Ruby
Dating coach for good-hearted men in Southern California
| Hourly rate range | $75 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men |
| Also coaches | Speaking coach |
| Based in | Southern California |
| Practice | Good Gentleman |
Ruby is a dating coach who helps good-hearted men get quality dates and find lasting love. Ruby runs Good Gentleman and has almost a decade of experience as a private dating coach. Ruby has also worked with It's Just Lunch and eHarmony. Ruby gave a TEDx talk on why getting the right date is so hard. Ruby also hosts meetups for men in Southern California and runs a free support community.
What Ruby helps with
Ruby works with men who have little dating experience or feel stuck. The goal is to get on quality dates without changing who you are.
- Not knowing where to start in modern dating
- Feeling uncomfortable at bars or with online dating
- Making the first move with women
- Getting turned down again and again
- Losing the "nice guy" label
- Going from no dates to scheduled dates
- Finding a partner to settle down with
Who Ruby works with
Ruby coaches men who have had little dating experience or have never been in a relationship. Some have spent most of their lives single. Others feel uneasy at bars and on dating apps, or feel worn down after being turned down. Her clients want to meet a partner and settle down.
How Ruby works
Ruby teaches a 5-step plan built to get men quality dates in 4 weeks. The plan is offered as a free ebook. She says the goal is to bring out strengths a client already has, with no false bravado. She also runs a free support community with discussion and advice, and holds meetups in Southern California.
Background and qualifications
Ruby has almost a decade of experience as a private dating coach. She has also worked with two well known dating services, It's Just Lunch and eHarmony. She gave a TEDx talk about why getting the right date is so difficult. Today she runs Good Gentleman, a coaching practice built for good-hearted men who want to find love and stay true to themselves.
Ruby pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one dating coaching
- Free ebook with a 5-step plan
- Free online community for men
- Meetups in Southern California
- Free answers to common dating questions
Ruby reviews
The CoachVouch take
Ruby has worked with It's Just Lunch and eHarmony and gave a TEDx talk on why finding the right date is hard.
Best for men with little dating experience who want quality dates without changing who they are.
Common questions
How much does Ruby charge?
Coaching with Ruby runs $75 to $150 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Ruby help with?
Ruby helps with not knowing where to start in modern dating, feeling uncomfortable at bars or with online dating, making the first move with women and getting turned down again and again.
Does Ruby offer free support for men?
Yes. Ruby runs a free community where men share advice and join discussions. She also invites members to meetups in Southern California.
Who does Ruby coach?
Ruby coaches good-hearted men who want to find love. This includes men with little dating experience or who have never had a relationship.
How do I contact Ruby?
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