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Compare 153 dating coaches. Besides their main focus, the most common focus areas are couples and marriage, breakups and heartbreak, dating for women and LGBTQ dating. They most often work with couples, women and men. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.

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Alex Gay

Sex and relationship coach for LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent clients · San Diego, California, United States · Online and in person

Alex Gay is a sex and relationship coach who helps LGBTQIA+ people, neurodivergent people, singles and couples build confidence in dating and intimacy. Alex is ICF certified and has extra training in anxiety, depression, CBT, DBT and ACT. Alex hosts The Queer Confidence Podcast and the Kink Curious Podcast, and also works as an on-set coach. Sessions run online worldwide or in person in San Diego. Alex was formerly known as Coach Ray.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageLGBTQ datingApproach anxiety and confidence
Alison Verge, dating coach

Alison Verge

Dating and relationship coach for professionals over 40

Alison Verge is a relationship and dating coach who helps busy professionals over 40 find lasting love. She runs Path2Love Coaching. She is a certified sexologist and co-author of "Radical Self Love." She also coaches couples who face a sudden shock, such as illness or disability, a challenge she knows from her own life. Her clients can meet a partner with or without dating apps.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsAttachment styles
Bea Trost, dating coach in Germany

Bea Trost

Couples and grief coach in Germany, bilingual in German and English · Germany

Bea Trost is a couples and grief coach in Germany. She works with couples and individuals in her own private practice and coaches in German and English. She also coaches leaders and other coaches. Before coaching, she was a Master Furniture Maker and designer who worked in Sydney, Paris and Shanghai. She holds an ICF PCC credential and uses the Developmental Model of couples work by Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson.

$140 to $215 an hour
Couples and marriage
Brian Rzepczynski, dating coach in Chicago

Brian Rzepczynski

Dating and relationship coach for gay men and couples in Chicago · Chicago

Brian Rzepczynski is a dating and relationship coach who helps gay men and couples build healthy, lasting intimate relationships. He started his coaching business, The Gay Love Coach, in 2003. He has over 19 years of experience as a psychotherapist and life coach. He holds a doctorate in human sexuality and a master's in clinical social work. He also writes advice columns for gay magazines and speaks at events. He works from Chicago.

$100 to $170 an hour
LGBTQ datingCouples and marriageDating for men
Bridgett Blood, dating coach in United States

Bridgett Blood

Sexual story coach for Christian singles, online and by podcast · United States · Online

Bridgett Blood is a coach for Christian singles who want help with sexual desire, dating, and boundaries. She worked five years as a spiritual formation pastor before she became a coach. She co-hosts the Dating & Desire Podcast and speaks at churches and retreats. She uses the Connection Codes framework and runs the RECLAIM cohort, an online program for Christian adults. She also works with men, women, and engaged couples.

$110 to $200 an hour
Faith-based datingCouples and marriage

Carla Romo

Dating and relationship coach in Philadelphia for women and men · Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States · Online

Carla Romo is a dating and relationship coach in Philadelphia who helps women and men with dating, breakups and life goals. She is an ICF Professional Certified Coach and has worked with over 1,000 clients. She is an international speaker and wrote the book Caontagious Love. Before coaching, she worked in TV and went through burnout, which shaped her work on codependency and burnout. She coaches by phone or video, one-on-one or in groups.

$125 to $200 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsAttachment styles
Dawn A. Ross, dating coach in Port St. Lucie

Dawn A. Ross

Relationship and life coach in Port St. Lucie, Florida · Port St. Lucie, Florida, United States · Online and in person

Dawn A. Ross is a relationship, life and family coach in Port St. Lucie, Florida. She works with couples and individuals on communication, intimacy and finances in their relationships. She also focuses on narcissistic abuse, helping people spot it and leave. Before coaching, she worked in corporate IT abroad and practiced natural healing in Germany and Austria. She founded Thoughtward Academy and coaches clients around the world by video.

$80 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Dominic Decker, dating coach in Berlin

Dominic Decker

Relationship and anxiety coach and counsellor in Berlin, Germany · Berlin, Germany · Online and in person

Dominic Decker is a coach and counsellor who helps individuals and couples think clearly when a relationship is under strain or has just ended. He is based in Berlin and works online too. He has worked since 2001 in social services, education and therapy. He has coached and counselled hundreds of one-on-one clients and couples. He runs Anxiety Master, which focuses on how stress affects judgment during relationship decisions.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Frank Kermit

Dating and relationship coach for singles and couples in Montreal · Montreal, Quebec, Canada · Online

Frank Kermit is a dating and relationship coach in Montreal who helps singles and couples with love, sex and dating. He has coached for 25 years and wrote over 20 books and 25+ audio programs. He is the official coach of the Absolute Bachelor Club matchmaking service. He teaches his own Emotional Needs Analysis system. His clients come from Canada, the USA, Australia, Asia, Europe and the Middle East. He also coaches weight loss accountability.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menCouples and marriageMatchmaking
Jillian Turecki, dating coach in New York

Jillian Turecki

Relationship coach and author for women, based in New York · New York, United States

Jillian Turecki is a relationship coach who helps women improve their love lives. She also works with couples. She has coached for more than 20 years. She wrote the books It Begins with You and Rewrite Your Story. She hosts the Jillian on Love podcast, which has more than 400 episodes. Her coaching starts with the relationship a client has with herself. Her private 1:1 and couples coaching is currently full, with a waitlist open.

