Tori
Dating and intimacy coach for women in San Diego
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $180 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Dating for womenCouples and marriageBreakups and heartbreakAttachment stylesConfidence and self-esteem |
| Works with | Women and Couples |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | San Diego, California, United States |
| Sessions | Online and in person |
| Practice | Haven Sisterhood |
Tori is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach in San Diego. She helps women and couples build self-awareness, communication skills and confidence for lasting relationships. She hosts a weekly podcast called The Art of Intimacy, which covers attachment theory and real dating stories. She also runs wellness retreats for women. Most of her coaching happens over video, and she also sees clients in person in San Diego.
What Tori helps with
Tori works with women who want to stop repeating old dating patterns and date with intention. She also helps couples and individuals build safety and connection in intimacy.
- Breaking old dating patterns
- Ending the habit of settling
- Healing from heartbreak and breakups
- Rebuilding self-worth and trust
- Getting clear on what you want and need in a partner
- Feeling safe and present in your body during intimacy
- Asking for what you want clearly
- Releasing shame around pleasure and desire
Who Tori works with
Tori coaches women who are done settling and want to date with intention. She also works with women healing from heartbreak and with couples who want deeper intimacy. Her intimacy work is open to anyone who wants to reconnect with desire and release shame.
How Tori works
Tori blends psychology-backed strategies with real-life experience. In dating coaching, she and the client find the beliefs and cycles that keep them stuck, then rewrite them. Intimacy coaching starts with feeling safe in your own body and moves at the client's pace. Clients also learn to name what they want and ask for it. Most sessions happen over video. Every new client can start with a free connection call.
Background and qualifications
Tori is a dating and intimacy coach based in San Diego. She hosts the weekly podcast The Art of Intimacy, which mixes psychology, attachment theory, communication and real dating experiences. She also leads immersive wellness retreats that bring women together. Her coaching combines psychology-backed methods with her own lived experience. Her email community has more than 200 women learning to date with confidence.
Tori pricing
Programs and services
- Dating coaching
- Intimacy coaching
- Wellness retreats for women
- Free connection call
- The Art of Intimacy podcast
Tori reviews
The CoachVouch take
Tori offers both dating coaching and intimacy coaching, plus a podcast and retreats for women.
Best for women who keep repeating the same dating patterns and want to date with intention.
Common questions
How much does Tori charge?
Coaching with Tori runs $100 to $180 an hour. Message Tori from this page for an exact quote.
What does Tori help with?
Tori helps with breaking old dating patterns, ending the habit of settling, healing from heartbreak and breakups and rebuilding self-worth and trust.
Does Tori coach online?
Tori is based in San Diego, California, United States. Sessions are online and in person.
Does Tori offer virtual sessions?
Yes. She works with women and couples in person in San Diego and virtually. Most of her coaching happens over video.
Does Tori work with couples?
Yes. Couples are welcome in her intimacy coaching, especially those who want to feel safer and more connected.
How do I contact Tori?
Send Tori a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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