Dating coaches for texting and first dates
Compare 141 dating coaches who focus on texting and first dates. Besides texting and first dates, the most common focus areas are dating for men, online dating and apps, approach anxiety and confidence and dating for women. They most often work with men, women and professionals. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
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Alex Goldstein
Alex Goldstein is a dating anxiety coach for nerds. He helps shy and introverted singles find a serious relationship without dating apps or cold approaches. Alex is a digital nomad who had to learn how to meet and date people in cities where he knew no one. He has interviewed hundreds of nerds on his podcast about how they met their partners. He teaches the friends-first approach that most of those couples used.
Alex León
Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. Alex helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. Alex built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. Alex's clients come from 22 countries. Alex also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of Alex's clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.
Alison Verge
Alison Verge is a relationship and dating coach who helps busy professionals over 40 find lasting love. She runs Path2Love Coaching. She is a certified sexologist and co-author of "Radical Self Love." She also coaches couples who face a sudden shock, such as illness or disability, a challenge she knows from her own life. Her clients can meet a partner with or without dating apps.
Amy North
Amy North is a dating and relationship coach and best-selling author based in Vancouver, Canada. He helps women find and keep a lasting relationship. His online programs, Text Chemistry and The Devotion System, have sold 100,000 copies. He has more than five years of coaching experience and has worked with clients locally and around the world. He holds a degree in Social Psychology. His focus areas are dating, marriage, breakups and divorce.
Andrew Gung
Andrew Gung is the founder and CEO of Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching business in Australia. The team helps men with approach anxiety, dating apps, texting and building confidence. Since 2018, they have coached over 700 men. Coaching runs in person in Melbourne, Sydney, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, and online across the country. The team includes coaches, psychologists and mindset experts, and the programs reject pickup tactics in favor of psychology.
Anna Jorgensen
Anna Jorgensen is a dating coach for men. She runs Wingmam and teaches men how to understand women, build confidence, and find lasting relationships. Anna spent 20 years in real estate sales before she became a dating coach and matchmaker in 2012. She has interviewed hundreds of singles and couples about dating. Her YouTube channel has 400,000+ subscribers, and she also runs a community of 2,700 active members.
Carol Fulwiler Jones
Carol Fulwiler Jones is a dating and relationship coach for men and women over 40 in the San Francisco Bay Area. She has worked as a licensed couples therapist for over 35 years. She holds a Master's degree in Counseling and is also a sex therapist. She now offers the methods she used in her private practice as coaching. She helps clients meet, attract and date people who are right for them.
Caryn Davis
Caryn Davis is a certified matchmaker and dating coach who helps busy professionals find a quality match for a long-term relationship. She runs Exquisite Elite Matchmaking, where she finds matches for clients and also coaches men and women one on one. She coaches singles by video anywhere in the U.S. and Canada. She also hosts the EEM Club Podcast. Clients get homework between sessions, and a free 15 minute consultation comes first.
Chase Amante
Chase Amante is a dating coach for men. She founded the Girls Chase website in 2008 after men on large seduction forums asked her for advice. The site teaches approaching women, attraction, conversation, dating, texting and online dating. She created the One Date system and The Dating Artisan course. Men can also book phone or live coaching with a Girls Chase coach. The site reports over 64 million readers.
Cora Boyd
Cora Boyd is a Seattle dating and relationship coach who founded Cora Boyd Enterprises. She teaches flirting, communication, charisma and confidence, with a strong focus on coaching men. She is a former top-performing matchmaker for a Stanford StartX company. She started her consultancy in 2019 and has guided hundreds of clients. She hosts the podcast Pillow Talk Radio and is the recurring dating expert for the CUT Channel.
Craft of Charisma
Craft of Charisma is a dating coaching company for men. It teaches men to meet and connect with women, in person and online. Chris Luna leads the company. It has been in business for 18 years and has taught 574 workshops. Programs run in many US and Canadian cities, and include an 8 week dating bootcamp. Its coaching uses the D.A.T.E. model, which covers moving relationships forward and consent.
Dan Bacon
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men. He founded Master Attraction and has given dating advice for over twenty years. He teaches men how to show non-physical traits that make women feel attracted. Members get monthly video lessons that cover 124 traits, plus a private community and an AI coach built on his advice. He also runs two-hour phone coaching calls by audio or video.