$100 to $180 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Kate Mansfield, dating coach in United Kingdom

Kate Mansfield

Dating and relationship coach for high achievers in the UK · United Kingdom

Kate Mansfield is a dating and relationship coach in the UK. She helps high achievers, including leaders, artists, celebrities and athletes, with love, confidence and performance. She has coached for 15 years and advised corporations and high profile clients. Before coaching she worked in artist and celebrity management with A-list talent. She is also a couples and family therapist.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage
Katherine Yeagel, dating coach in Massachusetts

Katherine Yeagel

Somatic sex educator and queer relationship coach in Western Massachusetts · Massachusetts, United States · Online and in person

Katherine Yeagel is a surrogate partner, somatic sex educator, and queer sex and relationship coach in Western Massachusetts. She works with individuals and couples on intimacy, boundaries, and sexual healing. She has nearly a decade of experience and left a nonprofit job to do this work. Her sessions blend nervous system education, consent practice, and communication skills. She offers online sessions as well as hands-on work, and she has sliding scale rates for priority groups.

$225 to $250 per session
Couples and marriageLGBTQ dating
Kristyn Arnold, dating coach in Santa Fe

Kristyn Arnold

Relationship and connection coach and yoga teacher in Santa Fe · Santa Fe, New Mexico, United States

Kristyn Arnold is a Santa Fe relationship and connection coach who is also a yoga teacher and retreat leader. She offers 1:1 coaching, women's retreats, couples workshops and Tantra Speed Date® events. She has taught yoga for over 10 years and logged more than 1200 coaching hours. She has led international retreats and taught at festivals. She serves clients in Santa Fe and Albuquerque.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriage

Magda Kay

Intimacy and relationship coach for men and couples in Poland · Warsaw, Poland · Online

Magda Kay is an intimacy and relationship coach based in Warsaw, Poland. She works mostly with men on dating, sex and relationships, and also coaches couples. She teaches Tantra and conscious relating. She spent a decade in Bali, Malaysia, Thailand and India studying energy work and sacred sexuality. She has more than ten years of experience as a coach and mentor. She has also written a book for women about love and pleasure.

$70 to $125 an hour
Dating for menCouples and marriageDating after divorce
Matthew Rowe, dating coach in Coeur d'Alene

Matthew Rowe

Christian relationship and marriage coach in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho · Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, United States

Matthew Rowe is a Christian relationship and family coach in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. He works with married and pre-marital couples through his practice, The Love Factor. His main focus is to reconnect and repair marriages. He has helped restore hundreds of marriages. He is also an ordained pastor with a doctorate in clinical pastoral counseling. Before coaching, he consulted for Fortune 500 companies and helped churches reorganize. He also volunteers weekly in patient spiritual care at Kootenai Medical Center.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriage

Nathan Serrato

LGBTQ+ relationship and executive coach, trauma-informed

Nathan Serrato is a trauma-informed queer mindset coach who helps LGBTQ+ people with dating, relationships and leadership. He founded Queer Conscious in 2017. His expertise is in working with gay men, and he also coaches singles and couples across the LGBTQ+ community. He has guided hundreds of clients, organized over 100 community events, and sits on the board of Pride Point Network. He also hosts a podcast on queer love.

$140 to $215 an hour
LGBTQ datingDating for menAttachment styles
Nike Folagbade, dating coach in Nigeria

Nike Folagbade

Relationship and marriage coach for singles and couples in Nigeria · Nigeria

Nike Folagbade is a relationship and marriage coach in Nigeria. She helps singles, engaged people and married couples heal from past hurt and build lasting relationships. She started an online platform in 2013 that teaches singles about healthy relationships and overcoming sexual addictions. She has worked with clients for over ten years and has written over seven books. She is a SYMBIS facilitator who prepares engaged and married couples for marriage. Her work is faith-based.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreakFaith-based dating
Nikki Ruby, dating coach in Minneapolis

Nikki Ruby

Intimacy and confidence coach for men and couples in Minneapolis · Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States · Online and in person

Nikki Ruby is a sex, intimacy and confidence coach for men and couples. She is based in the Twin Cities and also coaches online. She started as a licensed massage therapist in chiropractic clinics, wellness centers and luxury spas. She founded The Pleasure Practice and wrote The Pleasure Practice Workbook. She also created The Connection Coach, an AI-powered intimacy coaching app built on her curriculum.

$110 to $200 an hour
Dating for menCouples and marriageTexting and first dates
Odette Coronel, dating coach in New York

Odette Coronel

Relationship and life coach for individuals and couples in New York · New York, New York, United States

Odette Coronel is a relationship and life coach in New York who works with individuals and couples. She helps people who feel distant from a partner, walk on eggshells, or live like roommates. She is an Accredited Professional Coach with the Association for Coaching, a Coach Supervisor and an NLP Practitioner. She also hosts a podcast and speaks. Her coaching draws on NLP, Gottman Method principles and relational intelligence.

