Nicole Colantoni
Trauma-informed dating and relationship coach for singles and couples
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $165 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Couples |
| Based in | Australia |
Nicole Colantoni is a trauma-informed dating and relationship coach in Australia. She works with singles, couples and people already in relationships. Her one-on-one coaching helps clients change the patterns that shape how they date and choose partners. She also hosts a podcast and sells courses on overcoming heartbreak, limerence and no-contact. Her work centers on early conditioning, nervous system defaults and old relationship templates as the root of repeated love problems.
What Nicole helps with
Nicole helps people who keep repeating the same problems in love. She works with heartbreak, dating struggles and relationship conflict.
- Getting over an ex after a painful breakup
- Choosing the wrong partners again and again
- Feeling worn out by dating apps
- Fear of letting someone in and getting hurt
- Repeating the same fights in a relationship
- Reconnecting as a couple
- Feeling unlovable or hard to love
- Changing patterns from early conditioning
Who Nicole works with
Nicole works with singles who want love, people who are heartbroken, and people in relationships that need support. She also works with couples who want to reconnect. Many clients arrive believing they are the problem, such as being too anxious or too much.
How Nicole works
Nicole looks at the patterns behind love problems. She points to early conditioning, nervous system defaults and old relationship templates as the drivers. Her coaching is trauma-informed and one-on-one. She also offers self-paced courses on overcoming heartbreak, limerence and the importance of no-contact, plus free tools like a heartbreak survival kit and a no-contact guide.
Background and qualifications
- Hosts a podcast
- Listed as an Australian dating expert and coach
- Has press features
- Offers courses on heartbreak, limerence and no-contact
Nicole Colantoni pricing
Programs and services
- 1:1 relationship coaching
- Overcoming Heartbreak course
- Navigating Limerence course
- The Importance of No-Contact course
- Heartbreak Survival Kit
- Attract Your Dream Partner ebook
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The CoachVouch take
She pairs trauma-informed one-on-one coaching with courses focused on heartbreak, limerence and no-contact.
Best for people who keep repeating painful love patterns and want to change them, whether single or partnered.
Common questions
How much does Nicole Colantoni charge?
Coaching with Nicole runs $100 to $165 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Nicole Colantoni help with?
Nicole Colantoni helps with getting over an ex after a painful breakup, choosing the wrong partners again and again, feeling worn out by dating apps and fear of letting someone in and getting hurt.
Does Nicole Colantoni coach couples?
Yes. She works with couples who want to reconnect, as well as singles and individuals in relationships.
Does Nicole help with getting over an ex?
Yes. She offers heartbreak coaching and a course on overcoming heartbreak. She also has a no-contact guide and a course on limerence.
How do I contact Nicole Colantoni?
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