Dating coaches for Christians
Compare 50 dating coaches. Besides their main focus, the most common focus areas are couples and marriage, faith-based dating, dating for women and breakups and heartbreak. They most often work with Christians, women and couples. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
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Bridgett Blood
Bridgett Blood is a coach for Christian singles who want help with sexual desire, dating, and boundaries. She worked five years as a spiritual formation pastor before she became a coach. She co-hosts the Dating & Desire Podcast and speaks at churches and retreats. She uses the Connection Codes framework and runs the RECLAIM cohort, an online program for Christian adults. She also works with men, women, and engaged couples.
Kait Warman
Kait Warman is a dating coach for Christian singles. He runs Heart of Dating in Nashville with his co-host JJ Tomlin. He is also an author and podcast host, and he started his podcast in early 2018. Kait dated for 18 years in the age of dating apps and ghosting, and he draws on that time in his coaching. His teaching is grounded in Scripture and covers both men and women.
Matthew Rowe
Matthew Rowe is a Christian relationship and family coach in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. He works with married and pre-marital couples through his practice, The Love Factor. His main focus is to reconnect and repair marriages. He has helped restore hundreds of marriages. He is also an ordained pastor with a doctorate in clinical pastoral counseling. Before coaching, he consulted for Fortune 500 companies and helped churches reorganize. He also volunteers weekly in patient spiritual care at Kootenai Medical Center.
Monica Marie Braun
Monica Marie Braun is a Christian relationship coach for single men and women. She founded Soul to Soul Coaching and created the Intentional Dating & Discernment Method, which is built on Catholic teaching and Ignatian spirituality. She also offers matchmaking and hosts speed dating events. She lives in Southeastern Wisconsin and taught English for 10 years.
Nike Folagbade
Nike Folagbade is a relationship and marriage coach in Nigeria. She helps singles, engaged people and married couples heal from past hurt and build lasting relationships. She started an online platform in 2013 that teaches singles about healthy relationships and overcoming sexual addictions. She has worked with clients for over ten years and has written over seven books. She is a SYMBIS facilitator who prepares engaged and married couples for marriage. Her work is faith-based.
Dan Purcell
Dan Purcell is a marriage, intimacy and sex coach for married couples and men. He hosts the Get Your Marriage On! podcast, which has over 500,000 downloads. He also helped create Intimately Us, a bedroom game app for couples with over 300,000 downloads. His coaching is Christian-friendly and centers on desire, communication and closeness. He works from Utah and also leads couples events and retreats.
Dave Schaaf
Dave Schaaf is a Christian life coach and couples coach based in Idaho. He helps couples who serve in church leadership, including pastors and church staff. He was the marriage pastor at his church for 20 years. He holds a Master's degree in Counseling and is a Board Certified Coach. He has worked with 100s of couples. His training includes the Gottman 7 Principles and Conversational Intelligence.
Jane Copier
Jane Copier is a Christian marriage coach who helps women and couples reconnect, communicate better, and rebuild closeness. She has 8+ years of coaching experience and has helped hundreds of Christian couples. She focuses on couples who have drifted apart. She mixes practical relationship tools with faith-centered principles. She also hosts a podcast called Happy in the Middle and offers a free seven day marriage reset guide by email.
John Daniel
John Daniel is a couples, business and executive coach who also works as a clinician. He runs LEAPS Inc. from offices in Tampa and Orlando. His main focus is infidelity, premarital and marital issues. He also coaches entrepreneurs, executives and teams on leadership. He has over 25 years of experience. He offers Christian counseling for clients who want a faith view. Sessions run in person, by phone or by webcam.
Landen
Landen is a Christian dating coach for men. He helps single Christian men build confidence, social skills, and better dating lives while keeping their faith first. He grew up very introverted and dealt with social anxiety for years. He learned communication and confidence as skills, then built a course from more than 15 years of study and field testing. He also offers a members community and live one-on-one coaching on Zoom.
