Melissa Josue
Relationship coach for women with an anxious attachment style
| Hourly rate range | $115 to $210 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Women |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | United States |
| Practice | Melissa the Love Coach |
Melissa Josue is a relationship coach for women with an anxious attachment style. He helps single women who feel frustrated with dating and keep meeting men who are not ready to commit. His work centers on a method he calls Conscious Dater. It teaches clients to know what they want, build a plan, and act on it. He also shares his own story of leaving an emotionally abusive four year relationship.
What Melissa helps with
Melissa helps women break painful relationship patterns and find a committed partner. He focuses on anxious attachment and dating stress.
- Ending painful relationship patterns tied to anxious attachment
- Spotting red flags before getting hurt
- Knowing when to stay in a relationship or leave
- Meeting men who are ready to commit
- Feeling calm instead of clingy in a relationship
- Assessing real connection and long-term compatibility
- Getting clear on personal needs in a relationship
- Avoiding common dating mistakes
Who Melissa works with
Melissa works with smart, successful single women who are frustrated with the dating game. Many meet men who are not ready to commit or keep attracting partners who are not a good fit. His clients include women with an anxious attachment style. Some clients live outside the United States, including in the Netherlands.
How Melissa works
Melissa teaches a method called Conscious Dater. It has three parts. First, clients get clear on who they are and what they want and need. Second, they build a plan for getting what they want, with tools and strategies to judge real connection and long-term compatibility. Third, they take action toward their goals and get support when challenges come up. The method replaces dating a man just to see where it goes.
Background and qualifications
Melissa Josue builds his coaching on his own dating history. In his twenties he spent four years in an emotionally abusive relationship with a coworker. After it ended, he saw a psychologist and learned the problem was not him. He lost confidence and self-worth, and he moved from one relationship to the next for a time. He used what he learned to coach women through anxious attachment and dating patterns.
Melissa Josue pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Free guide on the 10 biggest dating mistakes
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The CoachVouch take
Melissa focuses his dating coaching on women with an anxious attachment style and teaches his own Conscious Dater method.
Best for ambitious single women with anxious attachment who want a committed partner and a clear dating plan.
Common questions
How much does Melissa Josue charge?
Coaching with Melissa runs $115 to $210 an hour. Message Melissa from this page for an exact quote.
What does Melissa Josue help with?
Melissa Josue helps with ending painful relationship patterns tied to anxious attachment, spotting red flags before getting hurt, knowing when to stay in a relationship or leave and meeting men who are ready to commit.
What is the Conscious Dater method?
It is Melissa's three part approach to dating. Clients learn what they want, make a plan, and take action toward their relationship goals.
Does Melissa Josue work with women outside the United States?
Yes. One client testimonial comes from a woman in the Netherlands.
How do I contact Melissa Josue?
Send Melissa a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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