Nikki Ruby
Intimacy and relationship coach for men in Minnesota
| Hourly rate range | $110 to $200 an hour |
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| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | Minnesota, United States |
| Credentials | Certified Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach; Licensed Massage Therapist |
Nikki Ruby is a certified sex, relationship and intimacy coach in Minnesota who works with men. She helps them with erectile dysfunction, low desire, performance anxiety, premature ejaculation and low self confidence. She also works with men in affectionless relationships and men carrying long-standing shame about sex. Nikki is also a licensed massage therapist and describes her work as tantra coaching. Her sessions focus on helping men get clear on what they want and build intimacy that feels fulfilling.
What Nikki helps with
Nikki works with men on sexual challenges, confidence and connection in relationships. She also covers shame around sex, kinks and emotional needs.
- Erectile dysfunction
- Low desire
- Performance anxiety
- Premature ejaculation
- Low self confidence
- Affectionless relationships
- Long-standing shame around sex
- Kinks, especially submission, and emotional needs
Who Nikki works with
Nikki coaches men who have tried to be the attentive, respectful partner but still feel rejected or disconnected. Her clients include men in affectionless marriages, men with little sexual experience, newly divorced men and virgins.
Background and qualifications
Nikki Ruby is a certified sex, relationship and intimacy coach. She is also a licensed massage therapist. She describes her work as tantra coaching and is based in Minnesota. Her coaching starts from the inside out. Clients get clear on what they want, rebuild confidence and learn to ask for and receive the connection they want.
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The CoachVouch take
Combines intimacy and relationship coaching with a massage therapy license and a tantra focus for male clients.
Best for men facing sexual performance worries, low desire or shame around sex who want to feel more confident and connected.
Common questions
How much does Nikki Ruby charge?
Coaching with Nikki runs $110 to $200 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Nikki Ruby help with?
Nikki Ruby helps with erectile dysfunction, low desire, performance anxiety and premature ejaculation.
Is Nikki Ruby certified?
Nikki Ruby lists: Certified Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach; Licensed Massage Therapist.
Does Nikki Ruby work with men who have little sexual experience?
Yes. She works with inexperienced men, virgins and newly divorced men.
Does Nikki Ruby coach on kinks?
Yes. She works with men on kinks, especially submission, and on shame around them.
How do I contact Nikki Ruby?
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