Dating coaches for christians
Compare 51 dating coaches. Besides their main focus, the most common focus areas are couples and marriage, faith-based dating, dating for women and breakups and heartbreak. They most often work with christians, women and couples. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
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Matthew Rowe
Matthew Rowe is a Christian relationship and family coach in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. He works with married and pre-marital couples through his practice, The Love Factor. His main focus is to reconnect and repair marriages. He has helped restore hundreds of marriages. He is also an ordained pastor with a doctorate in clinical pastoral counseling. Before coaching, he consulted for Fortune 500 companies and helped churches reorganize. He also volunteers weekly in patient spiritual care at Kootenai Medical Center.
Tolu Falode
Tolu Falode is a Christian dating coach who helps single Christian women meet, date and marry their husbands. She has worked with clients for close to 10 years. She grew up in Lagos, Nigeria, and is a licensed attorney in New York and Nigeria. Her Dating To Marry program aims to get clients married within 12 months. She also hosts the Lifetime of Love weekly series and blends practical dating strategy with prayer and faith.
Dave Schaaf
Dave Schaaf is a Christian life coach and couples coach based in Idaho. He helps couples who serve in church leadership, including pastors and church staff. He was the marriage pastor at his church for 20 years. He holds a Master's degree in Counseling and is a Board Certified Coach. He has worked with 100s of couples. His training includes the Gottman 7 Principles and Conversational Intelligence.
Jane Copier
Jane Copier is a Christian marriage coach who helps women and couples reconnect, communicate better, and rebuild closeness. She has 8+ years of coaching experience and has helped hundreds of Christian couples. She focuses on couples who have drifted apart. She mixes practical relationship tools with faith-centered principles. She also hosts a podcast called Happy in the Middle and offers a free seven day marriage reset guide by email.
Landen
Landen is a Christian dating coach for men. He helps single Christian men build confidence, social skills, and better dating lives while keeping their faith first. He grew up very introverted and dealt with social anxiety for years. He learned communication and confidence as skills, then built a course from more than 15 years of study and field testing. He also offers a members community and live one-on-one coaching on Zoom.
Meg Rector
Meg Rector is a Christian dating and life coach who helps single women in their 30s and 40s. She founded One Fish Dating and serves as its CEO and lead dating coach. She holds a master's degree in psychology and a life coaching certification. She also draws on seven years of her own dating experience. Her clients learn to unlearn purity culture and set new rules for dating with faith and strategy.
Renee Richel
Renee Richel is a Christian matchmaker and relationship coach who helps faith-minded singles find a lasting partner. She founded 1 True Match in 2010. The service works with clients around the world. Her team hand-picks each match and builds introductions around faith, values and compatibility. They keep supporting clients after a match is made. The practice also serves busy professionals who do not want to rely on dating apps.
Susan Estringel
Susan Estringel is an infidelity and relationship coach who helps Christian women who feel stuck in their marriage. Many of her clients are healing after their own affair. She is also a yoga teacher and music therapist, and she blends these skills into her coaching. She uses a cognitive behavioral-based model to help clients face negative thoughts, let go of shame, and release guilt. Sessions are held on Zoom.
Kat Harris
Kat Harris is a Christian dating and relationship coach who helps single women of faith. She runs The Refined Woman, where she also hosts a podcast, speaks, and writes books. Her book Sexless in the City covers dating, desire and sex from a faith view. She offers one-on-one biblical guidance on dating, relationships, sexuality and calling. Clients can book a full coaching session or send a single question and get a short audio reply.
Kait Warman
Kait Warman is a Christian dating coach, author and podcast host who runs Heart of Dating in Nashville. She helps Christian singles date with more clarity and confidence. She builds her advice on biblical insight and her own dating history. She offers a 90-day mentorship, one-on-one coaching, a podcast and a conference for Christian singles.
Patty Martin-Guerra
Patty Martin-Guerra is a Christian life coach for single women over 40 who want to find lasting love. She helps women heal after divorce and past relationships, let go of old patterns, and draw in the right partner. She hosts two podcasts, one in Spanish for women over 40 and one on rising after divorce. Her site and services are offered in both Spanish and English.
