Dating coaches for men

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Compare 271 dating coaches. Besides their main focus, the most common focus areas are dating for men, approach anxiety and confidence, texting and first dates and online dating and apps. They most often work with men, women and professionals. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.

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Coach Nav

Dating coach for men in London, Dubai, Prague and Miami

Coach Nav is a dating coach who helps men meet and connect with women. She teaches cold approach, conversation and getting dates. She has 11 years of approaching experience and 8 years of coaching hundreds of men. She worked as a coach for two of the biggest dating companies in the world and became their highest-ranked coach. She has coached men in 25+ cities, including London, Dubai, Miami, Prague and Vegas.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup

Good Guys 2 Great Men

Marriage and relationship coaching for men, led by Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore · United States · Online

Good Guys 2 Great Men is a coaching practice that helps men with marriage and relationship problems. It has coached men since 2012. Steve Horsmon and Dan Dore lead a team of 6 certified coaches. They have helped more than 5,000 men in over 40 countries. Their work covers distance, low intimacy and the threat of divorce. They teach men to build confidence and trust without blame or pressure.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriageDating for menDating after divorce

Alex León

Dating coach for introverted, analytical men who want to meet women in person · Austria · Online and in person

Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. Alex helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. Alex built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. Alex's clients come from 22 countries. Alex also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of Alex's clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup

Alex Social

Pickup and dating bootcamp coach for men, in person worldwide · In person

Alex Social is a dating and pickup coach who trains men in real social settings. Alex leads live bootcamp immersions in cities around the world. Students approach women in bars, clubs, parks and cafe districts with a coach at their side. Alex has coached students in the field 45 weekends a year since 2007. More than 600 men have joined Alex's immersions since 2015. The programs also cover dating apps and personal feedback.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Beau Brummell Introductions

Gay matchmaking agency serving Australia, the UK, the US and Asia · Sydney, New South Wales, Australia

Beau Brummell Introductions is a matchmaking agency for gay men who want a long-term relationship. It was founded by Vinko Anthony and Andrea Zaza, who are partners in life and business. The head office is in Sydney. The agency also works in other Australian capitals, Hong Kong, New Zealand, Singapore, London and several US cities. It has matched men for over fourteen years. Every client is met in person, and matches come from a private database.

$80 to $130 an hour
MatchmakingLGBTQ datingDating for men

Blaine Anderson

Matchmaker and dating coach for men in New York · New York, New York, United States · Online and in person

Blaine Anderson is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps men find girlfriends. He started Dating By Blaine in 2020 and has worked with more than 7,000 clients. He offers one-on-one matchmaking and coaching, both online and in person. He appeared on Shark Tank in Season 15, where Mark Cuban offered him a deal. He also has a YouTube channel with 137K subscribers and more than 1 million followers across social media.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsMatchmaking

Brad P

Dating coach for men based in New York City · New York, NY, United States

Brad P is a longtime New York City dating coach who teaches men. He founded Underground Dating Seminar, which began in February 2005 as a small seminar above a pizza place. It grew to 40+ students per meeting. Brad was named the #1 coach in the world on all 3 major polls in 2008. He taught his own workshops and wrote the content for his monthly 30/30 club course. He now refers live coaching to four vetted coaches.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupApproach anxiety and confidence

Brian Rzepczynski

Dating and relationship coach for gay men and couples in Chicago · Chicago

Brian Rzepczynski is a dating and relationship coach who helps gay men and couples build healthy, lasting intimate relationships. He started his coaching business, The Gay Love Coach, in 2003. He has over 19 years of experience as a psychotherapist and life coach. He holds a doctorate in human sexuality and a master's in clinical social work. He also writes advice columns for gay magazines and speaks at events. He works from Chicago.

$100 to $170 an hour
LGBTQ datingCouples and marriageDating for men

Carol Fulwiler Jones

Dating and relationship coach for singles over 40 in San Francisco · San Francisco, California, United States

Carol Fulwiler Jones is a dating and relationship coach for men and women over 40 in the San Francisco Bay Area. She has worked as a licensed couples therapist for over 35 years. She holds a Master's degree in Counseling and is also a sex therapist. She now offers the methods she used in her private practice as coaching. She helps clients meet, attract and date people who are right for them.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating over 40Couples and marriageTexting and first dates

