Dating coaches for online dating and apps

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Compare 133 dating coaches who focus on online dating and apps. Besides online dating and apps, the most common focus areas are dating for men, texting and first dates, dating for women and approach anxiety and confidence. They most often work with men, women and professionals. Most charge $88 to $250 per hour or session.

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Alex León

Dating coach for introverted, analytical men who want to meet women in person · Austria · Online and in person

Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. He helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. He built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. His clients come from 22 countries. He also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of his clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup

Alex Social

Pickup and dating bootcamp coach for men, in person worldwide · In person

Alex Social is a dating and pickup coach who trains men in real social settings. He leads live bootcamp immersions in cities around the world. Students approach women in bars, clubs, parks and cafe districts with a coach at their side. Alex has coached students in the field 45 weekends a year since 2007. More than 600 men have joined his immersions since 2015. The programs also cover dating apps and personal feedback.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Alison Verge

Dating and relationship coach for professionals over 40

Alison Verge is a relationship and dating coach who helps busy professionals over 40 find lasting love. She runs Path2Love Coaching. She is a certified sexologist and co-author of "Radical Self Love." She also coaches couples who face a sudden shock, such as illness or disability, a challenge she knows from her own life. Her clients can meet a partner with or without dating apps.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsAttachment styles

Anwar White

Dating and relationship coach for Black and Brown women

Anwar White is a dating and relationship coach for Black and Brown women. He runs Get Your Guy Coaching and is known to clients as the Dating Fairy Godbrother. He teaches a dating strategy he built himself, plus inner work on boundaries and feminine energy. He hosts the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast, has been featured in Essence USA, and wrote the book Girl, Get Your Guy!

$70 to $125 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsCouples and marriage

Blaine Anderson

Matchmaker and dating coach for men in New York · New York, New York, United States · Online and in person

Blaine Anderson is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps men find girlfriends. He started Dating By Blaine in 2020 and has worked with more than 7,000 clients. He offers one-on-one matchmaking and coaching, both online and in person. He appeared on Shark Tank in Season 15, where Mark Cuban offered him a deal. He also has a YouTube channel with 137K subscribers and more than 1 million followers across social media.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsMatchmaking

Eddie Hernandez

Dating coach and dating photographer for men and women in the Bay Area · San Francisco, California, United States · Online and in person

Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach and dating photographer in the San Francisco Bay Area. He coaches men and women on dating apps and offline dating, in person or by video call. He also shoots natural dating photos for apps like Hinge and Bumble. His photos have run in the New York Times, Time and Vogue UK. He has lived in Los Angeles and New York, which shapes how he sees culture and dating.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Elle Wilson

Dating coach for ambitious singles, online and offline

Elle Wilson is a certified dating coach who helps ambitious singles date with more skill and more fun. She founded Met Through Friends, a company that helps singles meet offline, and has hosted thousands of single people at in-person events. She has worked with 60+ dating clients. She pairs a Stanford management science background with 10 years in hospitality to build a strategic approach to dating.

$75 to $145 an hour
Online dating and appsBreakups and heartbreakApproach anxiety and confidence

Erik Carlberg

Dating coach for men in Los Angeles, working worldwide · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

Erik Carlberg is a dating coach for men. He helps men of all ages and experience levels find love, build lasting relationships, and feel more at ease socially. He has coached for over fifteen years and works with a team. He wrote The Vortex of Love, a book on attracting women that took him three years to finish. He also trains people who want to become dating coaches. Clients work with him from all over the world.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Harry Wilmington

Men's dating coach offering one-on-one phone and video sessions · Online

Harry Wilmington is a men's dating coach. He helps men with approaching women, texting, online dating, and confidence. He has coached hundreds of men and builds action plans for their dating lives. He runs the Get Girls Academy membership community and hosts a podcast and a show. He also draws on his own experience as a dater and an introvert when he coaches.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

James Preece

Dating coach for men and women in the UK · Manchester, United Kingdom

James Preece is a dating coach in the UK who helps single men and women find lasting relationships. He has worked as a dating expert for 21 years. He has written 15 books on dating, confidence and attraction. He also coaches for dating agencies and online dating companies. He hosts a weekly dating podcast and runs singles events, speed dating nights and seminars across the UK. Men and women get different, tailored coaching approaches.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Jasbina Ahluwalia

Matchmaker and relationship coach for accomplished singles, South Asian focus

Jasbina Ahluwalia is a matchmaker and relationship coach who helps accomplished singles find a life partner. She runs Intersections Match and has a special focus on South Asian matchmaking. She spent nearly two decades in this work. Before that, she was a lawyer in San Francisco and Chicago. She works with men and women across the U.S. and in other countries.

