Bari Lyman
Marriage-minded dating coach and creator of the Meet to Marry Method
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $225 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Dating for womenDating for menLGBTQ datingDating over 40Online dating and appsCouples and marriageConfidence and self-esteem |
| Works with | Women, Men and LGBTQ+ |
| Also coaches | Life coach and Spiritual coach |
| Based in | Florida, United States |
| Practice | Meet To Marry |
Bari Lyman is a dating coach who helps people find a partner they can marry. He created the Meet to Marry Method and has used it with clients for over a decade. Before he coached dating, he coached career professionals toward better jobs. He works with women and men, including LGBTQ clients, in a two stage process. First clients clear old barriers to love. Then they learn to date with a clear plan.
What Bari helps with
Bari works with people who are tired of dating the wrong partners and want a lasting, healthy relationship. He helps clients build a plan and follow it.
- Dating the wrong people again and again
- Breaking patterns with emotionally unavailable partners
- Building a step-by-step plan to find a life partner
- Removing hidden barriers to love from the past
- Getting unstuck after trying therapy, books and matchmakers
- Dating with clarity instead of settling
- Feeling burned out by online dating
Who Bari works with
Bari coaches women and men, including LGBTQ clients, who want a marriage-minded relationship. His clients are often accomplished people who succeed in other areas of life but feel stuck in love. He says age, city, or a busy schedule are not barriers to working with him.
How Bari works
Bari teaches the Meet to Marry Method in two stages. First, he helps clients connect with their core self and remove hidden barriers to love from the past. He coaches clients at each step of putting that plan into action. He also offers a free video training called 5 Powerful Shifts to Get Unstuck in Love.
Background and qualifications
Bari started as a coach for career professionals 20 years ago, helping them move into better jobs. His own dating life was hard, and he kept choosing emotionally unavailable partners. He then combined what he knew about coaching, personal growth, spirituality, psychology and science into a practical dating plan. That work became the Meet to Marry Method. He has used it for over a decade with clients.
Bari Lyman pricing
Programs and services
- Free video training: 5 Powerful Shifts to Get Unstuck in Love
- Free call to talk about working together
- Coaching in the Meet to Marry Method
- Members area
Bari Lyman reviews
The CoachVouch take
Bari began as a career coach, then built his own dating method after his own struggles to find the right partner.
Best for people who want marriage, feel stuck in a pattern of wrong partners, and are ready to follow a clear plan.
Common questions
How much does Bari Lyman charge?
Coaching with Bari runs $100 to $225 an hour. Message Bari from this page for an exact quote.
What does Bari Lyman help with?
Bari Lyman helps with dating the wrong people again and again, breaking patterns with emotionally unavailable partners, building a step-by-step plan to find a life partner and removing hidden barriers to love from the past.
Does Bari Lyman coach LGBTQ clients?
Yes. He works with women and men, including LGBTQ clients.
Is there an age limit to work with Bari?
His site says clients do not need to worry about being too old or too young. Clients need to be coachable and ready to make changes.
How do I contact Bari Lyman?
Send Bari a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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