Dan Bacon
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men and the founder of The Modern Man. He helps men meet women, get a girlfriend, improve a relationship, or win back an ex. The Modern Man began in 2005. Dan has coached more than 100 men by phone to get an ex girlfriend or wife back. He teaches a natural, genuine style of attraction instead of pickup tricks.
Eddie Hernandez
Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach and dating photographer in the San Francisco Bay Area. He coaches men and women on dating apps and offline dating, in person or by video call. He also shoots natural dating photos for apps like Hinge and Bumble. His photos have run in the New York Times, Time and Vogue UK. He has lived in Los Angeles and New York, which shapes how he sees culture and dating.
Erika Ettin
Erika Ettin is an online dating coach in Washington, DC. She runs A Little Nudge, which helps people with photos, profiles, messages and dates. Before coaching, she worked in finance for over seven years and left in early 2011 to start the business. She tracked her own online dating results in a spreadsheet and reached a response rate well over 60%. She wrote a book on online dating and writes a weekly advice column.
Harry Wilmington
Harry Wilmington is a men's dating coach. She helps men with approaching women, texting, online dating, and confidence. She has coached hundreds of men and builds action plans for their dating lives. She runs the Get Girls Academy membership community and hosts a podcast and a show. She also draws on her own experience as a dater and an introvert when she coaches.
Introverted Alpha
Introverted Alpha is a dating coaching company for shy, thoughtful and analytical men. It helps them feel attractive, meet women and go on good dates. The company started in June 2014 and has coached over 600 clients one-on-one. Its main paid program, Launch Your Dating Life, runs in three phases and covers online dating profiles, approaching women in person and planning dates. Coaching starts with a call called a Clarity Consult.
James Marshall
James Marshall is a dating coach for men and the founder and CEO of The Natural Lifestyles. His company has taught men about dating, inner change and lifestyle design since 2008. He trained in Kung Fu at a Shaolin temple and toured Australia in a funk band. He created the Five Principles of Natural Seduction. He runs live workshops, online coaching and a 12-month mentorship program.
James Tusk
James Tusk is a London-based dating coach who teaches men to meet women in person. He runs Project Tusk, also called Tusk & Team, and co-hosts Project Social with Sambo of Fluid Social London. His team has helped 500+ clients and coached in 15+ countries. Clients learn to approach women in daily life, start conversations, get numbers and set dates, without apps or bars.
Jessica J
Jessica J is a dating coach who helps men with dating, sex and self-confidence. She uses Solution-Focused Therapy principles in her work. She started out training as a marriage and family therapist in Hollywood, then became the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio show The Couch. She was featured on Nightline as one of America's Most Desirable Daters. She also runs an award-winning YouTube channel and offers a free strategy session.
John Keegan
John Keegan is a New York City dating coach who helps men meet women in real life, not just on apps. He also coaches women on their dating lives and relationships. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle and has coached for 15 years. He teaches workshops in cities such as Los Angeles, London, Rio de Janeiro and Prague. He also created The Art of the Flow, an audio course with seven live conversations recorded around New York City.
Johnny Cassell
Johnny Cassell is a London dating coach who works with men on dating, attraction and long-term partnership. He has coached since 2005 and has worked with over 2,000 men. He has been featured on BBC, Sky News and The Times. He wrote the bestselling book Elite Seduction. He teaches in real settings with one-to-one training, and also coaches men online around the world.
Julia Malakiman
Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley and the San Francisco Bay Area. She helps shy, analytical men and engineers get better at meeting and connecting with women. All practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers. She has coached more than 500 men. She hosts The Date Worthy Man podcast and runs Bay Area Dating Cure events. She acts as a wing woman and gives feedback in the moment.
Julie Ferman
Julie Ferman is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps relationship-minded single men and women find partners. She launched her agency in Westlake Village, California in 2001. She has privately registered more than 40,000 singles and is credited with over 1,500 couples. She serves clients in Los Angeles, Denver and Santa Fe. She also runs a 30-day virtual boot camp for people who want to build their dating skills first.
