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Compare 128 dating coaches. Besides their main focus, the most common focus areas are couples and marriage, dating for men, online dating and apps and approach anxiety and confidence. They most often work with professionals, women and men. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.

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Elle Wilson, dating coach

Elle Wilson

Dating coach for ambitious singles, online and offline

Elle Wilson is a certified dating coach who helps ambitious singles date with more skill and more fun. She founded Met Through Friends, a company that helps singles meet offline, and has hosted thousands of single people at in-person events. She has worked with 60+ dating clients. She pairs a Stanford management science background with 10 years in hospitality to build a strategic approach to dating.

$75 to $145 an hour
Online dating and appsBreakups and heartbreakApproach anxiety and confidence
Holly McCusker, dating coach

Holly McCusker

Relationship and emotional intelligence coach for ambitious professionals

Holly McCusker is a relationship and emotional intelligence coach who helps ambitious professionals understand the patterns behind how they date and connect. She focuses on attachment, nervous system responses, and partner selection. Before starting her private practice, she worked at Tawkify, the largest matchmaking agency in the US, as a matchmaker and coach. She also led the build of Tawkify's internal coaching program. She created the 5R Breakup Recovery Method and the 5P Conscious Masculinity Framework.

$90 to $230 an hour
Attachment stylesBreakups and heartbreakMatchmaking
Allison Anderson, dating coach

Allison Anderson

Dating coach for high-achieving women and women physicians

Allison Anderson is a dating and relationship coach for high-achieving women, including women physicians. She is a cardiothoracic anesthesiologist with an MD and is also a certified life coach. She built her own method after struggling with dating herself. It mixes shadow work, nervous system tools, mindset shifts and practical how-tos. She offers a 3 month private mentorship and an audio dating program made for women doctors.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for women
Brandon Dawkins, dating coach

Brandon Dawkins

Certified dating coach for driven professionals

Brandon Dawkins is a certified dating coach who helps driven professionals with confidence, conversation and finding a partner. He came to coaching after a career in finance and product management and a layoff. He worked at Spotify and has coached more than 60 dating clients.

$75 to $145 an hour
Approach anxiety and confidenceOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

Adele Currin

Relationship coach for professionals facing breakups and big decisions in Washington · Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Adele Currin is a relationship coach in Washington, DC. She helps professionals who feel stuck in their relationships. Some want to reconnect, some need to make a hard choice, and some want to separate with kindness. Adele is a former Registered Nurse and holds a Duke integrative health coaching certification. She is also certified in Conscious Uncoupling and Rapid Transformational Therapy. Her work centers on action, not only talk.

$200 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak

Alex León

Dating coach for introverted, analytical men who want to meet women in person · Austria · Online and in person

Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. Alex helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. Alex built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. Alex's clients come from 22 countries. Alex also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of Alex's clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup

Alison Verge

Dating and relationship coach for professionals over 40

Alison Verge is a relationship and dating coach who helps busy professionals over 40 find lasting love. She runs Path2Love Coaching. She is a certified sexologist and co-author of "Radical Self Love." She also coaches couples who face a sudden shock, such as illness or disability, a challenge she knows from her own life. Her clients can meet a partner with or without dating apps.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsAttachment styles

Daniel Jacob

Dating coach for successful, busy men in Miami · Miami, Florida, United States · Online and in person

Daniel Jacob is a men's dating coach and the founder of Everlasting Confidence. He helps successful single men build real self-confidence and meet high-quality women. He started the Accelerator Program in 2018 and has worked with over 250 men. The program is fully customized. It includes mindset training and live practice calls with female models, where Daniel reviews body language, eye contact, tone of voice and word choice.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Gabriela Embon

Relationship and career coach for professionals in Montreal · Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Gabriela Embon is a relationship and career coach in Montreal, Quebec. She helps busy professionals, leaders and entrepreneurs build strong careers and strong relationships at the same time. She wrote the book Becoming a Power Couple and hosts the Life Engineering Podcast. She also founded the Coaching Academy and trained as a chemical engineer. Her work uses two named methods, the Power Couple Method and the Life Engineering Framework.

$106 to $141 per hour
Couples and marriage

Jasbina Ahluwalia

Matchmaker and relationship coach for accomplished singles, South Asian focus

Jasbina Ahluwalia is a matchmaker and relationship coach who helps accomplished singles find a life partner. She runs Intersections Match and has a special focus on South Asian matchmaking. She spent nearly two decades in this work. Before that, she was a lawyer in San Francisco and Chicago. She works with men and women across the U.S. and in other countries.

