Shana James
Love and dating coach for people over 40
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $160 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men, Women and People over 40 |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Credentials | Certified in DISC; Certified in Positive Intelligence; Master's degree in Psychology |
| Experience | 20 years coaching |
| Practice | Shana James Coaching |
Shana James is a love and dating coach who works with men and women over 40. She helps people who are dating, healing from divorce or heartbreak, or trying to bring more intimacy into a long-term relationship. She wrote Honest Sex, hosts two podcasts, and gave a TEDx talk on the divide between men and women. She holds a Master's in Psychology.
What Shana helps with
Shana works on love, sex and dating in midlife. She helps clients build trust, close emotional distance and find partners who are ready for commitment.
- Dating again after divorce
- Healing from heartbreak
- Finding emotionally available partners
- Bringing intimacy back to a long-term relationship
- Releasing old patterns that block closeness
- Fear of being too much or not enough
- Building a connected and exciting sex life
- Connecting with a partner without losing yourself
Who Shana works with
Shana works with men and women over 40. Some are dating and some are in long-term relationships with little spark. Many are healing from divorce or heartbreak. Her clients are often dealing with midlife changes like career shifts, parenting and changing hormones.
Background and qualifications
Shana James holds a Master's in Psychology. She has coached people on their love lives for 20 years. She is certified in DISC and Positive Intelligence. She gave a TEDx talk called What 1000 Men's Tears Reveal About the Crisis Between Men and Women. She hosts the Practicing Love Podcast and the Man Alive Podcast. She is also one of the founders of the Authentic Relating World-Wide Movement. She started dating again at 35 after her own divorce.
Shana James pricing
Programs and services
- Free love consultation
- Honest Dating Guide
- Love and dating coaching for men
- Love coaching for women
Shana James reviews
The CoachVouch take
Shana is an author, podcast host and TEDx speaker who has coached on love for 20 years and helped found the Authentic Relating movement.
Best for men and women over 40 who want deeper love, whether they are dating again or renewing a long-term relationship.
Common questions
How much does Shana James charge?
Coaching with Shana runs $100 to $160 an hour. Message Shana from this page for an exact quote.
What does Shana James help with?
Shana James helps with dating again after divorce, healing from heartbreak, finding emotionally available partners and bringing intimacy back to a long-term relationship.
Is Shana James certified?
Shana James lists: Certified in DISC; Certified in Positive Intelligence; Master's degree in Psychology.
Does Shana James coach both men and women?
Yes. She has separate paths for men and women, and she also coaches people on dating after 40.
Does Shana James help people who are already in a relationship?
Yes. She works with people in long-term relationships who want more intimacy and connection, as well as with people who are dating.
How do I contact Shana James?
Send Shana a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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