Amy Schoen

Dating and relationship coach for marriage-minded singles over 40

Dating CoachUnited States$100 to $175 an hour
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Hourly rate range$100 to $175 an hour
Focus areas
Works withMen and Women
Based inUnited States
CredentialsCertified professional Life and Relationship Coach
PracticeMotivated to Marry

Amy Schoen is a dating and relationship coach who helps marriage-minded men and women over 40 find lasting love. She runs Motivated to Marry and hosts a podcast with the same name. She has been a certified life coach since 2005. Her first marriage ended in her mid-thirties. She now teaches that plan to her clients.

What Amy helps with

Amy works with successful singles who want a committed marriage but have not found the right partner. She helps them get clear on what they want and date with a plan.

  • Finding a long-term committed relationship
  • Getting clear on personal goals and deal breakers
  • Dating in line with your core values
  • Starting over after divorce
  • Feeling ready to use dating apps again
  • Meeting people who share your values

Who Amy works with

Amy coaches marriage-minded men and women over 40 and 50. Her clients are often smart, successful people with strong careers. They want a life partner but feel stuck being single while friends are coupled up.

How Amy works

Amy teaches a values-based dating system. Clients start by getting clear on their personal goals, their deal breakers, and what matters most to them. They then use that clarity to meet people who share their values. Amy built this method from her own experience after her divorce. She also offers a free Meet Your Mate Readiness Quiz.

Background and qualifications

Amy Schoen has been a certified life coach since 2005. She is a certified professional Life and Relationship Coach and hosts the Motivated to Marry podcast. Her own path shaped her method. Her first marriage ended when she was in her mid-thirties, and she dated without a strategy for a time.

Amy Schoen pricing

Hourly rate range
$100 to $175 an hour

Programs and services

  • Free Meet Your Mate Readiness Quiz
  • Coaching products
  • Motivated to Marry podcast
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Best for successful singles over 40 who want marriage and need a clear, values-based dating plan.

Common questions

How much does Amy Schoen charge?

Coaching with Amy runs $100 to $175 an hour. Message Amy from this page for an exact quote.

What does Amy Schoen help with?

Amy Schoen helps with finding a long-term committed relationship, getting clear on personal goals and deal breakers, dating in line with your core values and starting over after divorce.

Is Amy Schoen certified?

Amy Schoen lists: Certified professional Life and Relationship Coach.

Does Amy Schoen coach people who are divorced?

Yes. Amy went through a divorce in her mid-thirties and built her method from that recovery. She helps people start over and date with a clear plan.

Does Amy Schoen coach both men and women?

Yes. She works with marriage-minded men and women over 40 and 50.

How do I contact Amy Schoen?

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