$80 to $140 an hour
MatchmakingDating for menDating for women

Johnny Cassell

Dating coach for men in London and worldwide · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Johnny Cassell is a London dating coach who works with men on dating, attraction and long-term partnership. He has coached since 2005 and has worked with over 2,000 men. He has been featured on BBC, Sky News and The Times. He wrote the bestselling book Elite Seduction. He teaches in real settings with one-to-one training, and also coaches men online around the world.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Julie Ferman

Matchmaker and dating coach in Los Angeles, Denver and Santa Fe · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

Julie Ferman is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps relationship-minded single men and women find partners. She launched her agency in Westlake Village, California in 2001. She has privately registered more than 40,000 singles and is credited with over 1,500 couples. She serves clients in Los Angeles, Denver and Santa Fe. She also runs a 30-day virtual boot camp for people who want to build their dating skills first.

$80 to $130 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesLGBTQ dating

Kimmy Seltzer

Dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

Kimmy Seltzer is a dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles. She is a former therapist who also works as a style coach and matchmaker. She helps high-achieving singles and later-life daters stop overthinking and feel sure of themselves in real-world settings. She has been on Inside Edition, ABC7 in Los Angeles and The Tamron Hall Show, and she runs a retreat for women and men who are dating again in their second act.

$100 to $225 an hour
Online dating and appsDating over 40Matchmaking

May Hui

Matchmaker for men seeking Asian women in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

She introduces single men to vetted Asian women who want a serious relationship. She has matched people since 2009 and has over 17 years of experience. Her team has set up 5,061 first dates. She picks matches by hand instead of using algorithms, and she works with a partner network of 300+ singles.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for menMatchmaking

Nicole

Dating coach for women who attract emotionally unavailable men · Vancouver · Online

Nicole is a dating, love, and relationship coach based in Vancouver. He helps women who keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. He has coached for 15 years and has worked with hundreds of women around the world. His coaching uses the R.E.A.L. Love Method. It helps clients spot unhealthy dating patterns, state their needs with confidence, and build committed relationships. He also runs a separate coaching track for men.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesTexting and first dates

Odette Coronel

Relationship and life coach for individuals and couples in New York · New York, New York, United States

Odette Coronel is a relationship and life coach in New York who works with individuals and couples. She helps people who feel distant from a partner, walk on eggshells, or live like roommates. She is an Accredited Professional Coach with the Association for Coaching, a Coach Supervisor and an NLP Practitioner. She also hosts a podcast and speaks. Her coaching draws on NLP, Gottman Method principles and relational intelligence.

$150 to $225 per hour
Couples and marriage

Persia Lawson

Dating and love coach for successful women in London · London, United Kingdom

Persia Lawson is a dating and relationship coach in London who helps successful, high-achieving women find secure, lasting partnerships. Persia has coached for 14 years and has worked with thousands of women. Persia is a TV personality and has written three books. Persia hosts The Love Is Coming podcast, which ranked #1 in the UK for dating and relationship shows. Persia teaches the Anti-Dating Matrix Method to break old dating patterns.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Attachment styles

Rachel Greenwald

Matchmaker and dating coach for busy professionals across the United States · United States

Rachel Greenwald is a matchmaker and dating coach who works with private clients across the United States and internationally. She is the CEO of Greenwald Executive Matchmaking and an author. She counts 908 marriages from her private clients and from readers of her books who sent her wedding photos. She has appeared on CNN, The Today Show, ABC Nightline and CBS Mornings. She offers matchmaking, coaching and strategy consultations.

$100 to $180 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriage

Shannon Lundgren

Matchmaker for high-achieving singles in the San Francisco Bay Area · San Francisco, California, United States

Shannon Lundgren is a San Francisco Bay Area matchmaker who helps high-achieving, highly educated singles find a long term partner. She runs Shannon's Circle, a boutique matchmaking firm. She graduated from Harvard Business School and began her career working for Warren Buffett. She spent decades in corporate life before moving into matchmaking. She draws on a network of over 8,000 single people in the Bay Area.

$90 to $150 an hour
Matchmaking

Shubhani Oberai Talwar

Relationship and life coach for young adults in New Delhi · New Delhi, Delhi, India

Shubhani Oberai Talwar is a relationship and life coach in New Delhi. She helps young adults who feel stuck in relationships, family life, or the workplace. She holds an MA in Psychology and a life coach diploma, and she mentors in Vedaanta Science. She has coached for 4 years. Before that, she spent decades running businesses and rebuilding her life after personal loss. Her method works on mind, body, and soul together.