Craft of Charisma

Dating coaching for men, online and in live city programs · Online and in person

Craft of Charisma is a dating coaching company for men. It teaches men to meet and connect with women, in person and online. Chris Luna leads the company. It has been in business for 18 years and has taught 574 workshops. Programs run in many US and Canadian cities, and include an 8 week dating bootcamp. Its coaching uses the D.A.T.E. model, which covers moving relationships forward and consent.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Daniel Jacob

Dating coach for successful, busy men in Miami · Miami, Florida, United States · Online and in person

Daniel Jacob is a men's dating coach and the founder of Everlasting Confidence. He helps successful single men build real self-confidence and meet high-quality women. He started the Accelerator Program in 2018 and has worked with over 250 men. The program is fully customized. It includes mindset training and live practice calls with female models, where Daniel reviews body language, eye contact, tone of voice and word choice.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Eddie Hernandez

Dating coach and dating photographer for men and women in the Bay Area · San Francisco, California, United States · Online and in person

Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach and dating photographer in the San Francisco Bay Area. He coaches men and women on dating apps and offline dating, in person or by video call. He also shoots natural dating photos for apps like Hinge and Bumble. His photos have run in the New York Times, Time and Vogue UK. He has lived in Los Angeles and New York, which shapes how he sees culture and dating.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Erik Carlberg

Dating coach for men in Los Angeles, working worldwide · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

Erik Carlberg is a dating coach for men. He helps men of all ages and experience levels find love, build lasting relationships, and feel more at ease socially. He has coached for over fifteen years and works with a team. He wrote The Vortex of Love, a book on attracting women that took him three years to finish. He also trains people who want to become dating coaches. Clients work with him from all over the world.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Harris O'Malley

Dating coach and advice columnist for nerdy and geeky men · United States

Harris O'Malley is a dating coach and advice columnist who helps nerdy and geeky men with dating and social skills. He works under the name Paging Dr. NerdLove and has been doing this work since 2011. His advice has been featured in Nightline, Vice, The Wall Street Journal and The Guardian. He also runs a blog, podcasts, courses and books, and answers reader questions in columns three times a week.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts

Harry Wilmington

Men's dating coach offering one-on-one phone and video sessions · Online

Harry Wilmington is a men's dating coach. She helps men with approaching women, texting, online dating, and confidence. She has coached hundreds of men and builds action plans for their dating lives. She runs the Get Girls Academy membership community and hosts a podcast and a show. She also draws on her own experience as a dater and an introvert when she coaches.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

JT Tran

Dating coach for Asian men, with bootcamps in the US and online · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

JT Tran is a dating coach who helps men build confidence and succeed with women. He focuses on Asian men. He founded ABCs of Attraction in 2005 after working as an aerospace engineer. He did not have his first kiss until age 20, so he built a step-by-step system for confidence. Bootcamps run in Los Angeles, Miami, Chicago and Seattle, and also online. Thousands of men have used his system.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidence

James Preece

Dating coach for men and women in the UK · Manchester, United Kingdom

James Preece is a dating coach in the UK who helps single men and women find lasting relationships. He has worked as a dating expert for 21 years. He has written 15 books on dating, confidence and attraction. He also coaches for dating agencies and online dating companies. He hosts a weekly dating podcast and runs singles events, speed dating nights and seminars across the UK. Men and women get different, tailored coaching approaches.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Jasbina Ahluwalia

Matchmaker and relationship coach for accomplished singles, South Asian focus

Jasbina Ahluwalia is a matchmaker and relationship coach who helps accomplished singles find a life partner. She runs Intersections Match and has a special focus on South Asian matchmaking. She spent nearly two decades in this work. Before that, she was a lawyer in San Francisco and Chicago. She works with men and women across the U.S. and in other countries.

$80 to $140 an hour
MatchmakingDating for menDating for women

Jessica J

Dating coach for men, based in the United States · United States

Jessica J is a dating coach who helps men with dating, sex and self-confidence. She uses Solution-Focused Therapy principles in her work. She started out training as a marriage and family therapist in Hollywood, then became the resident dating coach and host of the Playboy Radio show The Couch. She was featured on Nightline as one of America's Most Desirable Daters. She also runs an award-winning YouTube channel and offers a free strategy session.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Johnny Cassell

Dating coach for men in London and worldwide · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Johnny Cassell is a London dating coach who works with men on dating, attraction and long-term partnership. He has coached since 2005 and has worked with over 2,000 men. He has been featured on BBC, Sky News and The Times. He wrote the bestselling book Elite Seduction. He teaches in real settings with one-to-one training, and also coaches men online around the world.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Julia Malakiman

