Dating coaches for approach anxiety and confidence
Compare 130 dating coaches who focus on approach anxiety and confidence. Besides approach anxiety and confidence, the most common focus areas are dating for men, texting and first dates, online dating and apps and daygame and pickup. They most often work with men, professionals and introverts. Most charge $75 to $150 per hour or session.
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Alex Gay
Alex Gay is a sex and relationship coach who helps LGBTQIA+ people, neurodivergent people, singles and couples build confidence in dating and intimacy. Alex is ICF certified and has extra training in anxiety, depression, CBT, DBT and ACT. Alex hosts The Queer Confidence Podcast and the Kink Curious Podcast, and also works as an on-set coach. Sessions run online worldwide or in person in San Diego. Alex was formerly known as Coach Ray.
Alex Goldstein
Alex Goldstein is a dating anxiety coach for nerds. He helps shy and introverted singles find a serious relationship without dating apps or cold approaches. Alex is a digital nomad who had to learn how to meet and date people in cities where he knew no one. He has interviewed hundreds of nerds on his podcast about how they met their partners. He teaches the friends-first approach that most of those couples used.
Alex León
Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. Alex helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. Alex built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. Alex's clients come from 22 countries. Alex also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of Alex's clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.
Andrew Gung
Andrew Gung is the founder and CEO of Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching business in Australia. The team helps men with approach anxiety, dating apps, texting and building confidence. Since 2018, they have coached over 700 men. Coaching runs in person in Melbourne, Sydney, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, and online across the country. The team includes coaches, psychologists and mindset experts, and the programs reject pickup tactics in favor of psychology.
Anna Jorgensen
Anna Jorgensen is a dating coach for men. She runs Wingmam and teaches men how to understand women, build confidence, and find lasting relationships. Anna spent 20 years in real estate sales before she became a dating coach and matchmaker in 2012. She has interviewed hundreds of singles and couples about dating. Her YouTube channel has 400,000+ subscribers, and she also runs a community of 2,700 active members.
Chase Amante
Chase Amante is a dating coach for men. She founded the Girls Chase website in 2008 after men on large seduction forums asked her for advice. The site teaches approaching women, attraction, conversation, dating, texting and online dating. She created the One Date system and The Dating Artisan course. Men can also book phone or live coaching with a Girls Chase coach. The site reports over 64 million readers.
Christopher Louis
Christopher Louis is a certified dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles. He works with men and women on dating, relationships, and confidence. He is a former international model and professional tennis player. He founded Men.tality and hosts the Dating Intelligence podcast, which launched in April 2020. He has coached for over five years. His style is direct and built on real behavior, not dating clichés.
Cora Boyd
Cora Boyd is a Seattle dating and relationship coach who founded Cora Boyd Enterprises. She teaches flirting, communication, charisma and confidence, with a strong focus on coaching men. She is a former top-performing matchmaker for a Stanford StartX company. She started her consultancy in 2019 and has guided hundreds of clients. She hosts the podcast Pillow Talk Radio and is the recurring dating expert for the CUT Channel.
Craft of Charisma
Craft of Charisma is a dating coaching company for men. It teaches men to meet and connect with women, in person and online. Chris Luna leads the company. It has been in business for 18 years and has taught 574 workshops. Programs run in many US and Canadian cities, and include an 8 week dating bootcamp. Its coaching uses the D.A.T.E. model, which covers moving relationships forward and consent.
Dan Bacon
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men. He founded Master Attraction and has given dating advice for over twenty years. He teaches men how to show non-physical traits that make women feel attracted. Members get monthly video lessons that cover 124 traits, plus a private community and an AI coach built on his advice. He also runs two-hour phone coaching calls by audio or video.
Dan Bacon
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men and the founder of The Modern Man. He helps men meet women, get a girlfriend, improve a relationship, or win back an ex. The Modern Man began in 2005. Dan has coached more than 100 men by phone to get an ex girlfriend or wife back. He teaches a natural, genuine style of attraction instead of pickup tricks.
Elle Wilson
Elle Wilson is a certified dating coach who helps ambitious singles date with more skill and more fun. She founded Met Through Friends, a company that helps singles meet offline, and has hosted thousands of single people at in-person events. She has worked with 60+ dating clients. She pairs a Stanford management science background with 10 years in hospitality to build a strategic approach to dating.