Dan Purcell
Dan Purcell is a Christian marriage, intimacy and sex coach for men and couples. Dan hosts the Get Your Marriage On! podcast, which has over 500,000 downloads. The couple also created Intimately Us, a bedroom game app downloaded over 300,000 times. They run events and retreats for couples. Dan works from St George, Utah.
Micki Allen
Micki Allen is a relationship coach and Christian coach in Arlington, Texas. She coaches women who want stronger, closer relationships with their partners. Her clients often struggle to talk with their partner, or feel fear or shame about their body or sexuality. She is a Certified Strategic Life Coach with training from two institutes that focus on sex education and sex and faith. She also writes articles on living authentically.
Monica Marie Braun
Monica Marie Braun is a Christian dating coach who helps single men and women date with purpose and faith. She created the Intentional Dating & Discernment Method, a framework based on Catholic teaching and Ignatian spirituality. She offers coaching, matchmaking and events for Catholic singles. She has also published books and a set of discernment cards.
Nancy Pina
Nancy Pina is a relationship coach and Christian counselor in Houston, Texas. She helps people improve their relationships from a Christian point of view. Her clients include premarital couples, married people, singles and people who are divorced. She holds a bachelor's and a master's degree in Christian counseling and is a Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor. She also writes articles on topics like staying friends with an ex and how to apologize well.
Sharon Lamar
Sharon Lamar is a faith-based dating and life coach for single women, mostly LDS and Christian. She helps them enjoy dating and choose a husband. She is a certified life coach and an AACC Mental Health Coach. She hosts The Single LDS Woman podcast. She did not marry until she was 52, so she knows the challenges of being single later in life. She teaches simple mindset tools for dating with clarity and confidence.
Annalisa Buller
Annalisa Buller runs Walk in Freedom Counseling in Portland, Oregon. She offers Christian dating and relationship coaching for women, along with life, communication, personal growth and career coaching. She is a licensed professional counselor with 6 years of experience. She also worked at the Salvation Army Rehabilitation Center. Her coaching is open to women outside Oregon. Her work is rooted in faith and focuses on confidence, boundaries and clear communication.
Bridgett Blood
Bridgett Blood is a sexual story coach for Christian singles. She helps people who are single, dating or preparing for marriage understand their desire in line with their faith and values. She co-hosts the Dating & Desire Podcast and leads the RECLAIM online cohort. She also speaks at retreats and church panels on topics many Christians avoid. Her work centers on value-based boundaries and sexual wholeness.
Carrie Manke
Dr. Carrie Manke is a Christian life and confidence coach who helps Christian women find a healthy relationship. She focuses on healing from trauma first. She is an Advanced Practice Nurse. She is also a survivor of sexual assault and domestic violence, and she draws on that experience in her work. Her coaching is solution-focused and tailored to each client. She helps women who fear dating or have given up on it.
Jenn Andersen
Jenn Andersen is a marriage coach who works with members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She helps people who feel stuck, hopeless or worn out in their marriage. Her coaching covers crisis, betrayal, affairs, pornography use and constant arguments. She teaches skills that let a client change the marriage even when the spouse is not ready to join. She runs her practice as Stronger Because Coaching and starts clients with a Relationship Reset Call.
Johnathan Hines
Dr. Johnathan Hines is a relationship coach, Christian coach and executive coach in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. He works with high-earning executives, business owners and medical professionals. His coaching focuses on relationships, leadership and work-life balance. He trained at the Wainwright Global Institute of Professional Coaching. He also writes articles on using faith and Christian principles to strengthen relationships and find balance.
Lauren Mathues
Lauren Mathues is a relationship coach for Christian singles. She runs Dating with Discernment, a program that teaches faith-based singles to date with intention instead of waiting passively. She co-hosts the Dating & Desire Podcast and also speaks on the topic. Her process is built around three shifts: From passive waiting to intentional dating, from confusion to confident discernment, and from self-doubt to wise decision-making.