$150 to $225 per hour
Couples and marriage
Rachelle Lamb, dating coach

Rachelle Lamb

Nonviolent Communication trainer and relationship coach for individuals, couples and teams · Online

Rachelle Lamb is a relationship and communication coach who helps individuals, couples and teams handle conflict and change unhelpful patterns. She is a certified Nonviolent Communication trainer, certified since 2002. She also holds a Relational Life Therapy coaching certification and has trained in the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. She works over Zoom on weekdays, Pacific Time. She also hosts a podcast and trains organizations in conflict skills.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Riana Milne, dating coach

Riana Milne

Dating, relationship and trauma recovery coach for singles and couples · Online

Riana Milne is a life, dating and relationship coach who helps singles and couples heal childhood trauma and love trauma. She is also a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with more than 27 years in practice. She has coached clients around the world for more than 40 years. She teaches her trademarked Watch Me! Mindset for Success. She also created RianaAI, a video coaching avatar trained in her methods that works in more than 175 languages.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenBreakups and heartbreak
Sarah Louise Ryan, dating coach in London

Sarah Louise Ryan

Dating and relationship expert and matchmaker in London · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Sarah Louise Ryan is a London based dating and relationship expert, psychotherapist and professional international matchmaker. She helps singles find love and helps couples rebuild their bond. She has worked in the dating space since 2011. She founded The Love Collective Global and is founding director of Tailor Matched matchmaking. She also consults for Match Group and appears on the BBC each week to talk about love and dating.

$100 to $170 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriageAttachment styles
Stephanie Rigg, dating coach in New South Wales

Stephanie Rigg

Relationship coach for anxious attachment and breakups, host of On Attachment podcast · New South Wales, Australia · Online

Stephanie Rigg is a relationship coach who helps people heal anxious attachment and build secure relationships. She began her career in corporate law before moving into coaching, podcasting, and online education. She hosts the On Attachment podcast, which has over 10 million downloads. She also teaches online courses and writes a weekly newsletter. She is based on the South Coast of New South Wales, Australia, and works with clients worldwide.

$100 to $160 an hour
Attachment stylesBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Victoria Onken, dating coach in Amsterdam

Victoria Onken

Relationship coach for ethical non-monogamy, based in Amsterdam · Amsterdam, Netherlands · Online

Victoria Onken is a relationship coach in Amsterdam who helps individuals and couples exploring ethical non-monogamy and open relationships. She works online with clients across the US, UK and Europe. She focuses on jealousy, desire asymmetry and agreements that no longer fit. Before coaching, she worked in art direction. She also writes, speaks in public and teaches a course that helps therapists become competent in ethical non-monogamy.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriage
Yasmin Abouelhassan, dating coach in Calgary

Yasmin Abouelhassan

Relationship coach for singles, couples and divorcees in Calgary · Calgary

Yasmin Abouelhassan is a life and relationship coach who helps singles, divorcees, couples and families. She left a career as a biomedical engineer and founded Happy Family in Egypt in 2005. She worked with hundreds of singles, couples, professionals and entrepreneurs there. She moved to Calgary in 2013. She helps clients choose a partner by their own criteria, not cultural pressure, and offers a 19-day e-course in Arabic.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageDating after divorce
Ayo Lawrence, dating coach in Lagos

Ayo Lawrence

Couples and family coach and counsellor in Lagos, Nigeria · Lagos, Nigeria

Ayo Lawrence is a couples and family coach and counsellor in Lagos, Nigeria. She helps engaged couples, married couples and people who are single again after death, separation or divorce. She is Co-Founder and Lead Consultant at EL-Cubed International Limited. She is a certified mediator with a family mediation specialty. She also holds certifications in emotional intelligence, NLP, and addiction and mental health. Her career spans over two decades.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageDating after divorce

Bryce Bauer

Relationship coach for men and couples in Utah · Utah, United States

Bryce Bauer is a relationship coach in Utah who works with men and with couples. Bryce has spent 16 years in mental health programs, coaching men on how to show up in their relationships. Bryce coaches men one on one. Bryce's style is direct and practical, and the coach builds in a habit of slowing down. Bryce holds ICF and TRS certifications.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageDating for men

Craig and Maria Meyer

Relationship and life coaches with breathwork in Jacksonville · Jacksonville

Craig and Maria Meyer run Ultimate Assist Coaching in Jacksonville. They are a married couple who coach couples and individuals on relationships, habits, and healing from the past. They are certified life coaches and breathwork facilitators. They rebuilt their own relationship after infidelity, and that shapes their work. They teach a mindset approach called LIT, which stands for love, intimacy, and trust. They also lead RESET Breathwork sessions for individuals and couples.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Dan Purcell, dating coach in Utah

Dan Purcell

Christian marriage and intimacy coach for couples in Utah · Utah, United States

Dan Purcell is a marriage, intimacy and sex coach for married couples and men. He hosts the Get Your Marriage On! podcast, which has over 500,000 downloads. He also helped create Intimately Us, a bedroom game app for couples with over 300,000 downloads. His coaching is Christian-friendly and centers on desire, communication and closeness. He works from Utah and also leads couples events and retreats.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriage
Dave Schaaf, dating coach in Idaho