In-person dating coach for shy, analytical men and engineers · California, United States · In person

Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley and the San Francisco Bay Area. She helps shy, analytical men and engineers get better at meeting and connecting with women. All practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers. She has coached more than 500 men. She hosts The Date Worthy Man podcast and runs Bay Area Dating Cure events. She acts as a wing woman and gives feedback in the moment.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Kate Mansfield

Dating and relationship coach for high achievers in the UK · United Kingdom

Kate Mansfield is a dating and relationship coach in the UK. She helps high achievers, including leaders, artists, celebrities and athletes, with love, confidence and performance. She has coached for 15 years and advised corporations and high profile clients. Before coaching she worked in artist and celebrity management with A-list talent. She is also a couples and family therapist.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage

Kimberly Hill

Dating and relationship coach for men in Vancouver · Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

Kimberly Hill is a dating and relationship coach for men in Vancouver, Canada. Kimberly helps divorced and single men build confidence and find real connection. Before coaching, Kimberly worked in financial derivatives. Since then, Kimberly has coached more than 500 men one on one and built a community of over 160k people, including 70k+ YouTube subscribers. The main program is Dating Mastery for Men, a self-paced course with 49 lessons.

$90 to $160 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceOnline dating and apps

Kyle Froonjian

Dating confidence coach for men who want to approach women · United States · Online

Kyle Froonjian is a dating confidence coach for men. Kyle teaches them to walk up to a woman they like, say hi, and turn it into a real conversation. Kyle has coached more than 1,000 men since 2019, with clients aged 19 to 73. Kyle films Kyle's own approaches in malls, delis and parks, and Kyle leaves the awkward moments in. Kyle also runs a free live workshop on Zoom and a paid community.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup

May Hui

Matchmaker for men seeking Asian women in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

She introduces single men to vetted Asian women who want a serious relationship. She has matched people since 2009 and has over 17 years of experience. Her team has set up 5,061 first dates. She picks matches by hand instead of using algorithms, and she works with a partner network of 300+ singles.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for menMatchmaking

Micah Lambert

Men's relationship coach in Austin, Texas · Austin, Texas, United States

Micah Lambert is a men's relationship coach in Austin, Texas. He helps men recover from divorce and breakups, strengthen their bond with a partner, or find and commit to a life partner. He spent over 25 years leading teams, including as CEO and owner of a large construction company. He also sold five companies of his own. He studied psychology and hypnosis and is certified in NLP and addiction therapy.

$110 to $200 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceCouples and marriage

Moon

Dating coach for men in San Diego and online · San Diego, California, United States · Online and in person

Moon is a dating coach for men who want personal growth. He helps clients with dating, social skills, self esteem, and healthy habits. Moon spent 14 years in education, working as an academic coordinator, ESL teacher, auto tech instructor, and learning and development consultant. He holds a master's degree in leadership studies, which led him to coaching. He coaches in person in San Diego and by video worldwide. He also hosts a free men's meetup in San Diego.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menTexting and first dates

Nathan Serrato

LGBTQ+ relationship and executive coach, trauma-informed

Nathan Serrato is a trauma-informed queer mindset coach who helps LGBTQ+ people with dating, relationships and leadership. He founded Queer Conscious in 2017. His expertise is in working with gay men, and he also coaches singles and couples across the LGBTQ+ community. He has guided hundreds of clients, organized over 100 community events, and sits on the board of Pride Point Network. He also hosts a podcast on queer love.

$140 to $215 an hour
LGBTQ datingDating for menAttachment styles

Nelly Sudri

Matchmaker and dating coach for high-value singles

Nelly Sudri is a matchmaker and dating coach who works with high-value men and women. She left a sales manager job at a Fortune 500 CPG company in 2020 to coach full time. She is Head Matchmaker for the dating app Blush and hosts the High Value Dating podcast. She appeared on Roku's Match Me In Miami in 2023. Her clients include celebrities, c-suite executives and high-net worth people.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenMatchmaking

Nick Notas

Dating and confidence coach for men in Boston · Boston, Massachusetts, United States

Nick Notas is a Boston dating coach who helps men build real confidence and attract great women. He has coached for many years and has worked with thousands of men in 37 countries. His work covers social anxiety, flirting, and the psychology of attraction. He was featured on DatingNews. He also writes articles and offers a 5-step email course on building attraction on dates.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Scott Tsui