$80 to $140 an hour
MatchmakingDating for menDating for women

Katy Clark

Matchmaker and dating coach for successful conservative singles · United States

Katy Clark is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps successful singles find a partner and date with more confidence. She spent 10 years matching exclusive clients at Cinqe Matchmaking before starting Dating with Katy. She keeps a personal network of tens of thousands of singles. Her work blends dating strategy with fashion and wellness. She has also been a featured trainer in SHAPE Magazine and ran a restaurant in China.

$110 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesOnline dating and apps

Kelsey Wonderlin

Dating coach and licensed therapist for women · United States

Kelsey Wonderlin is a dating coach for women. She is also a licensed therapist. She helps women build confidence, attract quality men, and feel secure in a new relationship. She has coached 4,000+ women and built a system from her own struggles with dating. Her advice has been featured in the NY Times, TIME, NBC and Cosmopolitan. She also shares daily tips with a following of 179K+ on social media.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

Kimberly Hill

Dating and relationship coach for men in Vancouver · Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

Kimberly Hill is a dating and relationship coach for men in Vancouver, Canada. Kimberly helps divorced and single men build confidence and find real connection. Before coaching, Kimberly worked in financial derivatives. Since then, Kimberly has coached more than 500 men one on one and built a community of over 160k people, including 70k+ YouTube subscribers. The main program is Dating Mastery for Men, a self-paced course with 49 lessons.

$90 to $160 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceOnline dating and apps

Kimmy Seltzer

Dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

Kimmy Seltzer is a dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles. She is a former therapist who also works as a style coach and matchmaker. She helps high-achieving singles and later-life daters stop overthinking and feel sure of themselves in real-world settings. She has been on Inside Edition, ABC7 in Los Angeles and The Tamron Hall Show, and she runs a retreat for women and men who are dating again in their second act.

$100 to $225 an hour
Online dating and appsDating over 40Matchmaking

Liza Cooper

Love and dating coach for women over 50 · United States · Online

Liza Cooper is a love and dating coach who helps women get back into dating, especially women over 50. She founded Love After 50 and is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. She leads online group workshops and offers private coaching. Her story about dating at 50 after a divorce drew over 1M views on TikTok. The New York Times also featured her mid-life divorce and her friendship with her ex.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsDating over 40

Ruth Schwartz

Dating coach and academy director for lesbian and queer women · United States · Online and in person

Ruth Schwartz is the director of Conscious Girlfriend Academy, an online school and community for lesbian, queer and non-binary people. She wrote the book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love, which has reached readers in 25 countries. Her academy teaches dating, love, attachment and healing from past heartbreak. She also runs a coach training and certification program and leads a team of certified coaches. Ruth hosts optional Deep Dive group coaching sessions for members.

$250 to $300 per session
LGBTQ datingOnline dating and appsBreakups and heartbreak

Scott Tsui

Relationship coach for gay men · Online

Scott Tsui is a relationship coach for gay men. He helps them find a lasting partner and get past the patterns that hold them back. He wrote the Amazon bestseller Lonely No More, and he writes a dating and relationship column for the San Francisco Bay Times. He teaches a method called the 3C Formula and runs the Gay Men Relationship Blueprint, an online course and community. He also coaches one on one.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menLGBTQ datingOnline dating and apps

Sophia Spallino

Matchmaker and dating coach for lesbian and queer women · United States

Sophia Spallino is a matchmaker and dating coach for lesbian and queer women. She runs Queer Women Rising and hosts a podcast by the same name. She founded The Queer Country Club, a dating platform for monogamous lesbian and queer women. She has worked in this field for five years. She offers private matchmaking, coaching sessions, and hosted in-person gatherings for single women. She is also a harpist who writes spiritual harp music.

$80 to $130 an hour
LGBTQ datingMatchmakingOnline dating and apps

St. Robert

Daygame and dating coach for men, in person and online · Online and in person

St. Robert is a dating and daygame coach who teaches men to approach and chat up women in everyday places like streets, cafes, malls and gyms. He has coached men for eight years, in person and online, in cities across North America, Europe and Latin America. He teaches a technical, step-by-step system and avoids copy and paste lines. He also hosts a podcast with more than 150 episodes and has business and team coaching training.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupTexting and first dates

Stephen Grosch

Men's dating coach in Arizona for anxiety, confidence and online dating · Arizona, United States

