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Compare 143 dating coaches. Besides their main focus, the most common focus areas are couples and marriage, dating for men, online dating and apps and matchmaking. They most often work with professionals, men and women. Most charge $88 to $165 per hour or session.

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Adele Currin, dating coach in Washington

Adele Currin

Relationship coach for professionals facing breakups and big decisions in Washington · Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Adele Currin is a relationship coach in Washington, DC. She helps professionals who feel stuck in their relationships. Some want to reconnect, some need to make a hard choice, and some want to separate with kindness. Adele is a former Registered Nurse and holds a Duke integrative health coaching certification. She is also certified in Conscious Uncoupling and Rapid Transformational Therapy. Her work centers on action, not only talk.

$200 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriageBreakups and heartbreak
Alex León, dating coach in Austria

Alex León

Dating coach for introverted, analytical men who want to meet women in person · Austria · Online and in person

Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. Alex helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. Alex built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. Alex's clients come from 22 countries. Alex also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of Alex's clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDaygame and pickup
Alison Verge, dating coach

Alison Verge

Dating and relationship coach for professionals over 40

Alison Verge is a relationship and dating coach who helps busy professionals over 40 find lasting love. She runs Path2Love Coaching. She is a certified sexologist and co-author of "Radical Self Love." She also coaches couples who face a sudden shock, such as illness or disability, a challenge she knows from her own life. Her clients can meet a partner with or without dating apps.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsAttachment styles
Bea Trost, dating coach in Germany

Bea Trost

Couples and grief coach in Germany, bilingual in German and English · Germany

Bea Trost is a couples and grief coach in Germany. She works with couples and individuals in her own private practice and coaches in German and English. She also coaches leaders and other coaches. Before coaching, she was a Master Furniture Maker and designer who worked in Sydney, Paris and Shanghai. She holds an ICF PCC credential and uses the Developmental Model of couples work by Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson.

$140 to $215 an hour
Couples and marriage

Caryn Davis

Matchmaker and dating coach for busy professionals across the U.S. and Canada · United States · Online

Caryn Davis is a certified matchmaker and dating coach who helps busy professionals find a quality match for a long-term relationship. She runs Exquisite Elite Matchmaking, where she finds matches for clients and also coaches men and women one on one. She coaches singles by video anywhere in the U.S. and Canada. She also hosts the EEM Club Podcast. Clients get homework between sessions, and a free 15 minute consultation comes first.

$100 to $160 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesBreakups and heartbreak

Elizabeth Sullivan

Dating and relationship coach for women in London · London, United Kingdom

Elizabeth Sullivan is a dating and relationship coach in London who helps women, mostly career-focused ones, find love and build lasting relationships. She runs Love Mentor and also offers career coaching. Before coaching she was a Chartered Accountant. She reports 22 weddings, 8 engagements, 14 couples living together and 12 babies among her clients. She uses one-to-one sessions and trains in NLP and clinical hypnotherapy.

$100 to $170 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriage
Elle Wilson, dating coach

Elle Wilson

Dating coach for ambitious singles, online and offline

Elle Wilson is a certified dating coach who helps ambitious singles date with more skill and more fun. She founded Met Through Friends, a company that helps singles meet offline, and has hosted thousands of single people at in-person events. She has worked with 60+ dating clients. She pairs a Stanford management science background with 10 years in hospitality to build a strategic approach to dating.

$75 to $145 an hour
Online dating and appsBreakups and heartbreakApproach anxiety and confidence
Holly McCusker, dating coach

Holly McCusker

Relationship and emotional intelligence coach for ambitious professionals

Holly McCusker is a relationship and emotional intelligence coach who helps ambitious professionals understand the patterns behind how they date and connect. She focuses on attachment, nervous system responses, and partner selection. Before starting her private practice, she worked at Tawkify, the largest matchmaking agency in the US, as a matchmaker and coach. She also led the build of Tawkify's internal coaching program. She created the 5R Breakup Recovery Method and the 5P Conscious Masculinity Framework.

$90 to $230 an hour
Attachment stylesBreakups and heartbreakMatchmaking

Jasbina Ahluwalia

Matchmaker and relationship coach for accomplished singles, South Asian focus

Jasbina Ahluwalia is a matchmaker and relationship coach who helps accomplished singles find a life partner. She runs Intersections Match and has a special focus on South Asian matchmaking. She spent nearly two decades in this work. Before that, she was a lawyer in San Francisco and Chicago. She works with men and women across the U.S. and in other countries.

$80 to $140 an hour
MatchmakingDating for menDating for women

Johnny Cassell

Dating coach for men in London and worldwide · London, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Johnny Cassell is a London dating coach who works with men on dating, attraction and long-term partnership. He has coached since 2005 and has worked with over 2,000 men. He has been featured on BBC, Sky News and The Times. He wrote the bestselling book Elite Seduction. He teaches in real settings with one-to-one training, and also coaches men online around the world.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Julie Ferman

Matchmaker and dating coach in Los Angeles, Denver and Santa Fe · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

Julie Ferman is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps relationship-minded single men and women find partners. She launched her agency in Westlake Village, California in 2001. She has privately registered more than 40,000 singles and is credited with over 1,500 couples. She serves clients in Los Angeles, Denver and Santa Fe. She also runs a 30-day virtual boot camp for people who want to build their dating skills first.

