Lærke Nielsen
Dating coach for high-achieving women with anxious attachment
| Hourly rate range | $80 to $140 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | Dating for womenAttachment stylesTexting and first datesApproach anxiety and confidenceConfidence and self-esteem |
| Works with | Women and Professionals |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | Paris, France |
| Credentials | Certified by The Lifecoach School (Brooke Castillo), 2020; M.Sc. in Pharmacy; Postgraduate education in Rhetoric and Communication |
| Practice | Laerke Nielsen Coaching |
Lærke Nielsen is a dating coach for women who feel confident at work but struggle in love. Lærke helps high-achieving women with anxious attachment stop overthinking and feel secure while dating. Lærke has coached since March 2020 and is certified by The Lifecoach School. Before coaching, Lærke worked as a toxicologist, government official, teacher, medical affairs manager and journalist. Lærke lives in Paris and is originally from Copenhagen.
What Lærke helps with
Lærke works with women who spiral over texts, fear rejection and give too much in dating. The goal is to feel calm, secure and true to their values.
- Anxious overthinking about texts and mixed signals
- Fear of rejection and abandonment
- Hiding your true self to please a man
- Overgiving and overperforming in relationships
- Being drawn to emotionally unavailable men
- Speaking up and setting boundaries calmly
- Understanding how your attachment style shapes dating
- Calming your nervous system when anxious
Who Lærke works with
Lærke coaches strong, independent women who feel competent in their professional lives but struggle in their love life. They want to enjoy dating and meet the right person without losing themselves.
How Lærke works
Lærke offers personalised one-on-one coaching. Clients learn how their attachment style shapes their beliefs about themselves and their behavior in dating. They look at core wounds and what triggers anxiety, even in subtle ways. They also learn to regulate the nervous system to build inner safety. The work happens at the level of identity, so clients speak up, ask for what they want and stay true to their values.
Background and qualifications
Lærke is Danish and lived most of life in Copenhagen. In 2019 Lærke moved to Paris. Lærke holds an M.Sc. in Pharmacy and a postgraduate education in Rhetoric and Communication. Lærke's past roles include toxicologist, government official, teacher, medical affairs manager and journalist. Lærke worked in government institutes and private companies before starting a business. Lærke earned a coaching certification from The Lifecoach School by Brooke Castillo in 2020 and has coached since March 2020.
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Programs and services
- Personalised one-on-one coaching
- Free intro call
- Podcast
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The CoachVouch take
Lærke combines a science and communication background as a pharmacist and former toxicologist with attachment-focused dating coaching.
Best for accomplished women who overthink dating and want to feel secure and true to themselves.
Common questions
How much does Lærke Nielsen charge?
Coaching with Lærke runs $80 to $140 an hour. Message Lærke from this page for an exact quote.
What does Lærke Nielsen help with?
Lærke Nielsen helps with anxious overthinking about texts and mixed signals, fear of rejection and abandonment, hiding your true self to please a man and overgiving and overperforming in relationships.
Is Lærke Nielsen certified?
Lærke Nielsen lists: Certified by The Lifecoach School (Brooke Castillo), 2020; M.Sc. in Pharmacy; Postgraduate education in Rhetoric and Communication.
Who is Lærke Nielsen's dating coaching for?
It is for strong, independent women who feel confident at work but struggle in love. It fits high achievers who tend to be anxiously attached.
How do I contact Lærke Nielsen?
Send Lærke a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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