Online dating coaches
198 dating coaches coach online, and 93% of dating coaches who say how they work offer online sessions. Most charge $90 to $165 an hour.
Key numbers
- 198 dating coaches coach online.
- 93% of dating coaches who say how they work offer online sessions.
- Most charge $90 to $165 an hour.
- Online dating coaches here are based in 22 countries.
What online dating coaches focus on
| Focus area | Online coaches (n) |
|---|---|
| Dating for men | 85 |
| Couples and marriage | 84 |
| Texting and first dates | 62 |
| Online dating and apps | 60 |
| Approach anxiety and confidence | 55 |
| Breakups and heartbreak | 38 |
| Dating for women | 37 |
| Attachment styles | 28 |
Where online dating coaches are based
| Country | Online coaches (n) |
|---|---|
| United States | 93 |
| United Kingdom | 17 |
| Australia | 9 |
| Canada | 8 |
| Germany | 3 |
| Spain | 3 |
Online dating coaches to compare
Alex Forrest
Alex Forrest is a dating coach for men who want to meet women during the day. He teaches daygame, which means approaching women in daily life instead of using bars, clubs or apps. He wrote the 2019 book Too Late, Mate?, a memoir about his own dating turnaround. He runs approach courses in Warsaw, Poland, three times a year. Each coach works with no more than two students.
Alex Gay
Alex Gay is a sex and relationship coach who helps LGBTQIA+ people, neurodivergent people, singles and couples build confidence in dating and intimacy. Alex is ICF certified and has extra training in anxiety, depression, CBT, DBT and ACT. Alex hosts The Queer Confidence Podcast and the Kink Curious Podcast, and also works as an on-set coach. Sessions run online worldwide or in person in San Diego. Alex was formerly known as Coach Ray.
Alex León
Alex León is an Austrian dating coach for men. Alex helps shy, analytical men learn to approach women in real life and turn conversations into dates. Alex built the L.E.O.N. system and has used it with 500+ men. Alex's clients come from 22 countries. Alex also coaches with The Natural Lifestyles. Most of Alex's clients work in tech, finance, engineering or consulting.
Alpha Attraction
Alpha Attraction is a team of dating coaches that helps men meet and attract women. The team is based in Auckland, New Zealand. Its main offer is a 3 month, 12 week coaching programme with 12 personal sessions. Coaches also work in the field with clients at daytime spots and evening venues like bars. The programme covers mindset, approach skills, online dating profiles and building a long term relationship. The team has supported hundreds of students.
Amy North
Amy North is a dating and relationship coach and best-selling author based in Vancouver, Canada. He helps women find and keep a lasting relationship. His online programs, Text Chemistry and The Devotion System, have sold 100,000 copies. He has more than five years of coaching experience and has worked with clients locally and around the world. He holds a degree in Social Psychology. His focus areas are dating, marriage, breakups and divorce.
Andrew Gung
Andrew Gung is the founder and CEO of Core Confidence, a men's dating coaching business in Australia. The team helps men with approach anxiety, dating apps, texting and building confidence. Since 2018, they have coached over 700 men. Coaching runs in person in Melbourne, Sydney, Perth, Brisbane and Adelaide, and online across the country. The team includes coaches, psychologists and mindset experts, and the programs reject pickup tactics in favor of psychology.
Anna
Anna is a dating coach for men who runs The Daily Flirt in Miami, Florida. She helps men improve their style, grooming, dating profiles, social media and dating strategy. The goal is to meet the women they want and turn those matches into real dates. She coaches one on one in a VIP program and leads a community with weekly calls. She also offers five free guides on approaching, texting and ghosting.
Blaine Anderson
Blaine Anderson is a matchmaker and dating coach who helps men find girlfriends. Blaine started Dating By Blaine in 2020 and has worked with more than 7,000 clients. Blaine offers one-on-one matchmaking and coaching, both online and in person. Blaine appeared on Shark Tank in Season 15, where Mark Cuban offered this coach a deal. Blaine also has a YouTube channel with 137K subscribers and more than 1 million followers across social media.
