Michelle Herzog
Dating coach for millennial women in Chicago
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $225 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Women |
| Also coaches | Health coach |
| Based in | Chicago, United States |
| Credentials | Licensed relationship and sex therapist |
| Practice | Dating with Michelle |
Michelle Herzog is a dating coach in Chicago who helps millennial women date in a healthier way and find good relationships. She is also a licensed relationship and sex therapist. She built her coaching around The Modern Dating Method, a system for dealing with toxic dating culture and dating burnout. She also lived through 4 years of frustrating online dating herself, and that experience shapes her work.
What Michelle helps with
Michelle works with women who feel worn out by apps and dating culture. She helps them stop wasting time on the wrong people and build a dating life that feels good.
- Dating burnout
- Getting stuck in endless app swiping
- Conversations that go nowhere online
- Avoiding the wrong partners
- Dropping unhelpful dating rules
- Building a dating life that feels fun and sustainable
Who Michelle works with
Michelle works with millennial women who feel tired, frustrated, or burned out by modern dating. Many have spent months on apps like Hinge with few good dates to show for it. They want a healthier way to meet partners and a lasting relationship.
How Michelle works
Michelle teaches The Modern Dating Method. It is her system for getting past toxic dating culture and the burnout cycle. It aims to give women a more sustainable way to date. She also offers a free guide on the 5 dating rules that keep women single and exhausted.
Background and qualifications
Michelle is a licensed relationship and sex therapist and a nationally recognized dating expert. Her work centers on helping millennial women handle the mess of modern dating. She also draws on her own experience. She spent 4 years stuck in toxic dating culture before she decided to change how she approached dating. That led her to combine her professional training with her personal story and create The Modern Dating Method.
Michelle Herzog pricing
Programs and services
- Dating coaching
- The Modern Dating Method
- Free guide on dating rules
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She is a licensed relationship and sex therapist who also coaches women on dating and created The Modern Dating Method.
Best for millennial women who feel burned out by dating apps and want a healthier way to find a relationship.
Common questions
How much does Michelle Herzog charge?
Coaching with Michelle runs $100 to $225 an hour. Message Michelle from this page for an exact quote.
What does Michelle Herzog help with?
Michelle Herzog helps with dating burnout, getting stuck in endless app swiping, conversations that go nowhere online and avoiding the wrong partners.
Is Michelle Herzog certified?
Michelle Herzog lists: Licensed relationship and sex therapist.
Who does Michelle Herzog coach?
Michelle coaches millennial women who feel exhausted by modern dating and dating apps. She helps them date in a more sustainable way.
What is The Modern Dating Method?
It is Michelle's method for getting past toxic dating culture and dating burnout. She created it by combining her therapy work with her own dating experience.
How do I contact Michelle Herzog?
Send Michelle a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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