$80 to $130 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesLGBTQ dating
Kelleher International, dating coach in San Francisco

Kelleher International

Matchmaking firm with dating coaching for affluent singles, based in San Francisco · San Francisco, California, United States

Kelleher International is a matchmaking firm that also offers dating coaching. It serves successful singles who want a lasting partnership, including divorced and widowed people. The firm was founded in 1986 and has teams in 20 cities worldwide. Each client gets a team of three matchmakers: A market director, a relationship manager and a network developer. Members are screened through interviews, identity checks and background checks.

$100 to $180 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriageDating after divorce

Kimmy Seltzer

Dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

Kimmy Seltzer is a dating and confidence coach for singles in Los Angeles. She is a former therapist who also works as a style coach and matchmaker. She helps high-achieving singles and later-life daters stop overthinking and feel sure of themselves in real-world settings. She has been on Inside Edition, ABC7 in Los Angeles and The Tamron Hall Show, and she runs a retreat for women and men who are dating again in their second act.

$100 to $225 an hour
Online dating and appsDating over 40Matchmaking

May Hui

Matchmaker for men seeking Asian women in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States

She introduces single men to vetted Asian women who want a serious relationship. She has matched people since 2009 and has over 17 years of experience. Her team has set up 5,061 first dates. She picks matches by hand instead of using algorithms, and she works with a partner network of 300+ singles.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for menMatchmaking

Nicole

Dating coach for women who attract emotionally unavailable men · Vancouver · Online

Nicole is a dating, love, and relationship coach based in Vancouver. He helps women who keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. He has coached for 15 years and has worked with hundreds of women around the world. His coaching uses the R.E.A.L. Love Method. It helps clients spot unhealthy dating patterns, state their needs with confidence, and build committed relationships. He also runs a separate coaching track for men.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesTexting and first dates
Odette Coronel, dating coach in New York

Odette Coronel

Relationship and life coach for individuals and couples in New York · New York, New York, United States

Odette Coronel is a relationship and life coach in New York who works with individuals and couples. She helps people who feel distant from a partner, walk on eggshells, or live like roommates. She is an Accredited Professional Coach with the Association for Coaching, a Coach Supervisor and an NLP Practitioner. She also hosts a podcast and speaks. Her coaching draws on NLP, Gottman Method principles and relational intelligence.

$150 to $225 per hour
Couples and marriage
Rachel Greenwald, dating coach in United States

Rachel Greenwald

Matchmaker and dating coach for busy professionals across the United States · United States

Rachel Greenwald is a matchmaker and dating coach who works with private clients across the United States and internationally. She is the CEO of Greenwald Executive Matchmaking and an author. She counts 908 marriages from her private clients and from readers of her books who sent her wedding photos. She has appeared on CNN, The Today Show, ABC Nightline and CBS Mornings. She offers matchmaking, coaching and strategy consultations.

$100 to $180 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriage
Rachelle Lamb, dating coach

Rachelle Lamb

Nonviolent Communication trainer and relationship coach for individuals, couples and teams · Online

Rachelle Lamb is a relationship and communication coach who helps individuals, couples and teams handle conflict and change unhelpful patterns. She is a certified Nonviolent Communication trainer, certified since 2002. She also holds a Relational Life Therapy coaching certification and has trained in the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. She works over Zoom on weekdays, Pacific Time. She also hosts a podcast and trains organizations in conflict skills.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Shannon Lundgren, dating coach in San Francisco

Shannon Lundgren

Matchmaker for high-achieving singles in the San Francisco Bay Area · San Francisco, California, United States

Shannon Lundgren is a San Francisco Bay Area matchmaker who helps high-achieving, highly educated singles find a long term partner. She runs Shannon's Circle, a boutique matchmaking firm. She graduated from Harvard Business School and began her career working for Warren Buffett. She spent decades in corporate life before moving into matchmaking. She draws on a network of over 8,000 single people in the Bay Area.

$90 to $150 an hour
Matchmaking
Shubhani Oberai Talwar, dating coach in New Delhi

Shubhani Oberai Talwar

Relationship and life coach for young adults in New Delhi · New Delhi, Delhi, India

Shubhani Oberai Talwar is a relationship and life coach in New Delhi. She helps young adults who feel stuck in relationships, family life, or the workplace. She holds an MA in Psychology and a life coach diploma, and she mentors in Vedaanta Science. She has coached for 4 years. Before that, she spent decades running businesses and rebuilding her life after personal loss. Her method works on mind, body, and soul together.

$125 to $150 per hour
Couples and marriage

Amanda Harrigan

Matchmaker and relationship coach in Perth, Melbourne, Sydney and Brisbane · Perth, Australia

Amanda Harrigan is a matchmaker and relationship coach who runs HYTCH in Australia. She helps single men and women find partners through private introductions and dating and relationship coaching. Her team has introduced hundreds of couples across Australia. HYTCH serves Perth, Melbourne, Sydney and Brisbane. Clients are often busy professionals, executives and business owners who do not want to use dating apps. Every match is screened by hand and kept private.

