Dating coaches for dating over 40
Compare 54 dating coaches who focus on dating over 40. Besides dating over 40, the most common focus areas are online dating and apps, dating for women, dating after divorce and couples and marriage. They most often work with women, people over 40 and men. Most charge $90 to $188 per hour or session.
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Alison Verge
Alison Verge is a relationship and dating coach who helps busy professionals over 40 find lasting love. She runs Path2Love Coaching. She is a certified sexologist and co-author of "Radical Self Love." She also coaches couples who face a sudden shock, such as illness or disability, a challenge she knows from her own life. Her clients can meet a partner with or without dating apps.
Carol Fulwiler Jones
Carol Fulwiler Jones is a dating and relationship coach for men and women over 40 in the San Francisco Bay Area. She has worked as a licensed couples therapist for over 35 years. She holds a Master's degree in Counseling and is also a sex therapist. She now offers the methods she used in her private practice as coaching. She helps clients meet, attract and date people who are right for them.
Jill Rhodes Harvey
Jill Rhodes Harvey is a relationship and dating coach who works with women over 50. She helps women who are divorced, widowed or single and facing big life changes. Her sessions cover emotional intimacy, communication skills, family dynamics and friendships. She trained in counselling and emotional intelligence in 2013. In 2015 she was named one of the top ten UK relationship coaches for the over 40s. She coaches by phone, email, Skype or Zoom, so she works with women worldwide.
Jiveny Blair-West
Jiveny Blair-West is a life, dating and relationship coach for women in Sydney, Australia. She has worked with women aged 20 to 70 since 2016. She is an author and a co-founder of Dating For Love. She created a framework called The Attraction Archetypes. It helps women bring together the parts of themselves that build secure love. Her work mixes psychology, relationship insight, somatic embodiment and spiritual practice.
Kimmy Seltzer
Kimmy Seltzer is a dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles. She is a former therapist who also works as a style coach and matchmaker. She helps high-achieving singles and later-life daters stop overthinking and feel sure of themselves in real-world settings. She has been on Inside Edition, ABC7 in Los Angeles and The Tamron Hall Show, and she runs a retreat for women and men who are dating again in their second act.
Marni Battista
Marni Battista is a dating and relationship coach who helps successful women find lasting, loving partnerships. She founded Dating with Dignity and The Institute for Living Courageously in Los Angeles. She holds a Master's Degree in Education and a coaching certification from the International Coaching Federation. She was married for 17 years, divorced, and dated again before she remarried. That path led her to build a process for women who keep ending up with unavailable men.
Paige Dempsey
Paige Dempsey is a dating and relationship coach for women 35 and over. She helps clients who feel anxious, stuck or worn out by modern dating. Paige is a former lawyer, small business owner and non-profit professional. She came to coaching as a client after a divorce. She holds three coaching certifications, in feminist, deep dive, and dating and relationship coaching. Her signature method is S.L.O.W. Dating, and she offers an eight-week 1:1 program.
Sarah Louise Ryan
Sarah Louise Ryan is a London based dating and relationship expert, psychotherapist and professional international matchmaker. She helps singles find love and helps couples rebuild their bond. She has worked in the dating space since 2011. She founded The Love Collective Global and is founding director of Tailor Matched matchmaking. She also consults for Match Group and appears on the BBC each week to talk about love and dating.
Shana James
Shana James is a love and dating coach who works with men and women over 40. She helps people who are dating, healing from divorce or heartbreak, or trying to bring more intimacy into a long-term relationship. She wrote Honest Sex, hosts two podcasts, and gave a TEDx talk on the divide between men and women. She holds a Master's in Psychology.
Alyssa Dineen
Alyssa Dineen is a dating coach and profile strategist in New York City. He helps adults in their forties and beyond date with more ease and safety on the apps. He built the Date Vanilla framework, which focuses on choosing steady, kind partners over flashy profiles. He also works as a stylist and hosts The Dating Lab podcast. His clients can get a full profile overhaul, ongoing coaching, or a self-paced course.
Amy Schoen
Amy Schoen is a dating and relationship coach who helps marriage-minded men and women over 40 find lasting love. She runs Motivated to Marry and hosts a podcast with the same name. She has been a certified life coach since 2005. Her first marriage ended in her mid-thirties. She now teaches that plan to her clients.