Bonnie Bliss
Bonnie Bliss is a somatic sexologist, pelvic specialist and embodiment teacher who coaches women on intimacy and pleasure. She is based in Melbourne, Australia, and all her work is online. She has spent the last ten years focused on the female pelvis. She leads The School of Embodied Pleasure, a 4 month program. She offers private one-on-one coaching and group programs.
Bridgett Blood
Bridgett Blood is a coach for Christian singles who want help with sexual desire, dating, and boundaries. She worked five years as a spiritual formation pastor before she became a coach. She co-hosts the Dating & Desire Podcast and speaks at churches and retreats. She uses the Connection Codes framework and runs the RECLAIM cohort, an online program for Christian adults. She also works with men, women, and engaged couples.
Carla Romo
Carla Romo is a dating and relationship coach in Philadelphia who helps women and men with dating, breakups and life goals. She is an ICF Professional Certified Coach and has worked with over 1,000 clients. She is an international speaker and wrote the book Caontagious Love. Before coaching, she worked in TV and went through burnout, which shaped her work on codependency and burnout. She coaches by phone or video, one-on-one or in groups.
Caryn Davis
Caryn Davis is a certified matchmaker and dating coach who helps busy professionals find a quality match for a long-term relationship. She runs Exquisite Elite Matchmaking, where she finds matches for clients and also coaches men and women one on one. She coaches singles by video anywhere in the U.S. and Canada. She also hosts the EEM Club Podcast. Clients get homework between sessions, and a free 15 minute consultation comes first.
Chase Amante
Chase Amante is a dating coach for men. She founded the Girls Chase website in 2008 after men on large seduction forums asked her for advice. The site teaches approaching women, attraction, conversation, dating, texting and online dating. She created the One Date system and The Dating Artisan course. Men can also book phone or live coaching with a Girls Chase coach. The site reports over 64 million readers.
Cold Approach
Cold Approach is a dating coaching practice for men. It teaches men to meet women in person and through dating apps. The team has five coaches and has coached hundreds of students. It runs in-person bootcamps in US cities and offers 1-on-1 online coaching. It also does done-for-you work like photos, profile rewrites, and texting help. The co-founder has coached men for more than half a decade.
Colin Malone
Colin Malone is a dating coach for men in Toronto. He helps men who overthink, freeze, or get random results with women. He has coached men professionally for over 7 years. He works remotely with clients across Canada. His coaching builds dating skills through direct feedback, real-world practice, and accountability. He does not teach lines or scripts. His program runs for several months and includes lifetime access to the training material.
Craft of Charisma
Craft of Charisma is a dating coaching company for men. It teaches men to meet and connect with women, in person and online. Chris Luna leads the company. It has been in business for 18 years and has taught 574 workshops. Programs run in many US and Canadian cities, and include an 8 week dating bootcamp. Its coaching uses the D.A.T.E. model, which covers moving relationships forward and consent.
Dan Bacon
Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship coach for men. He founded Master Attraction and has given dating advice for over twenty years. He teaches men how to show non-physical traits that make women feel attracted. Members get monthly video lessons that cover 124 traits, plus a private community and an AI coach built on his advice. He also runs two-hour phone coaching calls by audio or video.
Dario van der Kraken
Dario van der Kraken is a gay dating and relationship coach based in London. He helps gay men build healthy, stable relationships. His clients deal with love addiction, toxic relationships, anxiety in love and breakups. He is Italian and calls himself a Londoner at heart. He spent his 20s in painful relationships, and therapy helped him change his patterns. All sessions run online, mostly on Zoom.
David Chambers
David Chambers is a dating, relationship and intimacy coach for men. He runs The Authentic Man from London and coaches men one on one online. He has coached for 14 years and hosts The Authentic Man Podcast. His work covers dating confidence, emotional connection, healthy masculinity and sexual intimacy. He has been featured in GQ, Mr Porter, Cosmopolitan and BBC Radio London, and has worked with brands like Killing Kittens, Manual and Vibio.
