Erika Davian
Dating and intimacy coach for men with little or no experience
| Hourly rate range | $75 to $145 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men |
| Also coaches | Life coach and ADHD coach |
| Credentials | Certified Life Coach; Trained in Surrogate Partner Therapy; M.A. in Education |
| Practice | Bachelor to Boyfriend |
Erika Davian is a dating and intimacy coach who helps men find love. She runs Bachelor to Boyfriend. She is a Certified Life Coach and has training in Surrogate Partner Therapy. Her clients are men with some, little, or no romantic experience. Most are 25 to 55 years old and want a long term partner. She helps them build social, emotional and physical skills for dating and relationships.
What Erika helps with
Erika works with men who feel stuck in love and dating. She helps them build skills, confidence and a clear path toward a relationship.
- Getting unstuck and taking action toward a relationship
- Handling rejection and the hurt that comes with it
- Shame or anxiety that keeps men from trying to date
- Dating with little or no romantic experience
- Starting to date again after a long break
- Overcoming sexual dysfunction
- Feeling confident in dating and sexual situations
- Avoiding time spent on women who are not a good match
Who Erika works with
Erika's clients are men, usually 25 to 55 years old, who want a long term partner. Some have little or no romantic experience, including later in life virgins and men on the autism spectrum. Others have dated but still struggle, or feel nervous about dating again after a long gap. She welcomes men of all backgrounds, orientations and relationship styles.
Background and qualifications
Erika Davian is a Certified Life Coach. She is also trained in Surrogate Partner Therapy and holds an M.A. in Education. She has helped men learn the social, emotional and physical skills needed for romantic relationships. She explains complex topics like dating, love and sexuality in clear, simple terms. She started this work after watching her partner, who was 40 and had never had a relationship that lasted more than a few months, learn to date and find lasting love.
Erika Davian pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Free workbook download
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The CoachVouch take
Combines life coach certification with training in Surrogate Partner Therapy to help men build both emotional and physical relationship skills.
Best for men with little or no romantic experience who want a long term relationship.
Common questions
How much does Erika Davian charge?
Coaching with Erika runs $75 to $145 an hour. Message Erika from this page for an exact quote.
What does Erika Davian help with?
Erika Davian helps with getting unstuck and taking action toward a relationship, handling rejection and the hurt that comes with it, shame or anxiety that keeps men from trying to date and dating with little or no romantic experience.
Is Erika Davian certified?
Erika Davian lists: Certified Life Coach; Trained in Surrogate Partner Therapy; M.A. in Education.
Is Erika Davian's coaching the same as therapy?
No. She says therapy often focuses on healing the past, while her coaching focuses on the future, staying on track and taking action toward what you want.
Does Erika Davian work with men who have no dating experience?
Yes. She works with men who have some, little, or no romantic experience, including later in life virgins.
How do I contact Erika Davian?
Send Erika a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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