Relationship coach for gay men · Online

Scott Tsui is a relationship coach for gay men. He helps them find a lasting partner and get past the patterns that hold them back. He wrote the Amazon bestseller Lonely No More, and he writes a dating and relationship column for the San Francisco Bay Times. He teaches a method called the 3C Formula and runs the Gay Men Relationship Blueprint, an online course and community. He also coaches one on one.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menLGBTQ datingOnline dating and apps

St. Robert

Daygame and dating coach for men, in person and online · Online and in person

St. Robert is a dating and daygame coach who teaches men to approach and chat up women in everyday places like streets, cafes, malls and gyms. St. has coached men for eight years, in person and online, in cities across North America, Europe and Latin America. St. teaches a technical, step-by-step system and avoids copy and paste lines. St. also hosts a podcast with more than 150 episodes and has business and team coaching training.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupTexting and first dates

Stephen Grosch

Men's dating coach in Arizona for anxiety, confidence and online dating · Arizona, United States

Stephen Grosch is a men's dating coach in Arizona. He helps men who feel anxious around women, struggle to keep conversations going, get friend-zoned, or get no results from dating apps. Neil Strauss, author of The Game, hired him as his Executive Dating Coach. Stephen trained men full-time in Los Angeles for years. He now coaches one-on-one and practices in Arizona day game and night game spots.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Tony Depp

Dating coach and author for men in Toronto · Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Tony Depp is a dating coach for men based in Toronto. He helps men build confidence, get past approach anxiety, and meet women. He has coached for over fifteen years and has taught hundreds of live attraction bootcamps in over thirty countries. He wrote two dating books that sold thousands of copies. Other well known dating coaches have hired him as their ghostwriter. He also runs a course on conversation skills.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup

Tripp Kramer

Dating coach for shy and introverted men · United States · Online

Tripp Kramer is a dating coach who helps shy and introverted men meet women and find a girlfriend. He has taught men around the world since 2009. He runs the Tripp Advice brand, a YouTube channel with over 1 million subscribers, and a podcast called How To Talk To Girls. He teaches a method called the T.E.D. Formula. It focuses on being your real self, not using cheesy pickup lines.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menIntrovertsApproach anxiety and confidence

Alex Forrest

Daygame dating coach for men in Warsaw, Poland · Warsaw, Poland · Online and in person

Alex Forrest is a dating coach for men who want to meet women during the day. He teaches daygame, which means approaching women in daily life instead of using bars, clubs or apps. He wrote the 2019 book Too Late, Mate?, a memoir about his own dating turnaround. He runs approach courses in Warsaw, Poland, three times a year. Each coach works with no more than two students.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupApproach anxiety and confidence

Alyssa Dineen

Dating coach and profile strategist for midlife adults in New York City · New York City, New York, United States

Alyssa Dineen is a dating coach and profile strategist in New York City. He helps adults in their forties and beyond date with more ease and safety on the apps. He built the Date Vanilla framework, which focuses on choosing steady, kind partners over flashy profiles. He also works as a stylist and hosts The Dating Lab podcast. His clients can get a full profile overhaul, ongoing coaching, or a self-paced course.

$100 to $225 an hour
Online dating and appsTexting and first datesDating over 40

Amari Ice

Gay dating coach and matchmaker for gay professionals · United States

Amari Ice is a gay dating coach who helps gay professionals build the skills to find lasting love. Amari is also a matchmaker, a hypnotherapist and a best-selling author. Coaching covers dating skills, self-sabotage patterns and romantic magnetism. Work starts with a one-on-one Dating Analysis and is built around the Romantic Mastery Method.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for menLGBTQ datingAttachment styles

Amy Schoen

Dating and relationship coach for marriage-minded singles over 40 · United States

Amy Schoen is a dating and relationship coach who helps marriage-minded men and women over 40 find lasting love. She runs Motivated to Marry and hosts a podcast with the same name. She has been a certified life coach since 2005. Her first marriage ended in her mid-thirties. She now teaches that plan to her clients.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating over 40Dating after divorceOnline dating and apps

Anthony Hustle

Dating coach for men, teaching daygame from approach to close

Anthony Hustle is a dating coach who teaches men a step-by-step process for meeting women by day and taking a date to sex. She calls it the Straight Line Seduction System. She has written eight books, films her approaches, and runs a podcast. In one London summer she taught four men, and they logged 37 same-day lays and 74 dates that ended in sex. She takes two private students a year.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupTexting and first dates

