Dating coaches for students
Compare 9 dating coaches. Besides their main focus, the most common focus areas are introverts, couples and marriage, dating for men and online dating and apps. They most often work with students, professionals and men. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
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Michael Sartain
Michael Sartain is a dating and social coach who teaches men how to build a high-status social circle. He runs Men of Action from Las Vegas. His core program is a 25-day system for meeting high-quality people, making friends and getting into exclusive events. It replaces cold approach and dating apps. The program has over 1500 social circle transformations. It uses a social media blueprint, a networking framework and a method called the Red Rope Protocol.

Brent Scarpo
Brent Scarpo is a life and career coach in Palm Springs, California. He helps millennials, high school students and college students with career, relationship and life direction. Before coaching, he spent 40 years in Hollywood as an actor and casting director. He cast The Shawshank Redemption, Air Force One and Matilda. He built a program called "Millennials are Amazing" and teaches twenty life lessons he learned while casting Shawshank.

Dave S. Wallace
Dave S. Wallace is a career and couples coach who works mostly with men and professionals. He has coached for 17 years, in private and group settings. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist with degrees in clinical and organizational psychology. Before this work, he spent 10 years composing music in Hollywood. His clients include entrepreneurs, producers, artists, doctors, lawyers, principals and veterans. Most of the men he sees are between 16 and 50 and feel stuck in work or relationships.

Dee Carter
Dee Carter is a confidence and life coach in South Carolina. Dee works with high-functioning adults who have lost touch with who they are beneath their roles. Dee founded Dee Carter Collective and created the I.D.E.N.T.I.T.Y. and R.I.S.E. frameworks. Both rest on one idea: Identity drives behavior. Dee has built identity programs for corporate leadership pipelines, government training, youth leadership cohorts, and re-entry populations. Dee also coaches on everyday confidence, dating, and self-presentation.

Joy Zalzala-Soyka
Joy Zalzala-Soyka is a life coach for ADHDers, queer people and other neurodivergent adults. Joy is a certified ADHD life coach based in Germany and holds an ICF ACC credential. Sessions run online by Zoom or phone. Joy uses somatic tools to help clients ease stress and act on their goals. Clients include PhD candidates, academics, creatives in writing, painting, photography and tech, and parents. Joy also runs a five week group program called Complex Identities, Creatively Thriving.

Constantine Alexander S
Constantine Alexander S is a life and confidence coach who works online with clients around the world. He focuses on introverts, from young adults to people in midlife. He coaches on life purpose, confidence and relationships. He holds a BA and an MSc and is currently doing PhD studies. His methods draw on CBT, ACT and positive psychology. He is based in Greece and holds several coaching certifications, including forgiveness, mindset and NLP.

Barbara L. Ciccarelli
Barbara L. Ciccarelli is an Amsterdam coach who helps people through changes at work, in relationships and in life. She has spent over 30 years mentoring, facilitating or coaching students and professionals in international settings. She is a university academic. Her work centers on self-leadership, workplace dynamics and core relationships. She also writes on psychological positioning and self-leadership through articles and podcasts.
Jack Mierop
Jack Mierop is a life, relationship and leadership coach in Long Beach, California. He works with young adults and with couples who have relationship difficulties. He teaches college communication courses and leads classes at shelters that focus on raising self-esteem and setting goal paths. He is also a published author, a motivational speaker and an ordained minister. He writes articles on acceptance and on allowing others to be influential.
Ishpreet Chawla
Ishpreet Chawla is a career coach in New York City who helps college graduates find work they care about. Ishpreet works with people who are unsure which career fits them and with people who want to land a specific job. Ishpreet also lists performance and relationship coaching. Ishpreet trained at iPEC and Robbins Madanes Training, holding a Certified NLP Coach Practitioner credential and a 100 hour Strategic Intervention certificate.
Side by side
| Coach | Focus | Hourly rate range |
|---|---|---|
| Michael Sartain | Dating for men and Online dating and apps | $100 to $150 an hour |
| Brent Scarpo | Life and career coach for millennials and students in Palm Springs | $150 to $375 per hour |
| Dave S. Wallace | Couples and marriage | $90 to $175 an hour |
| Dee Carter | Identity and confidence coach in South Carolina | $130 to $190 an hour |
| Joy Zalzala-Soyka | ADHD and neurodivergent life coach working online from Germany | $110 to $150 an hour |
| Constantine Alexander S | Introverts | $80 to $150 an hour |
| Barbara L. Ciccarelli | Relationship, career and leadership coach in Amsterdam | $90 to $175 an hour |
| Jack Mierop | Couples and marriage | $75 to $150 per hour |
| Ishpreet Chawla | Career coach for college graduates in New York | $125 to $175 an hour |
Common questions
How much does a dating coach cost?
Most dating coaches charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.
What else do these dating coaches help with?
Common focus areas include introverts, couples and marriage, dating for men and online dating and apps.
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Last updated September 2026.