Michael Sartain
Dating mentor for men, based in Los Angeles
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $150 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Men and Professionals |
| Based in | Los Angeles, California, United States |
| Sessions | Online |
| Practice | Men of Action |
Michael Sartain is a dating mentor who helps men meet high-quality women. He runs Men of Action, a mentoring brand based in Los Angeles, and hosts a men's dating podcast. His main offer is the Off-Market Social System. It aims to build high status social circles and attract dates through Instagram, not dating apps. The system skips cold approach and pickup lines. It includes a 1-on-1 implementation call and a private network for members.
What Michael helps with
Michael works with men who want to date without dating apps or cold approach. He also helps men who are tired of being ghosted and who want more confidence with rejection.
- Getting ghosted on dating apps
- Meeting women without dating apps
- Building high status social circles
- Using Instagram to attract dates
- Dating with a busy career
- Fear of rejection
- Dating without pickup artist lines
Who Michael works with
Michael coaches men who want a better dating life without apps or cold approach. Many are busy professionals with little time for social media. His system works even when a client's Instagram is empty at the start.
How Michael works
Michael teaches the Off-Market Social System. Members get a 1-on-1 implementation call, an AI Attraction Arsenal, a resource library, and a private network called the Off-Market Brotherhood. The system uses Instagram and AI-assisted tools to attract matches. It does not use cold approach, pickup lines, or influencer-style posting.
Background and qualifications
- Runs Men of Action, a men's dating mentoring brand
- Hosts a men's dating podcast
- Offers the Off-Market Social System
- Reports 6,526 members and 834 documented student results
Michael Sartain pricing
Programs and services
- Off-Market Social System
- 1-on-1 implementation call
- AI Attraction Arsenal
- Complete resource library
- Off-Market Brotherhood private network
- Men's dating podcast
Michael Sartain reviews
The CoachVouch take
Teaches an Instagram-based system that replaces dating apps and cold approach for men.
Best for busy professional men who want to meet women without dating apps or cold approach.
Common questions
How much does Michael Sartain charge?
Coaching with Michael runs $100 to $150 an hour. Message Michael from this page for an exact quote.
What does Michael Sartain help with?
Michael Sartain helps with getting ghosted on dating apps, meeting women without dating apps, building high status social circles and using Instagram to attract dates.
Does Michael Sartain coach online?
Michael is based in Los Angeles, California, United States. Sessions are online.
Does Michael Sartain teach pickup lines or cold approach?
No. His system skips pickup artist lines, cold approach, and faking a persona.
Does Michael Sartain use dating apps in his system?
No. The Off-Market Social System is built to work without dating apps and uses Instagram instead.
How do I contact Michael Sartain?
Send Michael a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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