April Braswell
April Braswell is a dating and relationship coach for single men and women at midlife. She also writes online dating profiles, gives talks, and has authored books on online dating and dating again after divorce. Her media features include CBS Radio, The Boston Globe and the Wiley book Dating for Dummies, 3rd Edition. She works from Northern California.
Bobbi Palmer
Bobbi Palmer is a dating coach for women over 40 and 50. He founded Date Like a Grownup. He became a first-time bride at age 47 in 2006. He divorced in 2024 and now dates as a single woman again. He has helped thousands of women around the world with dating and self-love. He teaches a three-part approach that balances head and heart, and he runs a group program for women over 50.
Jonathon Aslay
Jonathon Aslay is a dating and relationship coach for mid-life women. He runs Understand Men Now, which offers one-on-one coaching, audio programs and workbooks. His topics include spotting commitment-ready men, finding the right men online and why men pull away. He wrote the book What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway? His work now also covers self-love, since he sees low self-worth as a common issue for singles.
Mairi Macleod
Mairi Macleod is a dating coach who helps women over 50 find a lasting relationship. She holds a PhD and works as a behavioural biologist. She runs Dating Evolved, which teaches women to use science to choose better partners. Her online course and group program cover mindset, online dating profiles, and where to meet men.
Michele Burghardt
Michele Burghardt is a dating coach, author and speaker for women over 50. He runs Date Great Guys, an on-demand video coaching program with 16 trainings. He has worked in personal development for over 25 years as a certified hypnotherapist and NLP practitioner. He wrote The Perfect Dating Guide for Women over 50. He moved into dating coaching after he re-entered the dating world at 60 following a divorce.
Ralph
Ralph runs The Dating Stoic, a dating and relationship coaching practice for middle-aged men and single dads. He builds his coaching on Stoic philosophy. He went through the end of his own marriage a decade ago and raised two teenagers as a single parent. He helps men date again after divorce and improve their current relationships. He also writes a blog and offers one-on-one sessions and packages.
Susan Edelman
Susan Edelman is a dating expert and board-certified psychiatrist who helps single women over 40 with love and dating. She has worked in private practice in Palo Alto, California for more than 35 years. She teaches at Stanford University School of Medicine and wrote the book Be Your Own Brand of Sexy, which won 14 book awards. She offers private consultations and a dating quiz that gives each woman a custom video.
Carol
Carol runs Flipping Fabulously, a dating coaching practice for Black women over 60. She helps clients date with clarity, confidence and emotional safety, including after loss or a long marriage. Carol spent 40 years in healthcare fraud prevention, auditing and behavior analysis. She uses that skill to teach clients how to spot deception in profiles, messages and in person. She is also a widow after 48 years of marriage.
Date Him Honey
Date Him Honey is a dating coaching practice for women who want lasting love and struggle with anxious attachment. The coach is a licensed trauma therapist and somatic dating coach with 12+ years in the work. More than 900 women have received support. The focus is on resetting old dating patterns in the nervous system so clients stop chasing unavailable men and start choosing men who show up. Offers include a 6-Step Secure Method, 1:1 coaching, and a 12-week group program.
Mila Smith
Mila Smith is a UK relationship and dating coach who helps men and women build confidence and make wiser choices in love. She has more than 25 years of experience in relationship management. She is certified through the School of Matchmaking & Relationship Sciences. Her training draws on a 30+ year study from a leading relationship expert. She coaches online and tailors sessions to each client's challenges and goals.
Kerrie Iannuzzi
Kerrie Iannuzzi is a dating coach who helps women meet and marry a committed partner. She runs a 16 week one-on-one program called Fast Track to Love. She has helped over 50 women meet and marry their soulmates. She built her method after 15 years of dating in New York City, and she met her own husband in just under 3 months by using it. Her program covers online dating profiles, dating apps and mindset.
Alan Cox
Alan Cox is a life coach and CBT practitioner who helps gay men move from casual dating to a committed, monogamous relationship. He also facilitates workshops and is an author. He hosts The Gay Monogamy Coach podcast, which has 140 episodes since 2024. Episodes cover attachment styles, the cost of dating apps, and how to build a life that fits a lasting relationship. His work centers on clarity, confidence, and clear relationship goals.
