Rachel Burnham
Shidduch dating coach for marriage minded Orthodox singles
| Hourly rate range | $80 to $250 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men, Women and Parents |
| Based in | United States |
| Practice | D8GR8 |
Rachel Burnham is a shidduch dating coach who helps marriage minded singles in the Orthodox and frum world. She also guides parents and friends who support singles. Rachel dated for 14 years, with hundreds of men and thousands of dates. She uses that experience to help clients with dating profiles, choosing dates, date prep, and the later stages of a relationship. Her aim is to give clients useful tips within one session.
What Rachel helps with
Rachel helps singles who feel stuck or confused by shidduchim, shadchanim, resumes, dates, online dating and singles events. She also helps the parents and friends who support them.
- Building a clear and honest dating profile
- Choosing references and photos for a profile
- Widening the pool of people to date
- Choosing which dates to accept
- Getting in the right headspace before a date
- Reviewing a date and deciding whether to go out again
- Knowing how to say yes and no
- Pacing emotional openness in advanced stages of dating
Who Rachel works with
Rachel coaches singles of all ages, both men and women, who want marriage. She also works with parents of singles and with friends who want to support them. Her clients are in the modern frum and Orthodox dating world.
How Rachel works
Rachel builds her coaching around getting value fast. Within one session, clients leave with steps they can use to make dating choices with more clarity. Her services follow the dating path: Profile building, finding and choosing dates, prep before a date and review after, and advanced stages. She also coaches parents and friends on how to support a single.
Background and qualifications
Rachel's knowledge comes from her own dating life. She dated for 14 years, going out with hundreds of men on thousands of dates. She has also counseled many clients and friends. Through this she has worked through nearly every situation in modern frum and Orthodox dating.
Rachel Burnham pricing
Programs and services
- Dating profile building
- Finding and selecting dates
- Pre date preparation and post date review
- Coaching for advanced stages of dating
- Coaching for parents and friends of singles
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The CoachVouch take
Rachel built her expertise from 14 years of her own dating, with thousands of dates in the Orthodox world.
Best for Orthodox singles who want marriage and need clear guidance on shidduch dating.
Common questions
How much does Rachel Burnham charge?
Coaching with Rachel runs $80 to $250 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Rachel Burnham help with?
Rachel Burnham helps with building a clear and honest dating profile, choosing references and photos for a profile, widening the pool of people to date and choosing which dates to accept.
Does Rachel Burnham coach parents of singles?
Yes. She guides parents and friends so they can give singles the support they need now and over time.
How quickly does Rachel's coaching give results?
Her aim is to give useful tips within one session, so clients can make dating choices with more clarity and confidence.
How do I contact Rachel Burnham?
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