Erik Carlberg
Erik Carlberg is a dating coach for men. He helps men of all ages and experience levels find love, build lasting relationships, and feel more at ease socially. He has coached for over fifteen years and works with a team. He wrote The Vortex of Love, a book on attracting women that took him three years to finish. He also trains people who want to become dating coaches. Clients work with him from all over the world.
Harris O'Malley
Harris O'Malley is a dating coach and advice columnist who helps nerdy and geeky men with dating and social skills. He works under the name Paging Dr. NerdLove and has been doing this work since 2011. His advice has been featured in Nightline, Vice, The Wall Street Journal and The Guardian. He also runs a blog, podcasts, courses and books, and answers reader questions in columns three times a week.
Harry Wilmington
Harry Wilmington is a men's dating coach. She helps men with approaching women, texting, online dating, and confidence. She has coached hundreds of men and builds action plans for their dating lives. She runs the Get Girls Academy membership community and hosts a podcast and a show. She also draws on her own experience as a dater and an introvert when she coaches.
Introverted Alpha
Introverted Alpha is a dating coaching company for shy, thoughtful and analytical men. It helps them feel attractive, meet women and go on good dates. The company started in June 2014 and has coached over 600 clients one-on-one. Its main paid program, Launch Your Dating Life, runs in three phases and covers online dating profiles, approaching women in person and planning dates. Coaching starts with a call called a Clarity Consult.
JT Tran
JT Tran is a dating coach who helps men build confidence and succeed with women. He focuses on Asian men. He founded ABCs of Attraction in 2005 after working as an aerospace engineer. He did not have his first kiss until age 20, so he built a step-by-step system for confidence. Bootcamps run in Los Angeles, Miami, Chicago and Seattle, and also online. Thousands of men have used his system.
JT Tran
JT Tran is a dating coach who helps men, mostly Asian men, build confidence and attract quality women. He has coached since 2008 and has worked with thousands of clients. He has taught at Harvard, Yale and Wharton School of Business and has appeared on NBC, ABC, CBS and Fox. He studied aerospace engineering before he became a coach. He once officiated a client's wedding.
James Marshall
James Marshall is a dating coach for men and the founder and CEO of The Natural Lifestyles. His company has taught men about dating, inner change and lifestyle design since 2008. He trained in Kung Fu at a Shaolin temple and toured Australia in a funk band. He created the Five Principles of Natural Seduction. He runs live workshops, online coaching and a 12-month mentorship program.
James Tusk
James Tusk is a London-based dating coach who teaches men to meet women in person. He runs Project Tusk, also called Tusk & Team, and co-hosts Project Social with Sambo of Fluid Social London. His team has helped 500+ clients and coached in 15+ countries. Clients learn to approach women in daily life, start conversations, get numbers and set dates, without apps or bars.
Jessica J
Jessica J is a dating coach who helps men with dating, sex and self-confidence. She uses Solution-Focused Therapy principles in her work. She started out training as a marriage and family therapist in Hollywood, then became the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio show The Couch. She was featured on Nightline as one of America's Most Desirable Daters. She also runs an award-winning YouTube channel and offers a free strategy session.
John Keegan
John Keegan is a New York City dating coach who helps men meet women in real life, not just on apps. He also coaches women on their dating lives and relationships. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle and has coached for 15 years. He teaches workshops in cities such as Los Angeles, London, Rio de Janeiro and Prague. He also created The Art of the Flow, an audio course with seven live conversations recorded around New York City.
Johnny Cassell
Johnny Cassell is a London dating coach who works with men on dating, attraction and long-term partnership. He has coached since 2005 and has worked with over 2,000 men. He has been featured on BBC, Sky News and The Times. He wrote the bestselling book Elite Seduction. He teaches in real settings with one-to-one training, and also coaches men online around the world.
Julia Malakiman
Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley and the San Francisco Bay Area. She helps shy, analytical men and engineers get better at meeting and connecting with women. All practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers. She has coached more than 500 men. She hosts The Date Worthy Man podcast and runs Bay Area Dating Cure events. She acts as a wing woman and gives feedback in the moment.
