Erik Carlberg
Dating coach for men in Los Angeles, working worldwide
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men |
| Based in | Los Angeles, California, United States |
| Sessions | Online and in person |
| Practice | Dating Coach For Men |
Erik Carlberg is a dating coach for men. He helps men of all ages and experience levels find love, build lasting relationships, and feel more at ease socially. He has coached for over fifteen years and works with a team. He wrote The Vortex of Love, a book on attracting women that took him three years to finish. He also trains people who want to become dating coaches. Clients work with him from all over the world.
What Erik helps with
Erik works with men on finding and keeping love, and on the fears that hold them back in dating.
- Finding a long-term partner, life partner or marriage
- Growing and sustaining relationships
- Attracting casual, mutually beneficial relationships
- Managing fear and approach anxiety
- Dropping self-defeating and irrational beliefs
- Building online dating profiles that work across several platforms
Who Erik works with
Erik and his team coach men from around the world. Clients come from all ages and backgrounds. Some are brand new to working on their love life. Others already do well with dating and want more. Many fall somewhere in between.
How Erik works
Erik builds a custom plan for each client. He and the client shape strategies, tactics, techniques and gameplans around that man's wants, needs and preferences. Coaching can happen by phone or video, with text support between calls. One-on-one coaching can also happen in the client's home city or a destination the client picks. Wingman services are also offered.
Background and qualifications
Erik Carlberg has been a dating coach for men for over fifteen years. He describes nearly two decades of practicing the arts of love. He spent three years writing The Vortex of Love: How to Get a Woman to Fall in Love With You. He leads a team of coaches and also trains aspiring dating coaches. He offers consulting to people who want to grow their own dating coaching business.
Erik Carlberg pricing
Programs and services
- Free confidential consultation
- One-on-one coaching in person or at a destination
- Phone and video call coaching with text support
- Wingman services
- Group workshops, seminars and bootcamps, virtual and in-person
- Online courses and instructionals
Erik Carlberg reviews
The CoachVouch take
Erik is the author of a book on attracting women that took him three years to write, and he also trains new dating coaches.
Best for men at any experience level who want a custom dating plan and the option of in-person wingman coaching.
Common questions
How much does Erik Carlberg charge?
Coaching with Erik runs $100 to $150 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Erik Carlberg help with?
Erik Carlberg helps with finding a long-term partner, life partner or marriage, growing and sustaining relationships, attracting casual, mutually beneficial relationships and managing fear and approach anxiety.
Does Erik Carlberg coach online?
Erik is based in Los Angeles, California, United States. Sessions are online and in person.
Does Erik Carlberg train other dating coaches?
Yes. His team trains aspiring dating coaches and offers consulting on growing a dating coaching business.
How do I contact Erik Carlberg?
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