$85 to $150 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriageDating for men

Amari Ice

Gay dating coach and matchmaker for gay professionals · United States

Amari Ice is a gay dating coach who helps gay professionals build the skills to find lasting love. Amari is also a matchmaker, a hypnotherapist and a best-selling author. Coaching covers dating skills, self-sabotage patterns and romantic magnetism. Work starts with a one-on-one Dating Analysis and is built around the Romantic Mastery Method.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for menLGBTQ datingAttachment styles

Connell Barrett

Dating coach for men in New York City · New York, NY, United States

Connell Barrett is a New York City dating coach who works with men. He helps them build confidence, flirt with ease, and meet women they want to date. His goal for clients is a girlfriend in 90 days or less. He hosts the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast and has appeared on Good Morning America. He teaches an approach he calls Radically Authentic, and he avoids pickup tricks.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Damien Diecke

Dating coach for men in Sydney, Australia · Sydney, Australia · In person

Damien Diecke runs School of Attraction, a dating coaching business for men in Sydney, Australia. He helps men learn to approach women, talk with them, and feel confident. The business has coached men since 2009 and says it has helped thousands. Its main offer is a 3-month program built around real-world practice every weekend. Clients get personalized feedback along the way. The methods avoid pickup lines, tricks and games.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts

Elia Canu

Dating coach for busy tech men in Dallas · Dallas, Texas, United States · Online and in person

Elia Canu is a dating coach who helps busy men in tech find a partner and start a family. She runs Ideal Partner with coach Nela. The program uses a weekly plug and play system built for tech professionals. Elia has coached tech men for 5+ years. Her clients include software engineers and product managers. Support covers dating profiles, Instagram profiles, messaging, and date practice.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates
Grace Anderson, dating coach in Blackpool

Grace Anderson

Relationship and breakup recovery coach in Blackpool, England · Blackpool, England, United Kingdom

Grace Anderson is a relationship coach in Blackpool, England. She helps women recover from breakups and divorce, and she coaches singles and couples on their relationships. She also works with professionals and executives on goals, confidence and stress. Before coaching, she was a Headteacher at Emotan College in Benin City, Nigeria, and later led English departments in London schools. She retrained as an NLP Practitioner after she retired.

$166 to $332 per hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Jill Rodowicz, dating coach

Jill Rodowicz

Relationship coach for emotionally intelligent overachievers

Jill Rodowicz is a relationship coach who helps people build secure, close partnerships. She works with emotionally intelligent overachievers who deal with anxiety and emotional dependency. Her practice, Become What You Are Coaching LLC, began in 2022. She is certified through The Life Coach School and teaches clients to calm their nervous systems and change limiting beliefs. She started coaching after a breakup that led her back to the same partner in a new kind of relationship.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriageAttachment styles
Jocelyn Morris-Bryant, dating coach in Long Beach

Jocelyn Morris-Bryant

Relationship communication coach for couples in Long Beach, California · Long Beach, California, United States

Jocelyn Morris-Bryant is a relationship communication coach who helps couples, individuals, and adult families who feel unheard learn to talk with each other. She runs What Yuneed Coaching in Long Beach, California, and works with clients nationwide. She has 26 years of experience as a therapist and is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She now adds coaching to that clinical work. She focuses on high-functioning couples stuck in repeated arguments.

$100 to $180 an hour
Couples and marriage
John Daniel, dating coach in Tampa

John Daniel

Couples, business and executive coach in Tampa and Orlando · Tampa, Florida, United States · Online and in person

John Daniel is a couples, business and executive coach who also works as a clinician. He runs LEAPS Inc. from offices in Tampa and Orlando. His main focus is infidelity, premarital and marital issues. He also coaches entrepreneurs, executives and teams on leadership. He has over 25 years of experience. He offers Christian counseling for clients who want a faith view. Sessions run in person, by phone or by webcam.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriageFaith-based dating
Lisa Concepcion, dating coach in Florida

Lisa Concepcion

Dating and relationship coach for Type-A adults in Florida · Florida, United States · Online

Lisa Concepcion is a dating and relationship coach and the founder of LoveQuest Coaching in Florida. She works one on one with self-aware, success-minded, Type-A adults who keep repeating the same patterns in love. She helps them heal from breakups and divorce, work through codependency, repair relationships, and date with confidence. Her sessions run 60 minutes by phone or video. She blends Law of Attraction, Core Energy Coaching and Inner Child Healing into her work.