Kimberly Hill
Kimberly Hill is a dating and relationship coach for men in Vancouver, Canada. Kimberly helps divorced and single men build confidence and find real connection. Before coaching, Kimberly worked in financial derivatives. Since then, Kimberly has coached more than 500 men one on one and built a community of over 160k people, including 70k+ YouTube subscribers. The main program is Dating Mastery for Men, a self-paced course with 49 lessons.
Kimmy Seltzer
Kimmy Seltzer is a dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles. She is a former therapist who also works as a style coach and matchmaker. She helps high-achieving singles and later-life daters stop overthinking and feel sure of themselves in real-world settings. She has been on Inside Edition, ABC7 in Los Angeles and The Tamron Hall Show, and she runs a retreat for women and men who are dating again in their second act.
Lauren Lowe
Lauren Lowe is a dating coach in San Francisco who helps single men find love and build lasting relationships. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than 15 years in mental health. She still runs a psychotherapy practice and uses EMDR in her work. Her coaching covers dating apps, texting, first dates, attachment styles and heartbreak. She coaches men in person and online across the country.
Lily Womble
Lily Womble is a feminist dating coach who helps late bloomers build a confident dating life. She is a former top matchmaker and runs Date Brazen. She has helped over 400 late bloomers move past shame and self-doubt. She hosts a podcast, wrote the book Thank You, More Please, and leads group programs that last 6 and 12 months.
Marni Kinrys
Marni Kinrys is a dating coach for men and the founder of the Wing Girl Method. She teaches men how to attract women, approach them, flirt, and get dates. She has coached for 22 years and says her advice comes from a woman's point of view. She has surveyed more than 10,000 women about what attracts them. Her YouTube channel has 1.46M subscribers, and she leads a team of wing girls in the USA.
Nick Notas
Nick Notas is a Boston dating coach who helps men build real confidence and attract great women. He has coached for many years and has worked with thousands of men in 37 countries. His work covers social anxiety, flirting, and the psychology of attraction. He was featured on DatingNews. He also writes articles and offers a 5-step email course on building attraction on dates.
Stephen Grosch
Stephen Grosch is a men's dating coach in Arizona. Stephen helps men who feel anxious around women, struggle to keep conversations going, get friend-zoned, or get no results from dating apps. Neil Strauss, author of The Game, hired Stephen as an Executive Dating Coach. Stephen trained men full-time in Los Angeles for years. Stephen now coaches one-on-one and practices in Arizona day game and night game spots.
Thomas Crown
Thomas Crown is a daygame and dating coach who helps men get better at approaching women during the day. He started daygame in October 2016 and now runs regular weekend bootcamps in London. He coaches in the field in the UK and Europe, and online worldwide. He also writes a daygame blog, hosts a podcast and has published beginner guides on daygame and texting. Clients have trained with him in London, Poland and Riga.
Tony Depp
Tony Depp is a dating coach for men based in Toronto. He helps men build confidence, get past approach anxiety, and meet women. He has coached for over fifteen years and has taught hundreds of live attraction bootcamps in over thirty countries. He wrote two dating books that sold thousands of copies. Other well known dating coaches have hired him as their ghostwriter. He also runs a course on conversation skills.
Alex Forrest
Alex Forrest is a dating coach for men who want to meet women during the day. He teaches daygame, which means approaching women in daily life instead of using bars, clubs or apps. He wrote the 2019 book Too Late, Mate?, a memoir about his own dating turnaround. He runs approach courses in Warsaw, Poland, three times a year. Each coach works with no more than two students.
Alpha Attraction
Alpha Attraction is a team of dating coaches that helps men meet and attract women. The team is based in Auckland, New Zealand. Its main offer is a 3 month, 12 week coaching programme with 12 personal sessions. Coaches also work in the field with clients at daytime spots and evening venues like bars. The programme covers mindset, approach skills, online dating profiles and building a long term relationship. The team has supported hundreds of students.