Katy Clark
Katy Clark is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps successful singles find a partner and date with more confidence. She spent 10 years matching exclusive clients at Cinqe Matchmaking before starting Dating with Katy. She keeps a personal network of tens of thousands of singles. Her work blends dating strategy with fashion and wellness. She has also been a featured trainer in SHAPE Magazine and ran a restaurant in China.
Kelsey Wonderlin
Kelsey Wonderlin is a dating coach for women. She is also a licensed therapist. She helps women build confidence, attract quality men, and feel secure in a new relationship. She has coached 4,000+ women and built a system from her own struggles with dating. Her advice has been featured in the NY Times, TIME, NBC and Cosmopolitan. She also shares daily tips with a following of 179K+ on social media.
Lauren Lowe
Lauren Lowe is a dating coach in San Francisco who helps single men find love and build lasting relationships. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 15 years in mental health. She still runs a psychotherapy practice and uses EMDR in her work. Her coaching covers dating apps, texting, first dates, attachment styles and heartbreak. She coaches men in person and online across the country.
Lily Womble
Lily Womble is a feminist dating coach who helps late bloomers build a confident dating life. She is a former top matchmaker and runs Date Brazen. She has helped over 400 late bloomers move past shame and self-doubt. She hosts a podcast, wrote the book Thank You, More Please, and leads group programs that last 6 and 12 months.
Marni Kinrys
Marni Kinrys is a dating coach for men and the founder of the Wing Girl Method. She teaches men how to attract women, approach them, flirt, and get dates. She has coached for 22 years and says her advice comes from a woman's point of view. She has surveyed more than 10,000 women about what attracts them. Her YouTube channel has 1.46M subscribers, and she leads a team of wing girls in the USA.
Michelle Herzog
Michelle Herzog is a dating coach in Chicago who helps millennial women get out of dating burnout and find healthy relationships. She is also a licensed relationship and sex therapist. She teaches The Modern Dating Method, a system she built from her work with clients and her own 4 years of struggling with online dating. She offers a single strategy call and a 3-month program that is limited to 3 spots at a time.
Moon
Moon is a dating coach for men who want personal growth. He helps clients with dating, social skills, self esteem, and healthy habits. Moon spent 14 years in education, working as an academic coordinator, ESL teacher, auto tech instructor, and learning and development consultant. He holds a master's degree in leadership studies, which led him to coaching. He coaches in person in San Diego and by video worldwide. He also hosts a free men's meetup in San Diego.
Nick Notas
Nick Notas is a Boston dating coach who helps men build real confidence and attract great women. He has coached for many years and has worked with thousands of men in 37 countries. His work covers social anxiety, flirting, and the psychology of attraction. He was featured on DatingNews. He also writes articles and offers a 5-step email course on building attraction on dates.
Nicole
Nicole is a dating, love, and relationship coach based in Vancouver. He helps women who keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. He has coached for 15 years and has worked with hundreds of women around the world. His coaching uses the R.E.A.L. Love Method. It helps clients spot unhealthy dating patterns, state their needs with confidence, and build committed relationships. He also runs a separate coaching track for men.
Nikki Ruby
Nikki Ruby is a sex, intimacy and confidence coach for men and couples. She is based in the Twin Cities and also coaches online. She started as a licensed massage therapist in chiropractic clinics, wellness centers and luxury spas. She founded The Pleasure Practice and wrote The Pleasure Practice Workbook. She also created The Connection Coach, an AI-powered intimacy coaching app built on her curriculum.
Paige Dempsey
Paige Dempsey is a dating and relationship coach for women 35 and over. She helps clients who feel anxious, stuck or worn out by modern dating. Paige is a former lawyer, small business owner and non-profit professional. She came to coaching as a client after a divorce. She holds three coaching certifications, in feminist, deep dive, and dating and relationship coaching. Her signature method is S.L.O.W. Dating, and she offers an eight-week 1:1 program.
Scott Tsui
Scott Tsui is a relationship coach for gay men. He helps them find a lasting partner and get past the patterns that hold them back. He wrote the Amazon bestseller Lonely No More, and he writes a dating and relationship column for the San Francisco Bay Times. He teaches a method called the 3C Formula and runs the Gay Men Relationship Blueprint, an online course and community. He also coaches one on one.