Stephen Grosch is a men's dating coach in Arizona. He helps men who feel anxious around women, struggle to keep conversations going, get friend-zoned, or get no results from dating apps. Neil Strauss, author of The Game, hired him as his Executive Dating Coach. Stephen trained men full-time in Los Angeles for years. He now coaches one-on-one and practices in Arizona day game and night game spots.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Alyssa Dineen

Dating coach and profile strategist for midlife adults in New York City · New York City, New York, United States

Alyssa Dineen is a dating coach and profile strategist in New York City. She helps adults in their forties and beyond date with more ease and safety on the apps. She built the Date Vanilla framework, which focuses on choosing steady, kind partners over flashy profiles. She also works as a stylist and hosts The Dating Lab podcast. Her clients can get a full profile overhaul, ongoing coaching, or a self-paced course.

$100 to $225 an hour
Online dating and appsTexting and first datesDating over 40

Amie Leadingham

Dating coach and online dating expert in Los Angeles and Las Vegas · Los Angeles, California, United States

Amie Leadingham is a dating and relationship coach who helps singles find lasting love. She works in Los Angeles and Las Vegas and is also an online dating expert and author. Her Conscious Dating programs help clients heal old beliefs about relationships that hold them back. She met the love of her life through this method. She also hosts two podcasts.

$100 to $175 an hour
Online dating and appsAttachment stylesTexting and first dates

Amy Schoen

Dating and relationship coach for marriage-minded singles over 40 · United States

Amy Schoen is a dating and relationship coach who helps marriage-minded men and women over 40 find lasting love. She runs Motivated to Marry and hosts a podcast with the same name. She has been a certified life coach since 2005. Her first marriage ended in her mid-thirties. She now teaches that plan to her clients.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating over 40Dating after divorceOnline dating and apps

April Braswell

Midlife dating coach for single women and men in Northern California · California, United States

April Braswell is a dating and relationship coach for single women and men in midlife who want a committed partner. She has coached singles since 2002. She also writes online dating profiles, speaks at events and has written books on online dating and dating again after divorce.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsDating after divorce

Bobbi Palmer

Dating coach for women over 40 and 50 · United States

Bobbi Palmer is a dating coach for women over 40 and 50. She founded Date Like a Grownup. She became a first-time bride at age 47 in 2006. She divorced in 2024 and now dates as a single woman again. She has helped thousands of women around the world with dating and self-love. She teaches a three-part approach that balances head and heart, and she runs a group program for women over 50.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating over 40Dating for womenDating after divorce

Christian

Dating coach for men, in German and English · Budapest, Hungary

Christian is a dating coach and pickup artist who helps men attract women without games or manipulation. He is based in Budapest and coaches in German and English. He is a certified NLP trainer with 15+ years of experience. He mixes pickup principles with psychology and NLP. He also films live infield videos that show his methods with real women.

$75 to $145 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Cold Approach

Dating coaching for men, in person and online · United States · Online and in person

Cold Approach is a dating coaching practice for men. It teaches men to meet women in person and through dating apps. The team has five coaches and has coached hundreds of students. It runs in-person bootcamps in US cities and offers 1-on-1 online coaching. It also does done-for-you work like photos, profile rewrites, and texting help. The co-founder has coached men for more than half a decade.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Connell Barrett

Dating coach for men in New York City · New York, NY, United States

Connell Barrett is a New York City dating coach who works with men. He helps them build confidence, flirt with ease, and meet women they want to date. His goal for clients is a girlfriend in 90 days or less. He hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He teaches an approach he calls Radically Authentic, and he avoids pickup tricks.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Diane Brandon Moody

Dating and relationship coach for women over 50 · United States

Diane Brandon Moody is a dating and relationship coach for women over 50. She runs Fiftysomething Love and hosts a podcast of the same name. She got married for the first time at age 58, and she teaches what she learned the hard way. Her method starts with calming the nervous system. Then she works on feminine energy. Last come the dating tactics, like writing the ad, going on dates and reading what is in front of you.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Online dating and apps

Elia Canu

Dating coach for busy tech men in Dallas · Dallas, Texas, United States · Online and in person

Elia Canu is a dating coach who helps busy men in tech find a partner and start a family. He runs Ideal Partner with coach Nela. The program uses a weekly plug and play system built for tech professionals. Elia has coached tech men for 5+ years. His clients include software engineers and product managers. Support covers dating profiles, Instagram profiles, messaging, and date practice.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

Elizabeth K

Dating and life coach for singles and dating app users · Italy · Online

Elizabeth K is a relationship, dating and life coach based in Italy. She helps singles, dating app users and people going through life changes. She has taught English for over 10 years and holds a double degree in Law and Commerce. That gave her a close view of what modern dating is like. She coaches on profiles, messaging, communication and confidence.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Jared Laurence