$125 to $150 per hour
Couples and marriage

Amari Ice

Gay dating coach and matchmaker for gay professionals · United States

Amari Ice is a gay dating coach who helps gay professionals build the skills to find lasting love. Amari is also a matchmaker, a hypnotherapist and a best-selling author. Coaching covers dating skills, self-sabotage patterns and romantic magnetism. Work starts with a one-on-one Dating Analysis and is built around the Romantic Mastery Method.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for menLGBTQ datingAttachment styles

Anna Stratis

Relationship and career coach for individuals and couples in New York · New York, New York, United States

Dr Anna Stratis is a relationship and career coach in New York. She works with individuals and couples who face conflict or distance, and with professionals at career crossroads. She is also a physician and has spent two decades supporting people through stress and major life transitions. She has logged more than 2,000 client hours. Her clients come from tech, finance, consulting and healthcare, and she also hosts a podcast on relationship communication.

$180 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriage

Connell Barrett

Dating coach for men in New York City · New York, NY, United States

Connell Barrett is a New York City dating coach who works with men. He helps them build confidence, flirt with ease, and meet women they want to date. His goal for clients is a girlfriend in 90 days or less. He hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He teaches an approach he calls Radically Authentic, and he avoids pickup tricks.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Damien Diecke

Dating coach for men in Sydney, Australia · Sydney, Australia · In person

Damien Diecke runs School of Attraction, a dating coaching business for men in Sydney, Australia. He helps men learn to approach women, talk with them, and feel confident. The business has coached men since 2009 and says it has helped thousands. Its main offer is a 3-month program built around real-world practice every weekend. Clients get personalized feedback along the way. The methods avoid pickup lines, tricks and games.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts

Elia Canu

Dating coach for busy tech men in Dallas · Dallas, Texas, United States · Online and in person

Elia Canu is a dating coach who helps busy men in tech find a partner and start a family. She runs Ideal Partner with coach Nela. The program uses a weekly plug and play system built for tech professionals. Elia has coached tech men for 5+ years. Her clients include software engineers and product managers. Support covers dating profiles, Instagram profiles, messaging, and date practice.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

Grace Anderson

Relationship and breakup recovery coach in Blackpool, England · Blackpool, England, United Kingdom

Grace Anderson is a relationship coach in Blackpool, England. She helps women recover from breakups and divorce, and she coaches singles and couples on their relationships. She also works with professionals and executives on goals, confidence and stress. Before coaching, she was a Headteacher at Emotan College in Benin City, Nigeria, and later led English departments in London schools. She retrained as an NLP Practitioner after she retired.

$166 to $332 per hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage

Jared Laurence

Dating coach for men in Chicago · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Jared Laurence, known as Psych, is a dating coach for men and the founder of Modern Success in Chicago. He teaches men how to start conversations with women, improve online dating results and build a strong social circle. He has mentored over 10,000 men and coached for 16+ years. His work has appeared on CBS, FOX, NBC, CNN and MTV. He also works as a motivational speaker and lifestyle consultant.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Johanna Nauraine

Relationship, career and business coach in Chicago, Illinois · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Johanna Nauraine is a relationship, career and business coach in Chicago, Illinois. She helps white collar professionals with dating, marriage, divorce, career moves and entrepreneurship. She has coached for more than 30 years. She helps men and women find fitting dating partners and build lasting relationships. She also works with small family business owners who want to grow and sell their companies. She offers divorce coaching for women.

$155 to $250 per hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage

Mike Ke

Dating coach for Asian and STEM men in Las Vegas · Las Vegas, Nevada, United States · Online and in person

Mike Ke is a dating and confidence coach for men in STEM and Asian and minority men. He is a former engineer and has coached full time in Las Vegas since 2012. He has taught more than 1,200 students. He runs weekly bootcamps and a 12 week mentoring program that meets in person and online. His clients work in science, tech, engineering, medicine and business.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Odette Coronel

Couples and dating coach for busy, high-achieving professionals

Odette Coronel is a life and relationship coach who helps hard working, high achieving professionals build strong relationships. She starts with the client's relationship with themselves, then moves to connection, communication and intimacy with a partner. She is a Gottman Leader and a Prepare-Enrich facilitator for couples.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage

Renee Richel

Christian matchmaker and relationship coach for faith-minded singles · United States

Renee Richel is a Christian matchmaker and relationship coach who helps faith-minded singles find a lasting partner. She founded 1 True Match in 2010. The service works with clients around the world. Her team hand-picks each match and builds introductions around faith, values and compatibility. They keep supporting clients after a match is made. The practice also serves busy professionals who do not want to rely on dating apps.

$80 to $140 an hour
MatchmakingFaith-based dating

Robert Gordon

Relationship, career and life coach for individuals and couples in Washington, DC · Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Robert Gordon is a relationship, career and life coach in Washington, DC. He works with individuals and couples who want clarity, stronger relationships and a more balanced way of living and working. Before coaching, he spent 25 years helping organizations improve performance and leadership. He is a certified Imago Relationship Educator. His focus areas are communication, conflict repair and emotional intelligence. Many of his clients are in midlife or beyond.

