Tammy Shaklee
Private offline matchmaker for gay and lesbian professionals
| Hourly rate range | $100 to $175 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | LGBTQ+ and Professionals |
| Based in | United States |
| Credentials | Certified Matchmaker; Matchmaking Institute Code of Ethics member |
| Practice | H4M Matchmaking |
Tammy Shaklee is a certified matchmaker who runs H4M Matchmaking. He helps gay and lesbian professionals find long-term relationships through private, offline matchmaking. H4M began in Austin, Texas in 2012 as a service for LGBTQ singles who did not want bars or dating apps. Clients are matched with vetted singles who share their interests, standards and lifestyle. The service works with clients in cities across the country.
What Tammy helps with
H4M works with LGBTQ professionals who want a lasting relationship and prefer not to use dating apps, meet-ups or blind dates.
- Finding a long-term partner without dating apps
- Meeting vetted singles who share your standards and lifestyle
- Getting introductions handled privately
- Dating with less guesswork
- Support after first dates and for second dates
Who Tammy works with
H4M serves single gay and lesbian professionals who want long-term relationships. Clients live in many U.S. cities and regions, and matches happen coast to coast.
How Tammy works
H4M handles the legwork of matching. The process starts with an initial call and a personal interview. Then the client approves matchmaking candidates and reviews potential matches. H4M coordinates the introductory date, follows up after the date, and coordinates a second date. All potential matches go through a vetting process. The service is private and offline.
Background and qualifications
H4M was founded in Austin, Texas in 2012 by two women who had met their own partners through an offline matchmaking service. They saw that gay professionals lacked a confidential, high-end matchmaking option, so they started one. H4M matchmakers are certified and follow the Matchmaking Institute Code of Ethics. The company belongs to multiple Gay Chambers of Commerce and is an HRC Federal Club member.
Tammy Shaklee pricing
Programs and services
- Private offline matchmaking
- Free consultation with a certified matchmaker
- Post-date follow-up and second date coordination
Tammy Shaklee reviews
The CoachVouch take
H4M describes itself as the world's first LGBTQ matchmaking service, started in Austin in 2012.
Best for gay and lesbian professionals who want a private, vetted route to a long-term relationship instead of apps.
Common questions
How much does Tammy Shaklee charge?
Coaching with Tammy runs $100 to $175 an hour. Message Tammy from this page for an exact quote.
What does Tammy Shaklee help with?
Tammy Shaklee helps with finding a long-term partner without dating apps, meeting vetted singles who share your standards and lifestyle, getting introductions handled privately and dating with less guesswork.
Is Tammy Shaklee certified?
Tammy Shaklee lists: Certified Matchmaker; Matchmaking Institute Code of Ethics member.
Does H4M work only in Texas?
No. H4M started in Austin, Texas, but it serves clients in cities and regions across the United States.
Does H4M use dating apps?
No. H4M is an offline service. It vets potential matches and coordinates the introductions itself.
How do I contact Tammy Shaklee?
Send Tammy a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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