Elizabeth (E) and Li
Queer and polyamorous relationship coaches for individuals and couples
| Hourly rate range | $70 to $125 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Couples and LGBTQ+ |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Practice | Queer and Poly |
Elizabeth (E) and Li are partners and relationship coaches who work with queer and polyamorous people. E is the polyamorous relationship coach and is also queer. Li is the queer relationship coach and is also polyamorous. They coach individuals, couples, throuples, quads and polycules. They also host the QueerLove Podcast, with a new episode every Wednesday based on their own experience, their training and trends they see with clients.
What Elizabeth helps with
E and Li help queer and polyamorous people with their relationships. They work with individuals and with couples or larger groups who want to get back on track.
- Getting a relationship back on track
- Challenges in polyamorous relationships
- Challenges in queer relationships
- Coaching for couples, throuples, quads and polycules
- One-on-one relationship coaching
Who Elizabeth works with
E and Li work with people who are queer, polyamorous, or both. They coach individuals as well as couples, throuples, quads and polycules. Couples who love each other and want the relationship to work are a stated focus.
How Elizabeth works
E and Li offer separate call lengths for different clients. Couples, throuples, quads and polycules book a 90 minute call. Individuals book a 60 minute call. Both start with a free call to see if the fit is right. They also share ideas from their work in weekly podcast episodes.
Background and qualifications
E and Li are partners as well as relationship coaches. E focuses on polyamorous relationships and is queer. Li focuses on queer relationships and is polyamorous. Their podcast draws on what they have lived through, what they have been taught and trained in, and patterns they see with clients. E has some experience working with clients who are autistic or neurodivergent.
Elizabeth (E) and Li pricing
Programs and services
- Individual coaching
- Couples and group relationship coaching
- Free intro call
- QueerLove Podcast
Elizabeth (E) and Li reviews
The CoachVouch take
Two partners who coach together, one focused on polyamorous relationships and one on queer relationships, and who host a weekly podcast.
Best for queer or polyamorous individuals, couples and multi-partner groups who want relationship coaching from queer and poly coaches.
Common questions
How much does Elizabeth (E) and Li charge?
Coaching with Elizabeth runs $70 to $125 an hour. Request an intro for an exact quote.
What does Elizabeth (E) and Li help with?
Elizabeth (E) and Li helps with getting a relationship back on track, challenges in polyamorous relationships, challenges in queer relationships and coaching for couples, throuples, quads and polycules.
Do E and Li coach groups larger than couples?
Yes. They coach couples, throuples, quads and polycules, with a 90 minute intro call for groups.
Can I work with just one of them?
Yes. They offer individual coaching with one of them, and a 60 minute intro call for individuals.
How do I contact Elizabeth (E) and Li?
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