Thomas Crown
Thomas Crown is a daygame and dating coach who helps men get better at approaching women during the day. He started daygame in October 2016 and now runs regular weekend bootcamps in London. He coaches in the field in the UK and Europe, and online worldwide. He also writes a daygame blog, hosts a podcast and has published beginner guides on daygame and texting. Clients have trained with him in London, Poland and Riga.
Adrienne Everheart
Adrienne Everheart is a dating and relationship coach who helps women build lasting love. He teaches a method he created called the Feminine Energy Mindset Method, or FEMM. His work covers dating again, breakups, separation, pending divorce and winning back a partner. He sells scripts, courses and a card deck, and he offers private coaching. He also runs an AI tool called Adrienne-ish that answers questions using his own course material.
Alpha Attraction
Alpha Attraction is a team of dating coaches that helps men meet and attract women. The team is based in Auckland, New Zealand. Its main offer is a 3 month, 12 week coaching programme with 12 personal sessions. Coaches also work in the field with clients at daytime spots and evening venues like bars. The programme covers mindset, approach skills, online dating profiles and building a long term relationship. The team has supported hundreds of students.
Alyssa Dineen
Alyssa Dineen is a dating coach and profile strategist in New York City. He helps adults in their forties and beyond date with more ease and safety on the apps. He built the Date Vanilla framework, which focuses on choosing steady, kind partners over flashy profiles. He also works as a stylist and hosts The Dating Lab podcast. His clients can get a full profile overhaul, ongoing coaching, or a self-paced course.
Amie Leadingham
Amie Leadingham is a dating and relationship coach who helps singles find lasting love. She works in Los Angeles and Las Vegas and is also an online dating expert and author. Her Conscious Dating programs help clients heal old beliefs about relationships that hold them back. She met the love of her life through this method. She also hosts two podcasts.
Anna
Anna is a dating coach for men who runs The Daily Flirt in Miami, Florida. She helps men improve their style, grooming, dating profiles, social media and dating strategy. The goal is to meet the women they want and turn those matches into real dates. She coaches one on one in a VIP program and leads a community with weekly calls. She also offers five free guides on approaching, texting and ghosting.
Anthony Hustle
Anthony Hustle is a dating coach who teaches men a step-by-step process for meeting women by day and taking a date to sex. She calls it the Straight Line Seduction System. She has written eight books, films her approaches, and runs a podcast. In one London summer she taught four men, and they logged 37 same-day lays and 74 dates that ended in sex. She takes two private students a year.
April Braswell
April Braswell is a dating and relationship coach for single men and women at midlife. She also writes online dating profiles, gives talks, and has authored books on online dating and dating again after divorce. Her media features include CBS Radio, The Boston Globe and the Wiley book Dating for Dummies, 3rd Edition. She works from Northern California.
Cold Approach
Cold Approach is a dating coaching practice for men. It teaches men to meet women in person and through dating apps. The team has five coaches and has coached hundreds of students. It runs in-person bootcamps in US cities and offers 1-on-1 online coaching. It also does done-for-you work like photos, profile rewrites, and texting help. The co-founder has coached men for more than half a decade.
Connell Barrett
Connell Barrett is a New York City dating coach who works with men. He helps them build confidence, flirt with ease, and meet women they want to date. His goal for clients is a girlfriend in 90 days or less. He hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He teaches an approach he calls Radically Authentic, and he avoids pickup tricks.
Elia Canu
Elia Canu is a dating coach who helps busy men in tech find a partner and start a family. She runs Ideal Partner with coach Nela. The program uses a weekly plug and play system built for tech professionals. Elia has coached tech men for 5+ years. Her clients include software engineers and product managers. Support covers dating profiles, Instagram profiles, messaging, and date practice.
Erika Davian
Erika Davian is a dating and intimacy coach who helps men find love. She runs Bachelor to Boyfriend. She is a Certified Life Coach and has training in Surrogate Partner Therapy. Her clients are men with some, little, or no romantic experience. Most are 25 to 55 years old and want a long term partner. She helps them build social, emotional and physical skills for dating and relationships.
