Sophia Spallino
Matchmaker and dating coach for lesbian and queer women
| Hourly rate range | $80 to $130 an hour |
|---|---|
| Focus areas | |
| Works with | Women and LGBTQ+ |
| Also coaches | Life coach and Spiritual coach |
| Based in | United States |
| Practice | Queer Women Rising |
Sophia Spallino is a matchmaker and dating coach for lesbian and queer women. She runs Queer Women Rising and hosts a podcast by the same name. She founded The Queer Country Club, a dating platform for monogamous lesbian and queer women. She has worked in this field for five years. She offers private matchmaking, coaching sessions, and hosted in-person gatherings for single women. She is also a harpist who writes spiritual harp music.
What Sophia helps with
Sophia helps lesbian and queer women find lasting love. She also coaches women who want more self-trust and a clearer life direction.
- Finding a monogamous lesbian partner
- Skipping endless swiping on dating apps
- Meeting single lesbian women at curated events
- Deciding on a next step in love and life
- Building self-trust
- Healing after past heartbreak
- Designing a life you are proud of
Who Sophia works with
Sophia works with lesbian and queer women. Some want a private service where she does the searching and introductions. Others are successful women who are missing a life partner. Some are unsure of their next step and want guidance on love, self-trust, or life direction.
How Sophia works
Sophia offers a private matchmaking service. It includes curated matchmaking, personal sourcing of matches, careful evaluation, and introductions that fit the client's vision. She also hosts small, limited in-person gatherings for single lesbian women. For coaching, she runs private one-on-one Rising coaching sessions.
Background and qualifications
Sophia Spallino has spent the past five years working with queer women on love and dating. She founded The Queer Country Club, a dating platform for monogamous lesbian and queer women. She hosts the Queer Women Rising podcast, which shares dating advice. She also works as a matchmaker under the name Luxury Lesbian Matchmaker. Outside of matchmaking, she is a harpist and writer who composes spiritual harp music.
Sophia Spallino pricing
Programs and services
- Private matchmaking service
- Private one-on-one coaching session
- The Queer Country Club dating platform
- Curated in-person gatherings for single women
- Queer Women Rising podcast
Sophia Spallino reviews
The CoachVouch take
She combines matchmaking, a dating platform, and hosted events built for lesbian and queer women.
Best for lesbian and queer women who want a partner and prefer curated introductions over dating apps.
Common questions
How much does Sophia Spallino charge?
Coaching with Sophia runs $80 to $130 an hour. Message Sophia from this page for an exact quote.
What does Sophia Spallino help with?
Sophia Spallino helps with finding a monogamous lesbian partner, skipping endless swiping on dating apps, meeting single lesbian women at curated events and deciding on a next step in love and life.
Does Sophia Spallino offer matchmaking?
Yes. She runs a private matchmaking service with personal sourcing, evaluation, and introductions.
Does Sophia host in-person events?
Yes. She hosts small, limited gatherings for single lesbian women.
How do I contact Sophia Spallino?
Send Sophia a message from this page. It's free and takes a minute.
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