Jiveny Blair-West
Dating and relationship coaching for singles and couples
| Hourly rate range | $70 to $125 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Women, Men and Couples |
| Also coaches | Spiritual coach |
| Practice | Dating For Love |
Jiveny Blair-West is a dating and relationship coach who helps women, men and couples build lasting love. She co-founded Dating For Love in 2016 with Joe Oppenheimer. She leads the women's and couples coaching and created The Attraction Archetypes, a framework for understanding the patterns that shape your love life. The practice works with singles aged 20 to 70, and each client is matched with the coach who suits their goals best.
What Jiveny helps with
The team works on the skills that turn dating into a committed relationship. Many clients have done therapy and still feel stuck in the same patterns.
- Breaking repeating patterns in love
- Pacing early dating
- Holding a boundary without ending the connection
- Telling real potential from time-wasters
- Getting clear on what you want in a partner
- Stopping over-functioning in a relationship
- Dating burnout
- Feeling stuck in a relationship where you do the emotional work
Who Jiveny works with
Most clients are accomplished women in their 30s and 40s who have done inner work and still struggle with love. The practice also coaches men and couples. Clients range in age from 20 to 70. Some date on apps and some prefer to meet people offline.
How Jiveny works
Coaching is built in three stages, starting with clarity about what you want and the patterns that repeat. Clients have regular 1:1 sessions with a coach and can reach that coach between sessions, for example after a date or before a hard conversation. The work uses relationship skill frameworks, including The Attraction Archetypes. The focus is practical skills you can use on your next date.
Background and qualifications
Dating For Love was founded in 2016 by Jiveny Blair-West and Joe Oppenheimer, a husband-and-wife coaching team. Jiveny leads the women's and couples coaching. She created The Attraction Archetypes, a framework that maps the capacities and patterns shaping your love life. The team has grown since the start, and other coaches on the team are trained in coaching and counselling. Every client is matched with the coach best suited to their goals.
Jiveny Blair-West pricing
Programs and services
- 1:1 dating and relationship coaching for women
- 1:1 coaching for men
- Couples coaching
- Free Attraction Archetypes quiz
Jiveny Blair-West reviews
The CoachVouch take
Jiveny created The Attraction Archetypes, a framework that shows which capacity leads in your love life and which pattern holds you back.
Best for self-aware women who have done therapy and still want practical skills to find a committed partner.
Common questions
How much does Jiveny Blair-West charge?
Coaching with Jiveny runs $70 to $125 an hour. Message Jiveny from this page for an exact quote.
What does Jiveny Blair-West help with?
Jiveny Blair-West helps with breaking repeating patterns in love, pacing early dating, holding a boundary without ending the connection and telling real potential from time-wasters.
Do you need to be on dating apps to work with Dating For Love?
No. The team teaches both online and offline dating skills. Many clients prefer to meet people offline.
How is Dating For Love different from therapy?
Therapy helps you understand why patterns happen. The coaching builds practical skills you can use on your next date.
How do I contact Jiveny Blair-West?
Send Jiveny a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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