Alex Goldstein
Dating anxiety coach for nerds and introverts seeking serious relationships
| Hourly rate range | $75 to $145 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Introverts |
| Credentials | Healthy Gamer certified coach |
| Practice | Date Like A Nerd |
Alex Goldstein is a dating anxiety coach for nerds. He helps shy and introverted singles find a serious relationship without dating apps or cold approaches. Alex is a digital nomad who had to learn how to meet and date people in cities where he knew no one. He has interviewed hundreds of nerds on his podcast about how they met their partners. He teaches the friends-first approach that most of those couples used.
What Alex helps with
Alex helps nerdy and introverted singles who know what to do but get stuck when it is time to act. He works on shyness, anxiety and the fear of rejection.
- Dating anxiety and fear of rejection
- Breaking the dating quest into small, enjoyable steps
- Finding places and communities where future partners spend time
- Building a social network that leads to dates
- Staying motivated when dating feels painful
- Meeting people without dating apps or cold approaches
- Feeling less ashamed of nerdy hobbies
Who Alex works with
Alex works with nerds who want a serious, long-term relationship. Many clients are shy, introverted or afraid of rejection. Some go from work to the gym to home with little social life. Others make friends but never get dates. He does not work with people who want one-night stands, bar pickups, or ways to attract someone magically.
How Alex works
Alex teaches a friends-first approach to dating. It comes from his interviews with hundreds of nerds about the exact steps they took to meet their partners. He does not use dating apps or cold approaches. Clients break the search into small steps, find or build communities where partners spend time, and learn to process setbacks so they do not spiral. He also offers a free guide, relationship skills content, and a Discord community.
Background and qualifications
Alex Goldstein is a nerd and digital nomad and a Healthy Gamer certified coach. From age 14 to 21 he was a paying member of the Argentine Tolkien Association, where many members dated and some are now married with kids. As a digital nomad, he had to work on his shyness and anxiety and learn to ask people out in cities where he stayed only a few months. He later interviewed hundreds of nerds on his podcast to learn how they found love.
Alex Goldstein pricing
Programs and services
- Coaching calls
- Free Nerd Dating Guide
- Podcast
- Discord community
Alex Goldstein reviews
The CoachVouch take
Alex built his coaching on podcast interviews with hundreds of nerds about how they found their partners.
Best for shy or introverted nerds who want a serious relationship without dating apps or cold approaching.
Common questions
How much does Alex Goldstein charge?
Coaching with Alex runs $75 to $145 an hour. Message Alex from this page for an exact quote.
What does Alex Goldstein help with?
Alex Goldstein helps with dating anxiety and fear of rejection, breaking the dating quest into small, enjoyable steps, finding places and communities where future partners spend time and building a social network that leads to dates.
Is Alex Goldstein certified?
Alex Goldstein lists: Healthy Gamer certified coach.
Does Alex teach pickup or cold approaching?
No. Alex teaches a friends-first approach and does not use cold approaches or dating apps. His coaching is for people who want serious relationships, not one-night stands.
Who is Alex's coaching for?
It is for nerdy and introverted singles who feel stuck, shy or afraid of rejection. It suits people who know what to do but struggle to act on it.
How do I contact Alex Goldstein?
Send Alex a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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