Anna
Anna is a dating coach for men who runs The Daily Flirt in Miami, Florida. She helps men improve their style, grooming, dating profiles, social media and dating strategy. The goal is to meet the women they want and turn those matches into real dates. She coaches one on one in a VIP program and leads a community with weekly calls. She also offers five free guides on approaching, texting and ghosting.
Christian
Christian is a dating coach and pickup artist who helps men attract women without games or manipulation. He is based in Budapest and coaches in German and English. He is a certified NLP trainer with 15+ years of experience. He mixes pickup principles with psychology and NLP. He also films live infield videos that show his methods with real women.
Cold Approach
Cold Approach is a dating coaching practice for men. It teaches men to meet women in person and through dating apps. The team has five coaches and has coached hundreds of students. It runs in-person bootcamps in US cities and offers 1-on-1 online coaching. It also does done-for-you work like photos, profile rewrites, and texting help. The co-founder has coached men for more than half a decade.
Connell Barrett
Connell Barrett is a New York City dating coach who works with men. He helps them build confidence, flirt with ease, and meet women they want to date. His goal for clients is a girlfriend in 90 days or less. He hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He teaches an approach he calls Radically Authentic, and he avoids pickup tricks.
Damien Diecke
Damien Diecke runs School of Attraction, a dating coaching business for men in Sydney, Australia. He helps men learn to approach women, talk with them, and feel confident. The business has coached men since 2009 and says it has helped thousands. Its main offer is a 3-month program built around real-world practice every weekend. Clients get personalized feedback along the way. The methods avoid pickup lines, tricks and games.
Dave
Dave runs One Man's Life Mission, an Australian dating coaching business for men. He teaches cold approach, also called daygame, as the main way to meet and attract women. He has done daygame since 1998. He coaches live in the field through 7 day immersions and 3 day weekend bootcamps. He also wrote The Disabled Casanova and teaches men to treat women with respect.
David Chambers
David Chambers is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach for men. He runs The Authentic Man from London and coaches men one on one online. He has coached for 14 years and hosts The Authentic Man Podcast. His work covers dating confidence, emotional connection, healthy masculinity and sexual intimacy. He has been featured in GQ, Mr Porter, Cosmopolitan and BBC Radio London, and has worked with brands like Killing Kittens, Manual and Vibio.
Erika Davian
Erika Davian is a dating and intimacy coach who helps men find love. She runs Bachelor to Boyfriend. She is a Certified Life Coach and has training in Surrogate Partner Therapy. Her clients are men with some, little, or no romantic experience. Most are 25 to 55 years old and want a long term partner. She helps them build social, emotional and physical skills for dating and relationships.
Frances Kelleher
Frances Kelleher is a dating and life coach in Ireland. She helps people find the right partner and build confidence. She created a three step method called Find the 1 with 3. She is the only Mars Venus Gender Intelligence Coach in Ireland and studied under John Gray. She is the resident dating expert on Spin South West radio and writes a column for RSVP magazine.
Hayley Quinn
Hayley Quinn is a UK-based dating coach who helps men and women meet partners in real life. She has coached for over 15 years and has worked with thousands of clients around the world. She runs in-person dating bootcamps in London and online programmes for men and women. Her bootcamps have been covered by Cosmopolitan and The Independent. She also offers private one-to-one coaching.
James Tusk
James Tusk is a dating coach for men who teaches them to meet women in person without apps or bars. He works with a team under the Project Tusk name. The team has 25+ years of combined experience and has helped 500+ clients in 15+ countries. Their system comes from thousands of real conversations with women. Clients train in live street settings and get coaching while each interaction is still fresh.
Jon Davis
Jon Davis is a dating mentor who helps men become more confident, grounded and attractive. He came from investment banking and private equity, including time at Goldman Sachs. He teaches a five-pillar system called Attraction OS. He offers a mentorship program, a community with a course, and one-on-one consultation calls. His social channels reach over 1M followers and 30M monthly views.
Julia Malakiman
Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley. She works with shy, analytical men and engineers who want to get better at meeting and connecting with women. She has coached more than 500 men. All of her practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers, where she acts as a wing woman and gives live feedback.
