Kevin Lourd
Couples and dating coach focused on communication in Singapore
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $170 an hour |
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| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | Singapore |
| Credentials | Certified Trauma-Informed Care Practitioner; Certified Trauma-Informed Tantra Practitioner; ISTA Practitioner Training; Nonviolent Communication (NVC); Restorative Justice Practitioner |
Kevin Lourd is a couples and dating coach in Singapore. He works with individuals who are in a couple or dating, and he focuses on communication, conflict solving and polarity reconnection. He co-founded and led France's largest sex-positive community. He has facilitated over 100 workshops and worked with 1,000+ clients. He is trained in trauma-informed care, somatic practices and Nonviolent Communication.
What Kevin helps with
Kevin helps people in relationships and people who are dating. He works on how partners talk, how they handle conflict and how they reconnect.
- Couple communication
- Solving conflict in a relationship
- Reconnecting through polarity
- Understanding masculine and feminine dynamics in a relationship
- Clarifying choices in a relationship
- Building a plan with measurable results
Who Kevin works with
Kevin coaches individuals who are in a couple and individuals who are dating. He also offers couple coaching.
How Kevin works
Kevin uses polarity-based coaching. He looks at a relationship along the masculine-feminine axis. Each client gets a prioritized action plan with measurable results. He builds conceptual models from lived experience and uses them to show the dynamics in a couple. He also lays out the choices available and shares the trade-offs of each from his own experience.
Background and qualifications
Kevin has spent over 35 years in intimacy and relational exploration. It started at age 3 in Vietnamese Buddhist monasteries and the world of tantra. He is trained in trauma-informed care, somatic practices and sacred sexuality. He holds practitioner training in ISTA, Nonviolent Communication and Restorative Justice. He co-founded and led France's largest sex-positive community. He has facilitated over 100 workshops and worked with 1,000+ clients. His analytical background shapes how he builds his frameworks.
Kevin Lourd pricing
Programs and services
- Couple coaching
- Individual coaching for people in a couple
- Individual coaching for people who are dating
Kevin Lourd reviews
The CoachVouch take
He combines polarity-based coaching with a background in tantra, trauma-informed care and leading France's largest sex-positive community.
Best for people in a couple or dating who want a clear plan to improve communication and reconnect.
Common questions
How much does Kevin Lourd charge?
Coaching with Kevin runs $100 to $170 an hour. Message Kevin from this page for an exact quote.
What does Kevin Lourd help with?
Kevin Lourd helps with couple communication, solving conflict in a relationship, reconnecting through polarity and understanding masculine and feminine dynamics in a relationship.
Is Kevin Lourd certified?
Kevin Lourd lists: Certified Trauma-Informed Care Practitioner; Certified Trauma-Informed Tantra Practitioner; ISTA Practitioner Training; Nonviolent Communication (NVC); Restorative Justice Practitioner.
Does Kevin Lourd coach people who are dating?
Yes. He coaches individuals who are dating and individuals who are in a couple.
What method does Kevin Lourd use?
He uses polarity-based coaching, which looks at a relationship along the masculine-feminine axis. Clients get a prioritized action plan with measurable results.
How do I contact Kevin Lourd?
Send Kevin a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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