Kimmy Seltzer
Dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $225 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Online dating and appsDating over 40MatchmakingApproach anxiety and confidenceConfidence and self-esteem |
| Works with | Professionals |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | Los Angeles, California, United States |
Kimmy Seltzer is a dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles. She is a former therapist who also works as a style coach and matchmaker. She helps high-achieving singles and later-life daters stop overthinking and feel sure of themselves in real-world settings. She has been on Inside Edition, ABC7 in Los Angeles and The Tamron Hall Show, and she runs a retreat for women and men who are dating again in their second act.
What Kimmy helps with
Kimmy works on dating confidence, style and connection skills. She helps clients get out of their heads and meet people in real life.
- Overthinking while dating
- Building confidence to flirt and connect
- Meeting people in person
- Online dating and profiles
- Dating after 40 and after 50
- Style and presence
- Getting back out there later in life
Who Kimmy works with
Kimmy coaches high-achieving singles and later-life daters. Her work covers both women and men. Many clients are dating again in what she calls their second act, after 40 or 50.
How Kimmy works
Kimmy teaches through one-on-one coaching, live events and a co-ed group coaching program. She also runs workshops and a retreat for later-life daters that includes makeovers, photoshoots and dance lessons. The focus is on real-world confidence, not just talking about dating.
Background and qualifications
Kimmy Seltzer is a former therapist who now works as a dating coach, style coach and matchmaker in Los Angeles. She has been featured on Inside Edition, ABC7 in Los Angeles and The Tamron Hall Show, where she spoke about dating after 40 alongside The Golden Bachelor. She also hosts a podcast and runs workshops and a retreat for later-life daters.
Kimmy Seltzer pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Co-ed group coaching program
- Live events
- Workshops
- Retreat for later-life daters
- Free intro call
Kimmy Seltzer reviews
The CoachVouch take
A former therapist who blends dating coaching, style and matchmaking and has run a retreat for Golden Bachelorettes.
Best for singles, especially those dating later in life, who want to stop overthinking and date with confidence.
Common questions
How much does Kimmy Seltzer charge?
Coaching with Kimmy runs $100 to $225 an hour. Message Kimmy from this page for an exact quote.
What does Kimmy Seltzer help with?
Kimmy Seltzer helps with overthinking while dating, building confidence to flirt and connect, meeting people in person and online dating and profiles.
Does Kimmy Seltzer work with people dating later in life?
Yes. She works with later-life daters and talks often about dating after 40 and after 50. She also runs a retreat for women and men getting back into dating.
Does Kimmy Seltzer offer group coaching?
Yes. She runs a co-ed group coaching program along with one-on-one coaching, live events and workshops.
How do I contact Kimmy Seltzer?
Send Kimmy a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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