Andy Yosha
Andy Yosha is linked to Daygame Blueprint, a daygame program that teaches men to meet women in everyday places like coffee shops, book shops and clothing stores. The method is a phase-driven approach, not scripted lines. The founder, Yad Barre, has trained thousands of men in seminars and workshops around the world. The program serves 300 to 500 men per year in person and offers video courses for those who do not want to wait.
Beck Thompson
Beck Thompson is a dating and relationship coach in Australia who helps singles and couples over 40 and 50. She is an award-winning coach and an international bestselling author. She hosts The Relationship Circle podcast, which started in 2023 and has 66 episodes. Each week she covers topics from first dates to long-term relationships. She also runs a free Facebook community and offers free relationship e-books and masterclasses.
Jennifer Hurvitz
Jennifer Hurvitz is a relationship expert and dating coach who helps divorced women and singles over 40 find love again. She hosts the Doing Relationships Right podcast and is a best-selling author. Her book Woulda. Coulda. Shoulda. is one of her titles. She has been through divorce and dating herself, and she uses that experience in her coaching. Her work covers online dating, life after separation, and dating in midlife.
Patty Martin-Guerra
Patty Martin-Guerra is a Christian life coach for single women over 40. He helps women heal after divorce, let go of old patterns, and meet the right man. His method has worked with hundreds of women. He runs the Mujer Renuévate podcast in Spanish and the Rising After Divorce podcast. He also offers a healing membership and women's retreats. His own story began with years of dating apps that brought clarity but no real connection.
Social Coach
Social Coach is a dating coaching practice for men over 35. It teaches men to meet, attract and date the women they want. The founder, James, is a former financial analyst who started coaching in 2006. The team is 5 men and 13 women. Clients practice in hands-on drills with female trainers, then go out and try the skills in real life.
Susan Winter
Susan Winter is a relationship coach in New York City who helps people find and keep love. She works on dating problems, relationship challenges and inner confidence. She has coached since 2000. Before that she worked as an opera singer, a TV anchor and a corporate spokeswoman. She wrote the bestselling book Older Women/Younger Men and also wrote Breakup Triage. She speaks at events and appears often in national media.
David Wygant
David Wygant is a dating, relationship and personal growth coach in Los Angeles. He helps men and women with online dating, communication and confidence. He has coached for 20 years and has advised 1.7 million people. He also reviews dating and hookup sites and writes guides on profiles, first dates and apps. He runs podcasts and offers one-on-one coaching.
Jade Bianca
Jade Bianca is a dating coach who helps divorced professionals date again with confidence. She runs Dating Coach In My Pocket, a service that sends daily guidance by text. She also works with clients in private coaching sessions. Her framework draws on research about attachment theory and trauma recovery. She focuses on the fears that come after a marriage ends, like trusting your judgment, handling dating apps, and finding time to date while working and raising kids.
Lauren Sanders
Lauren Sanders is a matchmaker and dating coach who founded The Love Crush Agency. She helps professional singles find a partner through matchmaking and dating coaching. The agency has run since 2019 and serves clients in all 50 states. Lauren has paired hundreds of singles, and many of those matches ended in marriage. She is also a multi-published Christian author who writes about love and relationships. The agency has a focus on matchmaking for Black professionals.
Mark Langford
Mark Langford is a relationship coach who helps men and women in midlife find and keep love and intimacy. He has more than a decade of experience and has coached over a thousand clients. His work covers self-esteem, anxiety around the opposite sex, online dating, boundaries, heartbreak and infidelity. He also works on communication and conflict resolution in lasting relationships. Clients start with a consultation.
Marta Laczynski
Marta Laczynski is a dating and relationship coach for single women over 35 who struggle to find a meaningful relationship. She holds a master's degree in psychology and certifications in counseling and life coaching. She left an earlier career to coach women full time. Her work builds self-awareness, self-confidence and self-love so clients can attract and keep healthy relationships. She frames her main offer around a 90 day timeline.