April Braswell

Midlife dating coach for single women and men in Northern California · California, United States

April Braswell is a dating and relationship coach for single women and men in midlife who want a committed partner. She has coached singles since 2002. She also writes online dating profiles, speaks at events and has written books on online dating and dating again after divorce.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsDating after divorce

Bryce Bauer

Relationship coach for men and couples in Utah · Utah, United States

Bryce Bauer is a relationship coach in Utah who works with men and with couples. Bryce has spent 16 years in mental health programs, coaching men on how to show up in their relationships. Bryce coaches men one on one. Bryce's style is direct and practical, and Bryce builds in a habit of slowing down. Bryce holds ICF and TRS certifications.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageDating for men

Christian

Dating coach for men, in German and English · Budapest, Hungary

Christian is a dating coach and pickup artist who helps men attract women without games or manipulation. He is based in Budapest and coaches in German and English. He is a certified NLP trainer with 15+ years of experience. He mixes pickup principles with psychology and NLP. He also films live infield videos that show his methods with real women.

$75 to $145 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Cold Approach

Dating coaching for men, in person and online · United States · Online and in person

Cold Approach is a dating coaching practice for men. It teaches men to meet women in person and through dating apps. The team has five coaches and has coached hundreds of students. It runs in-person bootcamps in US cities and offers 1-on-1 online coaching. It also does done-for-you work like photos, profile rewrites, and texting help. The co-founder has coached men for more than half a decade.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Connell Barrett

Dating coach for men in New York City · New York, NY, United States

Connell Barrett is a New York City dating coach who works with men. He helps them build confidence, flirt with ease, and meet women they want to date. His goal for clients is a girlfriend in 90 days or less. He hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He teaches an approach he calls Radically Authentic, and he avoids pickup tricks.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Damien Diecke

Dating coach for men in Sydney, Australia · Sydney, Australia · In person

Damien Diecke runs School of Attraction, a dating coaching business for men in Sydney, Australia. He helps men learn to approach women, talk with them, and feel confident. The business has coached men since 2009 and says it has helped thousands. Its main offer is a 3-month program built around real-world practice every weekend. Clients get personalized feedback along the way. The methods avoid pickup lines, tricks and games.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts

Dave

Australian dating coach for men teaching cold approach daygame · Australia · In person

Dave runs One Man's Life Mission, an Australian dating coaching business for men. He teaches cold approach, also called daygame, as the main way to meet and attract women. He has done daygame since 1998. He coaches live in the field through 7 day immersions and 3 day weekend bootcamps. He also wrote The Disabled Casanova and teaches men to treat women with respect.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup

David Chambers

Dating and intimacy coach for men in London · London, United Kingdom · Online

David Chambers is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach for men. He runs The Authentic Man from London and coaches men one on one online. He has coached for 14 years and hosts The Authentic Man Podcast. His work covers dating confidence, emotional connection, healthy masculinity and sexual intimacy. He has been featured in GQ, Mr Porter, Cosmopolitan and BBC Radio London, and has worked with brands like Killing Kittens, Manual and Vibio.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceCouples and marriage

Elia Canu

Dating coach for busy tech men in Dallas · Dallas, Texas, United States · Online and in person

Elia Canu is a dating coach who helps busy men in tech find a partner and start a family. She runs Ideal Partner with coach Nela. The program uses a weekly plug and play system built for tech professionals. Elia has coached tech men for 5+ years. Her clients include software engineers and product managers. Support covers dating profiles, Instagram profiles, messaging, and date practice.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

Elizabeth K

Dating and life coach for singles and dating app users · Italy · Online

Elizabeth K is a relationship, dating and life coach based in Italy. She helps singles, dating app users and people going through life changes. She has taught English for over 10 years and holds a double degree in Law and Commerce. That gave her a close view of what modern dating is like. She coaches on profiles, messaging, communication and confidence.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Hayley Quinn

Dating coach for men and women in London, UK · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Hayley Quinn is a UK-based dating coach who helps men and women meet partners in real life. She has coached for over 15 years and has worked with thousands of clients around the world. She runs in-person dating bootcamps in London and online programmes for men and women. Her bootcamps have been covered by Cosmopolitan and The Independent. She also offers private one-to-one coaching.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenApproach anxiety and confidence