Meg Rector
Meg Rector is a Christian dating and life coach who helps single women in their 30s and 40s. She founded One Fish Dating and serves as its CEO and lead dating coach. She holds a master's degree in psychology and a life coaching certification. She also draws on seven years of her own dating experience. Her clients learn to unlearn purity culture and set new rules for dating with faith and strategy.
Renee Richel
Renee Richel is a Christian matchmaker and relationship coach who helps faith-minded singles find a lasting partner. She founded 1 True Match in 2010. The service works with clients around the world. Her team hand-picks each match and builds introductions around faith, values and compatibility. They keep supporting clients after a match is made. The practice also serves busy professionals who do not want to rely on dating apps.
Susan Estringel
Susan Estringel is an infidelity and relationship coach who helps Christian women who feel stuck in their marriage. Many of her clients are healing after their own affair. She is also a yoga teacher and music therapist, and she blends these skills into her coaching. She uses a cognitive behavioral-based model to help clients face negative thoughts, let go of shame, and release guilt. Sessions are held on Zoom.
Lauren Mathues
Lauren Mathues is a dating coach for Christian singles. She runs Dating with Discernment and helps clients move from passive waiting to intentional dating. Her process centers on three shifts: Intentional dating, confident discernment, and wise decision-making. She teaches clients to define compatibility, judge character, and take initiative. She also co-hosts the Dating & Desire Podcast and offers speaking. Her own years as a single Christian shaped her approach.
Sharon Lamar
Sharon Lamar is a life coach who helps single LDS and Christian women enjoy dating and choose a husband. He is a certified life coach and an AACC Mental Health Coach. He hosts The Single LDS Woman podcast, which has more than 150 episodes. He did not marry until age 52, so he knows the single years firsthand. He teaches simple mindset tools to build confidence and clear thinking about dating.
Melinda Evans
Melinda Evans is a relationship coach for LDS clients in Nampa, Idaho. She coaches on relationships and emotional resilience with Christ-centered values. Her topics include healthy boundaries, people pleasing, low self-esteem and narcissistic abuse. She has a Pay-it-Forward program where donors cover session fees for others. She also offers low-cost video lessons and a free consultation for new clients.
Patty Martin-Guerra
Patty Martin-Guerra is a Christian life coach for single women over 40. He helps women heal after divorce, let go of old patterns, and meet the right man. His method has worked with hundreds of women. He runs the Mujer Renuévate podcast in Spanish and the Rising After Divorce podcast. He also offers a healing membership and women's retreats. His own story began with years of dating apps that brought clarity but no real connection.
Zaid and Hiba
Zaid and Hiba are a married couple who run Halal Match, a matchmaking service for single Muslims in the West. They started it after they married. Zaid spent nearly nine years searching for a spouse before that. They interviewed singles for a few years, then launched the podcast Diary of a Matchmaker in 2024. It has 99 episodes on matchmaking, marriage and nikah contracts. They also wrote The Compatibility Challenge.
Carrie Manke
Dr. Carrie Manke is a Christian life and confidence coach who helps Christian women heal from trauma and find a healthy relationship. She is an Advanced Practice Nurse, a published author, and a national speaker. She is a survivor of sexual assault and domestic violence, and she uses that experience in her coaching. Her sessions are solution-focused and fit each client. She works with women who are nervous to date or who have given up on dating.
Lauren Sanders
Lauren Sanders is a matchmaker and dating coach who founded The Love Crush Agency. She helps professional singles find a partner through matchmaking and dating coaching. The agency has run since 2019 and serves clients in all 50 states. Lauren has paired hundreds of singles, and many of those matches ended in marriage. She is also a multi-published Christian author who writes about love and relationships. The agency has a focus on matchmaking for Black professionals.
Tolu Falode
Tolu Falode is a Christian dating coach who helps single Christian women meet, date and marry their husbands. She has worked with clients for close to 10 years. She grew up in Lagos, Nigeria, and is a licensed attorney in New York and Nigeria. Her Dating To Marry program aims to get clients married within 12 months. She also hosts the Lifetime of Love weekly series and blends practical dating strategy with prayer and faith.