$110 to $200 an hour
Dating after divorceBreakups and heartbreakCouples and marriage
Mike Ke, dating coach in Las Vegas

Mike Ke

Dating coach for Asian and STEM men in Las Vegas · Las Vegas, Nevada, United States · Online and in person

Mike Ke is a dating and confidence coach for men in STEM and Asian and minority men. He is a former engineer and has coached full time in Las Vegas since 2012. He has taught more than 1,200 students. He runs weekly bootcamps and a 12 week mentoring program that meets in person and online. His clients work in science, tech, engineering, medicine and business.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates
Odette Coronel, dating coach

Odette Coronel

Couples and dating coach for busy, high-achieving professionals

Odette Coronel is a life and relationship coach who helps hard working, high achieving professionals build strong relationships. She starts with the client's relationship with themselves, then moves to connection, communication and intimacy with a partner. She is a Gottman Leader and a Prepare-Enrich facilitator for couples.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Rachel Russo, dating coach in New York

Rachel Russo

Dating coach and matchmaker for marriage-minded singles in NYC · New York, New York, United States · Online

Rachel Russo is a dating and relationship coach and matchmaker who helps marriage-minded singles find and keep love. Before running her own company, she was Director of Matchmaking for several top NYC agencies. She is also a trained Marriage & Family Therapist, an author and a speaker. Her clients get coaching during the whole matchmaking process.

$80 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingDating for menDating for women

Renee Richel

Christian matchmaker and relationship coach for faith-minded singles · United States

Renee Richel is a Christian matchmaker and relationship coach who helps faith-minded singles find a lasting partner. She founded 1 True Match in 2010. The service works with clients around the world. Her team hand-picks each match and builds introductions around faith, values and compatibility. They keep supporting clients after a match is made. The practice also serves busy professionals who do not want to rely on dating apps.

$80 to $140 an hour
MatchmakingFaith-based dating
Robert Gordon, dating coach in Washington

Robert Gordon

Relationship, career and life coach for individuals and couples in Washington, DC · Washington, District of Columbia, United States

Robert Gordon is a relationship, career and life coach in Washington, DC. He works with individuals and couples who want clarity, stronger relationships and a more balanced way of living and working. Before coaching, he spent 25 years helping organizations improve performance and leadership. He is a certified Imago Relationship Educator. His focus areas are communication, conflict repair and emotional intelligence. Many of his clients are in midlife or beyond.

$250 to $500 per hour
Couples and marriage

Select Personal Introductions

Matchmaking agency and dating coaching in North West England · North West England, United Kingdom · Online and in person

Select Personal Introductions is a dating agency and coaching service in North West England. It matches single professionals with hand-picked introductions and offers dating and relationship coaching for singles, new couples and long-term couples. The agency has run for over 25 years. Its coaching is led by Alex Mellor-Brook, who is also Vice Chair of the ABIA. Clients get a private consultation, a personality-based compatibility test and honest feedback at each step.

$85 to $150 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriage
Tammy Shaklee, dating coach in United States

Tammy Shaklee

Private offline matchmaker for gay and lesbian professionals · United States

Tammy Shaklee is a certified matchmaker who runs H4M Matchmaking. He helps gay and lesbian professionals find long-term relationships through private, offline matchmaking. H4M began in Austin, Texas in 2012 as a service for LGBTQ singles who did not want bars or dating apps. Clients are matched with vetted singles who share their interests, standards and lifestyle. The service works with clients in cities across the country.

$100 to $175 an hour
MatchmakingLGBTQ dating

The Asian Dating Coach

Dating coach for Asian and South Asian men in Austin · Austin, Texas, United States · Online and in person

The Asian Dating Coach helps single Asian and South Asian men date with confidence, in person or online. The coach works on mindset, self-confidence, anxiety, grooming and style, body language, first dates, dating apps and texting. Clients include software engineers, doctors, cybersecurity consultants and a few lawyers. The coach was a shy man who was never encouraged to date, and teaches the lessons learned from that path. Local coaching is offered in Austin, Texas.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Tim B

Dating coach for driven introverted men, online, United States · United States

Tim B, known as Coach TimB, is a dating coach who helps driven, introverted men get past approach anxiety and turn conversations into dates. He runs Understanding Attraction, a premium coaching practice that uses an application process. He has over 10 years of experience and has coached 1,247+ men. His own start was shaky, since he could barely make eye contact at 18. He teaches a 3-phase system built on daily accountability.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceIntroverts
Allison Anderson, dating coach

Allison Anderson

Dating coach for high-achieving women and women physicians

Allison Anderson is a dating and relationship coach for high-achieving women, including women physicians. She is a cardiothoracic anesthesiologist with an MD and is also a certified life coach. She built her own method after struggling with dating herself. It mixes shadow work, nervous system tools, mindset shifts and practical how-tos. She offers a 3 month private mentorship and an audio dating program made for women doctors.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for women
Eileen Chao, dating coach in San Francisco

Eileen Chao

Sex and relationship coach for high achievers in San Francisco · San Francisco, California, United States · Online and in person

Eileen Chao is a sex and relationship coach and surrogate partner who works with high achievers on intimacy issues. She has more than a decade of experience. She is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and holds a master's in psychology. She acts as a practice partner and works with clients in real time, so change is felt and not only understood. She sees clients in person in San Francisco, by telehealth, or in a hybrid model.

$110 to $200 an hour
Couples and marriage
Gloria, dating coach in Washington

Gloria

Dating coach and image consultant for professional singles in Washington, DC · Washington, DC, United States · Online and in person

Gloria is a personal dating coach and image consultant in Washington, DC. She helps professional singles build real connections and a dating plan that fits their values. She also coaches couples who want to bring back spark. Her mock date sessions start with a 1-hour date at a local cafe or bar, with Gloria or an actor playing the blind date. She also offers wardrobe makeovers and outfit shopping.