Dating coach for men in Chicago · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Jared Laurence, known as Psych, is a dating coach for men and the founder of Modern Success in Chicago. He teaches men how to start conversations with women, improve online dating results and build a strong social circle. He has mentored over 10,000 men and coached for 16+ years. His work has appeared on CBS, FOX, NBC, CNN and MTV. He also works as a motivational speaker and lifestyle consultant.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Julia Malakiman

In-person dating coach for shy, analytical men in Silicon Valley · San Jose, California, United States · In person

Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley. She works with shy, analytical men and engineers who want to get better at meeting and connecting with women. She has coached more than 500 men. All of her practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers, where she acts as a wing woman and gives live feedback.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Mairi Macleod

Dating coach for women over 50 using science-based strategy · Online

Mairi Macleod is a dating coach who helps women over 50 find a lasting relationship. She holds a PhD and works as a behavioural biologist. She runs Dating Evolved, which teaches women to use science to choose better partners. Her online course and group program cover mindset, online dating profiles, and where to meet men.

$70 to $130 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsDating over 40

Maria Avgitidis

Fourth-generation matchmaker for singles in New York · New York, New York, United States

Maria Avgitidis is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps singles find lasting relationships. She is a fourth-generation matchmaker and the CEO of Agape Match in New York. She also hosts the Ask a Matchmaker podcast. Her team learns each client's values, communication style, lifestyle and relationship patterns. Then the team vets and selects matches from a curated community. Agape Match also offers date coaching and online dating management.

$110 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingOnline dating and apps

Max

Online dating coach for app profiles and messaging in New York City · New York City, New York, United States · Online

Max is an online dating coach based in New York City who runs Match Up Online Dating Coaching. He helps clients pick the right apps, build strong profiles and message their matches. Max started at Coffee Meets Bagel in San Francisco, where he helped thousands of users improve their profiles. He has spent 5 years learning every major dating app and has coached hundreds of clients. Clients in the New York City area can also get photos shot by him.

$110 to $250 an hour
Online dating and appsTexting and first dates

Philippe Berry

Dating coach for men, with a focus on online and international dating

Philippe Berry is a dating coach who helps men meet women and find love. He holds a BSc in Cognitive Psychology and has worked in the dating field for over 10 years. He has reviewed 250+ dating sites and apps. He also runs a travel dating project about meeting women around the world. His blog covers dating culture in Colombia, Mexico and Brazil.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Ruby

Dating coach for good-hearted men in Southern California · Southern California

Ruby is a dating coach who helps good-hearted men get quality dates and find lasting love. Ruby runs Good Gentleman and has almost a decade of experience as a private dating coach. Ruby has also worked with It's Just Lunch and eHarmony. Ruby gave a TEDx talk on why getting the right date is so hard. Ruby also hosts meetups for men in Southern California and runs a free support community.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Stephen Manas

Dating confidence and acting career coach

Stephen Manas is a coach who works with actors on their careers and with dating clients on confidence and self-presentation. He is also an international actor, best known for his work on Ted Lasso. He has lived and worked in Europe, the US and Asia, and he once worked at Apple. His coaching grew from years of giving advice to friends and fellow actors. It later became a private practice with one-on-one and group work.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

The Asian Dating Coach

Dating coach for Asian and South Asian men in Austin · Austin, Texas, United States · Online and in person

The Asian Dating Coach helps single Asian and South Asian men date with confidence, in person or online. The coach works on mindset, self-confidence, anxiety, grooming and style, body language, first dates, dating apps and texting. Clients include software engineers, doctors, cybersecurity consultants and a few lawyers. The coach was a shy man who was never encouraged to date, and teaches the lessons learned from that path. Local coaching is offered in Austin, Texas.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Vee Mindful

Modern dating strategist for mature singles over 40 and 50 · United States · Online

Vee Mindful is a modern dating strategist who coaches mature singles over 40 and over 50 who want a real, lasting partner. Vee has more than 16 years of coaching experience. After a long marriage ended, Vee went on over 200 dates and spent 10 years studying the psychology of attraction and commitment. Vee created the From Situationship to Soulmate program and teaches a vetted protocol for choosing a partner.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsTexting and first dates

Vicki Pavitt

Love and dating coach for women in London · London, United Kingdom

Vicki Pavitt is a love, dating and relationship coach in London who helps women change how they date. She has coached for 12 years and has worked with more than 1,000 women. She is an NLP and EFT practitioner and an attachment styles expert. Her Wholehearted Dating work helps women spot old patterns and build safe, committed relationships.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesOnline dating and apps

