Andre Lazarus
Somatic sex, intimacy and relationship coach for individuals and couples
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $170 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Couples and LGBTQ+ |
| Also coaches | Spiritual coach |
| Credentials | Certified Somatica Sex, Intimacy and Relationship Coach; Certified Surrogate Partner, International Professional Surrogate Association; Trained in trauma-informed care; Master of Science, Master of Arts, Bachelor of Arts |
| Experience | 10 years coaching |
| Practice | Coming Closer |
Andre Lazarus is a sex, intimacy and relationship coach who works with individuals and couples. He is a Certified Somatica coach and a certified surrogate partner. He has 10 years of experience and served as a Marine Corps Officer before this work. He appeared as an expert on Channel 4's Virgin Island. He also speaks on podcasts and runs retreats and workshops around the world.
What Andre helps with
Andre works on sexual blocks, desire and connection in relationships. He also supports clients healing from sexual trauma.
- Erotic desire
- Sexless relationships
- Healing from sexual trauma
- Erectile concerns
- Rapid ejaculation
- BDSM
- Consensual non-monogamy
- Communicating needs to a partner
Who Andre works with
Andre works with individuals and couples. He also works with LGBTQ clients. Clients do not need to be in a relationship to start. He also coaches people whose partners will not join sessions.
How Andre works
Andre uses the Somatica Sex and Intimacy Method. It is an experiential, body-based approach to sexuality. Clients get guidance and feedback in real time. He also draws on teaching from the International Professional Surrogacy Association. His work includes embodied empathy, intimate touch, BDSM and altered states of consciousness. His site also says no physical contact is required in coaching, which focuses on awareness, discussion and practical tools.
Background and qualifications
Andre is a Certified Somatica Sex, Intimacy and Relationship Coach. He is also a Certified Surrogate Partner through the International Professional Surrogate Association. He has trauma-informed care training and holds two master's degrees and a bachelor's degree. He has 10 years of experience with individuals and couples. Before this work, he served as a Marine Corps Officer and deployed to war. He later moved to San Francisco. He was a featured expert on Channel 4's Virgin Island.
Andre Lazarus pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Couples coaching
- Online sessions
- Retreats and workshops
Andre Lazarus reviews
The CoachVouch take
Andre is a certified surrogate partner and a Somatica coach who appeared as an expert on Channel 4's Virgin Island.
Best for people and couples who want body-based help with desire, intimacy or sexual trauma.
Common questions
How much does Andre Lazarus charge?
Coaching with Andre runs $100 to $170 an hour. Message Andre from this page for an exact quote.
What does Andre Lazarus help with?
Andre Lazarus helps with erotic desire, sexless relationships, healing from sexual trauma and erectile concerns.
Is Andre Lazarus certified?
Andre Lazarus lists: Certified Somatica Sex, Intimacy and Relationship Coach; Certified Surrogate Partner, International Professional Surrogate Association; Trained in trauma-informed care; Master of Science, Master of Arts, Bachelor of Arts.
Does Andre Lazarus require physical contact in sessions?
No physical contact is required. Coaching focuses on awareness, discussion and practical tools for daily life.
Can I work with Andre without a partner?
Yes. You do not need to be in a relationship to start, and you can come alone if your partner will not join.
How do I contact Andre Lazarus?
Send Andre a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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