$250 to $500 per hour
Couples and marriage

The Asian Dating Coach

Dating coach for Asian and South Asian men in Austin · Austin, Texas, United States · Online and in person

The Asian Dating Coach helps single Asian and South Asian men date with confidence, in person or online. The coach works on mindset, self-confidence, anxiety, grooming and style, body language, first dates, dating apps and texting. Clients include software engineers, doctors, cybersecurity consultants and a few lawyers. The coach was a shy man who was never encouraged to date, and teaches the lessons learned from that path. Local coaching is offered in Austin, Texas.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Tim B

Dating coach for driven introverted men, online, United States · United States

Tim B, known as Coach TimB, is a dating coach who helps driven, introverted men get past approach anxiety and turn conversations into dates. He runs Understanding Attraction, a premium coaching practice that uses an application process. He has over 10 years of experience and has coached 1,247+ men. His own start was shaky, since he could barely make eye contact at 18. He teaches a 3-phase system built on daily accountability.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts

Vee Mindful

Modern dating strategist for mature singles over 40 and 50 · United States · Online

Vee Mindful is a modern dating strategist who coaches mature singles over 40 and over 50 who want a real, lasting partner. Vee has more than 16 years of coaching experience. After a long marriage ended, Vee went on over 200 dates and spent 10 years studying the psychology of attraction and commitment. Vee created the From Situationship to Soulmate program and teaches a vetted protocol for choosing a partner.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsTexting and first dates

Eileen Chao

Sex and relationship coach for high achievers in San Francisco · San Francisco, California, United States · Online and in person

Eileen Chao is a sex and relationship coach and surrogate partner who works with high achievers on intimacy issues. She has more than a decade of experience. She is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and holds a master's in psychology. She acts as a practice partner and works with clients in real time, so change is felt and not only understood. She sees clients in person in San Francisco, by telehealth, or in a hybrid model.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriage

Coleen Gose

Relationship coach for professional women in Oregon · Oregon, United States

Coleen Gose is a relationship coach in Oregon who helps professional women who have lost their voice build loving and supportive relationships. She is a domestic violence survivor and a trained domestic violence advocate. She is also a trauma informed coach and a published author. She runs Life 2.0 Coaching with Coleen, a coaching and public speaking business. Her focus is helping women leave toxic relationship cycles behind.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for women

Gabriela Embon

Relationship and career coach for professionals and entrepreneurs in Montreal · Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Gabriela Embon is a relationship and career coach in Montreal, Quebec. She helps busy professionals, leaders and entrepreneurs build strong careers and strong relationships at the same time. She trained as a chemical engineer and wrote the book Becoming a Power Couple. She also hosts the Life Engineering Podcast and founded the Coaching Academy. She works with couples in second marriages and blended families.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage

Hazel Beckett

Dating and life coach for women looking for lasting love

Hazel Beckett is a dating and life coach who works one on one with women who want a lasting love relationship. She helps clients find what holds them back from commitment and love. She is an accredited life coach and a Theta healer. She also shares the road map that led her to her own deepest relationship. She offers a free 30 minute session to see if you are a good match.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for women

Mia

Matchmaker and dating coach for professionals in Dubai · Dubai, United Arab Emirates

Mia is a matchmaker and dating and relationship coach in Dubai who runs Find Your Swan. She helps high-achieving professionals find a lasting partner. She has lived in Dubai for over nine years and knows its dating scene well. Her business has matched 200+ couples and coached 150+ clients. Her database has 1000+ members. She offers private matchmaking, date coaching, dating profile makeovers, and events.

$80 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingDating for menTexting and first dates

Satnam Singh Deol

Relationship, life and family coach for couples in Gurgaon · Gurgaon, Haryana, India

Dr Satnam Singh Deol is a relationship, life and family coach in Gurgaon, Haryana. He helps working couples with problems in their relationship, communication, sex life and behavior. He holds a doctorate in psychology and trained in inner child healing, guidance and counselling, hypnotherapy and NLP. He is linked with Transformation Academy and AlphaStars Academy of Excellence. He also writes articles, including one on the effects of childhood sexual abuse.