Vincent

Dating app photographer and profile coach for men in Portland · Portland, Oregon, United States

Vincent is a dating app photographer and profile coach who helps men get more matches on Hinge, Tinder and Bumble. He runs Based Dating in Portland. He has rebuilt 100+ dating profiles for men in 10+ cities. He also works closely with Asian men and uses a culturally aware approach. His system covers photos, bios and strategy that turns matches into real dates.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and apps

Alex Social

Pickup and dating bootcamp coach for men, worldwide · In person

Alex Social coaches men in pickup and dating through the 4 Week Natural bootcamp. He runs 17-day live immersions in cities around the world, including Budapest, Lisbon, Koh Samui and New York. Students practice daily approaches, nightlife skills and dating-app work in real settings. More than 630 men have joined his immersions since 2015. Owen Cook brought him into Real Social Dynamics as an instructor.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Anina Green

Dating and relationship coach for women

Anina Green is a certified dating and relationship coach who helps women find a committed partner. She founded Upshot-Dating and holds a degree in Clinical Psychology and Counselling. She offers private consulting built on her own Upshot-Dating system. Her clients aim to go from single to engaged, and from an unclear situation to clarity and commitment. She also shares free emails, a blog, ebooks, audio and video materials.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsCouples and marriage

Carol

Dating coach for Black women over 60 · United States

Carol runs Flipping Fabulously, a dating coaching practice for Black women over 60. She helps clients date with clarity, confidence and emotional safety, including after loss or a long marriage. Carol spent 40 years in healthcare fraud prevention, auditing and behavior analysis. She uses that skill to teach clients how to spot deception in profiles, messages and in person. She is also a widow after 48 years of marriage.

$100 to $225 an hour
Online dating and appsDating over 40Breakups and heartbreak

Ed Bell

Dating and relationship coach for gay and bi men

Ed Bell is a certified dating and relationship coach who works with gay, bi and queer men. He runs Better Gay Dating and hosts a podcast on the topic. His focus is helping men get past the blocks that stop them from finding real love and connection. He teaches practical tools for apps and meeting people in person. He also works on self-worth and dating-related shame. He describes his style as part empathetic friend and part no-nonsense therapist.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsLGBTQ dating

Jasmine D

Dating and relationship coach in Toronto, Ontario · Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Jasmine D is a dating and relationship coach in Toronto, Ontario. She helps people find love, stop wasting time on dating apps, and build stronger relationships. She holds a psychology degree and an MBA. Her work centers on relational self-awareness, which means understanding yourself in order to understand how you relate to others. She also coaches clients on attachment styles, boundaries, and co-dependent dynamics.

$71 to $106 per hour
Online dating and appsAttachment styles

Kat Harris

Christian dating and relationship coach for single women of faith · United States · Online

Kat Harris is a Christian dating and relationship coach who helps single women of faith. She runs The Refined Woman, where she also hosts a podcast, speaks, and writes books. Her book Sexless in the City covers dating, desire and sex from a faith view. She offers one-on-one biblical guidance on dating, relationships, sexuality and calling. Clients can book a full coaching session or send a single question and get a short audio reply.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsFaith-based dating

Mila Smith

Relationship and dating coach for men and women in the UK · United Kingdom · Online

Mila Smith is a UK relationship and dating coach who helps men and women build confidence and make wiser choices in love. She has more than 25 years of experience in relationship management. She is certified through the School of Matchmaking & Relationship Sciences. Her training draws on a 30+ year study from a leading relationship expert. She coaches online and tailors sessions to each client's challenges and goals.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Rachel Burnham

Shidduch dating coach for marriage minded Orthodox singles · United States

Rachel Burnham is a shidduch dating coach who helps marriage minded singles in the Orthodox and frum world. She also guides parents and friends who support singles. Rachel dated for 14 years, with hundreds of men and thousands of dates. She uses that experience to help clients with dating profiles, choosing dates, date prep, and the later stages of a relationship. Her aim is to give clients useful tips within one session.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Ali Jackson

Dating and relationship coach for women, based in the USA · United States

Ali Jackson is a dating and relationship coach who helps women with their love lives. She runs the Finding Mr. Height brand and hosts a podcast of the same name. Her coaching comes from her own time looking for a partner. She teaches clients to name their needs, own their feelings, and say both directly. She offers one-on-one coaching, small group programs, and a paid Q&A service. She also sells text scripts for dating dilemmas.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsAttachment styles

