coaching to architecture, because coaching builds a life from where the client is today.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Nicole Colantoni, dating coach in Australia

Nicole Colantoni

Trauma-informed dating and relationship coach for singles and couples · Australia

Nicole Colantoni is a trauma-informed dating and relationship coach in Australia. She works one-on-one with singles, couples and people in relationships. Her coaching targets the patterns behind repeated bad dating choices, heartbreak and recurring fights. She hosts a podcast called The Great Lesson and offers courses on overcoming heartbreak, limerence and no-contact. She also gives clients text support and check-in messages between sessions.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsBreakups and heartbreak
Noemi Szeri, dating coach

Noemi Szeri

Dating and marriage coach for couples and singles, online worldwide · Online

Noemi Szeri is a dating and marriage coach who works with couples and singles. She helps couples build a loving and mature relationship. She helps singles heal old relationship wounds before they commit again. Her work brings the body into the conversation, and she calls her method embodied relational intelligence. She is a certified clinical hypnotherapist and a certified embodiment coach. She coaches online with clients across the globe.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Relationship Hero

On-demand relationship coaching for singles and couples, online · United States · Online

Relationship Hero is an on-demand relationship coaching company for singles and couples. It runs a team of coaches, and clients are matched with one based on their situation and goals. Coaches work on couples issues, breakups, and dating. Clients can talk by chat, phone, or video, and access is open 24/7. The company reports support for more than 100,000 people and more than 15,000 five-star reviews.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreakOnline dating and apps
Sally Dakdouk, dating coach

Sally Dakdouk

Life and relationship coach focused on healing from abusive relationships

Sally Dakdouk is a certified life and relationship coach who helps people heal from toxic and abusive relationships. She also coaches on communication between partners, spiritual direction, career path and personal habits. Her practice is called Lessons and Growth. She draws on her own experience with trauma when she works with clients. She has been a guest on The Matadoras Podcast, where she talked about healing from abusive relationships.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Shaun Michael

Dating and pickup coach for men in Manchester, UK · Manchester, United Kingdom · In person

Shaun Michael, known as Discovery, is a dating and pickup coach for men. He is the Master Coach and Global Coaching Director of the 3 Second Rule team, and he runs Success Academy in Manchester, UK. He teaches men to meet, attract and connect with women. He coaches live in bars and clubs, joins his students in their sets, and runs multi-day bootcamps in Manchester.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupApproach anxiety and confidence
Brittney Abrams, dating coach in Alabama

Brittney Abrams

Healing and self-worth coach for women after heartbreak or divorce · Alabama, United States

Brittney Abrams is a certified life coach who helps women recover after heartbreak, divorce or a breakup. She is the founder of Heal to Inspire to Shine, a practice based in Alabama. Her work centers on the relationship a woman has with herself. She helps clients let go of survival patterns, rebuild self-worth and learn to love again. Clients also know her as Coach B.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreak
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CoachFocusHourly rate range
Jen SolinLGBTQ dating and Breakups and heartbreak$90 to $230 an hour
Adele CurrinCouples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak$200 to $250 per hour
Amy NorthDating for women and Online dating and apps$100 to $225 an hour
Andrew GungDating for men and Online dating and apps$80 to $250 an hour
Carla RomoDating for women and Online dating and apps$125 to $200 an hour
Caryn DavisMatchmaking and Texting and first dates$100 to $160 an hour
Charlene ByarsDating for women and Breakups and heartbreak$90 to $230 an hour
Chase AmanteDating for men and Daygame and pickup$100 to $150 an hour
Christopher LouisDating for men and Dating for women$100 to $170 an hour
Dan BaconDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$80 to $250 an hour
Dan BaconDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$80 to $250 an hour
Dawn A. RossCouples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak$80 to $250 per hour
Dominic DeckerCouples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak$70 to $125 an hour
Donna BarnesBreakups and heartbreak and LGBTQ dating$110 to $200 an hour
Donna PiperDating for women and Attachment styles$100 to $160 an hour

Common questions

How much does a dating coach for breakups and heartbreak cost?

Most dating coaches charge $90 to $175 per hour or session.

What else do these dating coaches help with?

Common focus areas include couples and marriage, dating for women, online dating and apps and dating after divorce.

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