Landen
Landen is a Christian dating coach for men. He helps single Christian men build confidence, social skills, and better dating lives while keeping their faith first. He grew up very introverted and dealt with social anxiety for years. He learned communication and confidence as skills, then built a course from more than 15 years of study and field testing. He also offers a members community and live one-on-one coaching on Zoom.
Mark Sing
Mark Sing is a dating coach for men. He helps entrepreneurs and growth-minded men meet and date more women. He is based in Denver and hosts The Unapologetic Man Podcast. His core method is NLP, which he uses to change the beliefs that hold clients back. His main program runs 12 weeks. It pairs video lessons with two live group calls each week and a custom NLP plan built for each client.
Michael Lee
Michael Lee is a communication and relationship coach who helps people connect better in dating, friendship and work. He holds two master's degrees, one in Behavioral Science and one in Interpersonal Communication. He was once very shy and afraid of talking to women. He tested what he studied in more than 3,000 real conversations, then built a framework called The Connection Science from what he learned.
Mike Ke
Mike Ke is a dating and confidence coach for men in STEM and Asian and minority men. He is a former engineer and has coached full time in Las Vegas since 2012. He has taught more than 1,200 students. He runs weekly bootcamps and a 12 week mentoring program that meets in person and online. His clients work in science, tech, engineering, medicine and business.
Philippe Berry
Philippe Berry is a dating coach who helps men meet women and find love. He holds a BSc in Cognitive Psychology and has worked in the dating field for over 10 years. He has reviewed 250+ dating sites and apps. He also runs a travel dating project about meeting women around the world. His blog covers dating culture in Colombia, Mexico and Brazil.
Robert Beck
Robert Beck, known as Beckster, is a dating coach for single men. He runs The Beckster Lifestyle from England. He has worked in the dating and relationship industry for over 25 years. He has trained many of the well-known UK dating coaches. He teaches cold approach pickup at live bootcamps with Mystery, the star of VH1's The Pick-Up Artist. He also offers one-on-one coaching.
Ruby
Ruby is a dating coach who helps good-hearted men get quality dates and find lasting love. Ruby runs Good Gentleman and has almost a decade of experience as a private dating coach. Ruby has also worked with It's Just Lunch and eHarmony. Ruby gave a TEDx talk on why getting the right date is so hard. Ruby also hosts meetups for men in Southern California and runs a free support community.
Samantha Burns
Samantha Burns is a dating coach and licensed couples counselor in the Boston area. She helps singles and couples with dating, breakups and relationships. She is known as The Millennial Love Expert. She wrote two books, Breaking Up and Bouncing Back and Done with Dating: 7 Steps to Finding Your Person. She also runs the Breakup Bounce Back Program. Her work draws on cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and brain science.
Stephen Manas
Stephen Manas is a coach who works with actors on their careers and with dating clients on confidence and self-presentation. He is also an international actor, best known for his work on Ted Lasso. He has lived and worked in Europe, the US and Asia, and he once worked at Apple. His coaching grew from years of giving advice to friends and fellow actors. It later became a private practice with one-on-one and group work.
The Asian Dating Coach
The Asian Dating Coach helps single Asian and South Asian men date with confidence, in person or online. The coach works on mindset, self-confidence, anxiety, grooming and style, body language, first dates, dating apps and texting. Clients include software engineers, doctors, cybersecurity consultants and a few lawyers. The coach was a shy man who was never encouraged to date, and teaches the lessons learned from that path. Local coaching is offered in Austin, Texas.
Tim B
Tim B, known as Coach TimB, is a dating coach who helps driven, introverted men get past approach anxiety and turn conversations into dates. He runs Understanding Attraction, a premium coaching practice that uses an application process. He has over 10 years of experience and has coached 1,247+ men. His own start was shaky, since he could barely make eye contact at 18. He teaches a 3-phase system built on daily accountability.
Troy Francis
Troy Francis is a dating and confidence coach for men. He helps men build social skills, meet the women they want to date, and improve friendships and family bonds. He has written eleven books on dating and relationships, plus many articles. He also shares advice through YouTube videos. He coaches in person and online, and most of his work is one-on-one. He also runs courses with live Zoom webinars.