Kat Harris
Kat Harris is a Christian dating and relationship coach who helps single women of faith. She runs The Refined Woman, where she also hosts a podcast, speaks, and writes books. Her book Sexless in the City covers dating, desire and sex from a faith view. She offers one-on-one biblical guidance on dating, relationships, sexuality and calling. Clients can book a full coaching session or send a single question and get a short audio reply.
Dating Coach For Christ
Dating Coach For Christ, also called Burning Hearts Coaching, is a faith-based dating coach for single Christians. The coaching helps clients date with clear purpose while keeping their faith at the center. Clients learn short prayers, deeper conversation skills, and simple ways to get to know someone. The coach grew up in New York City and has been married for 20 years. A free guide of prayers and Bible scriptures is offered, along with a Facebook community.
Michelle Joiner
Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating coach for single Christian women who want to marry. She helps clients stop chasing a bigger pool of men and draw in better ones. Her focus is dating profiles that show who a woman is and what she wants. She says her clients' profiles answer the key question a godly man is asking in 4 to 10 seconds. Before coaching, she built an engineering career and married at 37.
Micki Allen
Micki Allen is a relationship coach and Christian coach in Arlington, Texas. She coaches women who want stronger, closer relationships with their partners. Her clients often struggle to talk with their partner, or feel fear or shame about their body or sexuality. She is a Certified Strategic Life Coach with training from two institutes that focus on sex education and sex and faith. She also writes articles on living authentically.
Nancy Pina
Nancy Pina is a relationship coach and Christian counselor in Houston, Texas. She helps people improve their relationships from a Christian point of view. Her clients include premarital couples, married people, singles and people who are divorced. She holds a bachelor's and a master's degree in Christian counseling and is a Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor. She also writes articles on topics like staying friends with an ex and how to apologize well.
Stacey Bessard
Stacey Bessard is a dating coach for successful Christian women. Stacey runs The Bougie Dating Coach and hosts a podcast of the same name. Stacey's episodes cover flirting, meeting people, red flags, dating in your 30s, and getting over an ex. Stacey also talks about faith, prayer, and waiting on the right partner. Stacey's goal is to help women date with confidence and choose partners who match their values and ambitions.
Frantasia Brown
Frantasia Brown is a spiritual transformation coach and relationship strategist who helps BIPOC women heal maternal wounds. She is the founder and CEO of Mama's Cookin', LLC, and goes by Coach FAB. She uses scripture, life experience and study to guide women through abandonment, abuse and neglect. She wrote the book Batter: The Making of One Tough Cookie, about recovering from a codependent and toxic life. Her core program is Healing Mama's Wound.
Jill M. Lillard
Jill M. Lillard is a Christian coach who works with women and couples on their relationships with themselves, God, and the people they love. She blends biblical teaching with brain science. Jill is a licensed professional counselor and a Gottman Certified Couples Therapist. She also holds a life coach certification from The Life Coach School and a brain health certification from Amen Clinic. She offers private couples coaching, one-on-one coaching, and two signature programs for women.
John Duke
John Duke is a faith-based life and accountability coach in Louisiana who helps men rebuild after relationship damage, divorce, and personal loss. He runs Altar'd Life Coaching and also works with women. He is a Certified Life Coach Minister through the Christian Leaders Institute. He has led Bible studies and recovery groups. His coaching centers on faith, daily discipline, and leading well at home.
Kirsten Marsh
Kirsten Marsh is a Christian life coach and Enneagram coach in Minnesota. She helps people understand why they act the way they do and move toward healthier habits and closer relationships. She is also a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience. She holds a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional credential. She meets clients in person in Roseville or online by video, and coaching is open to people outside Minnesota.
Tina Haisman
Tina Haisman is a Christian life coach who helps moms and wives. She works with women who feel overwhelmed, burnt out and disconnected from their husbands or from God. She also coaches wives on marriage and couples on reconnecting. Tina became a coach after her own coach helped her save her marriage. She has coached hundreds of clients. She also runs workshops and leadership coaching for organizations.