Mike Goldstein
Mike Goldstein runs EZ Dating Coach, a one-on-one online dating coaching practice for women and men. He is based in New Jersey and works with clients in English-speaking countries. He wrote the bestselling book Successful Dating For Women Over 50. He has built a following of 250K+ on TikTok and YouTube. His site reports that 83% of clients find a committed relationship, and that clients typically meet 6 to 8 people before finding a real connection.
Richard La Ruina
Richard La Ruina is a dating coach for men and the founder of PUA Training. She started the company in 2007 after overcoming her own shyness. Her guides, boot camps and methods teach men to meet women, build confidence and handle rejection. She is also the creator of Super Seducer. She is based in London, UK. PUA Training says it has helped thousands of men around the world get better with women.
Rick Clemons
Rick Clemons is a coach for gay men over 40 who feel stuck in their relationships, careers, or sense of who they are. He hosts the podcast 40+ Gay Men. Gay Talk. and runs a free monthly group chat. Rick is a former corporate executive who walked away from that career. He came out later in life, so he knows the choices his clients face. His private coaching is direct and built around ending stalling and making real moves.
Stacy Perry
Stacy Perry is a dating coach who helps women find love faster and with less drama. She also works as a life coach. Her approach comes from her own story. She was single again at 40 and went all in on dating for four years. She went on 475 dates before she met the love of her life. She now teaches women what she learned and adds mindset tools from her life coaching work.
Karen Bigman
Karen Bigman is a certified intimacy and relationship coach and sex educator who helps men in midlife and beyond 50. She runs Taboo to Truth and hosts a podcast called Taboo to Truth: Life and Sex After 50. Her work covers desire, changing bodies, and how relationships shift over time. She also built Men Meet Menopause, a course that explains menopause and its effect on intimacy to male partners.
Kimberly Loveland
Kimberly Loveland is a dating and relationship coach who helps women who feel lost in love and struggle in their relationships with men. She specializes in feminine energy and uses it to teach women how to build emotional connection with men. She hosts a podcast called The Goddess of Love and runs a Facebook group for her clients and listeners. Her episodes cover dating in your 40s and 50s, dating multiple men, and how a man falls in love.
Alisa Bell
Alisa Bell is a confidence coach and dating coach. She helps men over 30 who face relationship challenges and women over 40 who deal with relationship issues. She is an ICF certified life coach with over 13 years of experience. Her work centers on mindset strategies that help clients reach their goals. She also coaches on goal setting, relationship building and dating advice, and she uses creative coaching techniques shaped to each client.
Bari Lyman
Bari Lyman is a dating coach who helps people find a partner they can marry. He created the Meet to Marry Method and has used it with clients for over a decade. Before he coached dating, he coached career professionals toward better jobs. He works with women and men, including LGBTQ clients, in a two stage process. First clients clear old barriers to love. Then they learn to date with a clear plan.
Liza Cooper
Liza Cooper is a love and dating coach who helps women get back into dating, especially women over 50. She founded Love After 50 and is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. She leads online group workshops and offers private coaching. Her story about dating at 50 after a divorce drew over 1M views on TikTok. The New York Times also featured her mid-life divorce and her friendship with her ex.
Persia Lawson
Persia Lawson is a dating and relationship coach in London who helps successful, high-achieving women find secure, lasting partnerships. Persia has coached for 14 years and has worked with thousands of women. Persia is a TV personality and has written three books. Persia hosts The Love Is Coming podcast, which ranked #1 in the UK for dating and relationship shows. Persia teaches the Anti-Dating Matrix Method to break old dating patterns.
Ruth Schwartz
Ruth Schwartz is the director of Conscious Girlfriend Academy, an online school and community for lesbian, queer and non-binary people. She wrote the book Conscious Lesbian Dating & Love, which has reached readers in 25 countries. Her academy teaches dating, love, attachment and healing from past heartbreak. She also runs a coach training and certification program and leads a team of certified coaches. Ruth hosts optional Deep Dive group coaching sessions for members.
Diane Brandon Moody
Diane Brandon Moody is a dating and relationship coach for women over 50. She runs Fiftysomething Love and hosts a podcast of the same name. She got married for the first time at age 58, and she teaches what she learned the hard way. Her method starts with calming the nervous system. Then she works on feminine energy. Last come the dating tactics, like writing the ad, going on dates and reading what is in front of you.