Dave Schaaf

Christian couples coach for church leadership couples in Idaho · Idaho, United States

Dave Schaaf is a Christian life coach and couples coach based in Idaho. He helps couples who serve in church leadership, including pastors and church staff. He was the marriage pastor at his church for 20 years. He holds a Master's degree in Counseling and is a Board Certified Coach. He has worked with 100s of couples. His training includes the Gottman 7 Principles and Conversational Intelligence.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriage
Grace Anderson, dating coach in Blackpool

Grace Anderson

Relationship and breakup recovery coach in Blackpool, England · Blackpool, England, United Kingdom

Grace Anderson is a relationship coach in Blackpool, England. She helps women recover from breakups and divorce, and she coaches singles and couples on their relationships. She also works with professionals and executives on goals, confidence and stress. Before coaching, she was a Headteacher at Emotan College in Benin City, Nigeria, and later led English departments in London schools. She retrained as an NLP Practitioner after she retired.

$166 to $332 per hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage

Heather Shannon

Intimacy coach for committed couples and LGBTQIA+ clients

She is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with over 12 years in private practice. She hosts the "Ask A Sex Therapist" podcast and is a sex and relationship expert for the Peanut app. Her Intimacy Infusion method runs 90 days and looks at comfort with sex, resentment, emotional safety and grief.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageLGBTQ dating
Jane Copier, dating coach

Jane Copier

Christian marriage coach for women and couples

Jane Copier is a Christian marriage coach who helps women and couples reconnect, communicate better, and rebuild closeness. She has 8+ years of coaching experience and has helped hundreds of Christian couples. She focuses on couples who have drifted apart. She mixes practical relationship tools with faith-centered principles. She also hosts a podcast called Happy in the Middle and offers a free seven day marriage reset guide by email.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageAttachment styles
Jessica Feldman, dating coach in Israel

Jessica Feldman

Dating and marriage coach for singles and couples, online · Israel · Online

Jessica Feldman is a dating and relationship coach who helps singles, engaged couples and married couples. She also coaches people on confidence, self-esteem and life direction. She is based in Israel and meets clients by video. Before coaching, she worked in hospitality and tourism. She also speaks and runs workshops. Her sessions use role-play, reflection exercises, games and conversation cards. She also coaches parents who want to support an adult child without adding pressure.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage
Jocelyn Morris-Bryant, dating coach in Long Beach

Jocelyn Morris-Bryant

Relationship communication coach for couples in Long Beach, California · Long Beach, California, United States

Jocelyn Morris-Bryant is a relationship communication coach who helps couples, individuals, and adult families who feel unheard learn to talk with each other. She runs What Yuneed Coaching in Long Beach, California, and works with clients nationwide. She has 26 years of experience as a therapist and is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She now adds coaching to that clinical work. She focuses on high-functioning couples stuck in repeated arguments.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriage
John Daniel, dating coach in Tampa

John Daniel

Couples, business and executive coach in Tampa and Orlando · Tampa, Florida, United States · Online and in person

John Daniel is a couples, business and executive coach who also works as a clinician. He runs LEAPS Inc. from offices in Tampa and Orlando. His main focus is infidelity, premarital and marital issues. He also coaches entrepreneurs, executives and teams on leadership. He has over 25 years of experience. He offers Christian counseling for clients who want a faith view. Sessions run in person, by phone or by webcam.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageFaith-based dating
Kari Hoskins, dating coach

Kari Hoskins

Relationship coach for people deciding whether to stay or divorce

Kari Hoskins is a relationship coach who helps couples and individuals decide whether to stay in a marriage, repair it, separate or divorce. She holds a Master's degree in Interpersonal Communication and has specialized training in infidelity, betrayal and high-conflict relationships. She created a framework called the 6 Stages of the Divorce Decision.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage

Leah Carey

Sex and relationship coach for adults from high-control backgrounds · Oregon, United States

Leah Carey is a sex, intimacy and relationship coach in Oregon. He works with individuals and couples, with a focus on adults who grew up in high-control environments. He hosts the podcast Good Girls Talk About Sex. His work covers desire, boundaries, self-trust and communication with partners. He is queer, kink and non-monogamy friendly. His own upbringing in a high-control family shapes how he coaches, and he paces sessions to how each client's nervous system responds.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageLGBTQ datingDating after divorce
Melanie McCain, dating coach in Everett

Melanie McCain

Relationship, family and life coach in Everett, Washington · Everett, Washington, United States

Melanie McCain is a relationship, family and life coach in Everett, Washington. She works with individuals, couples and parents. She is a Master's level therapist who offers coaching to reach more clients. She has experience with narcissistic abuse, intimate partner violence and power and control tactics. She teaches clients how to protect themselves and how to make a safety plan. She also coaches on breakups, transitions and healthier relationships.