Jared Laurence

Dating coach for men in Chicago · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Jared Laurence, known as Psych, is a dating coach for men and the founder of Modern Success in Chicago. He teaches men how to start conversations with women, improve online dating results and build a strong social circle. He has mentored over 10,000 men and coached for 16+ years. His work has appeared on CBS, FOX, NBC, CNN and MTV. He also works as a motivational speaker and lifestyle consultant.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Jo Barnett

Dating and relationship coach for men in London · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Jo Barnett is a dating and relationship coach in London who focuses on men. She helps male clients with dating challenges, past setbacks and personal growth. She has over twelve years of coaching experience and is also an author, public speaker and mentor. Her work has appeared on TV, radio, online and in the press. She offers coaching sessions in London and consultations by phone or Zoom, plus coaching for men after divorce.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceCouples and marriage

Johanna Nauraine

Relationship, career and business coach in Chicago, Illinois · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Johanna Nauraine is a relationship, career and business coach in Chicago, Illinois. She helps white collar professionals with dating, marriage, divorce, career moves and entrepreneurship. She has coached for more than 30 years. She helps men and women find fitting dating partners and build lasting relationships. She also works with small family business owners who want to grow and sell their companies. She offers divorce coaching for women.

$155 to $250 per hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage

Jon Davis

Dating mentor for successful men, former investment banker

Jon Davis is a dating mentor who helps men become more confident, grounded and attractive. He came from investment banking and private equity, including time at Goldman Sachs. He teaches a five-pillar system called Attraction OS. He offers a mentorship program, a community with a course, and one-on-one consultation calls. His social channels reach over 1M followers and 30M monthly views.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidence

Julia Malakiman

In-person dating coach for shy, analytical men in Silicon Valley · San Jose, California, United States · In person

Julia Malakiman is a dating coach for men in Silicon Valley. She works with shy, analytical men and engineers who want to get better at meeting and connecting with women. She has coached more than 500 men. All of her practice happens in person, in real venues like cafes, bars and mixers, where she acts as a wing woman and gives live feedback.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Landen

Christian dating coach for single Christian men · Online

Landen is a Christian dating coach for men. He helps single Christian men build confidence, social skills, and better dating lives while keeping their faith first. He grew up very introverted and dealt with social anxiety for years. He learned communication and confidence as skills, then built a course from more than 15 years of study and field testing. He also offers a members community and live one-on-one coaching on Zoom.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceFaith-based dating

Laurel House

Dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles for men and women · Los Angeles, United States

Laurel House is a dating and relationship coach in Los Angeles who works with men and women. She is known as a celebrity dating coach and has hosted Date My Wife on E! and Esquire. She also hosts the Man Whisperer podcast. Her work turns confusing mixed signals into clear steps. She teaches a framework called PrioriDating and starts every client with a private assessment called the Relationship Blueprint.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenTexting and first dates

Mike Ke

Dating coach for Asian and STEM men in Las Vegas · Las Vegas, Nevada, United States · Online and in person

Mike Ke is a dating and confidence coach for men in STEM and Asian and minority men. He is a former engineer and has coached full time in Las Vegas since 2012. He has taught more than 1,200 students. He runs weekly bootcamps and a 12 week mentoring program that meets in person and online. His clients work in science, tech, engineering, medicine and business.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Minnie Lane

Dating and relationship coach for men in London · London, United Kingdom

Minnie Lane is a London-based dating and relationship coach who works with men on dating, attraction and connection. Minnie has coached for over 18 years and has helped thousands of people. The work centers on the psychological patterns behind a person's love life. Minnie holds an MSc in Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology, focused on relationship wellbeing, and was featured in The Pickup Game in 2019.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menAttachment stylesCouples and marriage

Philippe Berry

Dating coach for men, with a focus on online and international dating

Philippe Berry is a dating coach who helps men meet women and find love. He holds a BSc in Cognitive Psychology and has worked in the dating field for over 10 years. He has reviewed 250+ dating sites and apps. He also runs a travel dating project about meeting women around the world. His blog covers dating culture in Colombia, Mexico and Brazil.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Ralph

Dating and relationship coach for middle-aged men and single dads

Ralph runs The Dating Stoic, a dating and relationship coaching practice for middle-aged men and single dads. He builds his coaching on Stoic philosophy. He went through the end of his own marriage a decade ago and raised two teenagers as a single parent. He helps men date again after divorce and improve their current relationships. He also writes a blog and offers one-on-one sessions and packages.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for menDating after divorceDating over 40