Melinda Evans
Melinda Evans is an LDS relationship coach based in Nampa, Idaho. She coaches people on relationships, spouse and family life, and emotional resilience, using Christ-centered values. She also works on self-esteem and healthy boundaries. Clients can book sessions, buy low-cost video lessons, or start with a free consultation. Her Pay-it-Forward program lets donors cover a session fee for someone else. She also shares a People Pleaser Quiz and a free Relationship Rescue Kit.
Michelle Joiner
Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating coach for single Christian women who want to marry. She helps clients attract godly, high-caliber men instead of playing a numbers game on dating apps. Her focus is on precision. She teaches clients to show who they are so the right man recognizes them fast. Her clients write profiles that answer the key question a committed man asks in 4 to 10 seconds. She also hosts a podcast and offers consultations.
Stacey Bessard
Stacey Bessard is a dating coach for successful Christian women. She runs The Bougie Dating Coach and hosts a podcast of the same name. Her episodes cover flirting, meeting people, red flags, dating in your 30s, and getting over an ex. She also talks about faith, prayer, and waiting on the right partner. Her goal is to help women date with confidence and choose partners who match their values and ambitions.
Dating Coach For Christ
Dating Coach For Christ runs Burning Hearts Coaching, a faith-based dating program for single Christians. The focus is dating with both passion and purpose. The program runs over a few intentional days and uses short prayers, deeper conversation questions, and simple activities for getting to know someone. Clients also pick one person to connect with more consistently and intentionally. A free guide of prayers and Bible scriptures is offered to new clients.
Kim Velez
Kim Velez is a Christian dating and healing coach for women. She runs Core Confidence Coaching in the USA. Her work centers on helping women let God lead their love lives. She focuses on patterns like chasing men who pull away, anxious attachment, and attraction to emotionally unavailable men. She also covers self-worth, forgiveness, and feeling chosen. Her content ties each of these patterns to renewing the mind with Jesus.
Darrell White
Darrell White is a Christian, relationship, and family coach in Baltimore, Maryland. He helps men, fathers, and families who are divided by unresolved issues that hurt their children. He has served clients across the country and around the world since 2004. He is an author and speaker. He founded DW's Community of Mental Health Rehabilitation, which offers coaching and support services to families. He also founded The Gallery That Tells Your Story.
Jill M. Lillard
Jill M. Lillard is a Christian coach who works with women and couples on their relationships with themselves, God, and the people they love. She blends biblical teaching with brain science. Jill is a licensed professional counselor and a Gottman Certified Couples Therapist. She also holds a life coach certification from The Life Coach School and a brain health certification from Amen Clinic. She offers private couples coaching, one-on-one coaching, and two signature programs for women.
Chason Fayle
Chason Fayle is an accountability coach and Christian life coach. He helps men and couples deal with porn addiction, sex addiction, and betrayal trauma. He has trained in the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model through APSATS. He is also a certified group leader for the Help. Her. Heal. workshop. His own past with sexual acting out shapes his work. He guides clients through discovery, grief, restoration, and rebuilding the marriage.
Karen Crawford
Karen Crawford is a Christian life coach and couples coach. She helps betrayed women, and couples, who are dealing with a confusing marriage. She has worked with betrayed women since 2000. Karen holds an ACC credential from the International Coaching Federation. She also trained as a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional and in betrayal trauma. She helps clients set boundaries, make sense of the chaos, and rebuild trust or move forward on their own.
Kyndel Waters
Kyndel Waters is a Christian life and marriage coach in Oklahoma who works with women and couples. Her coaching is faith-based and trauma-informed, and it draws on both Scripture and science. She helps women break free from people-pleasing and over-functioning. She helps couples who feel like roommates become close partners again. She is also a writer and a certified Christian speaker. Sessions are held online.