Andrew Gung

Men's dating coach in Australia, in person and online · Australia · Online and in person

Andrew Gung runs Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching practice in Australia. The team helps men overcome approach anxiety, improve their online dating profiles and build confidence with women. Coaching started in 2018 and has reached more than 700 men. Sessions run in person in Sydney, Melbourne, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, or online. A consulting psychologist works alongside the coaches.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Brock Olsen

Dating coach in Chattanooga working with clients worldwide · Chattanooga, Tennessee, United States · Online

Brock Olsen is a dating coach based in Chattanooga, Tennessee. He helps men and women handle modern dating and current relationship problems. He hosts the Dating Today podcast and appears in a radio segment. He also runs Singles Connect, a free private Facebook group where he leads talks on personal growth and sets up local outings. He offers one-on-one coaching, workshops and retreats, and coaches clients around the world.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

David Wygant

Dating and relationship coach with 20 years of experience · Los Angeles, California, United States

David Wygant is a dating, relationship and personal growth coach based in Los Angeles. He has coached for 20 years and has advised 1.7 million people on online dating, hookup sites and real relationships. He teaches clients to attract better partners, communicate clearly and stop settling for less. He also writes dating site reviews and publishes advice for both men and women on his blog.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Denzel Jones

In-field dating coach for men in Sydney, Australia · Sydney, Australia · Online

Denzel Jones is a dating coach who helps men get better with women. He works in the field, which means he coaches in real dating settings. He is also a School of Attraction coach based in Sydney, Australia. He has been featured on Sydney radio to talk about Tinder. He hosts The On-Call Wingman Show, a podcast with 25 episodes. He offers coaching by Skype and an advice line for men around the world.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsDaygame and pickup

Jennifer Hurvitz

Dating coach and relationship expert for divorced women in Charlotte · Charlotte, United States

Jennifer Hurvitz is a dating coach and relationship expert who helps divorced and single women over 40 find love again. She hosts the Doing Relationships Right podcast and has written best-selling books, including One Happy Divorce. Her podcast was named one of the best relationship podcasts by Vogue Magazine. She has lived through divorce and midlife dating herself, and she uses that experience in her coaching. She works from Charlotte.

$100 to $200 an hour
Dating after divorceDating over 40Online dating and apps

Kait Warman

Christian dating coach, author and podcast host in Nashville · Nashville, Tennessee, United States

Kait Warman is a Christian dating coach, author and podcast host who runs Heart of Dating in Nashville. She helps Christian singles date with more clarity and confidence. She builds her advice on biblical insight and her own dating history. She offers a 90-day mentorship, one-on-one coaching, a podcast and a conference for Christian singles.

$80 to $140 an hour
Faith-based datingDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Patty Martin-Guerra

Christian life and dating coach for single women over 40 · United States

Patty Martin-Guerra is a Christian life coach for single women over 40 who want to find lasting love. She helps women heal after divorce and past relationships, let go of old patterns, and draw in the right partner. She hosts two podcasts, one in Spanish for women over 40 and one on rising after divorce. Her site and services are offered in both Spanish and English.

$100 to $200 an hour
Dating after divorceDating over 40Online dating and apps

Sabrina Zohar

Dating and relationship coach and podcast host in New York · New York, United States · Online

Sabrina Zohar is a dating and relationship coach, entrepreneur and podcast host who helps people break repeating patterns in love. She hosts The Sabrina Zohar Show, a top 0.05% global podcast with millions of listeners. Her episodes include advice from board-certified and licensed psychologists. She wrote the book Why Am I Like This and has appeared on The Tamron Hall Show. She offers one-on-one coaching, a three-month coaching package and online courses.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesOnline dating and apps

Susan Winter

Relationship and dating coach in New York City · New York City, New York, United States

Susan Winter is a relationship expert and love coach in New York City. She helps people find and keep love. She has worked as a coaching professional since 2000. She is a bestselling author and wrote Older Women/Younger Men. She also works as a professional speaker and runs live events with Q&A in New York. Her focus covers dating issues, relationship challenges, and inner confidence.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Online dating and apps

Alan Cox

Dating and life coach for gay men seeking committed relationships

Alan Cox is a life coach and CBT practitioner who coaches gay men on moving from casual dating to a committed, monogamous relationship. He also works as a workshop facilitator and author. He hosts The Gay Monogamy Coach podcast, which has 140 episodes since 2024. His episodes cover attachment styles in midlife, dating app burnout, and quitting the apps. He focuses on emotional, psychological and practical steps toward clarity, confidence and clear relationship goals.