$75 to $150 per hour
Couples and marriage

Susan Winter

Relationship and dating coach in New York City · New York City, New York, United States

Susan Winter is a relationship expert and love coach in New York City. She helps people find and keep love. She has worked as a coaching professional since 2000. She is a bestselling author and wrote Older Women/Younger Men. She also works as a professional speaker and runs live events with Q&A in New York. Her focus covers dating issues, relationship challenges, and inner confidence.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Online dating and apps

AJ Harbinger

Social skills and dating coach for men in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

AJ Harbinger is a coach who helps men build social skills, confidence and better dating lives. AJ works through The Art of Charm in Los Angeles. The company has served more than 10,000 clients over 17 years and also produces a podcast. Clients learn conversation, networking and social awareness skills. They use these skills at work, in friendships and in dating. The teaching is built around the Social Calibration Method.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidence

Andrew

Dating coach for men in the UK, no apps needed · United Kingdom

Andrew runs Honest Improvement, a dating coaching program for men in the UK. He helps men who are tired of dating apps meet women in real life and find a girlfriend in 12 weeks. He built the system while working to meet his own girlfriend, then refined it over 2,400+ hours of helping other men.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceOnline dating and apps

Anna

Dating coach for men in Miami · Miami, Florida, United States

Anna is a dating coach for men in Miami who runs The Daily Flirt. She helps men improve their style, grooming, dating profiles, social media and dating strategy. The goal is to attract the women they want and turn those connections into real dates and relationships. Anna offers a 1x1 VIP program, a Skool community with weekly calls and challenges, and five free guides on approaching, texting and ghosting.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Bela Gandhi

Dating coach for accomplished women in Chicago · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Bela Gandhi is a dating coach who leads Smart Dating Academy in Chicago. The academy helps accomplished women find lasting love through one-on-one coaching. It calls its coaches love strategists. They guide clients on dating mindset, online dating, and checking that a relationship is a good fit. The company has run for 15 years, and Bela has appeared on Today, ABC, Fox News, CNN and NBC.

$275 to $500 per session
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsDating after divorce

Donald Maestas

Relationship, executive and performance coach in Littleton, Colorado · Littleton, Colorado, United States

Donald Maestas is a relationship, executive and performance coach in Littleton, Colorado. He helps couples, executives and high-performing professionals. He is a professional counselor and a former executive with over 20 years of experience. His work uses practical, solution-focused strategies. He focuses on communication, decision making, stress and conflict, so the skills carry from work to home. He holds an MBA and is a licensed professional counselor.

$200 to $225 per hour
Couples and marriage

Gloria

Dating coach and image consultant in Washington, DC · Washington, DC, United States

Gloria is a dating coach and image consultant in Washington, DC. She runs Dating Decoded and helps professional singles in the DC area build real connections. She coaches dating skills and dating strategy. She also offers mock dates at a local cafe or bar, where a client practices with her or an actor. Her services include wardrobe audits, personal shopping and makeovers. She coaches one-on-one or as a couple.

$100 to $180 an hour
Online dating and appsCouples and marriageTexting and first dates

Jade Bianca

Dating after divorce coach for divorced professionals across the United States · United States · Online

Jade Bianca is a dating after divorce coach who helps divorced professionals feel confident about dating again. She runs Dating Coach In My Pocket, a service that sends daily dating guidance by text. Her method is built on research and shaped for people who are dating again after a marriage ends. She serves clients across the United States and also works with them in private coaching sessions.

$100 to $200 an hour
Dating after divorceOnline dating and appsDating over 40

Malcolm

Dating coach for men in Singapore · Singapore, Singapore · Online and in person

Malcolm runs Social Skydiving Academy, a dating coaching practice for men in Singapore. He helps men meet and date women with honesty and better social skills. Hundreds of clients have worked with the academy, including doctors, engineers, professionals and entrepreneurs. He was featured on Channel News Asia. The academy teaches through online courses, live bootcamps, private coaching and VIP coaching. It does not offer matchmaking.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidence

Michael Sartain

Dating and social circle mentor for men in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online

Michael Sartain is a dating mentor for men. He runs Men of Action, a mentoring brand based in Los Angeles. He also hosts a podcast on men's dating. His Off-Market Social System teaches men to build high status social circles and meet women without dating apps. The system uses no cold approach and no pickup lines.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and apps

Nada Al Ghowainim

Relationship coach for single professional women in Dubai · Dubai, Dubai

Nada Al Ghowainim is a relationship, life and spirituality coach in Dubai. She helps single professional women find a partner and build the life they want. Her work uses the law of attraction and starts with inner work to connect with the true self. She holds an NLP Life Coach certificate and trained at the Robert Simic Coaching Institute. She writes articles and shares client success stories on law of attraction coaching.

$200 to $250 per hour
Dating for women

Toi & Moi Matchmaking and Dating Coach

Matchmaking and dating coach for busy professionals in New York City · New York City, New York, United States

Toi & Moi is a boutique matchmaking and dating coaching service in New York City. It helps successful, busy professionals who want a deep and compatible partnership. The team blends matchmaking with coaching and draws on psychology, attachment theory and communication science. Clients can also join group coaching and community events. New clients can book a free 20-minute discovery call and join the matchmaking database of singles.

