Rick Clemons

Coach for gay men over 40 and podcast host

Dating CoachUnited States$100 to $225 an hour
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Hourly rate range$100 to $225 an hour
Focus areas
LGBTQ datingDating over 40Life transitionsPurpose and directionConfidence and self-esteemCareer clarity and purpose
Works withMen, LGBTQ+ and People over 40
Also coachesLife coach, Career coach and ADHD coach
Based inUnited States

Rick Clemons is a coach for gay men in midlife. He helps them work on relationships, careers, confidence and purpose. Rick hosts the weekly podcast 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk. He also leads a free monthly live Gay Men's Chat, one hour long. His style is blunt and direct. He pushes clients to stop settling and make one clear decision about the life they want.

What Rick helps with

Rick works with gay men who feel stuck in a life that looks fine but does not fit. He helps them go after the relationship, work and friendships they actually want.

  • Stopping the habit of settling in relationships
  • Finding clarity on what you want from life
  • Building confidence in who you are
  • Making a move toward work you care about
  • Beating procrastination on a long-held goal
  • Dating with more purpose
  • Aging and midlife questions

Who Rick works with

Rick coaches gay men in midlife who feel they are living on repeat. Many look successful on the outside but sense something is off. They want more from their relationships, careers and friendships and are ready to act instead of think about it.

Background and qualifications

Rick Clemons is a coach, speaker and author. He hosts the podcast 40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk., which covers sex, relationships, careers and aging for gay men. He also runs a monthly one-hour live Gay Men's Chat that is free to join.

Rick Clemons pricing

Hourly rate range
$100 to $225 an hour
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Programs and services

  • One-on-one coaching
  • Free monthly live Gay Men's Chat
  • Podcast
  • Bold Move Live
  • Speaking
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The CoachVouch take

Rick is a gay man who coaches and hosts a podcast made only for gay men over 40.

Best for gay men in midlife who feel stuck settling and want to make a bold change.

Common questions

How much does Rick Clemons charge?

Coaching with Rick runs $100 to $225 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.

What does Rick Clemons help with?

Rick Clemons helps with stopping the habit of settling in relationships, finding clarity on what you want from life, building confidence in who you are and making a move toward work you care about.

Does Rick Clemons only work with gay men?

Yes. His coaching, podcast and monthly chats are all built for gay men, with a focus on midlife.

Is there a free way to try Rick's work?

Yes. He hosts a free live Gay Men's Chat once a month that lasts one hour.

How do I contact Rick Clemons?

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