Dawn A. Ross
Dawn A. Ross is a relationship, life and family coach in Port St. Lucie, Florida. She works with couples and individuals on communication, intimacy and finances in their relationships. She also focuses on narcissistic abuse, helping people spot it and leave. Before coaching, she worked in corporate IT abroad and practiced natural healing in Germany and Austria. She founded Thoughtward Academy and coaches clients around the world by video.
Dominic Decker
Dominic Decker is a coach and counsellor who helps individuals and couples think clearly when a relationship is under strain or has just ended. He is based in Berlin and works online too. He has worked since 2001 in social services, education and therapy. He has coached and counselled hundreds of one-on-one clients and couples. He runs Anxiety Master, which focuses on how stress affects judgment during relationship decisions.
Donna Barnes
Donna Barnes is The Love Coach. She coaches people on dating, relationships and breakups. She has worked with hundreds of clients since 2007 and holds a New York University life and love coach certification. Before coaching, she co-hosted 205 episodes of a talk show about sex and relationships and wrote a magazine column. She also wrote the book Giving Up Junk-Food Relationships and hosts the Broken to Brave video podcast. Clients can reach her by phone or video, including nights and weekends.
Ed
Ed is a dating coach in London who teaches men to approach women during the daytime. This style is called daygame. He works with beginners, including men who deal with mild to severe social anxiety and find it hard to start conversations. Most sessions happen in central London, in a spot the client picks. Ed also coaches men from outside the UK, either at his location or in the client's country. He runs an online video course as well.
Eddie Hernandez
Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach and dating photographer in the San Francisco Bay Area. He coaches men and women on dating apps and offline dating, in person or by video call. He also shoots natural dating photos for apps like Hinge and Bumble. His photos have run in the New York Times, Time and Vogue UK. He has lived in Los Angeles and New York, which shapes how he sees culture and dating.
Eileen Chao
Eileen Chao is a sex and relationship coach and surrogate partner who works with high achievers on intimacy issues. She has more than a decade of experience. She is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and holds a master's in psychology. She acts as a practice partner and works with clients in real time, so change is felt and not only understood. She sees clients in person in San Francisco, by telehealth, or in a hybrid model.
Elia Canu
Elia Canu is a dating coach who helps busy men in tech find a partner and start a family. She runs Ideal Partner with coach Nela. The program uses a weekly plug and play system built for tech professionals. Elia has coached tech men for 5+ years. Her clients include software engineers and product managers. Support covers dating profiles, Instagram profiles, messaging, and date practice.
Elizabeth K
Elizabeth K is a dating, relationship and life coach based in Italy who runs That's Amore Coaching. She helps singles, dating app users and people in relationships. She has taught English for over 10 years and holds a double degree in Law and Commerce. She used dating apps daily for 7 years, so she knows the process first hand. She also offers dating profile makeovers with photo feedback.
Eric Bensoussan
Eric Bensoussan is a relationship and life coach in Vancouver, British Columbia. He helps individuals and couples who already understand their patterns but still get stuck in the same reactions. He has worked with clients for 13 years. His method combines nervous system regulation, somatic awareness, and relational coaching. He coaches online worldwide in English and French.
Erik Carlberg
Erik Carlberg is a dating coach for men. He helps men of all ages and experience levels find love, build lasting relationships, and feel more at ease socially. He has coached for over fifteen years and works with a team. He wrote The Vortex of Love, a book on attracting women that took him three years to finish. He also trains people who want to become dating coaches. Clients work with him from all over the world.
Erika Ettin
Erika Ettin is an online dating coach in Washington, DC. She runs A Little Nudge, which helps people with photos, profiles, messages and dates. Before coaching, she worked in finance for over seven years and left in early 2011 to start the business. She tracked her own online dating results in a spreadsheet and reached a response rate well over 60%. She wrote a book on online dating and writes a weekly advice column.
Common questions
Can I work with a dating coach online?
Yes. 93% of dating coaches who say how they work offer online sessions.
How much does an online dating coach cost?
Most online dating coaches charge $90 to $165 an hour.
What do online dating coaches help with?
The most common focus areas are dating for men, couples and marriage and texting and first dates.
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Last updated September 2026.