$100 to $180 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriageAttachment styles

Caryn Davis

Matchmaker and date coach for busy professionals · United States

Caryn Davis is a certified matchmaker and date coach who helps busy professionals find a quality match that can lead to a long-term relationship. She runs Exquisite Elite Matchmaking, where men contact the team directly and women join a matchmaking database. She also offers individual date coaching for men and women who want help with modern dating. She hosts a podcast about dating.

$100 to $160 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesBreakups and heartbreak

Dream Match Services

Dating coach for men in Singapore · Singapore, Singapore

Dream Match Services is a Singapore practice that offers one-on-one dating coaching for men. The coaching builds confidence, communication and a personal dating plan. It does not use pickup lines or tricks. The team also runs matchmaking services and hosts singles events, so the coaching draws on what they see in real relationships. Sessions are shaped around Singapore dating culture and each client's goals.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menMatchmakingApproach anxiety and confidence

Jill Rodowicz

Relationship coach for emotionally intelligent overachievers, focused on secure partnerships

Jill Rodowicz is a relationship coach who helps people build secure and fulfilling partnerships. She works with emotionally intelligent overachievers who deal with anxiety and emotional dependency. Her coaching teaches clients to regulate their nervous systems, question societal norms, and change limiting beliefs. She runs Become What You Are Coaching LLC, which started in 2022. Her clients often come to her when a partner feels distant or uninterested in improving the relationship.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriageAttachment styles

Johnathan Hines

Relationship, Christian and executive coach in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma · Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, United States

Dr. Johnathan Hines is a relationship coach, Christian coach and executive coach in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. He works with high-earning executives, business owners and medical professionals. His coaching focuses on relationships, leadership and work-life balance. He trained at the Wainwright Global Institute of Professional Coaching. He also writes articles on using faith and Christian principles to strengthen relationships and find balance.

$400 to $600 per hour

Kshitij Sehrawat

Dating coach for successful Indian men · India · Online

Kshitij Sehrawat is a dating coach for successful Indian men. Kshitij works through Iron Man Lifestyle, a brand with 814K subscribers. Kshitij's 3-step system covers confidence, attraction, texting and first dates. Kshitij runs a live 90-minute workshop on Zoom for working professionals who feel confident at work but anxious around women. Kshitij uses an engineering style approach that is systematic and logical, and it avoids fake lines and manipulative tricks.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Lauren Sanders

Matchmaker and dating coach for professional singles nationwide · United States

Lauren Sanders is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps professional singles find a partner. Lauren runs The Love Crush Agency, a boutique matchmaking service that works with clients across the United States. Clients get vetting, character checks, formal video interviews and personality assessments. A personal dating concierge also plans dates, from fine dining to activity dates. The agency also offers dating coaching and speed dating events, with specialty tracks for different age groups and backgrounds.

$100 to $225 an hour
MatchmakingDating over 40

Lemarc Thomas

Matchmaker and dating coach in Stockholm, Sweden · Stockholm, Sweden

Lemarc Thomas is a matchmaker and dating coach in Stockholm, Sweden. Lemarc runs The Matchmaking Agency, which helps single people find a lasting partner. The agency mixes matchmaking with a science-based approach to love. Clients come from many countries, including Sweden, Norway, Denmark and Spain. The agency also offers dating and relationship coaching and an online course. A free matchmaking consultation is the first step for new clients.

$80 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingDating for men

Lisa Concepcion

Dating and relationship coach for success-minded adults in Florida · Florida, United States

Lisa Concepcion is a certified life coach and dating and relationship coach in Florida. She founded LoveQuest Coaching. She works one on one with Type-A, success-minded adults who struggle in love. Her clients heal from breakups, move past codependency, repair relationships, date with more confidence and rebuild life after divorce. She focuses on the patterns that keep repeating in relationships, such as choosing unavailable partners and over-giving.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating after divorceAttachment stylesBreakups and heartbreak

Penelope Magoulianiti

Relationship coach for busy corporate women and business owners

Penelope Magoulianiti is a relationship coach for busy corporate women, business owners, consultants and other professionals. She helps clients build a deeper connection with their partner and bring passion back into a marriage. She also gives mindset support during coaching. She teamed up with Healthy Woman Magazine UK on a 12-week video series about relationships. Her method focuses on deep connection, not date nights or trips.

$70 to $125 an hour
Couples and marriage

Suzanna Mathews

Relationship coach for professional singles in Wichita, Kansas · Wichita, Kansas, United States

Suzanna Mathews is a relationship coach in Wichita, Kansas. She helps professional, growth-minded singles, both men and women, find love and social connection. She also lists life coaching and business coaching. Her training includes NLP Comprehensive, and she has a link to the Matchmaker's Alliance. She writes articles on first date manners, including how to use them in digital dating, and on finding love in a smaller city.