$125 to $295 per hour
Breakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Odette Coronel, dating coach

Odette Coronel

Couples and dating coach for busy, high-achieving professionals

Odette Coronel is a life and relationship coach who helps hard working, high achieving professionals build strong relationships. She starts with the client's relationship with themselves, then moves to connection, communication and intimacy with a partner. She is a Gottman Leader and a Prepare-Enrich facilitator for couples.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Priyanka, dating coach

Priyanka

Online relationship coach for women and couples in marriage · Online

Priyanka is an online relationship coach who helps women and couples who feel worn out trying to hold their marriage together. She focuses on the patterns under the conflict, not only the arguments. She teaches her own four-part RICE model. She holds a Computer Science degree and uses that pattern-based thinking with clients. She trained through the Laura Doyle program and The Life Coach School.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Robert Gordon, dating coach in Washington

Robert Gordon

Relationship, career and life coach for individuals and couples in Washington, DC · Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Robert Gordon is a relationship, career and life coach in Washington, DC. He works with individuals and couples who want clarity, stronger relationships and a more balanced way of living and working. Before coaching, he spent 25 years helping organizations improve performance and leadership. He is a certified Imago Relationship Educator. His focus areas are communication, conflict repair and emotional intelligence. Many of his clients are in midlife or beyond.

$250 to $500 per hour
Couples and marriage
Samantha Burns, dating coach in Boston

Samantha Burns

Marriage counselor and dating coach in the Boston area · Boston, Massachusetts, United States

Samantha Burns is a dating coach and licensed couples counselor in the Boston area. She helps singles and couples with dating, breakups and relationships. She is known as The Millennial Love Expert. She wrote two books, Breaking Up and Bouncing Back and Done with Dating: 7 Steps to Finding Your Person. She also runs the Breakup Bounce Back Program. Her work draws on cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and brain science.

$100 to $165 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreakApproach anxiety and confidence
Samantha Raddock, dating coach

Samantha Raddock

Sex, intimacy and couples coach for adults of all orientations

Samantha Raddock is a couples and intimacy coach who helps adults improve their sexual health and their close relationships. She is a sexual intimacy specialist and sex educator. She trained at the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality and the Somatica Institute, and she holds VITA certification. Her own recovery after cancer treatment shaped her work. She is a trauma-informed coach who uses neuroscience research and body-based methods with people of all sexual preferences and orientations.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageLGBTQ dating
Stephen Bradshaw, dating coach

Stephen Bradshaw

Online couples and relationship coach with over 1,000 hours of experience · Online

Stephen Bradshaw is an online relationship coach who helps couples and individuals in relationships. He has over 1,000 hours of couples coaching experience. He builds his sessions around three pillars: Identity, Behaviour and Connection. He is the published author of Mindset Dad. He holds sessions by Zoom video and sometimes offers evening appointments until 9pm. His clients work on trust, communication and intimacy.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriage

Tori

Dating and intimacy coach for women in San Diego · San Diego, California, United States · Online and in person

Tori is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach in San Diego. She helps women and couples build self-awareness, communication skills and confidence for lasting relationships. She hosts a weekly podcast called The Art of Intimacy, which covers attachment theory and real dating stories. She also runs wellness retreats for women. Most of her coaching happens over video, and she also sees clients in person in San Diego.

$100 to $180 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Elizabeth Golembiewski

Dating, relationship and spiritual coach in Austin, Texas · Austin, Texas, United States

Elizabeth Golembiewski is a dating, relationship and spiritual coach in Austin, Texas. She helps singles and couples build loving relationships. She has worked with clients on love and relationships for more than 15 years. Her coaching mixes transformational coaching, dating guidance and spiritual insight. She also created Love With Clarity, an online workshop series for singles and couples who are tired of ghosting, endless swiping and relationships that feel empty.

$100 to $165 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Eric Bensoussan, dating coach in Vancouver

Eric Bensoussan

Relationship coach for individuals and couples in Vancouver · Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada · Online

Eric Bensoussan is a relationship and life coach in Vancouver, British Columbia. He helps individuals and couples who already understand their patterns but still get stuck in the same reactions. He has worked with clients for 13 years. His method combines nervous system regulation, somatic awareness, and relational coaching. He coaches online worldwide in English and French.

$200 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriage
Gloria, dating coach in Washington

Gloria

Dating coach and image consultant for professional singles in Washington, DC · Washington, DC, United States · Online and in person

Gloria is a personal dating coach and image consultant in Washington, DC. She helps professional singles build real connections and a dating plan that fits their values. She also coaches couples who want to bring back spark. Her mock date sessions start with a 1-hour date at a local cafe or bar, with Gloria or an actor playing the blind date. She also offers wardrobe makeovers and outfit shopping.

$100 to $150 an hour
Online dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates
Lunch Actually, dating coach in Singapore

Lunch Actually

Dating and relationship coaching agency in Singapore · Singapore, Singapore

Lunch Actually is a dating agency in Singapore that offers dating and relationship coaching for singles and couples. Its coaches build tailored programs for each client. The programs draw on more than 150,000 first dates the agency has arranged, plus surveys on how singles and couples behave and academic papers. Clients can also get image coaching that covers style, wardrobe and personal branding.

