Kari Hoskins
Relationship coach for people deciding whether to stay or divorce
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $170 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Couples |
| Credentials | Professionally certified relationship coach; Master's degree in Interpersonal Communication; Specialized training in infidelity and betrayal; Specialized training in high-conflict relationships |
| Practice | Kari Hoskins Relationship Coaching |
Kari Hoskins is a relationship coach who helps couples and individuals decide whether to stay in a marriage, repair it, separate or divorce. She holds a Master's degree in Interpersonal Communication and has specialized training in infidelity, betrayal and high-conflict relationships. She created a framework called the 6 Stages of the Divorce Decision.
What Kari helps with
Kari works with people who are unsure whether to stay in a marriage or leave. She helps them handle the conflict first, then find what is really going wrong, then make a clear choice.
- Deciding whether to stay, separate or divorce
- Recurring conflict, silence and resentment in a marriage
- Disconnection between partners
- Recovering from infidelity and betrayal
- High-conflict relationships
- Making a decision from confidence instead of panic or guilt
- Coaching alone when a partner is not ready to take part
Who Kari works with
Kari coaches couples who want to decide together about the future of their marriage. She also coaches individuals. This fits people whose partner is not ready for coaching, who need space to think first, or who want support choosing between rebuilding, separating or divorcing.
How Kari works
Kari uses a structured process in three parts. First, she helps clients calm the immediate problems like conflict, silence and resentment. Next, she digs into what is breaking down and why. Then clients decide whether repair is possible, whether they want it, and which path fits their life. Her 12-session programs run for couples or individuals. Couple sessions mix individual and joint coaching. She also uses her own framework, the 6 Stages of the Divorce Decision, to show clients where they are in the process.
Background and qualifications
Kari is a professionally certified relationship coach. She has a Master's degree in Interpersonal Communication. She has specialized training in infidelity, betrayal and high-conflict relationships. She has helped thousands of people understand what is breaking down in their relationships, have hard conversations and make a decision they feel confident about. She developed the 6 Stages of the Divorce Decision, a framework that shows clients where they are in the decision process.
Kari Hoskins pricing
Programs and services
- Marriage Crossroads Coaching, a 12-session program for couples
- 12-session private coaching for individuals
- Free consultation call
- Should We Get a Divorce quiz
Kari Hoskins reviews
The CoachVouch take
Kari created the 6 Stages of the Divorce Decision framework and focuses on the stay or go question without pushing either outcome.
Best for married people who are unsure whether to stay or divorce and want a clear, structured way to decide.
Common questions
How much does Kari Hoskins charge?
Coaching with Kari runs $100 to $170 an hour. Message Kari from this page for an exact quote.
What does Kari Hoskins help with?
Kari Hoskins helps with deciding whether to stay, separate or divorce, recurring conflict, silence and resentment in a marriage, disconnection between partners and recovering from infidelity and betrayal.
Is Kari Hoskins certified?
Kari Hoskins lists: Professionally certified relationship coach; Master's degree in Interpersonal Communication; Specialized training in infidelity and betrayal; Specialized training in high-conflict relationships.
Can Kari coach me if my partner does not want to take part?
Yes. Her individual program is built for people whose partner is not ready for coaching.
Will Kari push me to stay or to leave?
No. Her work aims at clarity about what is true in the marriage, not at a set outcome.
How do I contact Kari Hoskins?
Send Kari a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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