Jonathon Aslay
Dating and relationship coach for midlife women
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $225 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Women and People over 40 |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | United States |
| Sessions | Online |
| Practice | Understand Men Now |
Jonathon Aslay is a dating and relationship coach who helps midlife women. He runs Understand Men Now, a brand built around helping women understand how men think in love. He offers one-on-one coaching, audio programs, downloadable workbooks and a monthly membership called Mid-Life Love Mastery. He also shares advice through a podcast, a YouTube channel and a blog that covers dating, online dating, breakups and mindset.
What Jonathon helps with
Jonathon works with women on the challenges of dating and relationships in midlife. His topics cover how to attract a committed partner and how to communicate with men.
- Attracting and spotting commitment ready men
- Avoiding behaviors that push men away
- Finding the right men online
- Expressing needs so a partner responds
- Communicating in a way that gets men to open up
- Making dating fun and building confidence about it
- Working through relationship struggles that hold you back
Who Jonathon works with
His clients are midlife women who want love and a lasting relationship. They are dating in midlife or working through relationship struggles. Many want to understand men better and find a committed partner.
How Jonathon works
Jonathon offers a membership program called Mid-Life Love Mastery. Members get 12 audio recordings in the first month, then new content each month. Topics include spotting commitment ready men and finding the right men online. Members can listen at any time online. He also offers one-on-one coaching, audio programs and downloadable workbooks, plus a community of women.
Background and qualifications
Jonathon Aslay founded Understand Men Now, a coaching brand for midlife dating and relationships. He describes himself as America's leading midlife dating and relationship coach. He produces a podcast, a YouTube channel and a blog. The blog covers dating, relationships, mindset, online dating and breakups. He also creates audio programs and workbooks for women.
Jonathon Aslay pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Mid-Life Love Mastery monthly membership
- Audio programs and downloadable workbooks
- Community for women
Jonathon Aslay reviews
The CoachVouch take
He focuses only on midlife dating and teaches women how men think, through audio programs, a podcast and a monthly membership.
Best for midlife women who want to understand men and find a committed partner.
Common questions
How much does Jonathon Aslay charge?
Coaching with Jonathon runs $100 to $225 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Jonathon Aslay help with?
Jonathon Aslay helps with attracting and spotting commitment ready men, avoiding behaviors that push men away, finding the right men online and expressing needs so a partner responds.
Does Jonathon Aslay coach online?
Jonathon is based in United States. Sessions are online.
Does Jonathon Aslay offer options besides one-on-one coaching?
Yes. He offers audio programs, downloadable workbooks and a monthly membership called Mid-Life Love Mastery. He also runs a community for women.
How do I contact Jonathon Aslay?
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