Mike Kollin
Dating and relationship coach for high-performing men in the San Francisco Bay Area
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men and Professionals |
| Based in | California, United States |
| Sessions | Online and in person |
| Practice | Crack The Female Code |
Mike Kollin is a dating and relationship coach for high-performing men. He runs the practice Crack The Female Code from the San Francisco Bay Area. His work centers on social hesitation, repeating dating patterns, and staying calm under pressure. He offers a 5-day in-field intensive and private one-on-one sessions. He also wrote the book Crack the Female Code, which covers female psychology and frame control. He takes clients from Silicon Valley and around the world.
What Mike helps with
Mike works with men who do well in their careers but struggle with dating and social settings. His focus is on state control and behavior in real situations.
- Social hesitation around women
- Repeating frustrating relationship patterns
- Feeling disconnected in dating life
- Staying calm and confident under pressure
- Building attraction through presence, not scripts
- Understanding female psychology
Who Mike works with
Mike coaches high-performing men who handle career pressure and discipline well but feel stuck in dating and social dynamics. His clients include professionals from the San Francisco and Silicon Valley area, plus men from other countries who work with him by private arrangement.
How Mike works
Mike teaches through live, in-field practice instead of talk therapy. His main program is a 5-day in-field intensive. He also offers a second intensive called Interpersonal Mastery, and private coaching by the session. The work focuses on calming the nervous system, cutting hesitation, and building calm authority in real interactions. Some clients also do hypnosis sessions.
Background and qualifications
Mike Kollin is the author of the book Crack the Female Code: The Subconscious Roadmap to Female Psychology and Frame Control. His practice is based in the San Francisco Bay Area. He serves clients in Silicon Valley and worldwide. He also leads live seminars along with his private coaching. His site shows client interviews from men, including a computer scientist who went from dateless to dating success.
Mike Kollin pricing
Programs and services
- 5-Day Behavioral Calibration Intensive
- Interpersonal Mastery Intensive
- Private one-on-one coaching sessions
- Live seminars
- Private consultation
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The CoachVouch take
Mike teaches dating skills through a 5-day in-field intensive where clients practice in real social settings.
Best for successful men who feel stuck in dating and want live, hands-on practice.
Common questions
How much does Mike Kollin charge?
Coaching with Mike runs $100 to $150 an hour. Message Mike from this page for an exact quote.
What does Mike Kollin help with?
Mike Kollin helps with social hesitation around women, repeating frustrating relationship patterns, feeling disconnected in dating life and staying calm and confident under pressure.
Does Mike Kollin coach online?
Mike is based in California, United States. Sessions are online and in person.
Does Mike Kollin coach men outside the San Francisco area?
Yes. He serves clients in Silicon Valley and worldwide by private arrangement.
Does Mike Kollin offer in-person training?
Yes. His 5-day intensive is done in the field with live practice in real social settings.
How do I contact Mike Kollin?
Send Mike a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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