Alex Social
Alex Social coaches men in pickup and dating through the 4 Week Natural bootcamp. Alex runs 17-day live immersions in cities around the world, including Budapest, Lisbon, Koh Samui and New York. Students practice daily approaches, nightlife skills and dating-app work in real settings. More than 630 men have joined Alex's immersions since 2015. Owen Cook brought Alex into Real Social Dynamics as an instructor.
Colin Malone
Colin Malone is a dating coach for men in Toronto. He helps men who overthink, freeze, or get random results with women. He has coached men professionally for over 7 years. He works remotely with clients across Canada. His coaching builds dating skills through direct feedback, real-world practice, and accountability. He does not teach lines or scripts. His program runs for several months and includes lifetime access to the training material.
Ed
Ed is a dating coach in London who teaches men to approach women during the daytime. This style is called daygame. He works with beginners, including men who deal with mild to severe social anxiety and find it hard to start conversations. Most sessions happen in central London, in a spot the client picks. Ed also coaches men from outside the UK, either at his location or in the client's country. He runs an online video course as well.
Ed Bell
Ed Bell is a certified dating and relationship coach who works with gay, bi and queer men. He runs Better Gay Dating and hosts a podcast on the topic. His focus is helping men get past the blocks that stop them from finding real love and connection. He teaches practical tools for apps and meeting people in person. He also works on self-worth and dating-related shame. He describes his style as part empathetic friend and part no-nonsense therapist.
Gloria
Gloria is a personal dating coach and image consultant in Washington, DC. She helps professional singles build real connections and a dating plan that fits their values. She also coaches couples who want to bring back spark. Her mock date sessions start with a 1-hour date at a local cafe or bar, with Gloria or an actor playing the blind date. She also offers wardrobe makeovers and outfit shopping.
Jayden
Jayden is a Sacramento dating and lifestyle coach who runs The Real Hitch. He helps men build social confidence, make more friends, and improve their dating lives. He was shy and introverted until age 17 and has worked on his own social and dating skills since 2014. He teaches straightforward, authentic methods and does not teach pickup artist techniques or manipulation. He offers phone coaching and in-person coaching in the field.
Joshua Morris
Joshua Morris is a communication and confidence coach for adults who want to feel calmer in conversations, dating, friendships and daily social situations. He also works with single men building dating confidence. He built his own skills through real-world conversation practice, improv, public speaking and solo travel. Sessions run online by Zoom. He teaches genuine conversation, social awareness, consent and handling rejection, and he does not teach manipulation.
Robyn Nind
Robyn Nind is a dating coach and matchmaker who runs Blue Label Life in Melbourne, Australia. She coaches single men who feel nervous around women, and she matches busy professional singles with partners for serious relationships. Robyn has a counselling and psychology background. The agency has introduced couples since 2005. It serves Melbourne, Sydney and Canberra and holds accreditation from the Professional Matchmakers Association.
Adam Jordan
Adam Jordan is a dating coach who helps men with texting, dating apps and first dates. She founded TextingPrince. She teaches men how to handle dry replies, flakes and ghosting, and how to move a chat into a real date. She built the Texting School and wrote The 5 Principles of Texting Women. She co-hosts The Full Armor of Game Dating podcast with Czar Danya.
Andrew Gung
Andrew Gung is a Melbourne dating coach who runs Core Confidence Coaching. He helps shy and introverted men and women build social and dating confidence. He hosts the Dating in the Digital Age podcast, which has 39 episodes. He and his team also built Spark, an AI dating coach that helps men with texting, dating app bios and photo ranking. He has coached an Australian table tennis champion through fear of rejection and approach anxiety.
Andy Yosha
Andy Yosha is linked to Daygame Blueprint, a daygame program that teaches men to meet women in everyday places like coffee shops, book shops and clothing stores. The method is a phase-driven approach, not scripted lines. The founder, Yad Barre, has trained thousands of men in seminars and workshops around the world. The program serves 300 to 500 men per year in person and offers video courses for those who do not want to wait.
Christian Hudson
Christian Hudson is a dating coach who helps men get better with women and in life. He founded The Social Man over a decade ago and serves as its CEO. He wrote the book Girlfriend Activation System. His team has worked with hundreds of clients over five years. The company is based in Austin, Texas. Christian says his aim goes beyond pickup and reaches career and health too. He was once a shy and anxious teenager.