Hayley Quinn
Hayley Quinn is a UK-based dating coach who helps men and women meet partners in real life. She has coached for over 15 years and has worked with thousands of clients around the world. She runs in-person dating bootcamps in London and online programmes for men and women. Her bootcamps have been covered by Cosmopolitan and The Independent. She also offers private one-to-one coaching.
James Tusk
James Tusk is a dating coach for men who teaches them to meet women in person without apps or bars. He works with a team under the Project Tusk name. The team has 25+ years of combined experience and has helped 500+ clients in 15+ countries. Their system comes from thousands of real conversations with women. Clients train in live street settings and get coaching while each interaction is still fresh.
Jessica Feldman
Jessica Feldman is a dating and relationship coach who helps singles, engaged couples and married couples. She also coaches people on confidence, self-esteem and life direction. She is based in Israel and meets clients by video. Before coaching, she worked in hospitality and tourism. She also speaks and runs workshops. Her sessions use role-play, reflection exercises, games and conversation cards. She also coaches parents who want to support an adult child without adding pressure.
Julia Malakiman
Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley. She works with shy, analytical men and engineers who want to get better at meeting and connecting with women. She has coached more than 500 men. All of her practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers, where she acts as a wing woman and gives live feedback.
Laurel House
Laurel House is a dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles who works with men and women. She is known as a celebrity dating coach and has hosted Date My Wife on E! and Esquire. She also hosts the Man Whisperer podcast. Her work turns confusing mixed signals into clear steps. She teaches a framework called PrioriDating and starts every client with a private assessment called the Relationship Blueprint.
Mark Sing
Mark Sing is a dating coach for men. He helps entrepreneurs and growth-minded men meet and date more women. He is based in Denver and hosts The Unapologetic Man Podcast. His core method is NLP, which he uses to change the beliefs that hold clients back. His main program runs 12 weeks. It pairs video lessons with two live group calls each week and a custom NLP plan built for each client.
Max
Max is an online dating coach based in New York City who runs Match Up Online Dating Coaching. He helps clients pick the right apps, build strong profiles and message their matches. Max started at Coffee Meets Bagel in San Francisco, where he helped thousands of users improve their profiles. He has spent 5 years learning every major dating app and has coached hundreds of clients. Clients in the New York City area can also get photos shot by him.
Michael Lee
Michael Lee is a communication and relationship coach who helps people connect better in dating, friendship and work. He holds two master's degrees, one in Behavioral Science and one in Interpersonal Communication. He was once very shy and afraid of talking to women. He tested what he studied in more than 3,000 real conversations, then built a framework called The Connection Science from what he learned.
Michele Burghardt
Michele Burghardt is a dating coach, author and speaker for women over 50. He runs Date Great Guys, an on-demand video coaching program with 16 trainings. He has worked in personal development for over 25 years as a certified hypnotherapist and NLP practitioner. He wrote The Perfect Dating Guide for Women over 50. He moved into dating coaching after he re-entered the dating world at 60 following a divorce.
Mike Ke
Mike Ke is a dating and confidence coach for men in STEM and Asian and minority men. He is a former engineer and has coached full time in Las Vegas since 2012. He has taught more than 1,200 students. He runs weekly bootcamps and a 12 week mentoring program that meets in person and online. His clients work in science, tech, engineering, medicine and business.
Miriam Zeitlin
Miriam Zeitlin is a Jewish dating coach who helps first-time daters and people dating again after divorce or loss. She began as a shadchan, setting people up, then moved into coaching after seeing that daters needed more than an introduction. She holds several dating and life coaching certifications and is a certified kallah teacher. She has coached hundreds of clients and wrote the book Finding Forever: From First Date to Soulmate.
Olga Okunyeva
Olga Okunyeva is a dating coach and certified matchmaker in Ukraine. He helps singles and people struggling in relationships understand why past dating has not worked. He founded the Gaisteris matchmaking agency. Before coaching he worked in marketing and met people in science, academia, corporate, IT and creative fields. He uses tools like the five love languages, attachment types and emotional intelligence, and picks them for each client's request.