$100 to $150 an hour
Attachment stylesOnline dating and appsLGBTQ dating

Alex Mellor-Brook

Dating and relationship coach for singles and couples in North West England · North West England, United Kingdom

Alex Mellor-Brook is a dating and relationship coach who works with singles, people in new relationships, and couples. He runs Select Personal Introductions, an offline dating agency in North West England that also offers coaching. He is an NLP practitioner and a certified matchmaker. He is Vice Chair of the ABIA, the dating industry trade body. His career in dating and relationships spans decades.

$100 to $170 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriageOnline dating and apps

Alpha Attraction

Dating coaching for men in Auckland, New Zealand · Auckland, New Zealand

Alpha Attraction is a team of dating coaches that helps men with dating, attraction and confidence. The team is based in Auckland, New Zealand, and also lists service areas in New York, Sydney, Toronto and London. Clients can take an eight-week coaching program, join live coaching or use an online dating course. The team also offers fitness and nutrition coaching and a Wing Women service.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Andrew

Dating coach for men in the UK, no apps needed · United Kingdom

Andrew runs Honest Improvement, a dating coaching program for men in the UK. He helps men who are tired of dating apps meet women in real life and find a girlfriend in 12 weeks. He built the system while working to meet his own girlfriend, then refined it over 2,400+ hours of helping other men.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceOnline dating and apps

Andrew Gung

Dating and social confidence coach in Melbourne, Australia · Melbourne, Australia

Andrew Gung runs Core Confidence Coaching in Melbourne, Australia. He coaches shy and introverted men and women on social and dating confidence. He hosts the Dating in the Digital Age podcast, which has 39 episodes on social life, dating, sex and relationships. He and his team also built Spark, an AI dating coach that helps men with text conversations, dating app bios and photo ranking.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Anna

Dating coach for men in Miami · Miami, Florida, United States

Anna is a dating coach for men in Miami who runs The Daily Flirt. She helps men improve their style, grooming, dating profiles, social media and dating strategy. The goal is to attract the women they want and turn those connections into real dates and relationships. Anna offers a 1x1 VIP program, a Skool community with weekly calls and challenges, and five free guides on approaching, texting and ghosting.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Beck Thompson

Dating and relationship coach for singles and couples over 40 in Australia · Australia

Beck Thompson is a dating and relationship coach in Australia. She helps singles and couples over 40 and 50 find lasting love. She is an award-winning coach and an international bestselling author. She hosts The Relationship Circle podcast, which began in 2023 and has 66 episodes. Each week she covers topics from first dates to long-term relationships, and she brings in other coaches and experts as guests. She also runs a free Facebook community.

$95 to $175 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsTexting and first dates

Bela Gandhi

Dating coach for accomplished women in Chicago · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Bela Gandhi is a dating coach who leads Smart Dating Academy in Chicago. The academy helps accomplished women find lasting love through one-on-one coaching. It calls its coaches love strategists. They guide clients on dating mindset, online dating, and checking that a relationship is a good fit. The company has run for 15 years, and Bela has appeared on Today, ABC, Fox News, CNN and NBC.

$275 to $500 per session
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsDating after divorce

Carey Gaynes

Dating and relationship coach in Chicago working with clients nationwide · Chicago, United States

Carey Gaynes is a dating and relationship coach in Chicago. She helps people handle the dating world, understand the people they want to attract, and build inner confidence. Carey worked as a matchmaker for many years before coaching. She also created Coffee with Carey, a YouTube dating show that began with women over 50 in mind. She works with private clients across the country, from New York to L.A.

$110 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingOnline dating and appsDating for women

Corey Chaloff

Instagram dating coach for men in Austin, Texas · Austin, Texas, United States · Online

Corey Chaloff is a dating coach for men who uses Instagram to help them attract women and get better dating results. He is based in Austin, Texas. He reports over 15 years of experience, 840+ men helped one-on-one, and a wider community of 3,500+. His main idea is that a man's Instagram works like a dating resume that women check before a first date.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and apps

Desi Dating Coach

Dating coach for men of color in NYC, LA, Vegas and Florida · Online and in person

Desi Dating Coach helps South Asian, Asian, Latino, Black and Arab men build confidence, hold better conversations and meet women. The coaching covers cold approach, attraction and online dating. Sessions run in person in NYC, LA, Vegas and Florida, and online from anywhere. Clients get live approach feedback and help with Hinge, Bumble and Tinder profiles. The program also includes weekly coaching and a client community for accountability.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Diane Brandon Moody