Robert Beck

Dating coach for single men, running pickup bootcamps in England · England, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Robert Beck, known as Beckster, is a dating coach for single men. He runs The Beckster Lifestyle from England. He has worked in the dating and relationship industry for over 25 years. He has trained many of the well-known UK dating coaches. He teaches cold approach pickup at live bootcamps with Mystery, the star of VH1's The Pick-Up Artist. He also offers one-on-one coaching.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupApproach anxiety and confidence

Ruby

Dating coach for good-hearted men in Southern California · Southern California

Ruby is a dating coach who helps good-hearted men get quality dates and find lasting love. Ruby runs Good Gentleman and has almost a decade of experience as a private dating coach. Ruby has also worked with It's Just Lunch and eHarmony. Ruby gave a TEDx talk on why getting the right date is so hard. Ruby also hosts meetups for men in Southern California and runs a free support community.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

The Asian Dating Coach

Dating coach for Asian and South Asian men in Austin · Austin, Texas, United States · Online and in person

The Asian Dating Coach helps single Asian and South Asian men date with confidence, in person or online. The coach works on mindset, self-confidence, anxiety, grooming and style, body language, first dates, dating apps and texting. Clients include software engineers, doctors, cybersecurity consultants and a few lawyers. The coach was a shy man who was never encouraged to date, and teaches the lessons learned from that path. Local coaching is offered in Austin, Texas.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Tim B

Dating coach for driven introverted men, online, United States · United States

Tim B, known as Coach TimB, is a dating coach who helps driven, introverted men get past approach anxiety and turn conversations into dates. He runs Understanding Attraction, a premium coaching practice that uses an application process. He has over 10 years of experience and has coached 1,247+ men. His own start was shaky, since he could barely make eye contact at 18. He teaches a 3-phase system built on daily accountability.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts

Troy Francis

Dating and confidence coach for men, online and in person · Online and in person

Troy Francis is a dating and confidence coach for men. He helps men build social skills, meet the women they want to date, and improve friendships and family bonds. He has written eleven books on dating and relationships, plus many articles. He also shares advice through YouTube videos. He coaches in person and online, and most of his work is one-on-one. He also runs courses with live Zoom webinars.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceCouples and marriage

Vincent

Dating app photographer and profile coach for men in Portland · Portland, Oregon, United States

Vincent is a dating app photographer and profile coach who helps men get more matches on Hinge, Tinder and Bumble. He runs Based Dating in Portland. He has rebuilt 100+ dating profiles for men in 10+ cities. He also works closely with Asian men and uses a culturally aware approach. His system covers photos, bios and strategy that turns matches into real dates.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and apps

Alex Social

Pickup and dating bootcamp coach for men, worldwide · In person

Alex Social coaches men in pickup and dating through the 4 Week Natural bootcamp. Alex runs 17-day live immersions in cities around the world, including Budapest, Lisbon, Koh Samui and New York. Students practice daily approaches, nightlife skills and dating-app work in real settings. More than 630 men have joined Alex's immersions since 2015. Owen Cook brought Alex into Real Social Dynamics as an instructor.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Anita Hişir

Relationship coach in Montreal, Quebec · Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Anita Hişir is a relationship coach in Montreal, Quebec. She also works as a life coach and spirituality coach. She helps women and men who doubt themselves, ignore their feelings, or lose their identity when they get emotionally invested in a relationship. She has more than 10 years in coaching and personal development. She works with The Inhervision Method™ and holds the ECPC credential.

$109 to $124 per hour
Attachment stylesCouples and marriage

Ed

Daygame and social anxiety dating coach for men in London · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Ed is a dating coach in London who teaches men to approach women during the daytime. This style is called daygame. Ed works with beginners, including men who deal with mild to severe social anxiety and find it hard to start conversations. Most sessions happen in central London, in a spot the client picks. Ed also coaches men from outside the UK, either at Ed's location or in the client's country. Ed runs an online video course as well.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupApproach anxiety and confidence

Ed Bell

Dating and relationship coach for gay and bi men

Ed Bell is a certified dating and relationship coach who works with gay, bi and queer men. Ed runs Better Gay Dating and hosts a podcast on the topic. Ed's focus is helping men get past the blocks that stop them from finding real love and connection. Ed teaches practical tools for apps and meeting people in person. Ed also works on self-worth and dating-related shame. Ed describes Ed's style as part empathetic friend and part no-nonsense therapist.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsLGBTQ dating

Jayden

Dating and lifestyle coach for men in Sacramento · Sacramento, California, United States · Online and in person