Ruby
Ruby is a dating coach who helps good-hearted men get quality dates and find lasting love. Ruby runs Good Gentleman and has almost a decade of experience as a private dating coach. Ruby has also worked with It's Just Lunch and eHarmony. Ruby gave a TEDx talk on why getting the right date is so hard. Ruby also hosts meetups for men in Southern California and runs a free support community.
Stephen Manas
Stephen Manas is a coach who works with actors on their careers and with dating clients on confidence and self-presentation. He is also an international actor, best known for his work on Ted Lasso. He has lived and worked in Europe, the US and Asia, and he once worked at Apple. His coaching grew from years of giving advice to friends and fellow actors. It later became a private practice with one-on-one and group work.
Susan Edelman
Susan Edelman is a dating expert and board-certified psychiatrist who helps single women over 40 with love and dating. She has worked in private practice in Palo Alto, California for more than 35 years. She teaches at Stanford University School of Medicine and wrote the book Be Your Own Brand of Sexy, which won 14 book awards. She offers private consultations and a dating quiz that gives each woman a custom video.
The Asian Dating Coach
The Asian Dating Coach helps single Asian and South Asian men date with confidence, in person or online. The coach works on mindset, self-confidence, anxiety, grooming and style, body language, first dates, dating apps and texting. Clients include software engineers, doctors, cybersecurity consultants and a few lawyers. The coach was a shy man who was never encouraged to date, and teaches the lessons learned from that path. Local coaching is offered in Austin, Texas.
Colin Malone
Colin Malone is a dating coach for men in Toronto. He helps men who overthink, freeze, or get random results with women. He has coached men professionally for over 7 years. He works remotely with clients across Canada. His coaching builds dating skills through direct feedback, real-world practice, and accountability. He does not teach lines or scripts. His program runs for several months and includes lifetime access to the training material.
Date Him Honey
Date Him Honey is a dating coaching practice for women who want lasting love and struggle with anxious attachment. The coach is a licensed trauma therapist and somatic dating coach with 12+ years in the work. More than 900 women have received support. The focus is on resetting old dating patterns in the nervous system so clients stop chasing unavailable men and start choosing men who show up. Offers include a 6-Step Secure Method, 1:1 coaching, and a 12-week group program.
Ed
Ed is a dating coach in London who teaches men to approach women during the daytime. This style is called daygame. He works with beginners, including men who deal with mild to severe social anxiety and find it hard to start conversations. Most sessions happen in central London, in a spot the client picks. Ed also coaches men from outside the UK, either at his location or in the client's country. He runs an online video course as well.
Ed Bell
Ed Bell is a certified dating and relationship coach who works with gay, bi and queer men. He runs Better Gay Dating and hosts a podcast on the topic. His focus is helping men get past the blocks that stop them from finding real love and connection. He teaches practical tools for apps and meeting people in person. He also works on self-worth and dating-related shame. He describes his style as part empathetic friend and part no-nonsense therapist.
Elizabeth K
Elizabeth K is a dating, relationship and life coach based in Italy who runs That's Amore Coaching. She helps singles, dating app users and people in relationships. She has taught English for over 10 years and holds a double degree in Law and Commerce. She used dating apps daily for 7 years, so she knows the process first hand. She also offers dating profile makeovers with photo feedback.
Gloria
Gloria is a personal dating coach and image consultant in Washington, DC. She helps professional singles build real connections and a dating plan that fits their values. She also coaches couples who want to bring back spark. Her mock date sessions start with a 1-hour date at a local cafe or bar, with Gloria or an actor playing the blind date. She also offers wardrobe makeovers and outfit shopping.
Joshua Morris
Joshua Morris is a communication and confidence coach for adults who want to feel calmer in conversations, dating, friendships and daily social situations. He also works with single men building dating confidence. He built his own skills through real-world conversation practice, improv, public speaking and solo travel. Sessions run online by Zoom. He teaches genuine conversation, social awareness, consent and handling rejection, and he does not teach manipulation.
Lunch Actually
Lunch Actually is a dating agency in Singapore that offers dating and relationship coaching for singles and couples. Its coaches build tailored programs for each client. The programs draw on more than 150,000 first dates the agency has arranged, plus surveys on how singles and couples behave and academic papers. Clients can also get image coaching that covers style, wardrobe and personal branding.