Chason Fayle
Chason Fayle is an accountability coach and Christian life coach. He helps men and couples deal with porn addiction, sex addiction, and betrayal trauma. He has trained in the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model through APSATS. He is also a certified group leader for the Help. Him. Heal. workshop. His own past with sexual acting out shapes his work. He guides clients through discovery, grief, restoration, and rebuilding the marriage.
Karen Crawford
Karen Crawford is a Christian life coach and couples coach. She helps betrayed women, and couples, who are dealing with a confusing marriage. She has worked with betrayed women since 2000. Karen holds an ACC credential from the International Coaching Federation. She also trained as a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional and in betrayal trauma. She helps clients set boundaries, make sense of the chaos, and rebuild trust or move forward on their own.
Kyndel Waters
Kyndel Waters is a Christian life and marriage coach in Oklahoma who works with women and couples. His coaching is faith-based and trauma-informed, and it draws on both Scripture and science. He helps women break free from people-pleasing and over-functioning. He helps couples who feel like roommates become close partners again. He is also a writer and a certified Christian speaker. Sessions are held online.
Leslie White
Leslie White is a personal development coach in Cumming, Georgia. She helps people rebuild their happiness after life setbacks, including divorce, breakups, and burnout from putting others first. She also offers Christian coaching that brings prayer and faith into the work. Leslie holds a business degree from Georgia Tech and trained through Coach Training Alliance and Coach U. She is also an addiction recovery specialist. Clients get action steps to work on between sessions.
Sharon Jackson
Sharon Jackson is a Christian life coach in Ohio who helps women and wives heal after sexual betrayal and infidelity. She has run a business for over 20 years and uses that experience to help women set goals and build action plans. She came to coaching after betrayal in her own marriage of 37 years and now guides women from the crisis of discovery toward reconnection.
Sharon Lamar
Sharon Lamar is a certified life coach who helps single LDS women build confidence and clarity. She works with women who never married, are divorced, or are widowed. She hosts The Single LDS Woman podcast. Sharon did not marry until age 52 and had no children of her own, so she knows the waiting and self-doubt her clients feel. Her coaching focuses on changing thoughts so clients can trust God and themselves.
Shenell Sarwon
Shenell Sarwon is a life, wellness and relationship coach who works with women. She runs The Whole Woman Coaching. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor who moved into coaching. She uses Brainspotting, a brain and body-based method, in her sessions. Her work covers relationships, business, health and faith. She offers a Christian perspective for clients who want it. Sessions are held by video or phone, so clients can join from anywhere.
Annalisa Buller
Annalisa Buller is a Christian life and relationship coach who helps women build stronger relationships and more confidence. She is a National Board-Certified Counselor with 6 years of experience. Before founding Walk in Freedom Counseling, she worked at the Salvation Army Rehabilitation Center. Her coaching covers communication, boundaries, and work-life balance. She also offers Christian dating coaching. Coaching is available to women outside Oregon by telehealth.
Jill Pack
Jill Pack is a faith-based life and relationship coach who helps midlife women of faith. She runs Seasons Coaching. Jill spent twenty-eight years as a stay-at-home mother before she studied nervous system regulation and became a coach. She has worked with hundreds of women. She teaches a tool called the Clarity Map and hosts the Seasons of Joy Podcast. Her focus is helping women feel the truths they already believe about God and themselves.
Natalie Hoffman
Natalie Hoffman is a coach, author and podcast host who helps Christian women in emotionally and spiritually abusive marriages. She runs Flying Free, which offers education, coaching and support through a community called the Kaleidoscope. She wrote the book Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage and a memoir on her own healing. She hosts two podcasts, and she went through a divorce herself after a long marriage.
Angie Woods
Angie Woods is a Christian life coach who helps single women who love Jesus build the life they want. He runs Stewarding Your Story. His work centers on changing how clients think about singleness, loneliness, and waiting for marriage. He uses scripture and practical thinking tools. He was single through his 20s and served in youth ministry before he married at 31. He offers group coaching and writes a blog for single women.