$100 to $150 an hour
Online dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates
Naomie Thompson, dating coach in United Kingdom

Naomie Thompson

Dating and relationship coach for accomplished women in the UK · United Kingdom

Naomie Thompson is a dating and relationship coach for women. She works with accomplished, independent women who want healthy, loving partnerships. She helps clients who are single, dating, divorced or unsure about their current relationship. She is lead trainer in the Rori Raye Feminine Energy Coach Training. She offers 1-2-1 coaching, courses and a podcast, and her first conversation with a new client is free.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsCouples and marriage
Robyn Nind, dating coach in Melbourne

Robyn Nind

Dating coach and matchmaker for men and women in Melbourne and Sydney · Melbourne, Australia

Robyn Nind is a dating coach and matchmaker who runs Blue Label Life in Melbourne, Australia. She coaches single men who feel nervous around women, and she matches busy professional singles with partners for serious relationships. Robyn has a counselling and psychology background. The agency has introduced couples since 2005. It serves Melbourne, Sydney and Canberra and holds accreditation from the Professional Matchmakers Association.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceMatchmaking
Coleen Gose, dating coach in Oregon

Coleen Gose

Relationship coach for professional women in Oregon · Oregon, United States

Coleen Gose is a relationship coach in Oregon who helps professional women who have lost their voice build loving and supportive relationships. She is a domestic violence survivor and a trained domestic violence advocate. She is also a trauma informed coach and a published author. She runs Life 2.0 Coaching with Coleen, a coaching and public speaking business. Her focus is helping women leave toxic relationship cycles behind.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating for women
Gabriela Embon, dating coach in Montreal

Gabriela Embon

Relationship and career coach for professionals and entrepreneurs in Montreal · Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Gabriela Embon is a relationship and career coach in Montreal, Quebec. She helps busy professionals, leaders and entrepreneurs build strong careers and strong relationships at the same time. She trained as a chemical engineer and wrote the book Becoming a Power Couple. She also hosts the Life Engineering Podcast and founded the Coaching Academy. She works with couples in second marriages and blended families.

$100 to $170 an hour
Couples and marriage
Kshitij Sehrawat, dating coach in India

Kshitij Sehrawat

Dating coach for Indian men through Iron Man Lifestyle · India · Online

Kshitij Sehrawat is a dating coach for Indian men. He runs Iron Man Lifestyle, a brand with 814K subscribers. He helps men who feel confident at work but anxious around women. His work covers approach anxiety, texting, first dates and dating apps. He teaches a 3-step system in a 90-minute live workshop on Zoom. He also runs a 1-on-1 mentorship program and bootcamps where clients practice with him live.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceOnline dating and apps
Ludmila Woodruff, dating coach

Ludmila Woodruff

Relationship and life coach for high achieving women

Ludmila Woodruff is a relationship and life coach who helps high achieving women build love, confidence and self-worth. She works with single women and women in relationships. Her coaching is trauma-informed and built on radical self-responsibility. She has lived in four countries and cultures, and her clients include first and second generation Americans. She is also a podcaster and speaker, and she offers one-on-one coaching, masterminds and a workshop.

$70 to $125 an hour
Dating for womenCouples and marriage

Mia

Matchmaker and dating coach for professionals in Dubai · Dubai, United Arab Emirates

Mia is a matchmaker and dating and relationship coach in Dubai. She runs Find Your Swan and helps high-achieving professionals find lasting partners. She has lived in Dubai for over nine years. Her business has matched over 200 couples and coached over 150 clients. Her database holds over 1000 members. She offers private matchmaking, date coaching, and dating profile makeovers.

$110 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesOnline dating and apps
Mike Kollin, dating coach in California

Mike Kollin

Dating and relationship coach for high-performing men in the San Francisco Bay Area · California, United States · Online and in person

Mike Kollin is a dating and relationship coach for high-performing men. He runs the practice Crack The Female Code from the San Francisco Bay Area. His work centers on social hesitation, repeating dating patterns, and staying calm under pressure. He offers a 5-day in-field intensive and private one-on-one sessions. He also wrote the book Crack the Female Code, which covers female psychology and frame control. He takes clients from Silicon Valley and around the world.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceCouples and marriage
Social Coach, dating coach in Australia

Social Coach

Dating coach for men over 35 in Australia · Australia · Online and in person

Social Coach is a dating coaching practice for men over 35. It teaches men to meet, attract and date the women they want. The founder, James, is a former financial analyst who started coaching in 2006. The team is 5 men and 13 women. Clients practice in hands-on drills with female trainers, then go out and try the skills in real life.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceDating over 40
Susan Winter, dating coach in New York City

Susan Winter

Dating and relationship coach in New York City · New York City, New York, United States

Susan Winter is a relationship coach in New York City who helps people find and keep love. She works on dating problems, relationship challenges and inner confidence. She has coached since 2000. Before that she worked as an opera singer, a TV anchor and a corporate spokeswoman. She wrote the bestselling book Older Women/Younger Men and also wrote Breakup Triage. She speaks at events and appears often in national media.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating over 40Breakups and heartbreakOnline dating and apps

Bela Gandhi

Dating coach for accomplished women in Chicago · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Bela Gandhi is a dating coach who leads Smart Dating Academy in Chicago. The academy helps accomplished women find lasting love through one-on-one coaching. It calls its coaches love strategists. They guide clients on dating mindset, online dating, and checking that a relationship is a good fit. The company has run for 15 years, and Bela has appeared on Today, ABC, Fox News, CNN and NBC.