Gallant Gentleman
Gallant Gentleman is a small team of men's dating coaches in the United States. They help men meet women, handle approach anxiety, and keep conversations going. Jeff started coaching professionally in 2015 and Sebastian in 2018. The team has coached hundreds of students in cities around the world. Coaching sessions cover club entrance and bottle service, so students pay no extra fees for those. The coaches teach advice fitted to each student instead of scripted lines.
Justin Marc
Justin Marc is a social confidence mentor who coaches men on dating, relationships and social skills. He overcame social anxiety that lasted the first 17 years of his life. He teaches a system he calls Elite Level. He offers a free one-on-one strategy call by phone, and runs bootcamp-style programs that also cover leadership and career skills.
Kshitij Sehrawat
Kshitij Sehrawat is a dating coach for Indian men. He runs Iron Man Lifestyle, a brand with 814K subscribers. He helps men who feel confident at work but anxious around women. His work covers approach anxiety, texting, first dates and dating apps. He teaches a 3-step system in a 90-minute live workshop on Zoom. He also runs a 1-on-1 mentorship program and bootcamps where clients practice with him live.
Mike Kollin
Mike Kollin is a dating and relationship coach for high-performing men. He runs the practice Crack The Female Code from the San Francisco Bay Area. His work centers on social hesitation, repeating dating patterns, and staying calm under pressure. He offers a 5-day in-field intensive and private one-on-one sessions. He also wrote the book Crack the Female Code, which covers female psychology and frame control. He takes clients from Silicon Valley and around the world.
Nick Krauser
Nick Krauser is a daygame coach and author who works with men on approaching women in the daytime. He takes on a small number of clients each year. His main offer is a five day one-on-one residential. He also runs a four day bootcamp in Krakow with fellow coach Brooding Sea, with no junior coaches. He watches a client's approaches first, then builds coaching around what that man needs. He puts extra focus on the pre-approach game and non-verbals.
Social Coach
Social Coach is a dating coaching practice for men over 35. It teaches men to meet, attract and date the women they want. The founder, James, is a former financial analyst who started coaching in 2006. The team is 5 men and 13 women. Clients practice in hands-on drills with female trainers, then go out and try the skills in real life.
The Legends Academy
The Legends Academy is a dating and confidence coaching company for men. It is led by Ben Alexander and Chris, who are Master Coaches trained in NLP. They teach a system called Natural Attraction through online programs, private coaching and in-person weekend workshops. The team has trained thousands of men across several regions and has helped men in over 100 countries. Ben wrote the Amazon best seller The Natural Attraction Blueprint.
Apollonia Ponti
Apollonia Ponti is a dating and relationship coach who helps men attract women. She teaches confidence as the base for dating success and uses a step-by-step action plan. Her main offer is a 3-month coaching program with live weekly sessions, direct message access, and mock dates with women. She also sells self-paced programs on meditation, intimacy and the Law of Attraction. She is a woman coaching men, so clients hear a woman's view on what attracts her.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Alex Gay | Couples and marriage and LGBTQ dating | $110 to $200 an hour |
| Alex Goldstein | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $145 an hour |
| Alex León | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Andrew Gung | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Anna Jorgensen | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Chase Amante | Dating for men and Daygame and pickup | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Christopher Louis | Dating for men and Dating for women | $100 to $170 an hour |
| Cora Boyd | Dating for men and Dating for women | $100 to $175 an hour |
| Craft of Charisma | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Dan Bacon | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Dan Bacon | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $80 to $250 an hour |
| Elle Wilson | Online dating and apps and Breakups and heartbreak | $75 to $145 an hour |
| Erik Carlberg | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Harris O'Malley | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Harry Wilmington | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $75 to $150 an hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach for approach anxiety and confidence cost?
Most dating coaches charge $75 to $150 per hour or session.
Can I work with a dating coach online?
Yes. Of the dating coaches on this page who say how they work, 81% offer online sessions.
What else do these dating coaches help with?
Common focus areas include dating for men, texting and first dates, online dating and apps and daygame and pickup.
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Last updated September 2026.