Charity Shelton
Charity Shelton is a Christian relationship and communication coach who helps women of faith build stronger relationships. She works on marriage, friendships, and the bond between parents and children. She has 8 years of counseling experience and holds two master's degrees, one in education and one in marriage and family counseling. She helps clients sharpen their communication skills and dig into the root issues that hold them back in their relationships.
Brian Lee
Brian Lee is a Christian life coach and couples coach in Virginia. He uses the Enneagram, a personality type system, viewed through the gospel. He helps clients see themselves and others more clearly and break old patterns. His process starts with a typing session to confirm a client's Enneagram type. Then clients move into five exploration sessions. He also coaches married couples on communication and strategies for a healthy marriage.
Darrell White
Darrell White is a Christian, relationship, and family coach in Baltimore, Maryland. He helps men, fathers, and families who are divided by unresolved issues that hurt their children. He has served clients across the country and around the world since 2004. He is an author and speaker. He founded DW's Community of Mental Health Rehabilitation, which offers coaching and support services to families. He also founded The Gallery That Tells Your Story.
Monique T.W. Honer
Monique T.W. Honer is a Christian, life and relationship coach in Scottsdale, Arizona. She helps women build emotional wellness, confidence and clarity in their relationships. She founded Her Life Elevated and created The Elevated Woman program. Her work runs 8 weeks, one-on-one, online. She coaches women across the U.S. and Canada. Faith is part of the work for clients who want it. Her work is coaching, not clinical care.
Donna Russow
Donna Russow is a life, relationship and Christian coach in Louisville, Kentucky. She helps people who feel stuck, lack motivation, face a life change or deal with conflict in a relationship. She holds an LCSW license and is a Clinical Fellow and Supervisor with AAMFT. She also trained through the Life Purpose Institute. Her focus is building new habits, gaining clarity and creating lasting change.
Krishunna Smith
Krishunna Smith is a Christian coach in Dallas, Texas. She coaches Christian women on faith, relationships and life. She runs Claritypoint Coaching and holds a BS and an MA. She writes the "Love Is Patient" blog, where she shares her own struggle with identity and her past search for love. Her work centers on helping women move past negativity, broken relationships and self doubt.
Michele You
Michele You is an Identity Manifestation Coach and certified life coach. She helps faith-based Christian women who face money-driven conflict, stress, and emotional distance in their marriages. She has over 20 years of experience as a spiritual leader. Her work centers on how a woman sees herself, and she teaches that a shift in identity changes results. She offers a 90 Day Relationship Rescue Intensive and a free 5-day Identity Shift Challenge.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Bridgett Blood | Faith-based dating and Couples and marriage | $110 to $200 an hour |
| Kait Warman | Faith-based dating and Breakups and heartbreak | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Matthew Rowe | Couples and marriage | $110 to $200 an hour |
| Monica Marie Braun | Faith-based dating and Matchmaking | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Nike Folagbade | Couples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak | $100 to $170 an hour |
| Dan Purcell | Couples and marriage | $100 to $180 an hour |
| Dave Schaaf | Couples and marriage | $110 to $200 an hour |
| Jane Copier | Couples and marriage and Attachment styles | $100 to $170 an hour |
| John Daniel | Couples and marriage and Faith-based dating | $110 to $200 an hour |
| Landen | Dating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence | $75 to $150 an hour |
| Meg Rector | Dating for women and Faith-based dating | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Renee Richel | Matchmaking and Faith-based dating | $80 to $140 an hour |
| Susan Estringel | Couples and marriage | $70 to $125 an hour |
| Lauren Mathues | Faith-based dating and Breakups and heartbreak | $70 to $115 an hour |
| Sharon Lamar | Dating for women and Faith-based dating | $100 to $175 an hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach cost?
Most dating coaches charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
What else do these dating coaches help with?
Common focus areas include couples and marriage, faith-based dating, dating for women and breakups and heartbreak.
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Last updated September 2026.