$275 to $500 per session
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsDating after divorce
Donald Maestas, dating coach in Littleton

Donald Maestas

Relationship, executive and performance coach in Littleton, Colorado · Littleton, Colorado, United States

Donald Maestas is a relationship, executive and performance coach in Littleton, Colorado. He helps couples, executives and high-performing professionals. He is a professional counselor and a former executive with over 20 years of experience. His work uses practical, solution-focused strategies. He focuses on communication, decision making, stress and conflict, so the skills carry from work to home. He holds an MBA and is a licensed professional counselor.

$200 to $225 per hour
Couples and marriage

Dream Match Services

Dating coach and matchmaker for men in Singapore · Singapore, Singapore

Dream Match Services is a Singapore matchmaking agency that also offers one-to-one dating coaching for men. The coaching helps men build confidence, improve communication and create a dating plan. The team also runs matchmaking, singles walking tours and social events, so the coaching draws on that work. It is built for Singapore's dating culture. Clients include busy professionals, expats and men returning to dating.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menMatchmakingTexting and first dates
Hazel Beckett, dating coach

Hazel Beckett

Dating and life coach for professional women

Hazel Beckett is a dating and life coach who works one on one with women who want a lasting love relationship. She holds an International Coaching Federation accreditation and is also a Theta healer and Colour Mirrors Practitioner. Her sessions start with self-love and how a client wants to feel in a relationship. She also shares the road map that led her to her own deepest loving relationship. She offers a free 30 minute intro session.

$100 to $160 an hour
Dating for womenBreakups and heartbreak
Jade Bianca, dating coach in United States

Jade Bianca

Dating after divorce coach for divorced professionals across the United States · United States · Online

Jade Bianca is a dating coach who helps divorced professionals date again with confidence. She runs Dating Coach In My Pocket, a service that sends daily guidance by text. She also works with clients in private coaching sessions. Her framework draws on research about attachment theory and trauma recovery. She focuses on the fears that come after a marriage ends, like trusting your judgment, handling dating apps, and finding time to date while working and raising kids.

$100 to $200 an hour
Dating after divorceDating over 40Online dating and apps
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Jenn Burton

Dating coach for smart, successful single women

Jenn Burton is a dating coach for single women who are smart, ambitious and successful. He runs Have Him Your Way and hosts the Single Smart Female podcast. He teaches Mantourage Dating, a method where a woman dates more than one man at a time until he finds his forever man. His site offers a podcast, free classes, an online dating course and paid programs. He focuses on what women can change in their own approach to men.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

Lauren Sanders

Matchmaker and dating coach for professional singles nationwide · United States · Online and in person

Lauren Sanders is a matchmaker and dating coach who founded The Love Crush Agency. She helps professional singles find a partner through matchmaking and dating coaching. The agency has run since 2019 and serves clients in all 50 states. Lauren has paired hundreds of singles, and many of those matches ended in marriage. She is also a multi-published Christian author who writes about love and relationships. The agency has a focus on matchmaking for Black professionals.

$100 to $180 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriageDating over 40

Malcolm

Dating coach for men in Singapore · Singapore, Singapore · Online and in person

Malcolm runs Social Skydiving Academy, a dating coaching business for men in Singapore. He teaches men to meet and date women with honesty and real social skills. Hundreds of Singaporean men, including doctors, engineers, professionals and entrepreneurs, have taken his courses. He was featured on Channel News Asia. His method is Social Skydiving, which builds confidence by placing clients in challenging social situations. He offers online courses, live bootcamps, private coaching and VIP coaching.

$75 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Michael Sartain

Dating mentor for men, based in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online

Michael Sartain is a dating mentor who helps men meet high-quality women. He runs Men of Action, a mentoring brand based in Los Angeles, and hosts a men's dating podcast. His main offer is the Off-Market Social System. It aims to build high status social circles and attract dates through Instagram, not dating apps. The system skips cold approach and pickup lines. It includes a 1-on-1 implementation call and a private network for members.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Michael Sartain

Dating and social circle coach for men in Las Vegas · Las Vegas, Nevada, United States

Michael Sartain is a dating and social coach who teaches men how to build a high-status social circle. He runs Men of Action from Las Vegas. His core program is a 25-day system for meeting high-quality people, making friends and getting into exclusive events. It replaces cold approach and dating apps. The program has over 1500 social circle transformations. It uses a social media blueprint, a networking framework and a method called the Red Rope Protocol.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Single in the City

Date coaching, matchmaking and singles events in Toronto and Ontario · Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Single in the City is a Toronto company that offers date coaching, matchmaking and singles events. Coach Laura Bilotta leads the date coaching and builds coaching packages around each client's needs. The company also runs speed dating nights in Ontario cities such as Toronto, Kitchener, Burlington, Oakville and Vaughan. Events are grouped by age range, and some are set up for professionals or the South Asian community. It also hosts singles hikes and trivia nights.