$70 to $125 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesCouples and marriage
Stacie Hildebrand, dating coach in Louisiana

Stacie Hildebrand

Couples coach helping disconnected couples reconnect in Louisiana · Louisiana, United States

Stacie Hildebrand is a couples and relationship coach in Louisiana. She helps disconnected couples reconnect and work together as a stronger team. Before coaching, she spent 26 years as a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. She left the medical model of therapy because coaching fit her work better. She uses direct talk, humor, real examples, a relationship assessment, and her 9-step Reconnection Roadmap.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriage
Linda Kelly, dating coach

Linda Kelly

Relationship and marriage coach for high performing couples · Online and in person

Linda Kelly is a relationship and marriage coach. She works with couples, and with individual women and men. Her focus is busy, high performing couples who have drifted apart and want to reconnect. Many of her clients run their own business or hold senior roles, including CEOs. She uses an integrative approach. She is direct in a supportive way and teaches practical skills for communication, trust and affection. Sessions run in person and online.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriage

Glennda Donate

Relationship and life transition coach for women, online and in person · Online and in person

Glennda Donate is a life and relationship coach for women. She founded Badassery School. Her work centers on attachment healing, relationship patterns and life transitions like divorce and empty nesting. She adds nervous system and somatic work, and therapeutic art, to her sessions. She meets clients by video or in person, and offers half day and full day intensives. She has also worked with couples.

$90 to $230 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesBreakups and heartbreak
Andelin Price, dating coach in Idaho

Andelin Price

Couples and marriage coach in Idaho · Idaho

Andelin Price is a couples and marriage coach in Idaho. She helps partners build more loving and intimate relationships where both people have room to thrive. She became a certified life coach in 2021. She co-hosts The Marriage Bites! Her own marriage hit a hard point, and she learned the skills she now teaches. She uses a "relationship house" idea and goes through the marriage room by room.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Andre Lazarus, dating coach

Andre Lazarus

Somatic sex, intimacy and relationship coach for individuals and couples

Andre Lazarus is a sex, intimacy and relationship coach who works with individuals and couples. He is a Certified Somatica coach and a certified surrogate partner. He has 10 years of experience and served as a Marine Corps Officer before this work. He appeared as an expert on Channel 4's Virgin Island. He also speaks on podcasts and runs retreats and workshops around the world.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageLGBTQ dating

Beck Thompson

Dating and relationship coach for singles and couples over 40 in Australia · Australia

Beck Thompson is a dating and relationship coach in Australia who helps singles and couples over 40 and 50. She is an award-winning coach and an international bestselling author. She hosts The Relationship Circle podcast, which started in 2023 and has 66 episodes. Each week she covers topics from first dates to long-term relationships. She also runs a free Facebook community and offers free relationship e-books and masterclasses.

$110 to $250 an hour
Online dating and appsDating over 40Texting and first dates
Cristine Tirol, dating coach in Dauis

Cristine Tirol

Relationship coach for couples in Dauis, Philippines · Dauis, Central Visayas, Philippines

Cristine Tirol is a relationship coach in Dauis, Philippines. She helps couples heal, reconnect and communicate better. She is a certified Health and Life Coach through the Health Coach Institute. Before coaching, she spent three decades working as a banker, researcher, project manager, political consultant and pastry chef in Washington, D.C. Clients know her as Coach Cris. She helps partners see the patterns that keep them apart.

$95 to $120 per hour
Couples and marriage
Gabriela Embon, dating coach in Montreal

Gabriela Embon

Relationship and career coach for professionals and entrepreneurs in Montreal · Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Gabriela Embon is a relationship and career coach in Montreal, Quebec. She helps busy professionals, leaders and entrepreneurs build strong careers and strong relationships at the same time. She trained as a chemical engineer and wrote the book Becoming a Power Couple. She also hosts the Life Engineering Podcast and founded the Coaching Academy. She works with couples in second marriages and blended families.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage

Jack Cohen

Jewish dating and marriage coach and matchmaker in New York · New York, New York, United States

Jack Cohen is a dating and marriage coach and Jewish matchmaker based in New York. He works with singles who want to date well and with couples who want a stronger marriage. He is an orthopaedic surgeon by profession and a student of Rabbi Avigdor Miller. He has spent over 20 years helping people with relationships. His work has been seen on the Netflix series Jewish Matchmaking.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriageMatchmakingFaith-based dating
Jiveny Blair-West, dating coach

Jiveny Blair-West

Dating and relationship coaching for singles and couples

Jiveny Blair-West is a dating and relationship coach who helps women, men and couples build lasting love. She co-founded Dating For Love in 2016 with Joe Oppenheimer. She leads the women's and couples coaching and created The Attraction Archetypes, a framework for understanding the patterns that shape your love life. The practice works with singles aged 20 to 70, and each client is matched with the coach who suits their goals best.