$120 to $180 per hour
Dating for menDating for womenOnline dating and apps

Dating Coach For Christ

Faith-based dating coach for single Christians and high-achieving Christian men · United States

Dating Coach For Christ runs Burning Hearts Coaching, a faith-based dating program for single Christians. The focus is dating with both passion and purpose. The program runs over a few intentional days and uses short prayers, deeper conversation questions, and simple activities for getting to know someone. Clients also pick one person to connect with more consistently and intentionally. A free guide of prayers and Bible scriptures is offered to new clients.

$80 to $140 an hour
Faith-based datingDating for menTexting and first dates

Jelena Lih

Confidence and dating coach for high-performing women in Ireland · Ireland

Jelena Lih is a confidence and dating coach in Ireland. She works with high-performing business women who feel sure of themselves at work but anxious, overgiving or unsure in relationships. Her coaching uses a neuroscience-based approach. She helps clients let go of fear, overthinking and self-doubt so they stop overperforming in life while under-receiving in love. She also focuses on identity, self-worth and emotional leadership.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment styles

Clemens Heitmann

Relationship coach for busy professionals in Berlin · Berlin, Berlin, Germany

Clemens Heitmann is a relationship coach in Berlin, Germany. He also works as a leadership coach and life coach. He helps busy professionals find an ideal partner for a lasting, fulfilling relationship. His goal is for clients to do this without giving up their career success. He holds the German Heilpraktiker license for psychotherapy. He has written articles on victim mindset, emotional flatlands in love life, and relationship compromises.

$114 to $228 per hour

Kim Carter

Relationship and life coach for individuals and professionals

Kim Carter is a certified life coach who specializes in relationships. Kim works with individuals and professionals who want to reach their relationship goals and live a more aware, happier life. The focus covers both personal and professional relationships. Kim helps clients build better communication skills and stronger connections. Sessions start with a free discovery call, and clients can book online through The Koaching Korner.

$80 to $140 an hour

Laerke Nielsen

Dating coach for high-achieving women with anxious attachment

Laerke Nielsen is a dating coach for women who feel strong and capable at work but struggle in love. Laerke helps high-achieving women who tend to be anxiously attached. Laerke's work targets overthinking, mind-reading and worry over texts from the man they date. Laerke teaches clients to build self-worth, know their values and set boundaries calmly. Laerke offers a free call to start.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesApproach anxiety and confidence

Melissa Josue

Relationship coach for women with an anxious attachment style · United States

Melissa Josue is a relationship coach for women with an anxious attachment style. She works with single women who feel frustrated by dating and by meeting men who are not ready to commit. She teaches a method she calls the Conscious Dater. It helps clients spot red flags early, know when to stay or go, and build a committed relationship with a partner who makes them a priority.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment styles

Naomie Thompson

Dating and relationship coach for accomplished women in the UK · United Kingdom · Online

Naomie Thompson is a dating and relationship coach for women. She helps accomplished, independent women change unhelpful dating patterns and build a close, committed partnership. She also works with women who are already in a relationship that feels distant or full of conflict. Her work focuses on women who lead, decide and fix in love, and who want to stop carrying the connection. She offers one-to-one coaching, courses and a podcast.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsCouples and marriage

Piyush Sharma

Dating and divorce coach for working professionals in France · France

Piyush Sharma is a dating coach and divorce coach based in France. Piyush helps working professionals who do well in their careers but find love hard to reach. Piyush built the C.L.A.R.I.T.Y. Method, a 6-step coaching program for people tired of the swipe-and-settle cycle. Piyush's clients include adults over 30 and divorcees of all genders. Piyush offers a free 15-minute discovery session.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating after divorce

Rebecca Ore

Relationship and mindset coach for women professionals in East Yorkshire · Beverley, East Yorkshire, United Kingdom

Rebecca Ore is a relationship and mindset coach who helps people feel more secure and confident in their relationships. She works one on one with clients who struggle with anxiety, jealousy and negative self-talk. Her coaching centers on managing emotions and changing thought patterns so clients can enjoy their relationships. Her practice, Rebecca Ore Coaching Limited, is based in Beverley, East Yorkshire, and she sends a weekly email with relationship and mind-management tips.

$100 to $150 an hour
Attachment styles

Tammy Shaklee

Private matchmaker for gay and lesbian professionals across the USA · United States

Tammy Shaklee runs H4M Matchmaking, a private matchmaking service for single gay and lesbian professionals who want long-term relationships. The service is offline and personal, so clients do not use apps. H4M gets to know each client in an interview and vets every potential match. It introduces clients to singles who share their interests, standards and lifestyle. Clients can be based anywhere in the United States.

