Leah Carey
Sex and relationship coach for adults from high-control backgrounds
| Hourly rate range | $110 to $200 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Couples and LGBTQ+ |
| Also coaches | Life coach |
| Based in | Oregon, United States |
| Credentials | Certified life coach |
Leah Carey is a sex, intimacy and relationship coach in Oregon. He works with individuals and couples, with a focus on adults who grew up in high-control environments. He hosts the podcast Good Girls Talk About Sex. His work covers desire, boundaries, self-trust and communication with partners. He is queer, kink and non-monogamy friendly. His own upbringing in a high-control family shapes how he coaches, and he paces sessions to how each client's nervous system responds.
What Leah helps with
Leah helps people who feel stuck around sex, desire and closeness. Many left high-control religious, family, ideological or cultural settings and still struggle in relationships.
- Communicating with partners about sex and desire
- Body image issues during sex
- Returning to dating after a long time away
- First-time queer experiences
- Exploring consensual non-monogamy
- Exploring kink
- Navigating mismatched libidos
- Freezing, people-pleasing or shutting down in intimacy or conflict
Who Leah works with
Leah works with individuals and couples. Many clients are adults who have left, or are leaving, high-control environments. They often feel cut off from desire, boundaries or self-trust. Some freeze or people-please in intimacy. Others can explain their patterns well but still feel stuck.
How Leah works
Leah starts where the client is now and moves at the pace of their nervous system. He does not force breakthroughs or push one right way to relate or desire. Clients choose what they talk about and how far to go. His work rests on the idea that consent needs self-trust and that desire cannot grow under pressure. Sessions from his podcast are recorded with client permission so new clients can hear how he works.
Background and qualifications
Leah is a certified life coach who works as a sex and intimacy coach. He hosts the podcast Good Girls Talk About Sex. He has experience with individuals and couples around intimacy, communication and boundaries, with a focus on shame. He grew up in a high-control home and was the first person in his family to finish a 4-year college degree. His own path to healing shapes his work with clients.
Leah Carey pricing
Programs and services
- One-on-one coaching
- Couples coaching
- Free discovery call of 20 to 30 minutes
- Podcast with recorded coaching sessions
Leah Carey reviews
The CoachVouch take
He coaches on sex and relationships through the lens of growing up in a high-control environment, which he lived himself.
Best for adults who left high-control environments and want a safer, more connected sex life and relationships.
Common questions
How much does Leah Carey charge?
Coaching with Leah runs $110 to $200 an hour. Message Leah from this page for an exact quote.
What does Leah Carey help with?
Leah Carey helps with communicating with partners about sex and desire, body image issues during sex, returning to dating after a long time away and first-time queer experiences.
Is Leah Carey certified?
Leah Carey lists: Certified life coach.
Does Leah Carey work with queer, kinky or non-monogamous clients?
Yes. His coaching is queer, kink and non-monogamy friendly. He also helps clients explore these areas.
Can I hear how Leah coaches before I sign up?
Yes. He shares recorded coaching sessions on his podcast, with client permission. He also offers a free discovery call of 20 to 30 minutes.
How do I contact Leah Carey?
Send Leah a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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