Scott Tsui
Relationship coach for gay men
| Hourly rate range | $80 to $250 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men and LGBTQ+ |
| Sessions | Online |
| Credentials | Graduate of Tony Robbins Mastery University; Graduate of Somatica Institute |
| Practice | Scott Tsui Coaching |
Scott Tsui is a relationship coach for gay men. He helps them find a lasting partner and get past the patterns that hold them back. He wrote the Amazon bestseller Lonely No More, and he writes a dating and relationship column for the San Francisco Bay Times. He teaches a method called the 3C Formula and runs the Gay Men Relationship Blueprint, an online course and community. He also coaches one on one.
What Scott helps with
Scott works with gay men who want to find a husband or a lasting partner. He helps them see the habits and beliefs that block good relationships.
- Finding a long-term partner or husband
- Spotting belief patterns carried over from past relationships
- Judging compatibility with a possible partner
- Building trust and companionship in a relationship
- Meeting people on Grindr
- Knowing what to talk about on a first date
- Getting past repeated relationship failures
Who Scott works with
Scott's clients are gay men who want a committed relationship. Many are looking for a husband. Some have had past relationships that ended badly and want to break the same patterns. His course and community also serve men in the LGBT community who want help with dating and mindset.
How Scott works
Scott uses a method he calls the 3C Formula. Step one is Consciousness. Clients learn to see the behavior and belief patterns they picked up in past relationships and work past them. Step two is Compatibility. Clients learn how they fit with a possible partner. Step three is Companionship. Clients build trust and a bond so both partners grow together. His online course teaches an 8 step process.
Background and qualifications
Scott Tsui is a relationship coach who focuses on gay men. He trained at Tony Robbins Mastery University and at Somatica Institute. He wrote Lonely No More, an Amazon bestseller on finding a gay husband. He writes a dating and relationship column for the San Francisco Bay Times. He has been interviewed on TV on 10 Percent and on the LGBT program We Are Family in Hong Kong. He has led several workshops on relationships and mindset for the LGBT community.
Scott Tsui pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching session
- Gay Men Relationship Blueprint, 8 step online course
- Online community
- Relationship challenges assessment
- Weekly email tips
Scott Tsui reviews
The CoachVouch take
He is a dating coach for gay men who wrote an Amazon bestseller and writes a column for the San Francisco Bay Times.
Best for gay men who want to find a husband and stop repeating old relationship patterns.
Common questions
How much does Scott Tsui charge?
Coaching with Scott runs $80 to $250 an hour. Message Scott from this page for an exact quote.
What does Scott Tsui help with?
Scott Tsui helps with finding a long-term partner or husband, spotting belief patterns carried over from past relationships, judging compatibility with a possible partner and building trust and companionship in a relationship.
Does Scott Tsui coach online?
Sessions are online.
Is Scott Tsui certified?
Scott Tsui lists: Graduate of Tony Robbins Mastery University; Graduate of Somatica Institute.
What is the 3C Formula?
It is Scott's three step method for relationships. The steps are Consciousness, Compatibility and Companionship.
Does Scott Tsui offer a course as well as coaching?
Yes. He runs Gay Men Relationship Blueprint, an 8 step online course with a community. He also offers one-on-one coaching.
How do I contact Scott Tsui?
Send Scott a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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