Chris Gillis
Emotional intelligence dating coach for men in Los Angeles
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men |
| Based in | Los Angeles, California, United States |
| Practice | Consultant Chris |
Chris Gillis is a dating coach for men in Los Angeles. He runs Consultant Chris and teaches emotional intelligence, confidence and real connection with women. His clients are men who feel stuck, lonely or invisible in dating. He built his own system after a painful breakup and years of app burnout. Coaching includes one-on-one sessions, live role-playing, bootcamps and an emotional intelligence masterclass. He also writes weekly blog articles on texting, confidence and breakups.
What Chris helps with
Chris helps men who are successful at work but stuck in dating. He works on confidence, emotional skills and the habits that repeat the same dating mistakes.
- Feeling stuck or invisible with women
- Getting ghosted or seeing texts fade after a date
- Breaking repeated dating patterns
- Overthinking and self-doubt in relationships
- Approaching women and turning conversations into dates
- Spotting red flags and dating smarter
- Getting over a breakup
- Building emotional presence and people-pleasing recovery
Who Chris works with
Chris works with men who are smart and successful but struggle in dating. Some feel lonely or frustrated with apps. Others keep repeating the same mistakes or feel anxious about approaching women. He has also coached college-aged men.
How Chris works
Chris teaches a system built on emotional intelligence, self-worth and real attraction. He breaks social and dating skills into clear, practical steps. Coaching mixes private sessions, specific exercises and live role-playing practice. Topics include approach and attraction, turning conversation into dates, emotional intelligence for men, and red flag awareness. He also offers live bootcamps and events.
Background and qualifications
Chris grew up without his father, raised by his single mother and grandmother. He says fear of rejection held him back in his early dating years. After being cheated on by four long-term girlfriends, he rebuilt his boundaries, self-respect and emotional skills. He had spent an average of four hours a day on dating apps at that point. He turned those lessons into a coaching system for men who want lasting relationships.
Chris Gillis pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Emotional intelligence masterclass, up to two hours
- Live bootcamp and events
- Emotional intelligence coaching call
- Free consultation
- Matchmaking
Chris Gillis reviews
The CoachVouch take
Chris teaches dating through emotional intelligence and live role-playing practice, based on his own recovery from repeated heartbreak.
Best for successful men who feel stuck or lonely in dating and want step-by-step skills for lasting relationships.
Common questions
How much does Chris Gillis charge?
Coaching with Chris runs $100 to $150 an hour. Message Chris from this page for an exact quote.
What does Chris Gillis help with?
Chris Gillis helps with feeling stuck or invisible with women, getting ghosted or seeing texts fade after a date, breaking repeated dating patterns and overthinking and self-doubt in relationships.
Does Chris Gillis offer live practice?
Yes. His coaching includes live role-playing sessions and live bootcamps and events.
How do I contact Chris Gillis?
Send Chris a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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