Dating coach for women over 50 · United States

Diane Brandon Moody is a dating coach for women over 50. She runs the Psychology of Dating practice and hosts the Fiftysomething Love podcast, which has more than 80 episodes. Topics include online dating, dating scams, red flags, dating after being widowed, and dating in a small town. She leads a group program called Simply Irresistible Collective. She also hosts summits with Sharon Jenkins, and her podcast shares client stories.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Online dating and apps

Dubai Matchmaker

Matchmaking and date coaching practice in Dubai, UAE · Dubai, United Arab Emirates

Dubai Matchmaker is a matchmaking and date coaching practice in Dubai, UAE. It helps people who are newly single or feel pressure to find a partner. Coaching covers blind spots, triggers, boundaries and dating anxiety. The practice also offers a VIP international membership with Carmelia Ray Matchmaking. That service serves CEOs, entrepreneurs, athletes and public figures. It includes dating profile redesign, photoshoots and a dating concierge.

$80 to $140 an hour
MatchmakingOnline dating and appsDating for women

Eddie Hernandez

Dating coach for men and women in San Francisco and the Bay Area · San Francisco, California, United States

Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach in San Francisco who works with men and women looking for relationships. He also serves the Bay Area and Silicon Valley, including introverts and engineers. He combines coaching with photography. He has over a decade of experience as an online dating photographer and takes natural, candid photos with a phone at custom locations like cafes, bars and art openings. He also reviews profiles on apps like Hinge and Bumble.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Gloria

Dating coach and image consultant in Washington, DC · Washington, DC, United States

Gloria is a dating coach and image consultant in Washington, DC. She runs Dating Decoded and helps professional singles in the DC area build real connections. She coaches dating skills and dating strategy. She also offers mock dates at a local cafe or bar, where a client practices with her or an actor. Her services include wardrobe audits, personal shopping and makeovers. She coaches one-on-one or as a couple.

$100 to $180 an hour
Online dating and appsCouples and marriageTexting and first dates

Jade Bianca

Dating after divorce coach for divorced professionals across the United States · United States · Online

Jade Bianca is a dating after divorce coach who helps divorced professionals feel confident about dating again. She runs Dating Coach In My Pocket, a service that sends daily dating guidance by text. Her method is built on research and shaped for people who are dating again after a marriage ends. She serves clients across the United States and also works with them in private coaching sessions.

$100 to $200 an hour
Dating after divorceOnline dating and appsDating over 40

Jenn Burton

Dating coach for smart, successful single women

Jenn Burton is a dating coach for smart, successful single women. She runs Have Him Your Way and hosts the Single Smart Female podcast. She teaches Mantourage Dating, a method where a woman dates more than one man at a time until she finds her Forever Man. Her work focuses on what a woman does, not on what a man does. She also offers an online dating course called E-rresistibility.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and apps

Jonathon Aslay

Dating and relationship coach for midlife women · United States · Online

Jonathon Aslay is a dating and relationship coach who helps midlife women. He runs Understand Men Now, a brand built around helping women understand how men think in love. He offers one-on-one coaching, audio programs, downloadable workbooks and a monthly membership called Mid-Life Love Mastery. He also shares advice through a podcast, a YouTube channel and a blog that covers dating, online dating, breakups and mindset.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsDating over 40

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CoachFocusHourly rate range
Alex LeónDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $150 an hour
Alex SocialDating for men and Online dating and apps$75 to $150 an hour
Alison VergeDating over 40 and Online dating and apps$80 to $140 an hour
Anwar WhiteDating for women and Online dating and apps$70 to $125 an hour
Blaine AndersonDating for men and Online dating and apps$80 to $250 an hour
Eddie HernandezDating for men and Dating for women$80 to $250 an hour
Elle WilsonOnline dating and apps and Breakups and heartbreak$75 to $145 an hour
Erik CarlbergDating for men and Online dating and apps$100 to $150 an hour
Harry WilmingtonDating for men and Online dating and apps$75 to $150 an hour
James PreeceDating for men and Dating for women$80 to $250 an hour
Jasbina AhluwaliaMatchmaking and Dating for men$80 to $140 an hour
Katy ClarkMatchmaking and Texting and first dates$110 to $250 an hour
Kelsey WonderlinDating for women and Online dating and apps$100 to $225 an hour
Kimberly HillDating for men and Dating after divorce$90 to $160 an hour
Kimmy SeltzerOnline dating and apps and Dating over 40$100 to $225 an hour

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Most dating coaches charge $88 to $250 per hour or session.

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Common focus areas include dating for men, texting and first dates, dating for women and approach anxiety and confidence.

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