Jayden is a Sacramento dating and lifestyle coach who runs The Real Hitch. He helps men build social confidence, make more friends, and improve their dating lives. He was shy and introverted until age 17 and has worked on his own social and dating skills since 2014. He teaches straightforward, authentic methods and does not teach pickup artist techniques or manipulation. He offers phone coaching and in-person coaching in the field.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts

Joshua Morris

Social confidence and communication coach for adults and single men · Online

Joshua Morris is a communication and confidence coach for adults who want to feel calmer in conversations, dating, friendships and daily social situations. He also works with single men building dating confidence. He built his own skills through real-world conversation practice, improv, public speaking and solo travel. Sessions run online by Zoom. He teaches genuine conversation, social awareness, consent and handling rejection, and he does not teach manipulation.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Mila Smith

Relationship and dating coach for men and women in the UK · United Kingdom · Online

Mila Smith is a UK relationship and dating coach who helps men and women build confidence and make wiser choices in love. She has more than 25 years of experience in relationship management. She is certified through the School of Matchmaking & Relationship Sciences. Her training draws on a 30+ year study from a leading relationship expert. She coaches online and tailors sessions to each client's challenges and goals.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Rachel Burnham

Shidduch dating coach for marriage minded Orthodox singles · United States

Rachel Burnham is a shidduch dating coach who helps marriage minded singles in the Orthodox and frum world. She also guides parents and friends who support singles. Rachel dated for 14 years, with hundreds of men and thousands of dates. She uses that experience to help clients with dating profiles, choosing dates, date prep, and the later stages of a relationship. Her aim is to give clients useful tips within one session.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Linda Kelly

Relationship and marriage coach for high performing couples · Online and in person

Linda Kelly is a relationship and marriage coach. She works with couples, and with individual women and men. Her focus is busy, high performing couples who have drifted apart and want to reconnect. Many of her clients run their own business or hold senior roles, including CEOs. She uses an integrative approach. She is direct in a supportive way and teaches practical skills for communication, trust and affection. Sessions run in person and online.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriage

Yad

Daygame dating coach for men in London · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Yad is a dating coach who teaches men daygame, which means meeting women during the day in real places. Yad runs one-on-one coaching days, Skype sessions and bootcamps in London. Yad also hosts The Yad Show, where Yad films Yad approaching women on the street in many countries. Yad's teaching covers approaching, attracting and closing.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDaygame and pickupApproach anxiety and confidence

Andrew Gung

Men's dating coach in Australia, in person and online · Australia · Online and in person

Andrew Gung runs Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching practice in Australia. The team helps men overcome approach anxiety, improve their online dating profiles and build confidence with women. Coaching started in 2018 and has reached more than 700 men. Sessions run in person in Sydney, Melbourne, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, or online. A consulting psychologist works alongside the coaches.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Ben Campbell

Men's social confidence and dating coach in the UK · United Kingdom · Online and in person

Ben Campbell is a personal and social coach who helps men build confidence, handle social fears and form real friendships and relationships. He has spent over 14 years in the personal development world. He has hosted seminars and live events in several countries and coached high-ticket clients worldwide. His focus is social confidence, interpersonal relationships and emotional intelligence. He has run in-person live trainings in Kyiv, Paris and London.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup
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CoachFocusHourly rate range
Coach NavDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $150 an hour
Good Guys 2 Great MenCouples and marriage and Dating for men$100 to $180 an hour
Alex LeónDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $150 an hour
Alex SocialDating for men and Online dating and apps$75 to $150 an hour
Beau Brummell IntroductionsMatchmaking and LGBTQ dating$80 to $130 an hour
Blaine AndersonDating for men and Online dating and apps$80 to $250 an hour
Brad PDating for men and Daygame and pickup$100 to $150 an hour
Brian RzepczynskiLGBTQ dating and Couples and marriage$100 to $170 an hour
Carol Fulwiler JonesDating over 40 and Couples and marriage$100 to $225 an hour
Craft of CharismaDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $150 an hour
Daniel JacobDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$100 to $150 an hour
Eddie HernandezDating for men and Dating for women$80 to $250 an hour
Erik CarlbergDating for men and Online dating and apps$100 to $150 an hour
Harris O'MalleyDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$100 to $150 an hour
Harry WilmingtonDating for men and Online dating and apps$75 to $150 an hour

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Most dating coaches charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.

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Common focus areas include dating for men, approach anxiety and confidence, texting and first dates and online dating and apps.

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