$110 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingOnline dating and apps

Toi & Moi Matchmaking and Dating Coach

Matchmaking and dating coach for busy professionals in New York City · New York City, New York, United States

Toi & Moi is a boutique matchmaking and dating coaching service in New York City. It helps successful, busy professionals who want a deep and compatible partnership. The team blends matchmaking with coaching and draws on psychology, attachment theory and communication science. Clients can also join group coaching and community events. New clients can book a free 20-minute discovery call and join the matchmaking database of singles.

$100 to $180 an hour
MatchmakingCouples and marriageAttachment styles

Lemarc Thomas

Matchmaker and dating coach in Stockholm, Sweden · Stockholm, Sweden

Lemarc Thomas is a matchmaker and dating coach in Stockholm, Sweden. Lemarc runs The Matchmaking Agency, which helps single people find a lasting partner. The agency mixes matchmaking with a science-based approach to love. Clients come from many countries, including Sweden, Norway, Denmark and Spain. The agency also offers dating and relationship coaching and an online course. A free matchmaking consultation is the first step for new clients.

$80 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingDating for men

Lovewell

Dating and wellness coaching for men and singles in Los Angeles · Los Angeles, California, United States · Online and in person

Lovewell is a Los Angeles practice that offers dating, wellness and mindfulness coaching. Its dating coaching for men covers in-person dating and online dating. Coaches help with profile feedback, messaging and confidence. Lauren Korshak, a marriage and family therapist, founded the practice. The team is a group of wellness practitioners focused on mindful dating and relationships. Lovewell also runs therapy, group workshops and corporate sessions on stress and burnout.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Daniel Jacob

Dating coach for successful, busy men in Miami · Miami, Florida, United States · Online and in person

Daniel Jacob is a men's dating coach and the founder of Everlasting Confidence. He helps successful single men build real self-confidence and meet high-quality women. He started the Accelerator Program in 2018 and has worked with over 250 men. The program is fully customized. It includes mindset training and live practice calls with female models, where Daniel reviews body language, eye contact, tone of voice and word choice.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceTexting and first dates

Eiléen

Matchmaker and date coach for expat professionals in Dubai · Dubai, United Arab Emirates

Eiléen is a certified matchmaker and date coach who runs Dubai Matchmaker. She helps ambitious expat professionals in Dubai who want serious, lasting relationships. She screens and meets every match herself through a vetted network. Before matchmaking, she worked as a business consultant in personal branding and spent over 10 years as a global scout for an elite London and New York agency. She has lived in 9 major cities.

$100 to $170 an hour
MatchmakingTexting and first datesCouples and marriage

Gabriela Embon

Relationship and career coach for professionals in Montreal · Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Gabriela Embon is a relationship and career coach in Montreal, Quebec. She helps busy professionals, leaders and entrepreneurs build strong careers and strong relationships at the same time. She wrote the book Becoming a Power Couple and hosts the Life Engineering Podcast. She also founded the Coaching Academy and trained as a chemical engineer. Her work uses two named methods, the Power Couple Method and the Life Engineering Framework.

$106 to $141 per hour
Couples and marriage

Lærke Nielsen

Dating coach for high-achieving women with anxious attachment · Paris, France

Lærke Nielsen is a dating coach for women who feel confident at work but struggle in love. Lærke helps high-achieving women with anxious attachment stop overthinking and feel secure while dating. Lærke has coached since March 2020 and is certified by The Lifecoach School. Before coaching, Lærke worked as a toxicologist, government official, teacher, medical affairs manager and journalist. Lærke lives in Paris and is originally from Copenhagen.

$80 to $140 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesTexting and first dates

Persia Lawson

Dating and love coach for successful women in London · London, United Kingdom

Persia Lawson is a dating and relationship coach in London who helps successful, high-achieving women find secure, lasting partnerships. Persia has coached for 14 years and has worked with thousands of women. Persia is a TV personality and has written three books. Persia hosts The Love Is Coming podcast, which ranked #1 in the UK for dating and relationship shows. Persia teaches the Anti-Dating Matrix Method to break old dating patterns.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenDating over 40Attachment styles

Anna Stratis

Relationship and career coach for individuals and couples in New York · New York, New York, United States

Dr Anna Stratis is a relationship and career coach in New York. She works with individuals and couples who face conflict or distance, and with professionals at career crossroads. She is also a physician and has spent two decades supporting people through stress and major life transitions. She has logged more than 2,000 client hours. Her clients come from tech, finance, consulting and healthcare, and she also hosts a podcast on relationship communication.

