Nikki Ruby
Intimacy and confidence coach for men and couples in Minneapolis
| Hourly rate range | $110 to $200 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Dating for menCouples and marriageTexting and first datesDating after divorceAttachment stylesConfidence and self-esteem |
| Works with | Men and Couples |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States |
| Sessions | Online and in person |
| Credentials | Certified Life Coach (Alison); Licensed Massage Therapist; Massage therapy certification, Everest Institute; Psychology degree in progress, Western Governors University |
| Practice | The Pleasure Practice |
Nikki Ruby is a sex, intimacy and confidence coach for men and couples. She is based in the Twin Cities and also coaches online. She started as a licensed massage therapist in chiropractic clinics, wellness centers and luxury spas. She founded The Pleasure Practice and wrote The Pleasure Practice Workbook. She also created The Connection Coach, an AI-powered intimacy coaching app built on her curriculum.
What Nikki helps with
Nikki helps men build confidence in dating, sex and communication. She also works with couples who want stronger connection.
- Performance anxiety
- Erectile dysfunction and low desire
- Premature ejaculation
- Long-standing shame around sex
- Affectionless relationships
- Low confidence in dating and flirting
- Communicating desire clearly
- Exploring kinks such as submission
Who Nikki works with
Nikki works with men who feel rejected or disconnected even when they try to be attentive partners. She also coaches couples. Her clients include men facing sexual performance worries, low desire, shame around sex, or relationships that lack affection. She also works with men who are dating and want more confidence.
How Nikki works
Nikki uses her own Understand, Communicate, Implement coaching framework. Her work draws on attachment theory, neuroscience and relationship research. She treats intimacy as a skill that can be learned and practiced. Clients can also use The Connection Coach app, which includes an Erotic Archetype quiz, progress tracking and pattern recognition. Some sessions are hands-on and in person, where clients practice dating skills.
Background and qualifications
Nikki studied philosophy at Tulane. She earned a massage therapy certification from Everest Institute, graduating cum laude. She worked as a licensed massage therapist in chiropractic clinics, wellness centers and luxury spas. She later became a Certified Life Coach through Alison. She is now finishing a psychology degree at Western Governors University. She has worked in sex, intimacy and relationships for over a decade. She founded The Pleasure Practice and wrote The Pleasure Practice Workbook and The Intimacy Archives.
Nikki Ruby pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one in-person coaching in the Twin Cities
- Virtual coaching worldwide
- Free confidential consultation
- The Connection Coach AI intimacy app
- The Pleasure Practice Workbook
Nikki Ruby reviews
The CoachVouch take
She pairs a massage therapy career with intimacy coaching and an AI-powered app built on her own workbook.
Best for men who want to overcome sexual performance worries and build confidence in dating and intimacy.
Common questions
How much does Nikki Ruby charge?
Coaching with Nikki runs $110 to $200 an hour. Message Nikki from this page for an exact quote.
What does Nikki Ruby help with?
Nikki Ruby helps with performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction and low desire, premature ejaculation and long-standing shame around sex.
Does Nikki Ruby coach online?
Nikki is based in Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States. Sessions are online and in person.
Is Nikki Ruby certified?
Nikki Ruby lists: Certified Life Coach (Alison); Licensed Massage Therapist; Massage therapy certification, Everest Institute; Psychology degree in progress, Western Governors University.
Does Nikki Ruby work with couples?
Yes. She coaches men and couples on intimacy, communication and relationships.
How do I contact Nikki Ruby?
Send Nikki a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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