Leslie White
Leslie White is a personal development coach in Cumming, Georgia. She helps people rebuild their happiness after life setbacks, including divorce, breakups, and burnout from putting others first. She also offers Christian coaching that brings prayer and faith into the work. Leslie holds a business degree from Georgia Tech and trained through Coach Training Alliance and Coach U. She is also an addiction recovery specialist. Clients get action steps to work on between sessions.
Monique T.W. Honer
Monique T.W. Honer is a Christian, life and relationship coach in Scottsdale, Arizona. She helps women build emotional wellness, confidence and clarity in their relationships. She founded Her Life Elevated and created The Elevated Woman program. Her work runs 8 weeks, one-on-one, online. She coaches women across the U.S. and Canada. Faith is part of the work for clients who want it. Her work is coaching, not clinical care.
Sharon Jackson
Sharon Jackson is a Christian life coach in Ohio who helps women and wives heal after sexual betrayal and infidelity. She has run a business for over 20 years and uses that experience to help women set goals and build action plans. She came to coaching after betrayal in her own marriage of 37 years and now guides women from the crisis of discovery toward reconnection.
Sharon Lamar
Sharon Lamar is a certified life coach who helps single LDS women build confidence and clarity. She works with women who never married, are divorced, or are widowed. She hosts The Single LDS Woman podcast. Sharon did not marry until age 52 and had no children of her own, so she knows the waiting and self-doubt her clients feel. Her coaching focuses on changing thoughts so clients can trust God and themselves.
Jill Pack
Jill Pack is a faith-based life and relationship coach at Seasons Coaching. She helps midlife women of faith improve their relationships and how they see themselves. Jill spent twenty-eight years as a stay-at-home mother before she studied nervous system regulation and became a coach. She has coached hundreds of women. She uses a tool called the Clarity Map and a framework called C.A.R.E. She also hosts the Seasons of Joy Podcast.
Mari
Mari is a certified life coach in Palm Harbor, Florida. Mari coaches people on codependency, self-worth, relationships and Christian life purpose. Mari trained through Coach Training Alliance and holds added training in Positive Intelligence, Emotional Intelligence and a Codependency to Independent program. Mari is also working on a Christian coaching certification from the World Coach Institute. Mari is a junior member of the ICF Central Florida Charter Chapter.
Charity Shelton
Charity Shelton is a Christian relationship and communication coach who helps women of faith build stronger relationships. She works on marriage, friendships, and the bond between parents and children. She has 8 years of counseling experience and holds two master's degrees, one in education and one in marriage and family counseling. She helps clients sharpen their communication skills and dig into the root issues that hold them back in their relationships.
Donna Russow
Donna Russow is a life, relationship and Christian coach in Louisville, Kentucky. She helps people who feel stuck, lack motivation, face a life change or deal with conflict in a relationship. She holds an LCSW license and is a Clinical Fellow and Supervisor with AAMFT. She also trained through the Life Purpose Institute. Her focus is building new habits, gaining clarity and creating lasting change.
John Duke
John Duke is a Christian life and accountability coach in Louisiana. He runs Altar'd Life Coaching and works with men who want to rebuild their lives with faith and daily discipline. He is a Certified Life Coach Minister. He has led Bible studies and recovery groups and coaches men one on one. He has also been through divorce, loss, and depression, and he draws on that when he coaches. He is not a therapist or counselor.
Kirsten Marsh
Kirsten Marsh is a Christian life coach and couples coach in Minnesota. She is also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience. She uses the Enneagram in her coaching to help clients see their core motivations, strengths, and growth areas. Her style is action-oriented, compassionate, and playful. She specializes in working with Christian clients who want to know themselves and others better.
Krishunna Smith
Krishunna Smith is a Christian coach in Dallas, Texas. She coaches Christian women on faith, relationships and life. She runs Claritypoint Coaching and holds a BS and an MA. She writes the "Love Is Patient" blog, where she shares her own struggle with identity and her past search for love. Her work centers on helping women move past negativity, broken relationships and self doubt.