$180 to $250 per hour
Couples and marriage

Jared Laurence

Dating coach for men in Chicago · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Jared Laurence, known as Psych, is a dating coach for men and the founder of Modern Success in Chicago. He teaches men how to start conversations with women, improve online dating results and build a strong social circle. He has mentored over 10,000 men and coached for 16+ years. His work has appeared on CBS, FOX, NBC, CNN and MTV. He also works as a motivational speaker and lifestyle consultant.

$100 to $150 an hour
Dating for menOnline dating and appsApproach anxiety and confidence

Johanna Nauraine

Relationship, career and business coach in Chicago, Illinois · Chicago, Illinois, United States

Johanna Nauraine is a relationship, career and business coach in Chicago, Illinois. She helps white collar professionals with dating, marriage, divorce, career moves and entrepreneurship. She has coached for more than 30 years. She helps men and women find fitting dating partners and build lasting relationships. She also works with small family business owners who want to grow and sell their companies. She offers divorce coaching for women.

$155 to $250 per hour
Dating for menDating for womenCouples and marriage

Michelle Jacoby

Matchmaker and dating coach for singles in the DC area · Washington, DC, United States

Michelle Jacoby is a matchmaker and dating coach who runs DC Matchmaking. She helps commitment-minded singles in Washington, DC, Maryland and Virginia meet the right partner. She founded the firm after a hard time dating in DC herself. Before that she worked in sales and PR. She offers one-on-one matchmaking, and she also coaches clients to build a custom dating action plan and become their own matchmaker.

$110 to $250 an hour
MatchmakingOnline dating and appsTexting and first dates

Penny Love

Dating and relationship coach for women in London · London, United Kingdom · Online

Penny Love is a dating and relationship coach who helps women attract a healthy romantic partner. She focuses on feminine energy and works mostly with high-achieving business owners and career-driven women. Her coaching covers healing old patterns, building confidence and setting firm boundaries. She is originally from Spain and now lives in London. She hosts the Date Like a Goddess podcast and runs a group program called The Love School.

$100 to $225 an hour
Dating for womenAttachment stylesBreakups and heartbreak

Sophia Bloom

Dating coach for analytical men in Massachusetts · Massachusetts, United States

Sophia Bloom is a dating coach in Massachusetts who helps analytical men build confidence and find healthy partners. She holds a psychology degree and was trained by industry professionals. Her clients are often engineers, mathematicians, programmers and lawyers. She uses a method called brain mapping to find the patterns behind a client's behavior and attraction. She says real change comes from a process, not quick tips.

$115 to $210 an hour
Dating for menAttachment stylesApproach anxiety and confidence

Vee Mindful

Modern dating strategist for mature singles over 40 and 50 · United States · Online

Vee Mindful is a modern dating strategist who coaches mature singles over 40 and over 50 who want a real, lasting partner. Vee has more than 16 years of coaching experience. After a long marriage ended, Vee went on over 200 dates and spent 10 years studying the psychology of attraction and commitment. Vee created the From Situationship to Soulmate program and teaches a vetted protocol for choosing a partner.

$100 to $175 an hour
Dating over 40Online dating and appsTexting and first dates

Satnam Singh Deol

Relationship, life and family coach for couples in Gurgaon · Gurgaon, Haryana, India

Dr Satnam Singh Deol is a relationship, life and family coach in Gurgaon, Haryana. He helps working couples with problems in their relationship, communication, sex life and behavior. He holds a doctorate in psychology and trained in inner child healing, guidance and counselling, hypnotherapy and NLP. He is linked with Transformation Academy and AlphaStars Academy of Excellence. He also writes articles, including one on the effects of childhood sexual abuse.

$75 to $150 per hour
Couples and marriage

Andrew

Dating coach for men in the UK, no apps needed · United Kingdom

Andrew runs Honest Improvement, a dating coaching program for men in the UK. He helps men who are tired of dating apps meet women in real life and find a girlfriend in 12 weeks. He built the system while working to meet his own girlfriend, then refined it over 2,400+ hours of helping other men.

$80 to $250 an hour
Dating for menApproach anxiety and confidenceOnline dating and apps
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CoachFocusHourly rate range
Adele CurrinCouples and marriage and Breakups and heartbreak$200 to $250 per hour
Alex LeónDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$75 to $150 an hour
Alison VergeDating over 40 and Online dating and apps$80 to $140 an hour
Bea TrostCouples and marriage$140 to $215 an hour
Caryn DavisMatchmaking and Texting and first dates$100 to $160 an hour
Elizabeth SullivanDating for women and Couples and marriage$100 to $170 an hour
Elle WilsonOnline dating and apps and Breakups and heartbreak$75 to $145 an hour
Holly McCuskerAttachment styles and Breakups and heartbreak$90 to $230 an hour
Jasbina AhluwaliaMatchmaking and Dating for men$80 to $140 an hour
Johnny CassellDating for men and Approach anxiety and confidence$80 to $250 an hour
Julie FermanMatchmaking and Texting and first dates$80 to $130 an hour
Kelleher InternationalMatchmaking and Couples and marriage$100 to $180 an hour
Kimmy SeltzerOnline dating and apps and Dating over 40$100 to $225 an hour
May HuiDating for men and Matchmaking$100 to $175 an hour
NicoleDating for women and Attachment styles$100 to $225 an hour

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