$100 to $175 an hour
LGBTQ datingMatchmaking
Melissa Adele Rosen, business coach

Melissa Adele Rosen

Advisor for startup founders and high achievers

Melissa Adele Rosen advises startup founders and high achievers who feel stuck. She founded a healthy food service business and ran it for 15 years, through franchising, ghost kitchens, retail distribution, debt financing and a full wind-down. She is a certified hypnotherapist. She blends operating experience with body-based tools to help clients make clear decisions. She also works with high achievers on dating, relationships and parenting.

$80 to $175 an hour
Sydney W, career coach

Sydney W

Career and relationship coach with a People Operations background

Sydney W is a career and relationship coach who works with professionals across industries and life stages. Sydney has coached over 60 clients. Before coaching, Sydney spent more than 10 years leading People Operations at Grammarly, Chan Zuckerberg Initiative, Confluent, and Dropbox. Sydney is a certified life coach through Erickson Coaching International. Sessions rely on thoughtful questions that help clients see their situation in a new way.

$100 to $175 an hour

Daniela Wirick

ADHD, life and relationship coach in Westlake Village, California · Westlake Village, California, United States

Daniela Wirick is an ADHD, life and relationship coach in Westlake Village, California. She helps overwhelmed achievers improve focus, motivation and time management. She is an ICF Certified Professional Coach and a Gottman trained relationship coach. She is trauma-informed and coaches in English and Spanish. She also works with teens and young adults on school, career and life changes, and with people who have ADHD, ASD or high sensitivity.

$110 to $150 an hour
Couples and marriage

Dave S. Wallace

Career and couples coach for men and professionals

Dave S. Wallace is a career and couples coach who works mostly with men and professionals. He has coached for 17 years, in private and group settings. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist with degrees in clinical and organizational psychology. Before this work, he spent 10 years composing music in Hollywood. His clients include entrepreneurs, producers, artists, doctors, lawyers, principals and veterans. Most of the men he sees are between 16 and 50 and feel stuck in work or relationships.

$90 to $175 an hour
Couples and marriage

Debjani Ghosh

Soul-mind-body alignment coach in Mumbai, India · Mumbai, Maharashtra, India

Debjani Ghosh is a life and spiritual coach in Mumbai. She helps self-aware professionals, entrepreneurs, and women leaders who keep repeating the same patterns in love, money, purpose, and emotions. She founded SoulQuest and works as an Akashic mentor. Her sessions combine Akashic Records, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and somatic awareness. She is also an author, hypnotherapist, and graphology practitioner.

$500 to $1,000 per hour

Kevin Murphy

Life and performance coach in Schenectady, New York · Schenectady, New York, United States

Kevin Murphy is a life, performance and relationship coach in Schenectady, New York. He helps driven professionals, partnerships and teams who feel stuck or are going through change. He has worked since 1996 as a counselor, therapist, supervisor, director, trainer, consultant and professor. He brings that background into coaching, and he states that his work is coaching and not therapy. He also teaches new clinicians.

$175 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriage

Mastanee Ati

Life and performance coach in London · London, England, United Kingdom

Mastanee Ati is a life and performance coach in London. Mastanee helps professionals and entrepreneurs who feel stuck or overwhelmed. Since 2012, Mastanee has guided over 30,000 people through personal growth work with the Tony Robbins organization. In 2020, Mastanee started Mastanee Coaching. Training came from Tony Robbins, Bob Proctor and Joe Dispenza. Sessions blend emotional healing, health and mindset work.

$95 to $150 an hour
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CoachFocusHourly rate range
Elle WilsonOnline dating and apps and Breakups and heartbreak$75 to $145 an hour
Holly McCuskerAttachment styles and Breakups and heartbreak$90 to $230 an hour
Allison AndersonDating for women$80 to $140 an hour
Brandon DawkinsApproach anxiety and confidence and Online dating and apps$75 to $145 an hour
Adele CurrinCouples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak$200 to $250 per hour
Alex LeónDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $150 an hour
Alison VergeDating over 40 and Online dating and apps$80 to $140 an hour
Daniel JacobDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$100 to $150 an hour
Gabriela EmbonCouples and marriage$106 to $141 per hour
Jasbina AhluwaliaMatchmaking and Dating for men$80 to $140 an hour
Johnny CassellDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$80 to $250 an hour
Julie FermanMatchmaking and Texting and first dates$80 to $130 an hour
Kimmy SeltzerOnline dating and apps and Dating over 40$100 to $225 an hour
May HuiDating for men and Matchmaking$100 to $175 an hour
NicoleDating for women and Attachment styles$100 to $225 an hour

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Most dating coaches charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.

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Common focus areas include couples and marriage, dating for men, online dating and apps and approach anxiety and confidence.

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