Michele You
Michele You is an Identity Manifestation Coach and certified Life Coach who helps faith-based Christian women with stress and money conflict in their marriages. She has over 20 years of experience as a spiritual leader. Her work centers on identity, the idea that changing how you see yourself changes what you live. She has built her own system on this idea and offers a 90 day relationship program, a free 5-day challenge and a free eBook on procrastination.
Oyindamola Okenla
Oyindamola Okenla is a life coach, Christian coach and relationship coach in Chicago, Illinois. She works with women who have faced trauma, setbacks or big life changes. Her focus is healing, growth and living with purpose. She holds a BA, MA and PhD, and is a Board Certified Master's Mental Health Coach. She also trained with the Life Coach Institute of Orange County and The John Maxwell Team.
Sharon Murphy
Sharon Murphy is a Catholic life and mindset coach who works with Catholic women. She helps them with marriage, motherhood, money, and the pressures of modern life. Her coaching is one-on-one and built on Catholic teaching. She grew up Catholic in the Midwest, drifted from the faith as a teen, and came back after she had children. She hosts a podcast called To The Heights and offers a free discovery call.
Spencer Chan
Spencer Chan is a Christian life coach and couples coach based in the United Arab Emirates. He runs a practice called Arise and Shine. He works with married couples, team leaders, leaders of cross-cultural teams and young professionals. He has lived in Hong Kong, Dubai, the U.S., Mainland China and Japan. His clients come from China, Egypt, Lebanon, India and other countries. He coaches in English, Cantonese and Mandarin.
Lovee Cooper
Lovee Cooper is a Christian life coach and relationship coach. She works with women, men, families and church groups. Her focus is helping people build confidence and become a healthier version of themselves. She also facilitates relationship workshops. Her coaching rests on the idea that loving yourself is the key to loving others. She aims to help clients grow, not fix them.
Kevin LaMar Sr
Kevin LaMar Sr is a life, relationship and Christian coach in Buffalo, New York. He helps people who want a new approach to becoming successful. His ideal client is a military veteran moving back to civilian life. He holds a D.D. and is a member of the AACC. He also writes articles on leadership, emotional scars and resolving marital conflict through faith.
Andrew Barcenas
Andrew Barcenas is an executive and leadership coach who also coaches on romantic relationships. He works from Montana and serves Christians, including pastors, singles, engaged people and married people. His work rests on faith. He helps clients decide what kind of leader God is inspiring them to be and how to live that out. He also helps them build the relationship they feel called to.
Angie Woods
Angie Woods is a coach for single women who love Jesus. She helps them build confidence and go after the life they want while they are still single. Her practice is called Stewarding Your Story. She teaches ways to shift thinking from obligation to opportunity. She also coaches women to view singleness through a faith lens and to care well for themselves. She offers group coaching and writes blog posts on loneliness and the holidays.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Matthew Rowe | Couples and marriage | $110 to $200 an hour |
| Tolu Falode | Dating for women and Faith-based dating | $70 to $115 an hour |
| Dave Schaaf | Couples and marriage | $110 to $200 an hour |
| Jane Copier | Couples and marriage and Attachment styles | $100 to $170 an hour |
| Landen | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Meg Rector | Dating for women and Faith-based dating | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Renee Richel | Matchmaking and Faith-based dating | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Susan Estringel | Couples and marriage | $70 to $125 an hour |
| Kat Harris | Dating for women and Online dating and apps | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Kait Warman | Faith-based dating and Dating for women | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Patty Martin-Guerra | Dating after divorce and Dating over 40 | $100 to $200 an hour |
| Dan Purcell | Couples and marriage and Dating for men | $100 to $180 an hour |
| Micki Allen | Dating for women and Couples and marriage | $100 to $125 per hour |
| Monica Marie Braun | Faith-based dating and Matchmaking | $70 to $115 an hour |
| Nancy Pina | Couples and marriage and Dating after divorce | $150 to $250 per hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach cost?
Most dating coaches charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
What else do these dating coaches help with?
Common focus areas include couples and marriage, faith-based dating, dating for women and breakups and heartbreak.
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Last updated September 2026.