Jayden
Dating and lifestyle coach for men in Sacramento
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men and Introverts |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | Sacramento, California, United States |
| Sessions | Online and in person |
| Practice | The Real Hitch |
Jayden is a Sacramento dating and lifestyle coach who runs The Real Hitch. He helps men build social confidence, make more friends, and improve their dating lives. He was shy and introverted until age 17 and has worked on his own social and dating skills since 2014. He teaches straightforward, authentic methods and does not teach pickup artist techniques or manipulation. He offers phone coaching and in-person coaching in the field.
What Jayden helps with
Jayden works with men who want more confidence around women and a stronger social life. He focuses on fear of approaching women and on building real dating skills.
- Overcoming fear of approaching women
- Building social confidence
- Making new friends
- Improving dating life
- Moving past shyness and introversion
- Getting past specific sticking points with a custom plan
Who Jayden works with
Jayden coaches men who want to improve their social and dating lives. This includes men who are shy or introverted, men who want more friends, and men who feel they have no dating options and want to meet women they are attracted to.
How Jayden works
Jayden offers two services. The first is phone coaching. He learns the client's goals, expectations and sticking points, then builds a custom plan to work through them. The second is in-field coaching, during the day or at night, depending on where the client feels most comfortable. He meets the client in person, teaches how to approach women with confidence, and shows how to face the fear that comes with it.
Background and qualifications
Jayden was very shy and introverted until age 17. He then read widely, applied what he learned, and went out day and night to face his fears and meet both women and new friends. He faced many rejections and relationship failures along the way. He has worked on his dating and social life since 2014. He now coaches other men in Sacramento using the skills and mindset he built.
Jayden pricing
Programs and services
- Phone coaching with a custom plan
- In-field coaching in person, day or night
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The CoachVouch take
Jayden coaches in the field, meeting clients in person to show them how to approach women and having them practice it.
Best for shy or introverted men in Sacramento who want to learn to approach women with confidence.
Common questions
How much does Jayden charge?
Coaching with Jayden runs $100 to $150 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Jayden help with?
Jayden helps with overcoming fear of approaching women, building social confidence, making new friends and improving dating life.
Does Jayden coach online?
Jayden is based in Sacramento, California, United States. Sessions are online and in person.
Does Jayden teach pickup artist techniques?
No. Jayden does not teach manipulation or pickup artist techniques. His coaching centers on being authentic in action and words.
What kinds of coaching sessions does The Real Hitch offer?
There are two services. One is phone coaching to set goals and build a custom plan. The other is in-person field coaching, day or night, where clients practice approaching women.
How do I contact Jayden?
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