$70 to $125 an hour
Dating for womenDating for menCouples and marriage
Loraine Wiese, dating coach in Littleton

Loraine Wiese

Relationship coach for infidelity and marriage crisis recovery in Colorado · Littleton, Colorado, United States

Loraine Wiese is a relationship coach who helps couples and individuals recover from infidelity and marriage crisis. She works with people who want to end their relationship and people who want to mend it. She is a retired health care manager based in Littleton, Colorado. She created the Life After the Affair website and runs 4 virtual support groups alongside her coaching. She is also trained in Reiki.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Melinda Evans, dating coach in Nampa

Melinda Evans

LDS relationship coach with Christ-centered values in Nampa, Idaho · Nampa, Idaho, United States

Melinda Evans is a relationship coach for LDS clients in Nampa, Idaho. She coaches on relationships and emotional resilience with Christ-centered values. Her topics include healthy boundaries, people pleasing, low self-esteem and narcissistic abuse. She has a Pay-it-Forward program where donors cover session fees for others. She also offers low-cost video lessons and a free consultation for new clients.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriageFaith-based dating
Nathalie Dewalhens, dating coach in Andalusia

Nathalie Dewalhens

Somatic intimacy and relationship coach based in Spain · Andalusia, Spain · Online and in person

Nathalie Dewalhens is a somatic intimacy and relationship coach who works with couples, singles and people in open relationships. She also coaches women in perimenopause and menopause. She is an author whose books include "Berlin Bar Stories" and "500 Hidden Secrets of Berlin." She performs spoken word with the duo Machig & Moon. Her workshops mix body-based practices with creative expression. She is based in southern Granada, Spain.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Beth Brown, dating coach

Beth Brown

Couples and erotic blueprint coach for menopausal and post-menopausal clients

Beth Brown is a couples coach and creativity coach. She helps committed couples deepen intimacy and sexual expression. She also works with menopausal and post-menopausal people who want to reclaim their erotic energy and self-love. She is a certified Erotic Blueprint coach. She adds sound healing and expressive arts to her sessions, drawing on decades as a trained therapeutic harpist and a background in dance, voice and performance art.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Chris Fields, dating coach

Chris Fields

Relationship and couples coach using NLP and hypnotherapy

Chris Fields is a relationship and couples coach at CB Fields Coaching. He works with married couples and singles on conflict and communication. He uses Neuro-Linguistic Programming and hypnotherapy to change deep-rooted patterns. Chris is a Marine Corps veteran and a former private investigator. He earned his first NLP certification in 2014 and later reached the Master level. His work centers on what he calls Communication Intelligence and behavioral rewiring.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Courtney Klick, dating coach in Michigan

Courtney Klick

Relationship coach for moms and parent couples in Michigan · Michigan, United States

Courtney Klick is a relationship coach who works with moms and parent couples. She has over 20 years in the wellness and growth industry. Her coaching covers relational blueprints, intimacy blockers, relationship saboteurs, and attachment. She is certified by The Relationship School and trained in Non-Violent Communication and Positive Intelligence. She also runs a second line of work as a community strategist for online business owners, using Kajabi, Heartbeat and Facebook. She is based in Michigan.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageAttachment styles
Dawson Skow, dating coach in College Station

Dawson Skow

Dating, relationship and life coach in College Station and Houston · College Station, Texas, United States

Dawson Skow is a dating, relationship and life coach based in College Station, Texas, who also serves clients in Houston. He founded Dawson Skow Life Coaching. He offers dating, relationship, marriage and conflict resolution coaching. He runs a specialized program for married couples who want to work through conflict and rebuild peace and intimacy. He is a native Texan and a Texas A&M graduate, class of 2000.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageDating for menDating for women
Donald Maestas, dating coach in Littleton

Donald Maestas

Relationship, executive and performance coach in Littleton, Colorado · Littleton, Colorado, United States

Donald Maestas is a relationship, executive and performance coach in Littleton, Colorado. He helps couples, executives and high-performing professionals. He is a professional counselor and a former executive with over 20 years of experience. His work uses practical, solution-focused strategies. He focuses on communication, decision making, stress and conflict, so the skills carry from work to home. He holds an MBA and is a licensed professional counselor.

$200 to $225 per hour
Couples and marriage

Elizabeth (E) and Li

Queer and polyamorous relationship coaches for individuals and couples · Online

Elizabeth (E) and Li are partners and relationship coaches who work with queer and polyamorous people. E is the polyamorous relationship coach and is queer. Li is the queer relationship coach and is polyamorous. They coach individuals, couples, throuples, quads and polycules. They also host the QueerLove Podcast, with a new episode every Wednesday. Episodes draw on their own lives, their training and trends they see with clients.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriageLGBTQ dating
Ellen Drews, dating coach

Ellen Drews

Couples and betrayal trauma recovery coach

Ellen Drews is a couples and life coach who helps women heal from betrayal trauma and helps couples rebuild intimacy. She also works with relationships affected by addiction. She holds the Betrayal Trauma Specialist credential from APSATS and the Sex Addiction Professional credential from IITAP. She is also an Early Recovery Couples Empathy Specialist and a Master Certified Life Coach. Her work covers both recovery from betrayal and support through major life changes.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage

Growing Self

Counseling and coaching practice for dating, life and career in Denver · Denver, Colorado, United States

Growing Self is a counseling and coaching practice in Denver, Colorado. It helps singles and couples with dating, relationships and heartbreak. It also offers life coaching and career coaching. Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby leads the practice, and a team of coaches and therapists works with clients. The team also runs the Love, Happiness & Success blog and podcast. It offers a coaching certification program for therapists.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Kelvin Troy Johnson

Dating and relationship coach for men and women in Atlanta · Atlanta, Georgia, United States

Kelvin Troy Johnson is a dating and relationship coach in Atlanta, Georgia. He goes by The Love Coach of Atlanta and works with men and women. He has more than two decades of experience in relationship counseling. He founded Love Coach Atlanta, which offers coaching, live events, and dating courses. He helps men understand how they think in relationships and helps women understand their partners. He has 146,000 followers on TikTok and more than 8,000 on YouTube.