Sharon Lamar
Sharon Lamar is a life coach who helps single LDS and Christian women enjoy dating and choose a husband. He is a certified life coach and an AACC Mental Health Coach. He hosts The Single LDS Woman podcast, which has more than 150 episodes. He did not marry until age 52, so he knows the single years firsthand. He teaches simple mindset tools to build confidence and clear thinking about dating.
Adam Jordan
Adam Jordan is a dating coach who helps men with texting, dating apps and first dates. She founded TextingPrince. She teaches men how to handle dry replies, flakes and ghosting, and how to move a chat into a real date. She built the Texting School and wrote The 5 Principles of Texting Women. She co-hosts The Full Armor of Game Dating podcast with Czar Danya.
Andrew Gung
Andrew Gung is a Melbourne dating coach who runs Core Confidence Coaching. He helps shy and introverted men and women build social and dating confidence. He hosts the Dating in the Digital Age podcast, which has 39 episodes. He and his team also built Spark, an AI dating coach that helps men with texting, dating app bios and photo ranking. He has coached an Australian table tennis champion through fear of rejection and approach anxiety.
Beck Thompson
Beck Thompson is a dating and relationship coach in Australia who helps singles and couples over 40 and 50. She is an award-winning coach and an international bestselling author. She hosts The Relationship Circle podcast, which started in 2023 and has 66 episodes. Each week she covers topics from first dates to long-term relationships. She also runs a free Facebook community and offers free relationship e-books and masterclasses.
Brad
Brad, who goes by Bradicus, is a dating coach for men who want to meet women during the day. He teaches daygame, which means approaching women in public and turning the chat into a date. He runs bootcamps and personal coaching, and he sells a course called Day Seduction. His methods come from almost a decade of trial and error while dating in many countries. He shares field footage of approaches, rejections and number closes.
Brock Olsen
Brock Olsen is a dating coach based in Chattanooga, Tennessee. He helps men and women handle modern dating and current relationship problems. He hosts the Dating Today podcast and appears in a radio segment. He also runs Singles Connect, a free private Facebook group where he leads talks on personal growth and sets up local outings. He offers one-on-one coaching, workshops and retreats, and coaches clients around the world.
Christian Hudson
Christian Hudson is a dating coach who helps men get better with women and in life. He founded The Social Man over a decade ago and serves as its CEO. He wrote the book Girlfriend Activation System. His team has worked with hundreds of clients over five years. The company is based in Austin, Texas. Christian says his aim goes beyond pickup and reaches career and health too. He was once a shy and anxious teenager.
Corey Wayne
Corey Wayne is a dating and life coach who mainly helps men with pickup, dating and relationships. She also coaches on life and peak performance topics like career, wealth creation, sales training and leadership. She wrote the books How To Be A 3% Man and Mastering Yourself. Sessions run one hour by phone or Zoom, audio only.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Alex Goldstein | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $145 an hour |
| Alex León | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Alison Verge | Dating over 40 and Online dating and apps | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Amy North | Dating for women and Online dating and apps | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Andrew Gung | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Anna Jorgensen | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Carol Fulwiler Jones | Dating over 40 and Couples and marriage | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Caryn Davis | Matchmaking and Texting and first dates | $100 to $160 an hour |
| Chase Amante | Dating for men and Daygame and pickup | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Cora Boyd | Dating for men and Dating for women | $100 to $175 an hour |
| Craft of Charisma | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Dan Bacon | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Dan Bacon | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Eddie Hernandez | Dating for men and Dating for women | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Erika Ettin | Online dating and apps and Matchmaking | $90 to $160 an hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach for texting and first dates cost?
Most dating coaches charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
Can I work with a dating coach online?
Yes. Of the dating coaches on this page who say how they work, 90% offer online sessions.
What else do these dating coaches help with?
Common focus areas include dating for men, online dating and apps, approach anxiety and confidence and dating for women.
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- Coaching vs Therapy: Cost and Key Differences
- Do Certified Coaches Charge More?
- Executive Functioning Coach Cost
- How Many Coaches Are There?
- How Many Coaching Sessions Do I Need?
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Last updated September 2026.