Bobbi Palmer
Dating coach for women over 40 and 50
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $225 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Women and People over 40 |
| Based in | United States |
| Practice | Date Like a Grownup |
Bobbi Palmer is a dating coach for women over 40 and 50. He founded Date Like a Grownup. He became a first-time bride at age 47 in 2006. He divorced in 2024 and now dates as a single woman again. He has helped thousands of women around the world with dating and self-love. He teaches a three-part approach that balances head and heart, and he runs a group program for women over 50.
What Bobbi helps with
Bobbi works with women who date after 40 and feel stuck, discouraged or unloved. He helps them find love and value themselves with or without a man.
- Dating after 40 and 50
- Dating after divorce
- Meeting a partner online
- Getting clear on who you are and what you want
- Learning to value yourself while single
- Handling men who lie or disappear
- Feeling discouraged about dating at an older age
Who Bobbi works with
Bobbi coaches women who are dating after 40 and after 50. Some are single for the first time in years. Some are recently divorced. His clients include women who feel it is too late for love and want a clear way forward.
How Bobbi works
Bobbi teaches three principles for dating like a grownup. First, balance your head and heart. Second, show kindness to yourself and the men you meet. Third, take responsibility for your actions and outcomes. He also offers a free quiz that shows each woman his Grownup Dating Personality. He runs a group program called How to Find Your Man for women over 50.
Background and qualifications
Bobbi Palmer is the founder of Date Like a Grownup. He spent more than 25 years in painful dating patterns before he did deep inner work on himself. He learned to love himself and men, and he married for the first time at age 47 in 2006. That marriage ended in divorce in 2024 after 18 years. He now dates as a single woman and coaches other women through the same stage of life. He has helped thousands of women around the world.
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Programs and services
- Group program: How to Find Your Man, for women over 50
- Free Grownup Dating Personality quiz
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The CoachVouch take
Bobbi married for the first time at 47 and is now dating again after divorce, so he coaches from both sides of midlife dating.
Best for women over 40 who want kind, honest help to find love and value themselves.
Common questions
How much does Bobbi Palmer charge?
Coaching with Bobbi runs $100 to $225 an hour. Message Bobbi from this page for an exact quote.
What does Bobbi Palmer help with?
Bobbi Palmer helps with dating after 40 and 50, dating after divorce, meeting a partner online and getting clear on who you are and what you want.
Does Bobbi Palmer work with women who are divorced?
Yes. He writes about dating after divorce and went through a divorce himself in 2024.
Does Bobbi Palmer offer a group program?
Yes. He runs a group program called How to Find Your Man for women over 50.
How do I contact Bobbi Palmer?
Send Bobbi a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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