$100 to $180 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage
Nicole Colantoni, dating coach in Australia

Nicole Colantoni

Trauma-informed dating and relationship coach for singles and couples · Australia

Nicole Colantoni is a trauma-informed dating and relationship coach in Australia. She works one-on-one with singles, couples and people in relationships. Her coaching targets the patterns behind repeated bad dating choices, heartbreak and recurring fights. She hosts a podcast called The Great Lesson and offers courses on overcoming heartbreak, limerence and no-contact. She also gives clients text support and check-in messages between sessions.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsBreakups and heartbreak
Noemi Szeri, dating coach

Noemi Szeri

Dating and marriage coach for couples and singles, online worldwide · Online

Noemi Szeri is a dating and marriage coach who works with couples and singles. She helps couples build a loving and mature relationship. She helps singles heal old relationship wounds before they commit again. Her work brings the body into the conversation, and she calls her method embodied relational intelligence. She is a certified clinical hypnotherapist and a certified embodiment coach. She coaches online with clients across the globe.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Relationship Hero

On-demand relationship coaching for singles and couples, online · United States · Online

Relationship Hero is an on-demand relationship coaching company for singles and couples. It runs a team of coaches, and clients are matched with one based on their situation and goals. Coaches work on couples issues, breakups, and dating. Clients can talk by chat, phone, or video, and access is open 24/7. The company reports support for more than 100,000 people and more than 15,000 five-star reviews.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreakOnline dating and apps
Roula Salman, dating coach in Illinois

Roula Salman

Relationship and couples coach working online from Illinois · Illinois, United States · Online

Roula Salman is a relationship coach in Illinois who helps individuals and couples work through relationship struggles. She is Jay Shetty certified and accredited by the Association of Coaching. She meets clients one-to-one by video. She is fluent in Arabic and understands the strain that cultural differences can put on a couple. She has been married for over 30 years. Her work covers romantic, family and work relationships.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriage
Stephan Labossiere, dating coach in Atlanta

Stephan Labossiere

Certified life and relationship coach for men and women · Atlanta, Georgia, United States

Stephan Labossiere is a certified life and relationship coach who helps men and women with dating, love and personal growth. He is also a speaker and author. He wrote The Man God Has for You: 7 Traits to Help You Determine Your Life Partner. His teaching draws on biblical principles. His clients include singles, couples, celebrities, civic groups and academic institutions. He runs the Stephan Speaks brand from Atlanta.

$110 to $200 an hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage
Abe Santiago, dating coach in Phoenix

Abe Santiago

Marriage and couples coach in Phoenix · Phoenix

Abe Santiago is a certified life coach in Phoenix who helps couples heal their marriages. He worked in ministry for 25 years, helping people resolve relationship issues at all levels. He saw how broken marriages hurt children, parents, extended family and friends. That led him to narrow his focus to marriage alone. He offers a discovery conversation so couples can decide if working together fits.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage

Amy Langford

Marriage and intimacy coach for couples

Amy Langford is a marriage and intimacy life coach who helps couples rebuild connection, desire and friendship. Their work covers emotional regulation, communication, differentiation and real intimacy. Amy sends written summary notes after each session. The two coaches say they went through hard times in their own marriage and use what they learned. They offer a free consultation, group coaching and a podcast.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Bruce Dougherty, dating coach

Bruce Dougherty

Relationship coach for individuals and couples

Bruce Dougherty is a relationship, life and family coach who works with individuals and with couples. He is the founder of Discover U. His work starts with awareness. He helps clients see their emotional patterns, set boundaries and build self-trust before they try to change behavior. He avoids labels and therapy language. He also runs events and group programs through ACP, where he teaches with slides, video clips and group discussion.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriageDating after divorceBreakups and heartbreak
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CoachFocusHourly rate range
Alex GayCouples and marriage and LGBTQ dating$110 to $200 an hour
Alison VergeDating over 40 and Online dating and apps$80 to $140 an hour
Bea TrostCouples and marriage$140 to $215 an hour
Brian RzepczynskiLGBTQ dating and Couples and marriage$100 to $170 an hour
Bridgett BloodFaith-based dating and Couples and marriage$110 to $200 an hour
Carla RomoDating for women and Online dating and apps$125 to $200 an hour
Dawn A. RossCouples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak$80 to $250 per hour
Dominic DeckerCouples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak$70 to $125 an hour
Frank KermitDating for men and Couples and marriage$100 to $170 an hour
Jillian TureckiDating for women and Couples and marriage$100 to $180 an hour
Kate MansfieldDating for men and Dating for women$80 to $250 an hour
Katherine YeagelCouples and marriage and LGBTQ dating$225 to $250 per session
Kristyn ArnoldCouples and marriage$110 to $200 an hour
Magda KayDating for men and Couples and marriage$70 to $125 an hour
Matthew RoweCouples and marriage$110 to $200 an hour

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Most dating coaches charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.

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Common focus areas include couples and marriage, breakups and heartbreak, dating for women and LGBTQ dating.

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