Vee Mindful
Vee Mindful is a modern dating strategist who coaches mature singles over 40 and over 50 who want a real, lasting partner. Vee has more than 16 years of coaching experience. After a long marriage ended, Vee went on over 200 dates and spent 10 years studying the psychology of attraction and commitment. Vee created the From Situationship to Soulmate program and teaches a vetted protocol for choosing a partner.
Diane Brandon Moody
Diane Brandon Moody is a dating coach for women over 50. She runs the Psychology of Dating practice and hosts the Fiftysomething Love podcast, which has more than 80 episodes. Topics include online dating, dating scams, red flags, dating after being widowed, and dating in a small town. She leads a group program called Simply Irresistible Collective. She also hosts summits with Sharon Jenkins, and her podcast shares client stories.
April A. Carter
April A. Carter is a certified relationship coach in Charlotte, North Carolina. She helps single women over 40 find a committed partner. She leads the So Long Single: APEX Alignment Mastery program, which runs 90 days. She also hosts singles events and couples events.
Rebirth Divorce and Dating Coach
Rebirth Divorce and Dating Coach helps men and women over 40 get through divorce and start dating again. The coach focuses on men and the problems they face, such as money worries, moving out of the family home, less time with children, and co-parenting with a difficult ex. When clients are ready to date, the coach draws on over 10 years of dating experience around the world. Clients also learn to avoid repeating mistakes from their last relationship.
Richard Gibson
Richard Gibson, who also goes by Richie, is a life and relationship coach in Adelaide, South Australia. He helps recently divorced men and women in their 40s rebuild confidence after a split. He also coaches professionals and founders going through separation, career change or loss of a role. He is a certified results coach and a PSYCH-K facilitator. He works in Adelaide and Sydney, and online across Australia.
Dr. Lawana Gladney
Dr. Lawana Gladney is a psychologist, speaker, author and podcaster who runs DrGTV. He teaches women how to manage emotions, build stronger relationships and grow in confidence and success. He has spent over 35 years helping people work on their mindset and healing. He hosts the podcast Single Life with Dr. G, which covers dating over 40. He also runs a School of Life program and offers speaking and consulting.
Laurie James
Laurie James is a somatic coach and author who helps midlife women heal after divorce, loss, and big life changes. He hosts the Confessions of a Freebird podcast, which has 134 episodes since 2023. He wrote the memoir Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go. He is a certified somatic practitioner. He has lived through divorce and caregiving himself, and he teaches body-based tools for starting over.
Joe Staszak
Joe Staszak is a life coach in Malvern, Pennsylvania. He coaches men and women over 40 who feel they have lost their edge. His main goal is helping clients get their confidence back. He also offers health and fitness, nutrition, and relationship coaching. Joe holds a Certified Master Life Coach title and a Certified Professional Coach title. He runs a program called "Be The One," which focuses on being unoffendable and letting go of ego.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Alison Verge | Dating over 40 and Online dating and apps | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Carol Fulwiler Jones | Dating over 40 and Couples and marriage | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Jill Rhodes Harvey | Dating for women and Dating after divorce | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Jiveny Blair-West | Dating for women and Attachment styles | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Kimmy Seltzer | Online dating and apps and Dating over 40 | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Marni Battista | Dating for women and Dating over 40 | $100 to $175 an hour |
| Paige Dempsey | Dating for women and Online dating and apps | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Sarah Louise Ryan | Matchmaking and Couples and marriage | $100 to $170 an hour |
| Shana James | Dating after divorce and Dating over 40 | $100 to $160 an hour |
| Alyssa Dineen | Online dating and apps and Texting and first dates | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Amy Schoen | Dating over 40 and Dating after divorce | $100 to $175 an hour |
| April Braswell | Online dating and apps and Dating after divorce | $100 to $200 an hour |
| Bobbi Palmer | Dating over 40 and Dating for women | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Jonathon Aslay | Dating for women and Dating over 40 | $100 to $225 an hour |
| Mairi Macleod | Dating for women and Online dating and apps | $70 to $130 an hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach for dating over 40 cost?
Most dating coaches charge $90 to $188 per hour or session.
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Common focus areas include online dating and apps, dating for women, dating after divorce and couples and marriage.
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Last updated September 2026.